I will summarize ,not used to long stories ;
So I dated my ex for 3 years, all through his parents knew my tribe but did think it was necessary to put out their concerns until they felt their son was ready for marriage and then they said he should marry from their tribe and just like that ,I was dumped.


It's been two years now , I am ready to try again. I am over it and want to find love once again.

Very bad. Why do people waste people's time. Why?

So, you wasted five years just like that

You wanna try again? Good luck with your lab test, hopefully this new one works for you



Just be careful! Ensure to have an exit/emergency door just incase...


What do iknow

Girlnextdoor1:
I will summarize ,not used to long stories ;
So I dated my ex for 3 years, all through his parents knew my tribe but did think it was necessary to put out their concerns until they felt their son was ready for marriage and then they said he should marry from their tribe and just like that ,I was dumped.

It's been two years now , I am ready to try again. I am over it and want to find love once again.

stop desperately looking for love and instead ENJOY LIFE... when love is ready to find you, it will naturally!

BTW as for your ex, it obvious you wasted your time with a childish man who obviously didnt love you.

Candidlady:
You wanna try again? Good luck with your lab test, hopefully this new one works for you



Just be careful! Ensure to have an exit/emergency door just incase...


What do iknow

lol

Thanks for the heads up.But I feel life,relationships are all a risk, sometimes you meet the right one and sometimes you don't.

Yes I confess I was really hurt ,but hey life goes on.

MrBrownJay1:


stop desperately looking for love and instead ENJOY LIFE... when love is ready to find you, it will naturally!

I am not desperate,it's been two years , surely you won't call that desperation. I took time to grieve and heal. And now I am ready to move on.

Girlnextdoor1:
lol

Thanks for the heads up.But I feel life,relationships are all a risk, sometimes you meet the right one and sometimes you don't.

Yes Iust confess I was really hurt ,but hey life goes on.

I highly recommend the use of social media dating optimally. Create accounts on different sites. Post pictures on sites like Instagram, Facebook. Put yourself out there to be found


Interact on topical issues on sites like nairaland to be found. Attend conferences and so on. Get out, enjoy the world. You just may be found along the way.

DoctorOlasDesk:



I highly recommend the use of social media dating optimally. Create accounts on different sites. Post pictures on sites like Instagram, Facebook. Out yourself out there to be found

Thanks

Girlnextdoor1:
I am not desperate,it's been two years , surely you won't call that desperation. I took time to grief and heal. And now I am ready to move on.

again, i am just comenting on what YOU wrote:

Girlnextdoor1:
I will summarize ,not used to long stories ;
So I dated my ex for 3 years, all through his parents knew my tribe but did think it was necessary to put out their concerns until they felt their son was ready for marriage and then they said he should marry from their tribe and just like that ,I was dumped.


It's been two years now , I am ready to try again. I am over it and want to find love once again.

so again, dont look for "love" and instead enjoy life and look to find A FRIEND, and take it from there. putting love in front while you havent even met a friend, is a desperate move that often result is despair.

MrBrownJay1:


again, i am just comenting on what YOU wrote:



so again, dont look for "love" and instead enjoy life and look to find A FRIEND, and take it from there. putting love in front while you havent even met a friend, is a desperate move that often result is despair.

Now I get your point. After all they always say "marry your friend". I guess a friend wouldn't have done me dirty like that.

Girlnextdoor1:
lol

Thanks for the heads up.But I feel life,relationships are all a risk, sometimes you meet the right one and sometimes you don't.

Yes Iust confess I was really hurt ,but hey life goes on.

You are right auntie but you know we can as well weigh our risk before venturing into anything?

You take this risk again and it doesn't work. The mental damages might never heal. Iam not trying to discourage you auntie. love is a sweet thing but at the same time sweet things are sometimes bad to health!

Again ipray you find the right one Outta the one billion bad men ... °′°°terrible ratio if you ask me°°=


What was the guy's reaction after his parents said they can't do you cause of your tribe?

Girlnextdoor1:
I will summarize ,not used to long stories ;
So I dated my ex for 3 years, all through his parents knew my tribe but did think it was necessary to put out their concerns until they felt their son was ready for marriage and then they said he should marry from their tribe and just like that ,I was dumped.


It's been two years now , I am ready to try again. I am over it and want to find love once again.

I love your confidence, and I want to congratulating you for being rescued from a ethnical bigotry system.
You will surely find love again, mean while it's time to place some landmarks even as you have fun, be on red alert for any form of chaotic tendencies, anyone that won't value being married to you and feel you are just good for friendship should be exited.

This time look for matured man who knows what he wants.
Wishing you all the best

Candidlady:


You are right auntie but you know we can as well weigh our risk before venturing into anything?

You take this risk again and it doesn't work. The mental damages might never heal. Iam not trying to discourage you auntie. love is a sweet thing but at the same time sweet things are sometimes bad to health!

Again ipray you find the right one Outta the one billion bad men ... °′°°terrible ratio if you ask me°°=


What was the guy's reaction after his parents said they can't do you cause of your tribe?

He is now married to a girl from his tribe.

ayoncox:


I love your confidence, and I want to congratulating you for being rescued from a ethnical bigotry system.
You will surely find love again, mean while it's time to place some landmarks even as you have fun, be on red alert for any form of chaotic tendencies, anyone that won't value being married to you and feel you are just good for friendship should be exited.

