He's now your little brother. Get closer to him and treat him as such

InTheCloudySky:
He's now your little brother. Get closer to him and treat him as such

I'm doing that, I keep wondering why I get jealous seeing him with my mom,well someone said it will pass

Are you the last born? Maybe you're seeing this little boy as someone taking your position in the family?
What's the relationship you have with your mum? Is it healthy?

If your answers to these questions are positive, then you need be mindful of your "self-talk". Examine what you say to yourself concerning the boy.

He is an innocent little boy and he's not in the family to displace you

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Socratiz:
Are you the last born? Maybe you're seeing this little boy as someone taking your position in the family?
What's the relationship you have with your mum? Is it healthy?

If your answers to these questions are positive, then you need be mindful of your "self-talk". Examine what you say to yourself concerning the boy.

He is an innocent little boy and he's not in the family to displace you

Yes im the last and I have a very good relationship with my mom,she's my best friend. Not like I don't like the boy,just only get jealous when I see him with my mom

InTheCloudySky:
He hasn't stolen your mom away and is incapable of doing that. She has raised you to be an adult and must have her reasons for adopting him. If she hasn't shared these with you, then ask her to grasp where she's coming. Once you realize there's no need to feel jealousy or competition towards a four-year old child, you will be more accepting towards your new reality. Allow her to give love to this child who needs it, with the understanding that no one can take the place you already hold in her heart. I'm sure her heart is big enough for space for all of you.

Thank you

Iyaebe:
I have four older brothers, there's nothing evil here please, i just go know why I'm jealous

Since he's quite young, u can just be a big sister and shun all rivalry or the bonding he has with mum.


Lass Lass, you'll be fine. Good night.

Iyaebe:
You still haven’t said anything,why am I jealous because I don’t know where the jealousy is coming from and note that I’m fond of him but I noticed the jealousy is only when I see my mom bonding with him

Ure used to being mums pet bt now a little guy from nowhere has taken that spot. It obviously will get to u bt maturity should let u know younger ones deserve more affection.

It also seems to make ur mom happy, parents bond with little ones, be light hearted about it and let the kid enjoy his tender moments.

Doesn't mean ur baby spot has been taken either as the former baby of the house bt there is a new baby in the house.

jaxxy:


Ure used to being mums pet bt now a little guy from nowhere has taken that spot. It obviously will get to u bt maturity should let u know younger ones deserve more affection.

It also seems to make ur mom happy, parents bond with little ones, be light hearted about it and let the kid enjoy his tender moments.

Doesn't mean ur baby spot has been taken either as the former baby of the house bt there is a new baby in the house.

Well I’m not a baby,not proud of myself for having such feelings

Iyaebe:
Well I’m not a baby,not proud of myself for having such feelings

Bt ure mums baby u can't/shouldn't be proud of such bt its a natural reaction/feeling that u weren't prepared for bt u have to understand and deal with it.

Iyaebe:
old enough

Hi

FaceTanke:

Hi

hello

Iyaebe:
hello

Can we chat on WhatsApp?

FaceTanke:

Can we chat on WhatsApp?

Not on WhatsApp. you no dy fear me?

Iyaebe:
Not on WhatsApp. you no dy fear me?

Not at all
I don't like docile women