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My Girlfriend Sent Me Pregnancy Results And Ask Me To Fund Her Trip To UK by finson: 11:25am On Mar 31, 2022 |
Good day all, I was working in Lagos as expatriate. I am married and she was fully aware at the beginning of the relationship. I had sex with my gf on the 6th day and I pulled out. I told her that month that my contract has been terminated by my company and I have to go back to my country. On 27th day I met her (5 days before leaving the country) and she asked me if I am sure that I pulled out on time when we had sex last time and I told her yes and she told me that she is asking the question because she has not seen her period. When I left the country 2 weeks later I chatted her and I asked if she is doing well. She told me that she is not fine. I asked "why ?" And she told me that she is pregnant. I was very surprised and I called her. That day she told me that she was just joking with me she is not pregrant and we talked about everything. Last week she told me that she is pregnant. She shared with me a test results on a paper where the date of the pregnancy perfectly matches with the date we had sex. She told me that if her family is aware of the situation they will disowned her and she immediately shared with me some requirements to apply for a job in UK where 2 million NGN are required and she asked me for support. She also deleted the image of the tests results. When I asked her to share with me she told me that she does not want me to be in trouble if my wife see that document in my phone. I insisted to get a copy and I told her that she can be assured I will not keep it in my phone. She shared back the document after cropped the letterhead. I insisted to get the full copy and she sent another one after striketrhoughed on her name. I told her that I don't think in Nigeria the only option available for a woman who gets pregnant is to travel to UK even if her family will disown her. I understand that the situation is not comfortable but there could be other options. Even this process to go to UK can be unsuccessful, and if it is the case, this amount of money would have been lost. I am not from Nigeria and this story seems suspicious to me. I am currently abroad, there is no way I can verify what she is telling me. I don't also want to open it some of my friends there. To be honest, I never planned after I left the country to cut communication with her or to support her. But I prefer to support her whenever I have the opportunity to do. I don't know now if this story about the pregnancy is true or not. If you have any experience in this kind of situation please share with me. Any advice is also welcome. Please don't judge me. 40 Likes 10 Shares |
Re: My Girlfriend Sent Me Pregnancy Results And Ask Me To Fund Her Trip To UK by Bola146(f): 11:26am On Mar 31, 2022 |
I am married and she was fully aware at the beginning of the relationship. I had sex with my gf on the 6th day and I pulled out. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() 201 Likes 14 Shares |
Re: My Girlfriend Sent Me Pregnancy Results And Ask Me To Fund Her Trip To UK by Ahmed0336(m): 11:35am On Mar 31, 2022 |
Itz a simple stuffz Tell her you won't send a dime..... Let her give birth to the baby, after DNA is carried out then you both will have something to discuss. 462 Likes 27 Shares |
Re: My Girlfriend Sent Me Pregnancy Results And Ask Me To Fund Her Trip To UK by Kiliwuwu: 11:38am On Mar 31, 2022 |
...she wan run you street just dm me lemme check the pregnancy test for you since am in Lagos 258 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: My Girlfriend Sent Me Pregnancy Results And Ask Me To Fund Her Trip To UK by Yusufisraelj(m): 11:41am On Mar 31, 2022 |
Man you shot yourself on the foot and deserves what's happening be it blackmail or actual fact. Nonetheless, seek ways to resolve the issue and let her come clean as to weda she was joking or she's actually pregnant. If she's pregnant, then prepare! And if not settle her and let her go. If you're married stay married, conji no be sin, haba! 31 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Sent Me Pregnancy Results And Ask Me To Fund Her Trip To UK by finson: 11:44am On Mar 31, 2022 |
Ahmed0336: Thank you for your advice 37 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girlfriend Sent Me Pregnancy Results And Ask Me To Fund Her Trip To UK by advanceDNA: 11:45am On Mar 31, 2022 |
Yahoo girl.... You are just a client... The first strategy is to make you feel she’s considerate and on your side... if you don’t play ball..you will know the devil wears braziallian hair.... Don’t pay... If you pay once, You will keep paying because she will keep readjusting the format.. 322 Likes 16 Shares |
Re: My Girlfriend Sent Me Pregnancy Results And Ask Me To Fund Her Trip To UK by Nobody: 12:05pm On Mar 31, 2022 |
finson: |
Re: My Girlfriend Sent Me Pregnancy Results And Ask Me To Fund Her Trip To UK by finson: 12:14pm On Mar 31, 2022 |
[quote author=ikibekingsleyoo post=111526634][/quote] thank you for your advice |
Re: My Girlfriend Sent Me Pregnancy Results And Ask Me To Fund Her Trip To UK by Nobody: 12:22pm On Mar 31, 2022 |
Ahmed0336:So you are this wicked? Not even minding the emotional trauma she’ll pass through 9 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: My Girlfriend Sent Me Pregnancy Results And Ask Me To Fund Her Trip To UK by Nobody: 12:25pm On Mar 31, 2022 |
