This is referencing legally married persons not two fornicators deceiving themselves with the non Afrjcan word "fiancee"......You are either married or single QED


What Is Infidelity?
Infidelity, or cheating, is the act of being unfaithful to a spouse or other partner. It typically means engaging in sexual or romantic relations with a person other than one's significant partner, breaking a commitment or promise in the act.

If u have ever been the victim of infidelity, the first question you probably asked was, "why?" The consequences of infidelity are numerous, and it is only natural to want to know why your partner chose to cheat, even if knowing why doesn't bring you any relief. There could be any number of reasons, and there are many types of infidelity and cheating that could shed a little light on those reasons.


Not every act of infidelity is premeditated and driven by dissatisfaction with a current relationship…Maybe they were drinking or in some other way thrown into an opportunity they didn't anticipate.


Infidelity is not enough reason to leave a legal Marriage since it is a situation that can be amended.

Not applicable to women but a man can dump any woman that cheated on him. African men doesn't cheat. It is our God given right

For men, I would say YES.
For women, I would say NO.
Before una go chop my head, make I analyze somethings. When it comes to man and woman eeh, the ball game dey different. Cry all you want, men are polygamous in nature. Right from Bible to our ancestors time, no be crime to marry more than one woman. That's why you go see a man wey get 3 babies with different women, and nobody go talk anything. But immediately a woman born just one or two, she don turn second hand material and almost abandoned project.
Same way a man no fit marry empty handed, he must work hard for money first. While a woman only needs toto and makeup before she's qualified for marriage. So both get advantages and disadvantages. Once again, if a man cheat, society no too dey frown about am like women.

OP....
Even if I see my spouse "just kissing" another man, we're done, there's no two ways about that ...

If you're gonna be with me, you will have ABSOLUTELY NOTHING sexual to do with other men, if you do, you're out ...

It is a deal breaker please, not up for a debate.

Fahdiga:
Not applicable to women but a man can dump any bitch that cheated on him. African men doesn't cheat. It is our God given right

Wahala


Comrade off your mic please. It’s too loud.

Just woke up few minutes and This is the first shit I'm seeing, what kinda question is, you know what op, cheating is not enough, just forgive her she just wanna explore more dicks

greatiyk4u:
If u have ever been the victim of infidelity, the first question you probably asked was, "why?" The consequences of infidelity are numerous, and it is only natural to want to know why your partner chose to cheat, even if knowing why doesn't bring you any relief. There could be any number of reasons, and there are many types of infidelity and cheating that could shed a little light on those reasons.

Not every act of infidelity is premeditated and driven by dissatisfaction with a current relationship…Maybe they were drinking or in some other way thrown into an opportunity they didn't anticipate.
Infidelity is not enough reason to leave a legal Marriage since it is a situation that can be amended.

Wait.... why do you think it matters whether the act of cheating is premeditated or not?

Why do you conclude that it should matter the why the cheating took place?

Your leap to a conclusion leaves me believing there is more you may not have considered in this to begin with.

Carcholce:


Wahala


Comrade off your mic please. It’s too loud.

Legal marriage issa scam........Babymama the surest.

Fahdiga:
Not applicable to women but a man can dump any bitch that cheated on him. African men doesn't cheat. It is our God given right

it is the white men that cheat,we Africans traditionally are given the rights to many wife's and equal number of cocubines, mistresses and sidechicks,we are not white men that is why divorce is high in white man land,if my wife makes me angry I will go to chiamaka or ngozi place to cool off and restore my sanity,saving the marriage.

9ja girls are out to add more burden to your life instead of softening it.

They are nothing but useless. All of them..

okoroemeka:
it is the white men that cheat,we Africans traditionally are given the rights to many wife's and equal number of cocubines, mistresses and sidechicks,we are not white men that is why divorce is high in white man land,if my wife makes me angry I will go to chiamaka or ngozi place to cool off and restore my sanity,saving the marriage.

Gbam

Favfables1:
OP....
Even if I see my spouse "just kissing" another man, we're done, there's no two ways about that ...

If you're gonna be with me, you will have ABSOLUTELY NOTHING sexual to do with other men, if you do, you're out ...

But men have every right to cheat abi? because men are Polygamous in nature abi? Bull crap. See if you cheat on me, I will cheat on you too.

If you can't be faithful in marriage, what are you doing being in a relationship ? What are you teaching your kids.
Cheating is the height of disrespect to any spouse

Yes for both parties, if the woman doesn't kill man, the man will kill the woman at the end of the day with infidelity.

Let's stay faithful to one another, No joy or peace in cheating.

greatiyk4u:
This is referencing legally married persons not two fornicators deceiving themselves with the non Afrjcan word "fiancee"......You are either married or single QED


What Is Infidelity?
Infidelity, or cheating, is the act of being unfaithful to a spouse or other partner. It typically means engaging in sexual or romantic relations with a person other than one's significant partner, breaking a commitment or promise in the act.

If u have ever been the victim of infidelity, the first question you probably asked was, "why?" The consequences of infidelity are numerous, and it is only natural to want to know why your partner chose to cheat, even if knowing why doesn't bring you any relief. There could be any number of reasons, and there are many types of infidelity and cheating that could shed a little light on those reasons.


