Bola146:
I am married and she was fully aware at the beginning of the relationship.
I had sex with my gf on the 6th day and I pulled out.

No wonder married women are now bringing in bastards to their matrimonial homes , they are now practicing what their husbands are doing outside I don't know what would cost married spouses to be faithful to their partners

...she wan run you street


just dm me lemme check the pregnancy test for you since am in Lagos

BRATISLAVA:


Wait until she spills the beans to his wife.

Ofadaman:
I hate weakness in men

finson:
Good day all,

I was working in Lagos as expatriate. I am married and she was fully aware at the beginning of the relationship.

I had sex with my gf on the 6th day and I pulled out.

I told her that month that my contract has been terminated by my company and I have to go back to my country.

On 27th day I met her (5 days before leaving the country) and she asked me if I am sure that I pulled out on time when we had sex last time and I told her yes and she told me that she is asking the question because she has not seen her period.

When I left the country 2 weeks later I chatted her and I asked if she is doing well. She told me that she is not fine. I asked "why ?" And she told me that she is pregnant. I was very surprised and I called her. That day she told me that she was just joking with me she is not pregrant and we talked about everything.

Last week she told me that she is pregnant. She shared with me a test results on a paper where the date of the pregnancy perfectly matches with the date we had sex.

She told me that if her family is aware of the situation they will disowned her and she immediately shared with me some requirements to apply for a job in UK where 2 million NGN are required and she asked me for support. She also deleted the image of the tests results.

When I asked her to share with me she told me that she does not want me to be in trouble if my wife see that document in my phone. I insisted to get a copy and I told her that she can be assured I will not keep it in my phone. She shared back the document after cropped the letterhead. I insisted to get the full copy and she sent another one after striketrhoughed on her name.

I told her that I don't think in Nigeria the only option available for a woman who gets pregnant is to travel to UK even if her family will disown her. I understand that the situation is not comfortable but there could be other options. Even this process to go to UK can be unsuccessful, and if it is the case, this amount of money would have been lost.

I am not from Nigeria and this story seems suspicious to me. I am currently abroad, there is no way I can verify what she is telling me. I don't also want to open it some of my friends there.

To be honest, I never planned after I left the country to cut communication with her or to support her. But I prefer to support her whenever I have the opportunity to do. I don't know now if this story about the pregnancy is true or not.

If you have any experience in this kind of situation please share with me. Any advice is also welcome.
Please don't judge me.

missrosey:


Do you know that the inability to stay faithful to your marital vows is a sign of weakness?

"Body no be firewood" has caused so much destruction for a lot of people, married and unmarried, here and in eternity.

It's just a pity.

finson:
Good day all,

I was working in Lagos as expatriate. I am married and she was fully aware at the beginning of the relationship.

I had sex with my gf on the 6th day and I pulled out.

I told her that month that my contract has been terminated by my company and I have to go back to my country.

On 27th day I met her (5 days before leaving the country) and she asked me if I am sure that I pulled out on time when we had sex last time and I told her yes and she told me that she is asking the question because she has not seen her period.

When I left the country 2 weeks later I chatted her and I asked if she is doing well. She told me that she is not fine. I asked "why ?" And she told me that she is pregnant. I was very surprised and I called her. That day she told me that she was just joking with me she is not pregrant and we talked about everything.

Last week she told me that she is pregnant. She shared with me a test results on a paper where the date of the pregnancy perfectly matches with the date we had sex.

She told me that if her family is aware of the situation they will disowned her and she immediately shared with me some requirements to apply for a job in UK where 2 million NGN are required and she asked me for support. She also deleted the image of the tests results.

When I asked her to share with me she told me that she does not want me to be in trouble if my wife see that document in my phone. I insisted to get a copy and I told her that she can be assured I will not keep it in my phone. She shared back the document after cropped the letterhead. I insisted to get the full copy and she sent another one after striketrhoughed on her name.

I told her that I don't think in Nigeria the only option available for a woman who gets pregnant is to travel to UK even if her family will disown her. I understand that the situation is not comfortable but there could be other options. Even this process to go to UK can be unsuccessful, and if it is the case, this amount of money would have been lost.

I am not from Nigeria and this story seems suspicious to me. I am currently abroad, there is no way I can verify what she is telling me. I don't also want to open it some of my friends there.

To be honest, I never planned after I left the country to cut communication with her or to support her. But I prefer to support her whenever I have the opportunity to do. I don't know now if this story about the pregnancy is true or not.

If you have any experience in this kind of situation please share with me. Any advice is also welcome.
Please don't judge me.

