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Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by snowwhitenow: 3:55pm On Apr 03, 2022
Cheating is for any one that want to cheat both women or men, women cannot kill their self againoooo.
Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by aksule(m): 4:02pm On Apr 03, 2022
A question. Who gets pregnant? I mean those claiming equality. Simple, God didn't create us equal in some aspects of life.
Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by flockofpips: 4:07pm On Apr 03, 2022
Cheating have no excuse abeg....it is either you work on the path or you dey your own jeje.
Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by Palado4u(m): 4:08pm On Apr 03, 2022
Both parties are expected to be together for life. But when adultery sets in or one of the two party involved in the marriage is found guilty of adultery; the other should forgive and forget. That's is the place of forgiveness in the bible but if forgiveness could not be reached. They can stay apart and both remain unmarried.l because if they do, they have both committed adultery provided they are both alive.
Mathew 5:32 says " But I say unto you, That whosoever shall put away his wife, saving for the cause of fornication, causeth her to commit adultery: and whosoever shall marry her that is divorced committeth adultery"
So the standpoint of God is against divorce even when caught in adultery. But if your are very displeased with her, put her away and remain unmarried or she remains unmarried till death comes. If being away; the man marries another before God, such person has committed adultery. The best bet in God's view is forgiveness and moving on easily together. God bless our homes!!!
Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by Valkrie: 4:08pm On Apr 03, 2022
Jennyclay:
But men have every right to cheat abi? because men are Polygamous in nature abi? Bull crap. See if you cheat on me, I will cheat on you too.

Then you can never I repeat never keep a marriage except nah you carry money go buy the man and as soon as then finances pick anr able to stand on his own...he is out..no two ways round it...!! Dey there dey compare yourself with men...you go learn the hard way ...!! grin
Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by kunkelhanspeter(m): 4:09pm On Apr 03, 2022
JUMO95:
If you can't be faithful in marriage, what are you doing being in a relationship ? What are you teaching your kids.
Cheating is the height of disrespect to any spouse
He can send you back to your mama house if you cheat on him know that.
Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by ejimatic: 4:16pm On Apr 03, 2022
greatiyk4u:
This is referencing legally married persons not two fornicators deceiving themselves with the non Afrjcan word "fiancee"......You are either married or single QED


What Is Infidelity?
Infidelity, or cheating, is the act of being unfaithful to a spouse or other partner. It typically means engaging in sexual or romantic relations with a person other than one's significant partner, breaking a commitment or promise in the act.

If u have ever been the victim of infidelity, the first question you probably asked was, "why?" The consequences of infidelity are numerous, and it is only natural to want to know why your partner chose to cheat, even if knowing why doesn't bring you any relief. There could be any number of reasons, and there are many types of infidelity and cheating that could shed a little light on those reasons.


Not every act of infidelity is premeditated and driven by dissatisfaction with a current relationship…Maybe they were drinking or in some other way thrown into an opportunity they didn't anticipate.


Infidelity is not enough reason to leave a legal Marriage since it is a situation that can be amended.
. From religious and legal
perspectives infidelity is a ground for divorce in the Bible. However the offended couple can forgive the erring husband.
Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by Mjpem23(m): 4:22pm On Apr 03, 2022
Kobojunkiee:
LOL... only single mothers? undecided

Look, forget what you have been fed... even since the day of our ancestors, single mothers have had no problems marrying again. So don't let the "women dey loose" hype deceive you at all. I happen to know two single mothers who remarried after abandoning their former spouses and these women are now today in their 60s doing great. undecided

So it is greater percentage?
Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by Iwin2: 4:23pm On Apr 03, 2022
princefrank76:
jenny, two wrongs can never make a right.. At the end u will regret u took that revenge against your man.
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Jenny your justification for cheating is the reason many female are out of their marriage and are now another man's side chick or concubine or mistress because they cannot remain lonely
So don't be mislead
Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by snowwhitenow: 4:25pm On Apr 03, 2022
When a woman said my husband is cheating is old thing now, woman can cheat too if the man is cheating already you Don't cry, walk around you can cheat too little secret.
Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by Kobojunkiee: 4:35pm On Apr 03, 2022
makavell7:
Are you male or female? make i know whether to advise or ignore
I suggest you count your teeth carefully next time the thought pops into your head to "advise" fellow adult. undecided