Not every act of infidelity is premeditated and driven by dissatisfaction with a current relationship…Maybe they were drinking or in some other way thrown into an opportunity they didn't anticipate.


Infidelity is not enough reason to leave a legal Marriage since it is a situation that can be amended.

You are stupid for asking this question
mumu

okoroemeka:
it is the white men that cheat,we Africans traditionally are given the rights to many wife's and equal number of cocubines, mistresses and sidechicks,we are not white men that is why divorce is high in white man land,if my wife makes me angry I will go to chiamaka or ngozi place to cool off and restore my sanity,saving the marriage.

Mazi Anam keele.....

kingjis:



You are stupid for asking this question
mumu

Take it easy Oga, I know life is threatening you

Favfables1:
OP....
Even if I see my spouse "just kissing" another man, we're done, there's no two ways about that ...

If you're gonna be with me, you will have ABSOLUTELY NOTHING sexual to do with other men, if you do, you're out ...

Aboby "just kissing" u say if she no fit explain why she even dey there in the first place. She go wish for hell with real demons than wetin I go show her

kingjis:



You are stupid for asking this question
mumu

Very stupid

Jennyclay:
But men have every right to cheat abi? because men are Polygamous in nature abi? Bull crap. See if you cheat on me, I will cheat on you too.

jenny, two wrongs can never make a right.. At the end u will regret u took that revenge against your man.

Savedday:
9ja girls are out to add more burden to your life instead of softening it.

They are nothing but useless. All of them..

What you call uselessness started with the men in Nigeria and continues even to this very moment. So, in all, those "useless" Nigerian girls in fact complement you equally "useless" Nigerian men.

Let's start now telling ourselves the truth, shall we?

princefrank76:
jenny, two wrongs can never make a right.. At the end u will regret u took that revenge against your man.

2 wrongs don't make a right,yes, but what are we humans but evolving creatures.

Men claim nature, which birthed them from the very same loins and womb as women, conclude they are by birth polygamy animals, conveniently ignoring the fact that women are also capable of a polyandrous existence.

So when a man resorts to pursing his so-called polygamous nature, why is it wrong or revenge for the women to equally pursue her polyandrous side?

Didn't read the write up

Just the question, Yes! More than enough reason self!

princefrank76:
jenny, two wrongs can never make a right.. At the end u will regret u took that revenge against your man.

I know two wrongs can't make a right but then you don't expect me to be loyal and faithful to you.. Then you go about sleeping with other ladies. It doesn't work for me.

I believe in Equality, go and ask my friends, they will tell you more about me.

Lalami3232:
For men, I would say YES.
For women, I would say NO.
Before una go chop my head, make I analyze somethings. When it comes to man and woman eeh, the ball game dey different. Cry all you want, men are polygamous in nature. Right from Bible to our ancestors time, no be crime to marry more than one woman. That's why you go see a man wey get 3 babies with different women, and nobody go talk anything. But immediately a woman born just one or two, she don turn second hand material and almost abandoned project.
Same way a man no fit marry empty handed, he must work hard for money first. While a woman only needs toto and makeup before she's qualified for marriage. So both get advantages and disadvantages. Once again, if a man cheat, society no too dey frown about am like women.

Except the man is cheating with a man then yes ,men are free to cheat.

Jennyclay:
But men have every right to cheat abi? because men are Polygamous in nature abi? Bull crap. See if you cheat on me, I will cheat on you too.

Mumu talk... Two wrongs do not make a right

Just say you are looking for opportunity to bang your cultist ex

Ode

NewSoul:

Mumu talk... Two wrongs do not make a right

Just say you are looking for opportunity to bang your cultist ex

Ode

I know two wrongs can't make a right but then you don't expect me to be loyal and faithful to you.. Then you go about sleeping with other ladies. It doesn't work for me.

I believe in Equality, go and ask my friends, they will tell you more about me. I don't take rubbish from anyone.

Fahdiga:
Not applicable to women but a man can dump any bitch that cheated on him. African men doesn't cheat. It is our God given right

I don't know what part of the world you are but I think I should update you since you have been on hibernate.

Dragons have gone extinct
Two stones are no longer used to make fire
We now build houses with bricks.

The world evolved.

Jennyclay:
I know two wrongs can't make a right but then you don't expect me to be loyal and faithful to you.. Then you go about sleeping with other ladies. It doesn't work for me.

I believe in Equality, go and ask my friends, they will tell you more about me.

jane, i totally understand your point of view. But then, how would you handle the gilt after you and your hubby might have work things out?

i know no gender have the monopoly of cheating. You shouldn't let your spouse actions influence/makes u go against your vow of fidelity..

i will advice that, in such scenario u only try to tame him of his excesses. But if he's not ready to change and u reach your breaking point. U can always go with the option divorce..

personally, if i cheat on u and u cheat back. Hmmm. I think that will be the end of the relationship coz two imperfect people can nt make a relatnshp work. That's tit for tat