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Re: Surviving Without Sex As A Single Mum... It's So Difficult by kumulus(m): 10:08pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: Go on |
Re: Surviving Without Sex As A Single Mum... It's So Difficult by Kobojunkie: 10:09pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
kumulus:You can pick up a Human Physiology text to brush up on the rest if you care to. |
Re: Surviving Without Sex As A Single Mum... It's So Difficult by kumulus(m): 10:20pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: I will, you should pick up quality works on the functioning of human brain and mind as well. It would prove most resourceful for you. 8 Likes |
Re: Surviving Without Sex As A Single Mum... It's So Difficult by Kobojunkie: 10:21pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
kumulus:Trust that all I have said so far is because I have in fact done a serious study on even my own mental over the years to know what I state to be fact. |
Re: Surviving Without Sex As A Single Mum... It's So Difficult by Gainman: 10:26pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:you don't know what u are saying. She said they are only separated not divorced. 2 Likes |
Re: Surviving Without Sex As A Single Mum... It's So Difficult by kumulus(m): 10:26pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: Oh good for you |
Re: Surviving Without Sex As A Single Mum... It's So Difficult by Kobojunkie: 10:31pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
Gainman:Oh, my mistake. I thought I read that it had been made final- the divorce. Also, she referred to him as an ex leading me to conclude the marriage was over. |
Re: Surviving Without Sex As A Single Mum... It's So Difficult by Gainman: 10:47pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
Optimistic4life:if u want to live without sin. Go and settle with your husband. Because if u are a good wife, husband will never leave you. Secondly 1 Like |
Re: Surviving Without Sex As A Single Mum... It's So Difficult by Kobojunkie: 10:55pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
Gainman:According to Jesus Christ, the only way to live without sin is instead to continue to accept and obey His commandments, His Truth, and in knowing the truth one is set free from bondage to sin by the Truth - John 8 vs 31 - 32. But here you suggest that Jesus Christ was wrong, how come? |
Re: Surviving Without Sex As A Single Mum... It's So Difficult by heniford2: 11:05pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
Optimistic4life:go out there and get a dude and have amazing sex lady stop punishing yourself,ur not the first to be a single mom |
Re: Surviving Without Sex As A Single Mum... It's So Difficult by simpleseyi: 11:11pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
udoji2021: Don't mind the mumu postefe |
Re: Surviving Without Sex As A Single Mum... It's So Difficult by simpleseyi: 11:13pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: You go soon collect now. |
Re: Surviving Without Sex As A Single Mum... It's So Difficult by Panda7: 11:13pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
pls try and find another good husband.
no hormone |
Re: Surviving Without Sex As A Single Mum... It's So Difficult by Lari03r(m): 11:35pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
You are not lusting after another person and feeling sexual urges is normal. It is not a sin. In this situation, you need to find something to take your mind off sex. Pray more, ask for the gifts of the spirit and the baptism of the Holy Spirit, probably fast if you can because that's one major way of regulating your body and mind. At your age, you are healthy and lively so this situation is normal. 2 Likes |
Re: Surviving Without Sex As A Single Mum... It's So Difficult by Kobojunkie: 11:42pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
simpleseyi:Collect what exactly? |
Re: Surviving Without Sex As A Single Mum... It's So Difficult by Kobojunkie: 11:45pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
Lari03r:Prayer does not take one's mind away from such things, neither does having what you call gifts of the spirit or baptism of the Holy Spirit doe any such. Also, going on a Starvation diet which many refer to as fasting also doesn't doesn't dead the body of sexual lust. Instead what does is doing as Jesus Christ commanded in John 8 vs 31 - 32 , a form of mental discipline. |
Re: Surviving Without Sex As A Single Mum... It's So Difficult by Nobody: 11:46pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
Optimistic4life: Well, the fact that he said so, doesn't mean he meant it, it is just one of those bragging things men do... If you have three kids under 10 years that is pretty a delicate matter and I want you to remember no option is ever close, for all I know the court could decide not to accede to his request because they are also going to consider the well being of the kids. I think the best thing to do is to ask yourself one simple question "do I still love him" if yes then put your matter in Baba God's table to help him reset his brain, if not then dress well and go have fun.. you can't come and kill yourself because he is probably sorting himself out |
Re: Surviving Without Sex As A Single Mum... It's So Difficult by Lari03r(m): 11:48pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:Prayer directs your mind to spiritual things. Stop misquoting the Bible. 1 Like |
Re: Surviving Without Sex As A Single Mum... It's So Difficult by Lari03r(m): 11:52pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
When the Bible says if you love me obey my commandments, has she committed adultery? No. Kobo, I know you haven't received the Holy Spirit that is why you are talking whatever you like. When you receive gifts of vision, singing in Tongues, healing and other spectacular spiritual gifts, your life will never remain the same, because you will seek to spend more time in God's presence. |