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Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by Kobojunkiee: 4:36pm On Apr 03, 2022
Mjpem23:
So it is greater percentage?
Open your eyes to reality as opposed to the silly ideas thrown about you. undecided

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Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by Kobojunkiee: 4:37pm On Apr 03, 2022
greatiyk4u:
What part of Nigeria please because I made reference on legally married couples here
Part of Nigeria? Are you joking ? undecided
Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by abbey621(m): 4:40pm On Apr 03, 2022
The question should be are you dealing with a cheater or serial cheater? For serial cheaters it is a sport, a game, a conquest. They'll cheat on you with a friend, family, neighbor etc, they are only remorseful they got caught and once the dust settles they get back at it. Forgiving and staying with such a person is like postponing your chemo treatment after a cancer diagnosis, RIP!

Human psychology tells us that men cheaters are more likely to cheat repeatedly with different people while women cheaters are more likely to cheat with one person before getting caught. Yet we have more women forgiving their husbands than men forgiving their wife after discovery. Women especially those with kids are always influenced by society, children and fear of being alone while men most times find it easy to move on. So when it comes to forgiving, let's look at it from the different perspectives and not a one size fits all kind of solution, IT AIN'T AS SIMPLE AS IT LOOKS!

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Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by Kobojunkiee: 4:44pm On Apr 03, 2022
abbey621:
The question should be are you dealing with a cheater or serial cheater? For serial cheaters it is a sport, a game, a conquest. They'll cheat on you with a friend, family, neighbor etc, they are only remorseful they got caught and once the dust settles they get back at it. Forgiving and staying with such a person is like postponing your chemo treatment after a cancer diagnosis, RIP!
ROFLMAO
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Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by Echoban: 4:45pm On Apr 03, 2022
Jennyclay:
But men have every right to cheat abi? because men are Polygamous in nature abi? Bull crap. See if you cheat on me, I will cheat on you too.

Abeg I dey available Incase ur oga cheat in u. Let's both cheat on him back cool . I Sabi nack toto well well shocked

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Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by integrity16(m): 4:51pm On Apr 03, 2022
A resounding YES for both gender.

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Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by Echoban: 4:52pm On Apr 03, 2022
Simran94:


You need to stop arguing with those people.
They already see cheating as their birthright.
Unfortunately for this continent we are from, that’s all we will get while others are concentrating their energies on building their continents and countries, developing high-end tech to enhance their nations, the so-called male gender from Africa that believes only men should run the affairs of our continent only think about sex all day.

Quiet sad
Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by WoundedLamb: 5:00pm On Apr 03, 2022
Infidelity slowly kills your partner. I see people supporting infidelity on the man's side, and it's shameful and inconsiderate. You wouldn't want to subject a woman you love to such agony. You call Nigerian girls useless for sleeping around and in the same breath, you okay Nigerian men sleeping around; aren't you fighting with yourself already? The society is give and take, everything's Nigerian girls are today was enabled by Nigerian men.

Don't bring shame to your family in the name of selective Africanism.

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Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by MrNipplesLover(m): 5:01pm On Apr 03, 2022
Let's assuming I marry a woman now and she's my legal wife, please make she no go near any other man in a flirty manner or like romance - wey go fit lead them to getting intimate!

Ahhhhh...

u're gone!

What I detest most in this life is crime and cheating...

The reason why I fvck numerous pussies na because I no dey in any form of relationship with any lady - I dont want any commitment cos these bitchess ain't loyal... Let alone claiming being my fiancee - to the ultimate being my wife.... No time for that shiit...

Cos I know say I no fit dey faithful to one woman...

If I dey in relationship, I won't have the strength/will/power to double-date or cheat, but I know myself say I no fit dey faithful, it's better as I no dey in any relationship at all...

U wey come be my babe (not even my wife) go come go cheat?

You're already a motherfccking gonner the moment u attempted it...

I know the post is talking to married couples - but even if u be my GF, u cheat, ur ass is gone!

