Kobojunkie:
1. You are no longer married to him so it would be sin.
2. What is sin is the lust in your heart that usually comes before or during the acts themselves.

3. There is nothing natural about those desires or you would be born lusting from your very birth. You develop these desires over time and as such can also chose to control them rather than allow them control you.

I think we all know what is meant by sexual lust and that is what Jesus Christ said is sin.

Sexual feeling ain't natura? Baba u fail this one oooo. The sexual organ don't develop from birth na, Kai.

AutoChick4U:
he's probably a virgin

Maybe, Maybe not.

I know some Eunuchs don't make up their minds until after experiencing sex.

Kobojunkie:
Maybe, Maybe not.

I know some Eunuchs don't make up their minds until after experiencing sex.

Eunuch experience sex? Pls give back this phone to d real owner abeg

AutoChick4U:
Sexual feeling ain't natura? Baba u fail this one oooo. The sexual organ don't develop from birth na, Kai.

Think about it. When you were born, one of your primal needs wasn't for sex. Instead, that desire slowly crept in after you reached a certain age. Even after you realized it, you also realized that it comes and goes, meaning it can be controlled meaning it is indeed not as natural as assumed by many who don't understand that with discipline, one can turn those desires on and off.

AutoChick4U:
Eunuch experience sex? Pls give back this phone to d real owner abeg

Ofcourse they do! They have sex organs like you and I, so what makes you believe they can't experience sex?

Even though he created those hormones that make our bodies long for physical intimacy?

Kobojunkie:
If God is really who you claim to want to please by your choice, then you want to make sure you have the right information to help you on your path. According to Jesus Christ, the one who is God's New Covenant and Law in the Kingdom of God, what is sin is not what you refer to as sexual immorality- fornication, masturbation, homosexuality etc. - instead sin is the lust in your heart towards another - Matthew 5 vs 27 - 28 - those fantasies and longings for sex are what constitute sin in the Kingdom of God.

So while you claim you have not physically engaged in what is sexually immoral activities in the 18 months period, that all means nothing when you consider that the sin is that committed in your mind/heart and not the physical activity itself.

Kobojunkie:
Ofcourse they do! They have sex organs like you and I, so what makes you believe they can't experience sex?

I thought being an eunuch is when they cut that muscle connecting d organ. No true eunuch can get it to rise.

cococandy:
Even though he created those hormones that make our bodies long for physical intimacy?

He gave man dominion over everything, even those hormones.

AutoChick4U:
I thought being an eunuch is when they cut that muscle connecting d organ. No true eunuch can get it to rise.

Ouch!

Those you describe are among those who were made Eunuchs in this life. According to Jesus Christ, God created some Eunuchs from birth too. So, not all Eunuchs are of the castrated kind.

Kobojunkie:
He gave man dominion over everything, even those hormones.

Well dominion is when you exercise control over the feelings you are feeling. But feeling it shouldn’t be a sin. You can’t control your feelings but you can control your actions.

cococandy:

Well dominion is when you exercise control over the feelings you are feeling. But feeling it shouldn’t be a sin. You can’t control your feelings but you can control your actions.

But sexual Lust isn't a feeling but the result of an urge(hormonal). And by exerting control over the urge, one can then keep them from resulting into sensation of lust.

And as far as exercising control over one's feelings, that too is possible but a topic for another time.

Kobojunkie:
Think about it. When you were born, one of your primal needs wasn't for sex. Instead, that desire slowly crept in after you reached a certain age. Even after you realized it, you also realized that it comes and goes, meaning it can be controlled meaning it is indeed not as natural as assumed by many who don't understand that with discipline, one can turn those desires on and off.

In as much as you are trying to make sense, you really need to read the Bible more.

I'm not gonna say much, just like the other guy asked you, if we don't feel this feelings, then why are we humans in flesh?

Sexual organs dont develop at childhood, just as we grow and mature, so does our body react to its evolutionary instinctive states (reproduce).

Even animals can't help this things when it comes.

Like I said, wont say much, bye.