Op face the consequences of your randiness,stop running. You are cheating and still have the guts to do it without protection,what if it were to be a deadly std,that’s how you’ll quickly transfer it to your innocent wife.hian 64 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: My Girlfriend Sent Me Pregnancy Results And Ask Me To Fund Her Trip To UK by Savedday: 12:29pm On Mar 31, 2022 |
9ja girls are out to add more burden to your life instead of softening it. They are nothing but useless. All of them.. 84 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girlfriend Sent Me Pregnancy Results And Ask Me To Fund Her Trip To UK by SmartPolician: 1:00pm On Mar 31, 2022 |
Iyaebe: How come you rarely say something reasonable and you are always quick to drop a comment on every thread?! 184 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: My Girlfriend Sent Me Pregnancy Results And Ask Me To Fund Her Trip To UK by Ahmed0336(m): 2:01pm On Mar 31, 2022 |
Iyaebe: Let her pass through it. 44 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Sent Me Pregnancy Results And Ask Me To Fund Her Trip To UK by Guderian(m): 2:15pm On Mar 31, 2022 |
She got pregnant for you, the first thing for her was to check the requirement to go UK and work that is desperation. She is more desperate to go to uk more than anything. If it was a nigerian based guy that pregnanted her will she be requesting that But you should also support her since you got her pregnant. Next time keep your tin in ur pants ![]() ![]() 101 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Girlfriend Sent Me Pregnancy Results And Ask Me To Fund Her Trip To UK by rickleye: 5:36pm On Mar 31, 2022 |
Dude - for the mere fact that you live abroad should know better - use protection !!! ( This is for someone else who might read this ) You have 3 options... 1. get someone to verify her story. DM lets chat. If yes then option 3. If No then use option 2 2. Then change your number, get a burner wish her well. 3. Abort the pregnancy. If she is not ready, can't face her parents and you are not committed to her in that way. Ask her to find out the cost plus try and provide a bit more for a hotel where she can rest and recuperate after the ordeal. 7 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Sent Me Pregnancy Results And Ask Me To Fund Her Trip To UK by Nobody: 6:07pm On Mar 31, 2022 |
Some bodies daughter is about to cash out, Let me not put sand,sand for her garri abeg ![]() ![]() ![]() 78 Likes 6 Shares
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Re: My Girlfriend Sent Me Pregnancy Results And Ask Me To Fund Her Trip To UK by TYCO77: 6:18pm On Mar 31, 2022 |
[/color][color=#000099][color=#006600][/color][quote author=finson post=111525585]Good day all, I was working in Lagos as expatriate. I am married and she was fully aware at the beginning of the relationship. I had sex with my gf on the 6th day and I pulled out. I told her that month that my contract has been terminated by my company and I have to go back to my country. On 27th day I met her (5 days before leaving the country) and she asked me if I am sure that I pulled out on time when we had sex last time and I told her yes and she told me that she is asking the question because she has not seen her period. When I left the country 2 weeks later I chatted her and I asked if she is doing well. She told me that she is not fine. I asked "why ?" And she told me that she is pregnant. I was very surprised and I called her. That day she told me that she was just joking with me she is not pregrant and we talked about everything. Last week she told me that she is pregnant. She shared with me a test results on a paper where the date of the pregnancy perfectly matches with the date we had sex. She told me that if her family is aware of the situation they will disowned her and she immediately shared with me some requirements to apply for a job in UK where 2 million NGN are required and she asked me for support. She also deleted the image of the tests results. When I asked her to share with me she told me that she does not want me to be in trouble if my wife see that document in my phone. I insisted to get a copy and I told her that she can be assured I will not keep it in my phone. She shared back the document after cropped the letterhead. I insisted to get the full copy and she sent another one after striketrhoughed on her name. I told her that I don't think in Nigeria the only option available for a woman who gets pregnant is to travel to UK even if her family will disown her. I understand that the situation is not comfortable but there could be other options. Even this process to go to UK can be unsuccessful, and if it is the case, this amount of money would have been lost. I am not from Nigeria and this story seems suspicious to me. I am currently abroad, there is no way I can verify what she is telling me. I don't also want to open it some of my friends there. To be honest, I never planned after I left the country to cut communication with her or to support her. But I prefer to support her whenever I have the opportunity to do. I don't know now if this story about the pregnancy is true or not. If you have any experience in this kind of situation please share with me. Any advice is also welcome. Please don't judge me. |
Re: My Girlfriend Sent Me Pregnancy Results And Ask Me To Fund Her Trip To UK by TYCO77: 6:59pm On Mar 31, 2022 |
