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Re: My Friend with Benefit Is Pregnant by litaninja(m): 11:27am On Apr 06, 2022 |
You had sex twice a week over the course of 3 months, but you're unsure if you're the father? Pray, what assurances do you need? Dominion791: |
Re: My Friend with Benefit Is Pregnant by Slynation(m): 11:29am On Apr 06, 2022 |
Ammishaddai:how can a jobless young boy afford paternity test |
Re: My Friend with Benefit Is Pregnant by adeboizy11(m): 11:32am On Apr 06, 2022 |
The moment you started brapping, you've been ready my brother. Congratulations. Dominion791: |
Re: My Friend with Benefit Is Pregnant by tonididdy(m): 11:33am On Apr 06, 2022 |
Guest911:.. So you think? She say she nor want abortion... So how or what is her plan to get money? |
Re: My Friend with Benefit Is Pregnant by Babyboyforeal(m): 11:36am On Apr 06, 2022 |
Condom will have prevent this from happening |
Re: My Friend with Benefit Is Pregnant by LaconicINC: 11:38am On Apr 06, 2022 |
Ventura1:na unemployment and idleness cause this one so, him de catch cruise since without knowing say he go catch baby soon, married people no get this much time for consistent twice a week sex to be honest! |
Re: My Friend with Benefit Is Pregnant by Bola146(f): 11:39am On Apr 06, 2022 |
virginchaser: Sir, this is a precious gift that millionaires are looking for one 2 Likes |
Re: My Friend with Benefit Is Pregnant by ama0423(m): 11:41am On Apr 06, 2022 |
You must be a muntula. You dey knack the kokolet 2 times a week without and expect her not to take in? When you dey chop alone...you no ask for advice. [color=#990000][/color] |
Re: My Friend with Benefit Is Pregnant by GboyegaD(m): 11:41am On Apr 06, 2022 |
Ammishaddai: Terms and conditions for child support? Is there any lower level we could degenerate to below this? |
Re: My Friend with Benefit Is Pregnant by cassyrooy(m): 11:44am On Apr 06, 2022 |
Dominion791:Typical case of "Oji Amu, Ejighi Ego" (You get only pe'nis to f"uck toto but no money for pocket to care for the responsibilities). |
Re: My Friend with Benefit Is Pregnant by virginchaser(m): 11:45am On Apr 06, 2022 |
Faber: Nice one but i am personally disturbed because i did not see where you wrote that you replaced any tree by planting seedlings. You made money by raping and abusing nature. 1 Like |
Re: My Friend with Benefit Is Pregnant by koyyess: 11:46am On Apr 06, 2022 |
Dominion791: ''I am a man ..i am a man...I can do what ever I want''. See am na? You are now asking people for advice. Mumu
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Re: My Friend with Benefit Is Pregnant by SURElee(f): 11:49am On Apr 06, 2022 |
Dominion791: Only 21 and you opened your mouth to mention" friend with benefit". Now benefit don hook you for throat. Congratulations Daddy of the year. |
Re: My Friend with Benefit Is Pregnant by Nobody: 11:49am On Apr 06, 2022 |
[quote author=Dominion791 post=111680468]I've been seeing this girl for the last few months, since early January of this year. Not an official relationship and we haven't really talked about what we are. Not sure exactly how to describe her so I'm just going to use her as a friend in benefit as the description. There was some emotion in our relationship but it was mostly sexual. I've always been really, really good about using condoms and this is the first time I've ever been in this pregnancy situation. I'm pretty unsure if I am the father. We had sex about twice a week for the last three months. So I have no clue who she saw or was with nor do I really care to be honest. There is more than a little doubt in my mind if I am the father. For what its worth she insists I am the father but I don't know. She learned she was pregnant on March 22nd. She Told me on 24th. I immediately encouraged her to get an abortion I've offered to cover it all cost . She said she would think about. Its been almost 2 weeks and no abortion. I spoke to her this morning and its becoming kind of clear that an abortion probably isn't happening. She is starting to get kind of tired of me pushing the abortion. I don't know what else to do. I'm starting to really get scared I am only 21 and I don't even have a job. I can't afford to raise a child right now and I certainly don't want a family right now. I'm thinking of telling her to reconsider the abortion or take care of the baby alone. What do I do now?[/quote Just let her be she we do d needful |
Re: My Friend with Benefit Is Pregnant by cassyrooy(m): 11:52am On Apr 06, 2022 |
Realmi:I just stand dey look you aswearyougahd.