Tombrown3:
In as much as you are trying to make sense, you really need to read the Bible more. I'm not gonna say much, just like the other guy asked you, if we don't feel this feelings, then why are we humans in flesh?
Sexual organs dont develop at childhood, just as we grow and mature, so does our body react to its evolutionary instinctive states (reproduce).
Even animals can't help this things when it comes.
Like I said, wont say much, bye.

You said nothing though.

Sorry oh..i knw dat by now u hav plenty cucumbers and vibrators

Optimistic4life:
I'm trying hard to live a life free from sin and sexual immorality and I am doing pretty well but of recent, my hormones/body have been raging and I am finding it difficult to cope.

It's 18months I have been separated and there is no getting back together.

Were you ever in my situation, how did you overcome without involving in sex/masturbation?

I just need some words of encouragement.

Its really not easy and it has become some sort of distraction.

The reason I do not want to have a male friend is because of my fear for God.

People are telling you to be strong and some are even going religious.

Dear, listen to your heart.

If you want sex, go for it. Look for a male you think is matured enough and flow with the rhythm.

Have a no strings attached relationship. Live life.

Above all, be happy.

Woman you p((nami go gum together ooo, you better find a solution, either you use cucumber or bottle or anything, you can even consolidate with any of the nairaland guys, they are ready to serve you well

Optimistic4life:
I'm trying hard to live a life free from sin and sexual immorality and I am doing pretty well but of recent, my hormones/body have been raging and I am finding it difficult to cope.

It's 18months I have been separated and there is no getting back together.

Were you ever in my situation, how did you overcome without involving in sex/masturbation?

I just need some words of encouragement.

Its really not easy and it has become some sort of distraction.

The reason I do not want to have a male friend is because of my fear for God.

Wahala for optimist ooo...I never assumed that woman that birth will crave sex...

Op, what do you intend doing about this?

truthCoder:


People are telling you to be strong and some are even going religious.

Dear, listen to your heart.

If you want sex, go for it. Look for a male you think is matured enough and flow with the rhythm.

Have a no strings attached relationship. Live life.

Above all, be happy.

Will she be using the guy for sex?

Will she let the guy know?

Victerica:


Will she be using the guy for sex?

Will she let the guy know?

its a made up story lmao

Optimistic4life:
I'm trying hard to live a life free from sin and sexual immorality and I am doing pretty well but of recent, my hormones/body have been raging and I am finding it difficult to cope.

It's 18months I have been separated and there is no getting back together.

Were you ever in my situation, how did you overcome without involving in sex/masturbation?

I just need some words of encouragement.

Its really not easy and it has become some sort of distraction.

The reason I do not want to have a male friend is because of my fear for God.

I want to donate my free services

Watch lots and lot of porn

nike4love:
Madam go back n build ur home with your husband....
God hates divorce.....

ignore this advise

FAKE STORY.

AutoChick4U:
he's probably a virgin

maybe he's not

Some people may taste s*x and not like it due to pain, et al

Thereby making a decision to stay celibate

Buskynwa:
its a made up story lmao

Why do you assume this made up?

Kobojunkie:
Why do you assume this made up?

the Op is my neighbor

Buskynwa:
the Op is my neighbor

For real?

Kobojunkie:
1. You are no longer married to him so it would be sin.
2. What is sin is the lust in your heart that usually comes before or during the acts themselves.

3. [s]There is nothing natural about those desires or you would be born lusting from your very birth. You develop these desires over time and as such can also chose to control them rather than allow them control you[/s].

I think we all know what is meant by sexual lust and that is what Jesus Christ said is sin.

You didn't do biology??

kumulus:
You didn't do biology??

Oh, I did Biology and even biology clearly explains to us that many of these chemical and hormonal systems in our body happen to run on a feedback loop system meaning they are and can be controlled by either the brain or the mind in question. Need I go on?

You have ability to control your sexual urges. Exercise, meditation, and general mental discipline are good ways prescribed to helping resolve and control mood issues. The same have been recommended and prescribed in resolving issues related to lust for those with addiction to masturbation and the lot.