Case closed!
Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by MrNipplesLover(m): 5:02pm On Apr 03, 2022
Echoban:


Abeg I dey available Incase ur oga cheat in u. Let's both cheat on him back cool

cheesy grin cheesy grin grin grin cheesy

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Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by Kobojunkiee: 5:04pm On Apr 03, 2022
MrNipplesLover:
....U wey come be my babe (not even my wife) go come go cheat?
You're already a motherfccking gonner the moment u attempted it...
I know the post is talking to married couples - but even if u be my GF, u cheat, ur ass is gone!
Case closed!
All that na unnecessary rant... like you, she will move onto the next male out there... case closed! undecided

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Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by chaloskyx: 5:06pm On Apr 03, 2022
yes it is a marriage with no trust is a dead one
Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by MrNipplesLover(m): 5:07pm On Apr 03, 2022
Mjpem23:

Then we divorce, last last Na women Dey loose…
I never see single father begging for money or food online.
It’s only single mothers lol

When Sapa don romance their toto, dem go rush come online dey beg - awón beggi beggi crew... grin

Women wey dey drag power and liberty with men dey always end up becoming victims of the situation...

Dem want to be like men, shey God wey give men the liberty no get sense?

Women go learn the hard way....


I hail u, bro.
Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by MrNipplesLover(m): 5:10pm On Apr 03, 2022
Kobojunkiee:
All that na unnecessary rant... like you, she will move onto the next male out there... case closed! undecided

Wetin consign me?

That's why we are here naah...

We don't stick to one pussy, pussies full ground like covid19 spikes... grin grin grin grin

Be like u no sabi person wey u quoted... grin



Stay blessed, bro.
Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by Pimine: 5:15pm On Apr 03, 2022
Jennyclay:
Is a woman who's jobless you can threaten just like and not me my dear.
Aswearugaaad

Lol. They have lied to you, girlie.

Do you think your job will make you fulfilled? When you grow older, you'll have a family-shaped void in your heart and life which your job will fail to fill. At that point you'll realize that family is all that matters to you. Hopefully you've not sabotaged yourself by then.

You wan dey do cheating competition lol. Dunno why I'm even giving you this free advice sef undecided
Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by BigBashiru: 5:16pm On Apr 03, 2022
Exkandayee:
Just woke up few minutes and This is the first shit I'm seeing, what kinda question is, you know what op, cheating is not enough, just forgive her she just wanna explore more dicks

If a woman want to explore more dicks there's no problem with that so long as the dicks also give her money i.e. the dicks will be giving her money too not me....even better if she has a job so she can explore. Secondly if she explores dicks then she must never come back to my house she has to go and live with those dicks

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Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by Kobojunkiee: 5:24pm On Apr 03, 2022
MrNipplesLover:
Wetin consign me?
That's why we are here naah...
We don't stick to one pussy, pussies full ground like covid19 spikes... grin grin grin grin
Be like u no sabi person wey u quoted... grin
Stay blessed, bro.
Glad you acknowledge the fact in the same breath, d1cks also full ground too for women so all is like nothing change for anyone. grin

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Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by Bbbw: 5:32pm On Apr 03, 2022
Depending if they are fivvvkking
Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by Heavensent01(m): 6:09pm On Apr 03, 2022
Jennyclay:
But men have every right to cheat abi? because men are Polygamous in nature abi? Bull crap. See if you cheat on me, I will cheat on you too.

if he cheat on you, come and cheat on him with me, make I help am penetrate that your legs well and hanged it above Nigeria flag



you ladies are naive

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Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by Heavensent01(m): 6:11pm On Apr 03, 2022
Pimine:

Aswearugaaad

Lol. They have lied to you, girlie.

Do you think your job will make you fulfilled? When you grow older, you'll have a family-shaped void in your heart and life which your job will fail to fill. At that point you'll realize that family is all that matters to you. Hopefully you've not sabotaged yourself by then.

You wan dey do cheating competition lol. Dunno why I'm even giving you this free advice sef undecided


dont advise Jennyclay let her come and cheat on her bf with me, I bet her she no go return to the bf again


some of them have fish brain true true
Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by Nobody: 6:21pm On Apr 03, 2022
DEMZEE:


Most women are incapable of serving two masters at the same time

Women are born followers and can only follow one master

Women are incapable of loving and having sex with multiple men at the same time.
Female nature is to have sex with the best male mate they can attract, have his seed and raise his family

Men and women are FVCKING different
Pls did you come from the Stone age?.
Things have evolved now, nowadays some women cheat as much as their male counterparts and still keep their r/ship or marriage intact without the other party noticing a thing.

I hope your spouse isn't doing so to you due to your ignorance.

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