MedicH:


A WORD IS ENOUGH FOR THE WISE

Do away with bias mind and make sure you are not doing things ignorantly this you are emboldment of wisdom.

Fiscus105:



Oga, " fundamentally" people hardly change.


Before you argue, pls make sure you understand the entire statement and not just words.

At my age, I think known people who would grow up together, right from childhood, some in primary school, who ,latter went same or different secondary schools, ditto universities, who latter working or jobless, and latter married or single, some in naija , while some outside etc.

The basic character that every one of us was displaying since we new one another ranging from 25-40 years now), such trait/character/behavior still manifesting till today.

Ur genes can never ever change, at time, present situation/predicament/status may slow it down but can never ever change it.

In psychology, it is taught that there are two major factors that affect people. These are genetics and environmental factors.

Everything you learned from your environment, including what agents of socialization taught you, is subject to change.

I don't remember talking about genes. To change or not to change is a personal decision. It's not a factor of what a pastor or one professor taught you. And people can expedite that change process in others.

You people need to unlearn some things.

I don’t even understand why any sane person will kill someone because they slept with their wife.
There are tons of Nigerian men who have cheated and are still cheating on their wives and yet their wives haven’t killed the people they sleep with, so what’s the fuss all about.

Gloccz:


https://www.nairaland.com/6379248/how-man-ended-jail-after

A magnificent advise indeed!
But now is there any advise for ladies? Because the last time I checked, husbands in Nigeria still cheat pass wives; husbands don't only sleep with the landlady, they also sleep with the house-girls, secretaries, coworkers, unilag students/ run-girls, friend's wives/ girlfriends, the list goes on...
My point here is: when it comes to cheating our attention mostly goes straight to wives/ girlfriends....Why?

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kaymart:

World cup tournaments aren't dashed out. They are fought for with strong competition.

ok

SmartPolician:


In psychology, it is taught that there are two major factors that affect people.

These are genetics and environmental factors.


Everything you learned from your environment, including what agents of socialization taught you, is subject to change. I don't remember talking about genes.

You people need to unlearn some things.

Hope they told u in that psychology, that ur gene, would still be exhibit her character, no matter environment you find urself, ur environment cannot [b]absolutely [/b]overshadow ur gene.

Reason why u will see real" pastors still doing her real characters even after born again.

You will see king displaying act of hooliganism even in palace.

Gov crossing illegal way, even as a sitting gov, it's endless.

Yoruba will say "eefin ni iwa, ko se n bo mole. (Your character is like smoke, nobody can effectively cover it) not even environment you find urself pls

Gloccz:


https://www.nairaland.com/6379248/how-man-ended-jail-after

Read this the first time you posted it

Lesson learnt already

Onyiiobi7735:

Lol! This one foaming at the mouth like a rabid animal thinks he is smart,not knowing he is displaying his stupidity.
So how does working in Owerri make you know the entire SE? Have you lived in every community of the entire SE?
Mental illness is probably the worst affliction.

Emeka, no follow person wey too know you argue.

U cant stop an unfaithful wife from cheating, but u can tell her that what she is doing is very bad. Na who dem never catch him/her cup never full.

Eagba:
slowpoke can you confidently state where you are from?

Marry an Igbo woman at your own peril

wasi9ice:
bros you deserve one bottle of malt

I really need it, my guy after all I pass through in the hands of that girl, nah God save me oh

TheMan3:
and you had to bring in your racist comment here. You are worse than the woman

Bla bla bla bla

Gloccz:


https://www.nairaland.com/6379248/how-man-ended-jail-after

Send her packing period

zelnababa:
chai, i remember control junction.

You know them too well

Almaigaa:


Marry an Igbo woman at your own peril

mynd44 lalasticlala Seun

Rule 2

Almaigaa:


Bla bla bla bla

racist

Fame1309:

You were traumatized in that experience, simply because you have her 100% love.if u want to have peace in relationship don't give ur all.

that was my greatest mistake guy, at a time some of my friends were advising me about that my babe that they always see her with a particular guy going out to a nearby restaurant to eat together always, I simply told them it is just her normal friend nothing else, that they should stop suspecting my babe like that, not until I found out she was cheating with him, i no fit look my guys self, i was ashamed, twas realy heart breaking......

Just walk in, let them see you and become a very nice to your wife hence , I bet you family meeting will follow after and someone must say something..... That will make everyone go home with their head in their pocket

Almaigaa:


I work in Owerri. I know the entire East like the back of my hand.

Now you work in Owerri before in other thread you travel into the east.

stanliwise:

I sorry for your kind of person. People like una na people wey dey inconclusive about everything

Enjoy your ignorance! Please let your wife keep spending beyond her means and tell you God is providing it for her. What do you know?

If you were to measure yourself against me you'd be found wanting. But as this is a faceless forum, people who haven't achieved anything in life come online and look for whom to attack!

You are the one who is inconclusive in all your doings!

Almaigaa:


You know them too well

Owerri, a city where Hotel is more than residential buiding

So na God she dey pass the bills to?
Keep deceiving yourself .

Michelle55:

If she bills you.... Problem!
If she doesn't bill you but relies on her Maker.. Still problem!
How exactly is trusting God to take care of her enough reason to doubt her now?
Don't let SM create doubts and problems in your relationship where there are none.

All the hard guy pretenders right now....

You are talking trash...a woman you loved and married and trusted completely and faithful to you are saying is not being owned by you. So is a public property free to relate with others the way she relates to you .
So marriage has no more essence if that's the case . You people should stop peddling nonsense ideas.

shadrach77:
For everyone saying don't trust women the truth is even if you don't trust a woman you will still be hurt by her actions if she chooses to cheat on you. The key to having peace of mind is learning not to see any woman as your property.

No matter how close you are, always see her as your companion/partner and not your property. You don't OWN her. Once you think that way, it will be easier for you to detach yourself from her emotionally and you won't be hurt by her actions.

Look at the above story - the so called wife who the man saw as his "property" went ahead to continue opening her legs for other men not minding the fact that she was the cause of his misfortune. He learnt a bitter lesson which is the fact that he never owned the woman in the first place. Rather she owned herself which is why she was always taking independent decisions regardless of how her husband felt

Gloccz:
You sef reason am? How is that justifiable? So you go kill the man and stay there as Jack Bauer Lol. Nor go try am oOo

Loool,I totally understand,the day the said policeman said it,I didn't believe it too,might be all these beer parlour assertions,but the guy was really standing his ground,as long you kill the person on the spot,not that you went out and came,it not an offence,
I say make I confirm from lawyer too

Johnnycastro18:
that was my greatest mistake guy, at a time some of my friends were advising me about that my babe that they always see her with a particular guy going out to a nearby restaurant to eat together always, I simply told them it is just her normal friend nothing else, that they should stop suspecting my babe like that, not until I found out she was cheating with him, i no fit look my guys self, i was ashamed, twas realy heart breaking......

Sorry for ur experience.May God give you the heart to love again.aleast 40%

Ofcourse! I wish married Nigerian women will realise this as well. All your husbands asides less than 5percent are philandering pen*ises. No point fighting another woman over a man-hoe. Know this and know peace..

Hmmm... True talk

Realmi:
Any man that can control his anger in that situation can rule Nigeria

Because E NO EASY

I'm telling u

Fame1309:

Sorry for ur experience.May God give you the heart to love again.aleast 40%

Who get that time... light yup my cannabis