This time look for matured man who knows what he wants.
Wishing you all the best

Thanks , fingers crossed ,I need all the luck I can gather this time around.

Girlnextdoor1:
Thanks , fingers crossed ,I need all the luck I can gather this time around.

You will surely get it, just ensure you watch and pray and keep working on yourself to be a better version of you daily

Girlnextdoor1:
Now I get your point. After they always say "marry your friend". I guess a friend wouldn't have done me dirty like that.

exactly.... take the right steps in order to find the right person for you. do not go out there saying to yourself:" i need to find my next husband" but instead go out there and say:"i need to find the right friend" and if that person turns out to be your future husband, great....if not, great!

dont put too much stress on such issues and instead always ENJOY LIFE!

Girlnextdoor1:
He is now married to a girl from his tribe.

Rubbish guy! His loss/lose(english wont run me mad ) abeg! You'd find someone just don't act/sound desperate cuz this so called bloody vipers will always wanna take advantage.

Candidlady:



Rubbish guy! His loss/lose(english wont run me mad ) abeg! You'd find someone just don't act/sound desperate cuz this so called bloody vipers will always wanna take advantage.

Thanks sis.

ayoncox:

You will surely get it, just ensure you watch and pray and keep working on yourself to be a better version of you daily

Thanks

MrBrownJay1:


exactly.... take the right steps in order to find the right person for you. do not go out there saying to yourself:" i need to find my next husband" but instead go out there and say:"i need to find the right friend" and if that person turns out to be your future husband, great....if not, great!

dont put too much stress on such issues and instead always ENJOY LIFE!

thanks.

I must say I am overwhelmed with the response so far, thanks guys , was thinking I was going to get nasty comments or they are asleep

If one door closes another one opens,dust yourself up and give it a try again but this time around make sure it’s alter bound.Dont be in a headless relationship for more than six months

Iyaebe:
If one door closes another one opens,dust yourself up and give it a try again but this time around make sure it’s alter bound.Dont be in a headless relationship for more than six months

Thanks,noted.

Girlnextdoor1:
I am not desperate,it's been two years , surely you won't call that desperation. I took time to grieve and heal. And now I am ready to move on.

You should have just lived your life. Don't put a stop and start to your own experiences because one guy left you. Just live. Forget all the "moving on". Live.

CountVersailles:

You should have just lived your life. Don't put a stop and start to your own experiences because one guy left you. Just live. Forget all the "moving on". Live.

Some things are not as easy as black and white.


But the bottom line is I am ok and over it.

Iyaebe:
If one door closes another one opens,dust yourself up and give it a try again but this time around make sure it’s alter bound.Dont be in a headless relationship for more than six months

the above is the reason why so many women out there fail miseably in their r/ship.... alter bound within 6 months?!?! BWAAAAAAHHHH!!!
in 6 months you should be getting to know one another better and finding out if you even enjoy spending time together....then come the serious r/ship part, and then further along comes the "i cant live without you" part, and then (only then), you guys could contemplate getting married in the future...but even then, its all a process and ANY hiccups along the way can jeopardize whatever marriage plan you may have.

trying to skip these important r/ship steps out of desperation, is the reason why so many women are just ignored and/or miss the damn boat and marry some deluded donkey who treats them like garbage.
some of you women make NO DAMN SENSE... TAKE YOUR TIME, this aint a sprint race!

Iyaebe:
If one door closes another one opens,dust yourself up and give it a try again but this time around make sure it’s alter bound.Dont be in a headless relationship for more than six months

True. A woman's time is limited. Six months is adequate to know where a relationship is headed. You get sense


I see fulls saying they are dating for ten decades and I wander if e never turn marriage already

Girlnextdoor1:
I will summarize ,not used to long stories ;
So I dated my ex for 3 years, all through his parents knew my tribe but did think it was necessary to put out their concerns until they felt their son was ready for marriage and then they said he should marry from their tribe and just like that ,I was dumped.


It's been two years now , I am ready to try again. I am over it and want to find love once again.

It's Igbos that do this. No offense to the Igbos.
All you guys shouting girls are not faithful, do you see why girls keep more than one guy.

Anyway my advice for you is to learn from your mistakes. Don't date for too long. No time for boyfriend and girlfriend.

Blunttruth:

It's Igbos that do this. No offense to the Igbos.
All you guys shouting girls are not faithful, do you see why girls keep more than one guy.

Anyway my advice for you is to learn from your mistakes. Don't date for too long. No time for boyfriend and girlfriend.

Na true o @ do you see why girls keep more than one guy

Blunttruth:

It's Igbos that do this. No offense to the Igbos.
All you guys shouting girls are not faithful, do you see why girls keep more than one guy.

Anyway my advice for you is to learn from your mistakes. Don't date for too long. No time for boyfriend and girlfriend.

Thanks , noted.

Girlnextdoor1:
I will summarize ,not used to long stories ;
So I dated my ex for 3 years, all through his parents knew my tribe but did think it was necessary to put out their concerns until they felt their son was ready for marriage and then they said he should marry from their tribe and just like that ,I was dumped.


It's been two years now , I am ready to try again. I am over it and want to find love once again.

What state are you from?

Lucaski:


What state are you from?

Edo.