NGArmyTerrorist:
You're now calling yourself names! Your problem is just starting and I won't tell you what it is.. Stay away from my mention!

Magnoliaa:
Shebi these ediots and m*f*s will come and be crying tomorrow about paternity fraud and cheating wives? I sha love as women kuku dey cheat back as payback codedly or brazenly too. Na dem fit una. We go laugh when e reach and no lid will be batted. No time for arguments and ngbatis.

Noviagro:


She is a blackmailer,simple.
Tell her to give birth to the child,afterwhich you run a DNA test before taking full responsibility.

Mavor:
Clown. The man is asking for advise, you are looking for who to bill. Typical Nigerian nonsense.

Magnoliaa:


Whether it's because they want to or it's because men or their partners cheat, all reasons are valid.



Then bid your time and wait for me to mistakenly fall pregnant, so you can have your good laugh.

BRATISLAVA:


Wait until she spills the beans to his wife.

Mavor:
- You bit*hes in you delusion think that Nigerian men can't survive without you. Most can.

- That we decide to tolerate most of the average Nigerian girl's nonsense does not mean men are fo*lish.

- This is 2022. DNA test dey. Guys are no longer smiling in this Buhari hellhole.

- Any woman that misbehaves is going back to the streets where she belongs.

- I never said men can or cannot survive without women. Sure, comprehension isn't your strongest suit; I get that. I said women cheat on men and are cheating on men and men cry over it, will continue to cry over it.

- Whether there is DNA or not, whether we're in 1215 or 2035, 'paternity fraud' is a thing and will continue to be a thing and what will y'all do? Continue being mad about it. I never said there is nothing like a DNA test, and I didn't even mention anything about men divorcing or relationships breaking up. Women as well kick men's asses to the curbs and divorce them, some even get alimony and child support and child custody, what will you still do again? Nothing, but scream 'gynocentrism' all about.

- Oh, shey you're tolerating ba? Good. Let every gender be tolerating the nonsenses of the other gender. Nobody get monopoly for nonsense and bad behaviours.

- Tell that to the simps who haven't divorced their misbehaving women nor broken up with them. Nobody cares what you think and what you have to say is of no effect, men marry/date, have been marrying/dating and will continue to marry/date different kinds of women you think aren't worthy of romantic attention.

Don't forget to find a baby bath basin closest to you to cry your fill inside.

Happy new month.

kayperry:
A student that does not know the difference "Excuses and Reasons" sho ma pass jamb bayi
i said get pregnant not fall pregnant simple instructions, well its not tew late for special centre, i care

Magnoliaa:


- I never said men can or cannot survive without women. Sure, comprehension isn't your strongest suit; I get that. I said women cheat on men and are cheating on men and men cry over it, will continue to cry over it.

- Whether there is DNA or not, whether we're in 1215 or 2035, 'paternity fraud' is a thing and will continue to be a thing and what will y'all do? Continue being mad about it. I never said there is nothing like a DNA test, and I didn't even mention anything about men divorcing or relationships breaking up. Women as well kick men's asses to the curbs and divorce them, some even get alimony and child support and child custody, what will you still do again? Nothing, but scream 'gynocentrism' all about.

- Oh, shey you're tolerating ba? Good. Let every gender be tolerating the nonsenses of the other gender. Nobody get monopoly for nonsense and bad behaviours.

- Tell that to the simps who haven't divorced their misbehaving women nor broken up with them. Nobody cares what you think and what you have to say is of no effect, men marry/date, have been marrying/dating and will continue to marry/date different kinds of women you think aren't worthy of romantic attention.

Don't forget to find a baby bath basin closest to you to cry your fill inside.

Happy new month.

Mavor:
Focus on the question the man is asking and leave your Femi-nazi $hit elsewhere. If you bit*hes were loyal, truly caring and not money hungry, will most men be misbehaving? Ode!

VULCAN:
Point of correction o self righteous one.

Married women have been bringing bastards into their matrimonial homes for thousands of years.

Iyaebe:
So you are this wicked? Not even minding the emotional trauma she’ll pass through

finson:


Thank you for your advice

We4all:


Alaye, as if I am benefiting from your dumb comments.

We4all:


Alaye, as if I am benefiting from your dumb comments.

Mavor:
You think I have the time to read this epistle? Rantings of a frustrated Femi-nazi. 99% of you hoes of today's Snapchat generation are good for nothing.

Next time don't quote me if you know you do not have the intellectual capacity for engaging me. . Have a lovely, prankful day.