Some Ladies are stupidly funny and please dont get me wrong,I give respect to whom it is due irrespective of Gender or class or even age.

I come by my family residence only during the weekends then I go back to where I work,so am hardly known and I hardly know everyone except my friends I grew up with.

So there was a Girl I saw sometime last year and the sight of her triggered a memory..it seemed I knew her from when I was in secondary school as my junior student...I just held my own and just pushed it aside thinking maybe my brain was mixing things up..

Today I saw her
You know that feeling of wanting to prove your insinuations wrong or right...Thats what I felt.

"Hello pls excuse me,I just want to ask you somthing,hope u don't mind"

"No I dont" she said walking like she was expecting me to chase her.

"Did u attend ABC Sch" I asked
"No" she said still at the same pace
"Did u at anytime stay around Woji Area"
"No" she said

Am like ok thanks and sorry for bothering you.

As she was walking and about to take a turn around the street,I couldn't believe what my ears heard

"Instead of you to say what you really want,you asking me stupid questions".. this she said to my hearing and in the presence of her little sister.

That was where I lost my cool..I confronted her and she denied it saying she wasn't referring to me and all sort of nonsense she said..

I just felt disappointed in her and also in myself for bringing myself into that mess

I left her talking to herself and went home


Can't some of these ladies stop assuming every conversation revolves around love peddling

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shut up op, you really wanna woo her, but you lost in words to say hence your blabbing and and made up lies


you are nothing but a timid fella

The two of una dey mad....

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CANDYDADDY:
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shut up op, you really wanna woo her, but you lost in words to say hence your blabbing and and made up lies


you are nothing but a timid fella

I dont need to explain myself..its my word against yours...

and Your words portray the sort of individual you are

so u can't have a conversation with a lady,without you having another motive?

CANDYDADDY:
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shut up op, you really wanna woo her, but you lost in words to say hence your blabbing and and made up lies


you are nothing but a timid fella

Don't listen to this looser

That biitch really like you and expect you to say something

Qatar2022:
Don't listen to this looser

Lols You calling someone a loser

Qatar2022:
That biitch really like you and expect you to say something

Baba,i dont expect her to think as such..I came open minded

It's not really her fault you know.. most ladies get chyked every now and then so they lose touch with reality that not all guys are after their cookie jar.

Many of them have empty brains, their brains are wack that they can't reason any other thing apart from guys wanting their body.
When you don't accommodate such nonsense you are either tagged a mysoginist or a "women hater".
They can't understand that you talk them casually and move on like it never happened.

ParpahSeventy:
Many of them have empty brains, their brains are wack that they can't reason any other thing apart from guys wanting their.
When you don't accommodate such nonsense you either tagged a mysoginist or a "women hater".
They can't understand that you talk them casually and move on like it never happened.

I just needed to clear my uncertainty abt her being a look alike or actually the same person I knew 13yrs back

flokii:
It's not really her fault you know.. most ladies get chyked every now and then so they lose touch with reality that not all guys are after their cookie jar.

its really dissapointing

olympianares:
I just needed to clear my uncertainty abt her being a look alike or actually the same person I knew 13yrs back

Ladies and men in our society has low IQ.
Don't mind the lady.

One night I came back home from sch at a very late hour.
My stubbornness of traveling late. I saw some ladies and wanted to ask them of one popular short cut to ease my journey.
They we're walking fast away from me and pointed wrong way to me.
That was were my journey to wonderland began.

Until some men helped me and paid for my tee fair to follow the right right short cut lol.

tollyboy5:

Ladies and men in our society has low IQ.
Don't mind the lady.

One night I came back home from sch at a very late hour.
My stubbornness of traveling late. I saw some ladies and wanted to ask them of one popular short cut to ease my journey.
They we're walking fast away from me and pointed wrong way to me.
That was were my journey to wonderland began.

Until some men helped me and paid for my tee fair to follow the right right short cut lol.

I guess they did that on purpose..typical

MAGG0T:


Na her Toto you wan use style explore

You come approach her de beat about the bush, you fa no get shame

and u say so because u think everyone is like you

olympianares:
I guess they did that on purpose..typical

I was wondering , wetin them gain if I suffer. I seen through ladies foolishness even when it involves important document.

I now act in accordance now.

olympianares:
and u say so because u think everyone is like you

That's why I said many men and ladies has low IQ

Omoh, this forum is toxic. Chai

tollyboy5:

That's why I said many men and ladies has low IQ

I knw but at times it baffles me

olympianares:
Some Ladies are stupidly funny and please dont get me wrong,I give respect to whom it is due irrespective of Gender or class or even age.

I come by my family residence only during the weekends then I go back to where I work,so am hardly known and I hardly know everyone except my friends I grew up with.

So there was a Girl I saw sometime last year and the sight of her triggered a memory..it seemed I knew her from when I was in secondary school as my junior student...I just held my own and just pushed it aside thinking maybe my brain was mixing things up..

Today I saw her
You know that feeling of wanting to prove your insinuations wrong or right...Thats what I felt.