[/color] I do not know if she is trying to exploit you or not, but I understand that the pre-ejaculation fluid can get a woman pregnant. Therefore, the issue of withdrawal is not a guaranteed guard against pregnancy. However, most she travel to UK? Assuming she is truly pregnant I think the best you can do for her is to set up a good business for her to manage and take care of herself and the baby. Do not allow her come to UK to cause problem in your home, after all you informed her earlier that you are married.[color=#000099] 15 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Sent Me Pregnancy Results And Ask Me To Fund Her Trip To UK by GooodHardDick: 8:38pm On Mar 31, 2022 |
Stupid broke ass girl. OP, that werey wan run you street. She's not pregnant anything. She's looking for a way to cash out massively from you. This is exactly how Nigeria girls behaves. They're so useless and brainless for my liking. Don't send her a dime. Werey say make you send her 2million naira. She wan turn u into her client for steady cash out. You better block that girl off and move on with ur life. 68 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girlfriend Sent Me Pregnancy Results And Ask Me To Fund Her Trip To UK by Magnoliaa(f): 8:54pm On Mar 31, 2022 |
Shebi these ediots and m*f*s will come and be crying tomorrow about paternity fraud and cheating wives? ![]() ![]() 23 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Girlfriend Sent Me Pregnancy Results And Ask Me To Fund Her Trip To UK by Ishilove: 9:47pm On Mar 31, 2022 |
When you too will not keep your preek one place. You're commiting adultery and didn't have the decency to use protection for the sake of your innocent wife at home. Na so una go carry VD go dash the poor woman. Oga getat abeg 26 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girlfriend Sent Me Pregnancy Results And Ask Me To Fund Her Trip To UK by posty56: 9:51pm On Mar 31, 2022 |
fund her trip oo, so that when she come UK ,she go use the fact say Western society favours women ,kick out of the house, show you Arab, Nigeria men never learn, tell her to born dia , run DNA test ,then you fit they send small upkeep Money but also tell her to find work 15 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Sent Me Pregnancy Results And Ask Me To Fund Her Trip To UK by PIXSPEAKS: 10:23pm On Mar 31, 2022 |
Magnoliaa:Madam, the difference is that the man is not bringing the child to his wife to train. Woman will get pregnant for another and the husband will be training the bastard without knowing. I don't support infidelity but a wife getting pregnant for another in her husband's house n pretending is worst 51 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Sent Me Pregnancy Results And Ask Me To Fund Her Trip To UK by Oturatetuala(m): 10:45pm On Mar 31, 2022 |
Djjjjjj make some noise for Mr cheating cheater shitty, 3 bottles of moet for the baddest cheatty man ever liveth. You are nothing but a cheat, cheat cheat in burna's voice. 2 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Sent Me Pregnancy Results And Ask Me To Fund Her Trip To UK by pizzzy(m): 11:34pm On Mar 31, 2022 |
That girl wan open office for ur head Make her parent disown her But op you sef dull oh why you no wear jimmy Hart when you dey knack the otolo 12 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Sent Me Pregnancy Results And Ask Me To Fund Her Trip To UK by bigjackass: 3:35am On Apr 01, 2022 |
She's not pregnant. Tell her that you know what she's up to and cut her off immediately. Don't fund her scam. finson: 10 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Sent Me Pregnancy Results And Ask Me To Fund Her Trip To UK by averageguy(m): 3:48am On Apr 01, 2022 |
It's 2022; you can get paternity tests while a baby is in the womb. That should be your first step. If the baby is yours, then congratulations �. You need to be a responsible adult, inform your wife, and work with your girlfriend on a plan to take care of your kid. But you are not responsible for sponsoring her trip abroad. 9 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Sent Me Pregnancy Results And Ask Me To Fund Her Trip To UK by Fyie: 6:57am On Apr 01, 2022 |
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Re: My Girlfriend Sent Me Pregnancy Results And Ask Me To Fund Her Trip To UK by MathewOG(m): 6:57am On Apr 01, 2022 |
You are in an unfortunate situation, for all intents and purposes you are in trouble, your girlfriend can ruin your life knowing fully well you are married, and with UK divorce laws, that's serious wahala, that being said, that should never be an excuse to take responsibility for a kid that MAY NOT be yours, with Nigeria being amongst the countries with the HIGHEST paternity fraud cases in the world, you have a right to be SUSPICIOUS, that being said, DO NOT YET apply for your mistress to find her way to UK as she maybe playing you, find a way to go back to Nigeria BEFORE applying for your mistress to come to the UK, and conduct a DNA test determining the paternity, DO NOT THINK you can wish this away as your mistress has the upper hand here as she can RUIN YOUR REPUTATION, YOUR MARRIAGE AND YOUR LIFE with the shitty UK divorce laws, so own up and be a man, without being played, MAKE SURE YOU ARE THE FATHER, before doing ANYTHING for the babe, as you might be HORRIBLY shocked that your SIDE CHICK might not really be pregnant as she might just be playing you to apply for her to go to the UK and when she gets to the UK, the baby might "miscarry", confirm if there is TRULY A PREGNANCY AND IF YOU ARE TRULY THE FATHER, BEFORE YOU DO ANYTHING FOR THE GIRL, AND MAY GOD BE WITH YOU, YOU WOULD NEED IT... |
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