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Re: My Friend with Benefit Is Pregnant by McCoy9067(m): 11:55am On Apr 06, 2022 |
"I've always been really, really good about using condoms" You are a mumu |
Re: My Friend with Benefit Is Pregnant by Ikem11(m): 11:55am On Apr 06, 2022 |
Na the 2 times a week for a month weak me. Me for whole month na once I dey chop sef. By the time you come back from work they think about waking up 5pm going back to work your dick dey weak. Na em this small boy dey nack back to back a week. I tire o |
Re: My Friend with Benefit Is Pregnant by mbjsuki(m): 11:56am On Apr 06, 2022 |
You seriously need help, truth be told. From the tone of your message, you sound nonchalant! You are not ready to be a father yet you went on a sex romp, from your statement 2ce a week. That is at least 8 times within a month! I'm sure if you deploy the same energy in looking for a job, you won't be in this equation. What do you think the outcome will look like? Every free gift comes with a price and consequences especially when not handled with care. Imagine your sister in this situation, what would be your stand/position? My brother, you are the owner of this pregnancy, the earlier you accept this fate the better. Go and tell your parents, this will only set your senses and make you get your priorities right. |
Re: My Friend with Benefit Is Pregnant by demoBaba: 11:57am On Apr 06, 2022 |
Bola146: Well.....as a comrade I won't let you down...I will provide you 70% of delivery items. Moreover count on me all the spirit that comrade's will take during the naming ceremony. 1 Like |
Re: My Friend with Benefit Is Pregnant by GboyegaD(m): 11:57am On Apr 06, 2022 |
qtguru: With this friend, no condom. |
Re: My Friend with Benefit Is Pregnant by yommyoke: 12:01pm On Apr 06, 2022 |
Congrats my brother, I'm not going to laugh on this comment even though I've been laughing tirelessly reading other comments.. One, You have to brace up o, if she insists no abortion, you can't force her to. Kindly know her relatives and talk to your own too, explain the market you don buy them, don't cover this issue too much cos as you said you don't even have a job at the moment, her relatives or yours may be kind enough to atleast care for her at this moment.. Two, baba go and hustle like maaad, get a job and start saving, taking care of babies not really an easy thing. Third, sit her down too, discuss terms and conditions, your negotiations starts from now, are you going to marry her or just a baby daddy. |
Re: My Friend with Benefit Is Pregnant by mikaael(m): 12:03pm On Apr 06, 2022 |
Ammishaddai: Paternity test doesn't come cheap o And considering how the OP wrote.....I'm not sure he is financially bouyant |
Re: My Friend with Benefit Is Pregnant by Grandkay21(m): 12:08pm On Apr 06, 2022 |
Friends with benefits at 21 can only be on Nigeria movie, don't try this at home you say no, Don't abort the baby is a murder , |
Re: My Friend with Benefit Is Pregnant by Faber(m): 12:09pm On Apr 06, 2022 |
virginchaser: Where you are living today, tree dey there before so what happened to the tree you cut down to build your house. We paved way for development and urbanisation. Trees are not meant to be everywhere. Flowers can do their job within the cities 1 Like |
Re: My Friend with Benefit Is Pregnant by Lifeemetu(m): 12:16pm On Apr 06, 2022 |
but it was mostly sexual. I've always been really, really good about using condoms We had sex about twice a week for the last three months. I'm starting to really get scared I am only 21 and I don't even have a job. A boy of 21years having sex twice in a week So no be today this world spoil. U no get work on top am. How you take they deceive the girl? Asking on behalf of Friend 1 Like |
Re: My Friend with Benefit Is Pregnant by lovchalice(f): 12:23pm On Apr 06, 2022 |
Take care of the baby alone Don't regret it at last ooo Hmmmm Tori dey for pig mouth Bola146: |
Re: My Friend with Benefit Is Pregnant by qtguru(m): 12:26pm On Apr 06, 2022 |
GboyegaD: Damn |
Re: My Friend with Benefit Is Pregnant by virginchaser(m): 12:26pm On Apr 06, 2022 |
Faber: Now, i got a little bit of your understanding. |
Re: My Friend with Benefit Is Pregnant by Nobody: 12:28pm On Apr 06, 2022 |
You want to become a Killer |
Re: My Friend with Benefit Is Pregnant by GboyegaD(m): 12:28pm On Apr 06, 2022 |
qtguru: Wetin dey damn? The guy think say belle na by age. I am suggesting you mentor him in programming as that would help him make the money he needs to earn a decent living. |
Re: My Friend with Benefit Is Pregnant by boxypane(m): 12:31pm On Apr 06, 2022 |
You are getting kini? When d Bleep Dey sweet, wey you Dey Dey wine n grind your waist, it was sweeting you. Tire ki u there. |
Re: My Friend with Benefit Is Pregnant by Nobody: 12:32pm On Apr 06, 2022 |
Lol..niggaz gon' learn the hard way |
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