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My Friend with Benefit Is Pregnant by Dominion791(m): 8:06pm On Apr 05, 2022 |
I've been seeing this girl for the last few months, since early January of this year. Not an official relationship and we haven't really talked about what we are. Not sure exactly how to describe her so I'm just going to use her as a friend in benefit as the description. There was some emotion in our relationship but it was mostly sexual. I've always been really, really good about using condoms and this is the first time I've ever been in this pregnancy situation. I'm pretty unsure if I am the father. We had sex about twice a week for the last three months. So I have no clue who she saw or was with nor do I really care to be honest. There is more than a little doubt in my mind if I am the father. For what its worth she insists I am the father but I don't know. She learned she was pregnant on March 22nd. She Told me on 24th. I immediately encouraged her to get an abortion I've offered to cover it all cost . She said she would think about. Its been almost 2 weeks and no abortion. I spoke to her this morning and its becoming kind of clear that an abortion probably isn't happening. She is starting to get kind of tired of me pushing the abortion. I don't know what else to do. I'm starting to really get scared I am only 21 and I don't even have a job. I can't afford to raise a child right now and I certainly don't want a family right now. I'm thinking of telling her to reconsider the abortion or take care of the baby alone. What do I do now? 47 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: My Friend with Benefit Is Pregnant by Bola146(f): 8:07pm On Apr 05, 2022 |
I'm starting to really get scared I am only 21 and I don't even have a job. I can't afford to raise a child right now Kikikikikikikikikikiki.... aku oriire o, safe delivery Don't ever try to start what you can't continue 448 Likes 30 Shares |
Re: My Friend with Benefit Is Pregnant by Ammishaddai: 8:08pm On Apr 05, 2022 |
Oga, do yourself a favor and demand that you do a paternity test to verify if you are the real father of that child. If the results come out to be true, then discuss the terms and conditions you're willing to accept for child support . And lastly, you running or denying that you're not ready to be a "father " won't change the current reality that you've gotten yourself into a mess . Most especially if it turns out that you're the child's biological father 114 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Friend with Benefit Is Pregnant by Cutehector(m): 8:09pm On Apr 05, 2022 |
Bola146:make i follow you laugh 36 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: My Friend with Benefit Is Pregnant by Bola146(f): 8:12pm On Apr 05, 2022 |
Cutehector: Abi now, I'll donate size 1 Pampers to them with condoms when she put to bed 89 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: My Friend with Benefit Is Pregnant by tee59(f): 8:12pm On Apr 05, 2022 |
And so what? We should fry plantain? When you were sagging her, are we there? Abeg carry your wahala go jare. 127 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Friend with Benefit Is Pregnant by Victoria938(f): 8:13pm On Apr 05, 2022 |
man up and take care of your responsibilities. 34 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Friend with Benefit Is Pregnant by Cutehector(m): 8:13pm On Apr 05, 2022 |
Bola146:as in eh. That thing dey sweet o. He no tell us as he dey chook prick. That thing dey turn man head eh. 18 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Friend with Benefit Is Pregnant by Aboks(m): 8:13pm On Apr 05, 2022 |
Wen she tell u to use condom u no gree, say u no go pour akamu 4 her flask Now u don come dey ask wat to do My frnd u beta take care of ur responsibility Congrats in advance deadbeat dad I just dey look u 103 Likes 7 Shares
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Re: My Friend with Benefit Is Pregnant by Bola146(f): 8:17pm On Apr 05, 2022 |
Ammishaddai: Do you know how much they do DNA? He no get kobo, you can give him, he will appreciate it sir 154 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Friend with Benefit Is Pregnant by Nbotee(m): 8:17pm On Apr 05, 2022 |
Congratulations.. U are now a Benefit father in waiting 101 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: My Friend with Benefit Is Pregnant by Ammishaddai: 8:18pm On Apr 05, 2022 |
Bola146:I dey carry my own cross ; make him too learn the way of carrying his own cross 41 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Friend with Benefit Is Pregnant by Nobody: 8:27pm On Apr 05, 2022 |
The baby have come to stay, there is nothing you can do about it , no weapon fashion against it shall prosper, but on a serious note my advise to you is to allow her to born the baby, don't insist on abortion. 44 Likes 4 Shares
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Re: My Friend with Benefit Is Pregnant by DaudaTheSexyGuy(m): 8:28pm On Apr 05, 2022 |
Insist that she gets an abortion 7 Likes |
Re: My Friend with Benefit Is Pregnant by danietohbadt(m): 8:43pm On Apr 05, 2022 |
Ooti mor meme, sheybi o mo obo do ni? Maa do Lo ooooo 64 Likes 3 Shares
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Re: My Friend with Benefit Is Pregnant by Guest911: 8:56pm On Apr 05, 2022 |
That girl is not pregnant, things are hard she just want money 38 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: My Friend with Benefit Is Pregnant by decatalyst(m): 9:08pm On Apr 05, 2022 |
You are only 21 but you know how to embark on the kind of journey that birthed you. Please do not disturb us. 78 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: My Friend with Benefit Is Pregnant by talk2hb1(m): 9:10pm On Apr 05, 2022 |
Belle With Benefits!!! 31 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Friend with Benefit Is Pregnant by Jeon(f): 9:14pm On Apr 05, 2022 |
me want chop rice..
