Kobojunkiee:
A goner how so? If you decide you have right to express your polygamous nature, she also has a right to express hers.

DEMZEE:
Men and women are different and play by different rules wen it comes to sex and relationships
Men are as faithful as their options. Men don't cheat, they just exercise their sexual options. Women however cheat . Men and women show loyalty differently
Men view sex like taking a piss,sex is just physical for men . Women view sex emotionally, they are emotionally attached wen it comes to sex

desoul2004:
Ladies are not saying anything here. Why?

Kobojunkiee:
There is no truth to any of what you claim here.

Women can engage many men in marriage providing dem capable of "loving" more than one man too.

Jennyclay:
I know two wrongs can't make a right but then you don't expect me to be loyal and faithful to you.. Then you go about sleeping with other ladies. It doesn't work for me.

I believe in Equality, go and ask my friends, they will tell you more about me.

Kobojunkiee:
Precisely!

Many folks fail grasp this aspect of the whole in their attempts at normalizing cheating by men in marriage.

Simran94:

Because there’s no other way to convince a gender from Africa that believes Cheating on their partner is their “birthright”.
African men only think about sex, all day.
NO WONDER…

greatiyk4u:
This is referencing legally married persons not two fornicators deceiving themselves with the non Afrjcan word "fiancee"......You are either married or single QED


What Is Infidelity?
Infidelity, or cheating, is the act of being unfaithful to a spouse or other partner. It typically means engaging in sexual or romantic relations with a person other than one's significant partner, breaking a commitment or promise in the act.

If u have ever been the victim of infidelity, the first question you probably asked was, "why?" The consequences of infidelity are numerous, and it is only natural to want to know why your partner chose to cheat, even if knowing why doesn't bring you any relief. There could be any number of reasons, and there are many types of infidelity and cheating that could shed a little light on those reasons.


Not every act of infidelity is premeditated and driven by dissatisfaction with a current relationship…Maybe they were drinking or in some other way thrown into an opportunity they didn't anticipate.


Infidelity is not enough reason to leave a legal Marriage since it is a situation that can be amended.

Kobojunkiee:
Again, enough of the meaningless ramblings abeg....

Survey after survey has shown that women cheat for the same reasons that men cheat, which is to satisfy that desire in them.

Jennyclay:
But men have every right to cheat abi? because men are Polygamous in nature abi? Bull crap. See if you cheat on me, I will cheat on you too.

Kobojunkiee:
But in all honesty, the women who remain with these cheating men have a part in enabling what is this mentality so let's not forget that aspect to the situation. If women abandoned "cheating" men enmasse, they would have no option but to reevaluate what is their foolish ideas. But because we have women who hang to MRS title as if gold even when it is apparent that all they cling to is a failed union are at the center of the mindset..

Fahdiga:
Not applicable to women but a man can dump any woman that cheated on him. African men doesn't cheat. It is our God given right

Kobojunkiee:
Again, enough of the meaningless ramblings abeg....

Survey after survey has shown that women cheat for the same reasons that men cheat, which is to satisfy that desire in them.

LIESSSS

FEMALES SHOW LOVE AND LOYALTY VIA SEX AND SEXUAL FIDELITY

IF FEMALES CHEAT ALL BECAUSE THEY WANT TO BE SATISFIED THEN WHY DO THEY MAKE SEX SCARCE AND HARD TO GET FOR MOST MALES

WHY DO FEMALES VIEW SEX AS A VALUE LOADED EXCHANGE NOT AN EQUAL VALUE EXCHANGE??

DUDE FVCKING THINK GEEEEZ!!!!

Simran94:
You need to stop arguing with those people.
They already see cheating as their birthright.
Unfortunately for this continent we are from, that’s all we will get while others are concentrating their energies on building their continents and countries, developing high-end tech to enhance their nations, the so-called male gender from Africa that believes only men should run the affairs of our continent only think about sex all day.

airliner:
personally, if i cheat on u and u cheat back. Hmmm. I think that will be the end of the relationship coz two imperfect people can nt make a relatnshp work. That's tit for tat

U dey craze

Simran94:


Actually I don’t blame those women.
The African culture has a lot of faults in it, it sees women as “objects of satisfaction and reproduction” nothing else. It has always been this way in Africa. They believe a woman who doesn’t have a head(husband) is nothing to the society. So that has instilled fear into the minds of these women.

safarigirl:
Yes, cheating is enough reason to leave a marriage

It just does not happen the same way in Africa. In Africa, it is only the man that people will understand if he leaves the marriage, but women are expected to endure a cheating spouse.

So, women endure, and wait for a side chick like Chidinma to kill the idiot.

safarigirl:
Yes, cheating is enough reason to leave a marriage

It just does not happen the same way in Africa. In Africa, it is only the man that people will understand if he leaves the marriage, but women are expected to endure a cheating spouse.

So, women endure, and wait for a side chick like Chidinma to kill the idiot.

Fahdiga:
Not applicable to women but a man can dump any woman that cheated on him. African men doesn't cheat. It is our God given right

greatiyk4u:
This is referencing legally married persons not two fornicators deceiving themselves with the non Afrjcan word "fiancee"......You are either married or single QED


What Is Infidelity?
Infidelity, or cheating, is the act of being unfaithful to a spouse or other partner. It typically means engaging in sexual or romantic relations with a person other than one's significant partner, breaking a commitment or promise in the act.

If u have ever been the victim of infidelity, the first question you probably asked was, "why?" The consequences of infidelity are numerous, and it is only natural to want to know why your partner chose to cheat, even if knowing why doesn't bring you any relief. There could be any number of reasons, and there are many types of infidelity and cheating that could shed a little light on those reasons.


Not every act of infidelity is premeditated and driven by dissatisfaction with a current relationship…Maybe they were drinking or in some other way thrown into an opportunity they didn't anticipate.


Infidelity is not enough reason to leave a legal Marriage since it is a situation that can be amended.

DEMZEE:


YES NOW

A FEMALE WHO IS WAY PAST HER SEXUAL PRIME, DIDNT GET MARRIED, STAY MARRIED AND HAD KIDS WITH THE MALE SHE LOVES,ADMIRES AND RESPECTS, FAILED IN LIFE

HUMAN BEINGS WERE CREATED TO PROCREATE AND FEMALES DERIVE HAPPINESS AND JOY FROM GETTING AND STAYING MARRIED, HAVING KIDS AND RAISING A FAMILY WITH THE MALE THEY LOVE, ADMIRE AND RESPECT

FEMALES DON'T DERIVE HAPPINESS FROM MAKING MONEY, HAVING A CAREER OR A BUSINESS

safarigirl:
Yes, cheating is enough reason to leave a marriage

It just does not happen the same way in Africa. In Africa, it is only the man that people will understand if he leaves the marriage, but women are expected to endure a cheating spouse.

So, women endure, and wait for a side chick like Chidinma to kill the idiot.

Simran94:


Sorry to disappoint you but that was then, not anymore.
A lot of women are detaching from that useless African culture and believing they can be anything they want to be without being married. A lot women are no longer marriage freaks like before, you can work and have sources of income, you can get married IF YOU WANT TO and IF YOU DON’T WANT TO, you can move on with other great things in life like adopting a child or going for IVF and live happily ever after!!!