She's obviously not a realist. She envisages things that are almost non practical. How can a lady insist u must build a house of ur own before contemplating marriage?

My salary is a little above #150,000 and that's what all responsibilities fall on. Except for other side pays(like my POS biz), that's all i depend upon to offset all bills that comes my way.

We've dated like a year plus and early February, i told her about my intention on seeing her parents. That's when i got the shocker of my life. She said before she can consent for us to go ahead, that i must build a house of my own. That she wouldn't live on rentals while she's married. I was shocked seeing almost all the neighbors in other flats are married with kids and they're doing alright.

We had a minor quarrel that night and out of anger, i asked her to leave. She went home that night. I called in the morning but she sounded off the line so i ignored her.

Since then we hadn't spoken. Ego hasn't let me bow to calling her again. I do love her tho and there's this feeling that's urging me to call her.


What should i do?. Pls advice

find another one ,life continues

Just breath, and You will find another one as if your girlfriend never run away.

SORRY

Go to church and do Thanksgiving. Half of your life problems have fled

posty56:
find another one ,life continues

U know its not easy

AlmonDeLemon:


U know its not easy

not my fault , you are attaching emotions to relationship,use your head

posty56:
not my fault , you are attaching emotions to relationship,use your head

Bro, I've been in it before

willyo:
My girl run o. Pls advice

Either you run away too or you run after her

Qatar2022:

Either you run away too or you run after her

She ran away. From ur comment, its bright to say I'm left with an option. Run away too. But to who? Where?

willyo:
My girl run o. Pls advice

Weyrey full this forum. U didn't even share what happened yet u need advice. Nawa o

willyo:


She ran away. From ur comment, its bright to say I'm left with an option. Run away too. But to who? Where?

To Jesus bro!

BurntSoul:


Weyrey full this forum. U didn't even share what happened yet u need advice. Nawa o

U won't understand. U should had asked me what happened.

SmellySperm:

To Jesus bro!

Lol

willyo:


U won't understand. U should had asked me what happened.

What happened then?

run with her

She want make you run after her too.

This is what i call RUNAWAY LOVE

BurntSoul:


What happened then?

She's obviously not a realist. She envisages things that are almost non practical. How can a lady insist u must build a house of ur own before contemplating marriage?

shyman03:
run with her

Funny tho. But I'm really missing her already

This love thing ehnn eee just tire person
Na me be your best plug for everything sexual enhancement

How many house her papa build before he marry her mama? Boss let that girl go, eventually you will be glad you did. In as much she making it look like she’s doing it all for your own interest. The actual truth is she doesn’t even give a bleep bout you.

How does she expect you to build a house with that income of yours? Building a house in this economy requires big capital. She is selfish and inconsiderate. How much is she going to support you with for that project? Nothing. So, those married couples and their children living in rented apartment are not okay abi? She lacks sense. May be she left cus you're broke. The outside will soon beat her come home or reset her brain.

Leave her joo...she dey ment

Nairaland be like

I boiled hot water put it inside bucket and now I want to put ma hand what do you think

Op call her zuru Ike

You see that urge wey dey worry you, use am hustle, get rich, build house. Make she hear am for people mouth but make she no set foot for that house. What nonsense. Was that how her mother was married

Bignuell:
You see that urge wey dey worry you, use am hustle, get rich, build house. Make she hear am for people mouth but make she no set foot for that house. What nonsense. Was that how her mother was married

Thanks man. Best I've heard.

9ja girls are out to add more burden to your life instead of softening it.

They are nothing but useless. All of them...

She said she wants someone that owns a house
She said u should build one ( have u built it, NO
She said she will not marry u until u build the house

You got angry and sent her out ( by urself oo)
She obeyed u and left

Now u are feeling like calling some one that gave u a condition that u have not met

U want to call her and tell her u love her( like she is not aware) na love go build the house wey she need

Instead of u too be thankful to God for removing this obstacle from ur life.. u are thinking of how to reconcile with the obstacle


Guy, wat exactly is the colour of your problem

She should know your financial capability and shouldn't push you to the edge, any lady that truly loves you will be OK with whatever you present,be it rent or landlord lol. Nobody should be surprised by this my comment, I'm attending tutorials on marriage.

Realmi:



She said she wants someone that owns a house
She said u should build one ( have u built it, NO
She said she will not marry u until u build the house

You got angry and sent her out ( by urself oo)
She obeyed u and left

Now u are feeling like calling some one that gave u a condition that u have not met

U want to call her and tell her u love her( like she is not aware) na love go build the house wey she need

Instead of u too be thankful to God for removing this obstacle from ur life.. u are thinking of how to reconcile with the obstacle


Guy, wat exactly is the colour of your problem

I'm letting go already. After all thats been it.i give in...

willyo:


She's obviously not a realist. She envisages things that are almost non practical. How can a lady insist u must build a house of ur own before contemplating marriage?

Same thing that light in complexion girl told my maternal uncle.