"Hello pls excuse me,I just want to ask you somthing,hope u don't mind"

"No I dont" she said walking like she was expecting me to chase her.

"Did u attend ABC Sch" I asked
"No" she said still at the same pace
"Did u at anytime stay around Woji Area"
"No" she said

Am like ok thanks and sorry for bothering you.

As she was walking and about to take a turn around the street,I couldn't believe what my ears heard

"Instead of you to say what you really want,you asking me stupid questions".. this she said to my hearing and in the presence of her little sister.

That was where I lost my cool..I confronted her and she denied it saying she wasn't referring to me and all sort of nonsense she said..

I just felt disappointed in her and also in myself for bringing myself into that mess

I left her talking to herself and went home


Can't some of these ladies stop assuming every conversation revolves around love peddling

I don't blame the girlz is the way you ask her the question you did not state the purpose of calling her, like ooo I thought you were the girl I know.. so am sorry.. finish end of story, then she will talk her own side and along the line you may exchange numbers with her, if that is what you wanted which I see you didn't then end of story.. you nor know say person fit be two for this life..

Goldbw122:

I don't blame the girlz is the way you ask her the question you did not state the purpose of calling her, like ooo I thought you were the girl I know.. so am sorry.. finish end of story, then she will talk her own side and along the line you may exchange numbers with her, if that is what you wanted which I see you didn't then end of story.. you nor know say person fit be two for this life..

Baba,I never wanted to give her the idea of me wanting to ask her out or any sort

Hence I just had to act politely formal

olympianares:
Baba,I never wanted to give her the idea of me wanting to ask her out or any sort

Hence I just had to act politely formal

The girl may be angry because she broke up with her boyfriend recently, who knows?

Vaginarian hardly disappoint
Beautiful but always senseless

Goldbw122:

The girl may be angry because she broke up with her boyfriend recently, who knows?

Maybe or maybe not
But that was not the way she should think

olympianares:
I dont need to explain myself..its my word against yours...

and Your words portray the sort of individual you are

so u can't have a conversation with a lady,without you having another motive?

OP leave that fellow Biko....
I too can relate to what you're saying...
I had a similar experience, but mine occured during an outdoor evangelism...
I was like "hello, please excuse me" and she was like "ehnhe! What is it?" without turning back o and she was walking very fast, I tried to beckon on her, but madam no send me ...

Long story cut short, I caught up with her, gave her the tract and I was like "Jesus loves you, stay faithful to Him" (with a huge grin on my face) and then I walked away and converged with some of my guys in front, all the while I felt her gaze piercing through me....

Lots of girls think that every guy out there who stops them on the road wants to ask them out and I wouldn't blame them, because a large majority of guys who have approached them in times past did so for that reason, so they've subconsciously put every male in the same basket...

However...
Just try not to allow yourself be in that situation too often, so that you don't end up beating someone up on account of losing your cool ...

Favfables1:



OP leave that fellow Biko....
I too can relate to what you're saying...
I had a similar experience, but mine occured during an outdoor evangelism...
I was like "hello, please excuse me" and she was like "ehnhe! What is it?" without turning back o and she was walking very fast, I tried to beckon on her, but madam no send me ...

Long story cut short, I caught up with her, gave her the tract and I was like "Jesus loves you, stay faithful to Him" (with a huge grin on my face) and then I walked away and converged with some of my guys in front, all the while I felt her gaze piercing through me....

Lots of girls think that every guy out there who stops them on the road wants to ask them out and I wouldn't blame them, because a large majority of guys who have approached them in times past did so for that reason, so they've subconsciously put every male in the same basket...

However...
Just try not to allow yourself be in that situation too often, so that you don't end up beating someone up on account of losing your cool ...

U just made her look stupid

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she must have been praying n expecting u to toast her, only for the opportunity to show and u didn't! please go back and fulfill her wish

You're the one at fault because you weren't frank, and whether your lack of frankness stemmed from insincerity or naivety is irrelevant. The presentation of a frank person in your stead ought to have been something like: I'm John, live within. Actually, your face looks familiar; it seems like I'd closely known you, but I've tried hard and failed to pinpoint where and how exactly. Did you attend AB school around so so year?

Definiteness of purpose without articulation and competence can't bring conception to fruition in any just endeavour.

InTheCloudySky:
1. When you asked her if she attended ABC sch and she said "No" and was still walking fast, you could've left it at that, not ask the next question.

2. Most guys who approach women they don't know and/or who don't know them, are trying to woo them, so I reckon you had an end goal in mind when you approached her, perhaps getting her number.

If she was indeed the person you thought you knew during your school days, that's an even bigger reason why you were probably going to ask for her contact /to keep in touch. You're probably disappointed that didn't happen or that she didn't give you the time of day. Pele.

no u got it all wrong...
I have been seeing her whenever I come around for like the past 1yr and I just have that consciousness that I know her from somewhere ..
I never intended to get her number
I love my space

This whole thing was just out of doubt and curiosity

maybe I took it a bit far,but that was not the way she should think..

like I said I went open minded..there was never a motive

like I also said ,she looked like someone I knew 13yrs back