nothing concer me. 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Friend with Benefit Is Pregnant by Nicepoker(m): 9:17pm On Apr 05, 2022 |
Let's see one of your videos during the knacking session 13 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: My Friend with Benefit Is Pregnant by Connected1: 9:35pm On Apr 05, 2022 |
Imagine if she was your sister and another is thinking what you are thinking. Go take responsibility bro, query her well if she's sure it's your child, don't encourage her to do abortion against her wish because if it turns South, no be you go die or get damaged womb. 31 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Friend with Benefit Is Pregnant by Savedday: 9:37pm On Apr 05, 2022 |
9ja girls are out to add more burden to your life instead of softening it. They are nothing but useless. All of them... 29 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Friend with Benefit Is Pregnant by Nobody: 9:41pm On Apr 05, 2022 |
Nbotee: when bois of him agree no the Sleep all to gain Benefit money, you busy the Shag a girl for friends with Benefit. Now Benefit Baby don show... |
Re: My Friend with Benefit Is Pregnant by Realmi: 9:47pm On Apr 05, 2022 |
U are just 21, u dont have a job, but u can sleep with a girl.... Now u are scared Really Like u tot the product of sex is canada visa Wen u dey do oxlade style and probably filming it to, u were even having sex twice in a week for three months Time wey u for use dey find money U have plenty problems ooo, u are not just awear 91 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: My Friend with Benefit Is Pregnant by MrBrownJay1(m): 9:48pm On Apr 05, 2022 |
Dominion791: tell her the truth about how you feel...tell her you dont want this baby, tell her you have no plan to be with her nor in this baby life, let her understand from the get go that you aint got what she wants from you (aka step up to be that baby's father ESPECIALLY SINCE YOU WERE WEARING CD)....dont go about being all gentle about it, go straight to the point! this is a mistake that you both did, and that needs to be fixed. at best, she will be a single mother with a baby daddy! 8 Likes |
Re: My Friend with Benefit Is Pregnant by TheWolfen(m): 10:03pm On Apr 05, 2022 |
Don't worry. Nairaland family will support u when she put to bed. Go and get a job. In 9 months time you will be a father. Stay strong. Don't abort a baby. If the baby is truly of your DNA then get your butt up and take care of your responsibility 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Friend with Benefit Is Pregnant by TheWolfen(m): 10:10pm On Apr 05, 2022 |
Ammishaddai: Clash of crises 5 Likes
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Re: My Friend with Benefit Is Pregnant by Blunttruth: 10:19pm On Apr 05, 2022 |
Dominion791:Zip up, you people will not hear. You see am ? You are OYO. Go and borrow money to do DNA 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Friend with Benefit Is Pregnant by Jayrockk: 10:25pm On Apr 05, 2022 |
Omo u dey on ur own o ...Baby products don cost for market now o 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Friend with Benefit Is Pregnant by Pussyassasin(m): 10:29pm On Apr 05, 2022 |
Omo mehn crazy stuff everywhere 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Friend with Benefit Is Pregnant by Harry00(m): 10:49pm On Apr 05, 2022 |
congratulations in advance 1 Like |
Re: My Friend with Benefit Is Pregnant by Judybash93(m): 10:53pm On Apr 05, 2022 |
Well, congratulations my niggi! Three times a week for over 3 months no be small thing. You might need to talk to her in relation to if she wants to keep the baby or nah 2 Likes |
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