Re: Surviving Without Sex As A Single Mum... It's So Difficult by Bimpe29: 11:55pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
The hormones must really be raging and vexing. Ultimately, you truly need to remarry so as to get over this issue. |
Re: Surviving Without Sex As A Single Mum... It's So Difficult by Kobojunkie: 11:56pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
Lari03r:How does Prayer directs your mind to spiritual things abeg? So it is a misquote to state exactly what Jesus Christ said is the only way to overcome sin, this in relation to the sin of sexual lust?, |
Re: Surviving Without Sex As A Single Mum... It's So Difficult by Kobojunkie: 12:01am On Mar 25, 2022 |
Lari03r:1. You have never in fact read up on Jesus Christ, have you? The sin of sexual lust is called adultery...this by Jesus Christ, so if she has in fact had sexual lust, she has committed adultery - Matthew 5 vs 27 - 28 2. Lol... Jesus Christ did not say only those who do all you claim are those who belong to Him. Instead, Jesus Christ said that those who continue to accept and obey His teachings are those who belong to Him - they are His followers- John 8 vs 31 - 32 & John 8 vs 42 - 47 & & John 14 vs 15 - 25 & John 15 vs 14. Try to spend actual time reading through the Gospel aka New Covenant so you understand God's Truth as presented you by Jesus Christ from that which you have probably been fed through listening to the lies of men. |
Re: Surviving Without Sex As A Single Mum... It's So Difficult by Contekbbc: 1:10am On Mar 25, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: All you're saying is pure FACTS Learning never ends,they say,pls,keep them coming. It takes a sensible person to sight a sensible person. You're perfectly doing well with this your assertions 1 Like |
Re: Surviving Without Sex As A Single Mum... It's So Difficult by eeewise(m): 5:08am On Mar 25, 2022 |
Optimistic4life: Pls stop listening to the werey who has zero clue on what he is saying It's perfectly normal to have sexual hormones Just listen to the wisdom of the spirit...pray about it 1 Like |
Re: Surviving Without Sex As A Single Mum... It's So Difficult by Lari03r(m): 5:58am On Mar 25, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: Without boasting you are pretty wrong with all you say. Concerning adultery when Jesus was teaching about "looking and lusting" from a real perspective no one can attack you from looking at a woman lustfully as a man. However, take a step further and sleep with that woman and you have opened yourself up to severe spiritual attacks. Now, I know you don't understand Christianity because I mentioned the Holy Spirit but you are talking about the new covenant, have you read the book of Hebrews? Or Paul's explanation in Romans? Do you think I am speaking of theoretical knowledge of God? No. I am speaking of the practical knowledge of God. That is what Jesus was, the word that became flesh. And the Holy Spirit he promised gives gifts for people to show God's power in human vessels. I know Jesus, do you have a practical experience of Jesus? Do you have practical testimonies about Jesus? Well, I do. Because the Bible even says "The letter killeth, but the spirit maketh alive". You can interpret the Bible how you like but you CAN'T control the Holy Spirit or expect him to dwell with you in error. On to your comments about the teachings of men, Jesus said in Acts 1 vs 8, and ye shall receive power when the Holy Spirit comes upon you. The testimonies of the power of the Holy Spirit is in the book of Acts, so why are you quoting Scripture and rejecting the words of Jesus? Perhaps you haven't read beyond the Gospels? |
Re: Surviving Without Sex As A Single Mum... It's So Difficult by Optimistic4life(f): 6:17am On Mar 25, 2022 |
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Re: Surviving Without Sex As A Single Mum... It's So Difficult by Lari03r(m): 6:23am On Mar 25, 2022 |
Optimistic4life:Good morning, you are doing well. Stay strong and healthy. Things will change with time. Romans 12.12 should motivate you. |
Re: Surviving Without Sex As A Single Mum... It's So Difficult by Shokoloko(f): 7:11am On Mar 25, 2022 |
Optimistic4life: Implanon insert from your closest health care center will reduce sex drive by 50%. It's between 3500 and 5000 and will reduce your sex drive for 3 years before replacing Look for spearmint tea in shops and drink daily. Increase the amount of pepper in your personal meals. Go stand in front of the mirror and talk to your body and ask its libido to be lowered. There is power in words. Good luck 3 Likes |
Re: Surviving Without Sex As A Single Mum... It's So Difficult by Sunmolar(m): 7:35am On Mar 25, 2022 |
Cleave to reading the word of God & pray for abstinence,you will get it right |
Re: Surviving Without Sex As A Single Mum... It's So Difficult by ZooCountry45: 7:47am On Mar 25, 2022 |
99% of women that had sex mastubate a lot. I know one and she's a single mother. She once told me she loves to hear my voice but I never knew she mastubate why we talk on phone. Make we Bleep naaa, she con dey Form donjazzy 5 Likes |
Re: Surviving Without Sex As A Single Mum... It's So Difficult by luminouz(m): 8:27am On Mar 25, 2022 |
AutoChick4U:Haaaaaaa Naso capable men don scarce? |
Re: Surviving Without Sex As A Single Mum... It's So Difficult by Ishilove: 8:49am On Mar 25, 2022 |
Optimistic4life:Don't mind Kobo. She turns things upside down. No where in the scriptures is it written that having sexual urges is a sin. Rather, Apostle Paul exhorted that is better to marry than burn with lust. 2 Likes 1 Share |
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