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Reason Why The Marriages Of Uneducated Couples Last Longer Than That Of Educated by LoveUdie: 8:34pm On Apr 06, 2022
Too much exposure can really mess things up, especially when you allow them to control you. Marriage is a great union ordained by God for humanity, and one of his reasons for creating marriage is the procreation of lives, happiness, etc.

However, many don't still understand how to make their marriage successful, joyous, and happy thereby causing problems in their home. Other than that, many believe that some set of elites is responsible for failed marriages in our society, this brought us to the topic mentioned above. They are;

1) The uneducated couple doesn't know much and you see them live with the little they know and adapt to whatever comes their way.

2) Marriage is kept by love, respect time, honesty, and good character. Many educated couples don't have time for each other. They always focus on their businesses. Since everyone is working and thinking about making money, buying home necessities or thinking about romance and intimacy is another problem.
They don't respect each other because of ego and hype about self-worth or educational background.

3) Many educated couples value certificates over the peaceful co-existence of their family which brings arrogance, lack of humility as well as a bad character, especially on the part of women. An educated man can tolerate an uneducated wife and vice-versa. Uneducated spouses emulate good things from educated ones and leave those bad ones behind them.

4) Sometimes if you bring education into your marriage it may not work. For instance, if a lawyer brings laws into their marriage, their house will turn into a Courtroom that will be full of arguments and disagreements. Sometimes the person that's supposed to be humble, loyal, and obey orders will be causing problems. Two educated people sometimes fight for superiority in marriage and this causes divorce.

5) Our forefathers have good marriages without university degrees and they lasted long, most educated women of this century think they have equal rights with their husbands thereby making.....https://www.allsinglesandmarried.com/2022/04/11-major-reason-why-marriages-of.html
Re: Reason Why The Marriages Of Uneducated Couples Last Longer Than That Of Educated by immortalcrown(m): 8:41pm On Apr 06, 2022
LoveUdie:
Too much exposure can really mess things up, especially when you allow them to control you. Marriage is a great union ordained by God for humanity, and one of his reasons for creating marriage is the procreation of lives, happiness, etc.

However, many don't still understand how to make their marriage successful, joyous, and happy thereby causing problems in their home. Other than that, many believe that some set of elites is responsible for failed marriages in our society, this brought us to the topic mentioned above. They are;

1) The uneducated couple doesn't know much and you see them live with the little they know and adapt to whatever comes their way.

2) Marriage is kept by love, respect time, honesty, and good character. Many educated couples don't have time for each other. They always focus on their businesses. Since everyone is working and thinking about making money, buying home necessities or thinking about romance and intimacy is another problem.
They don't respect each other because of ego and hype about self-worth or educational background.

3) Many educated couples value certificates over the peaceful co-existence of their family which brings arrogance, lack of humility as well as a bad character, especially on the part of women. An educated man can tolerate an uneducated wife and vice-versa. Uneducated spouses emulate good things from educated ones and leave those bad ones behind them.

4) Sometimes if you bring education into your marriage it may not work. For instance, if a lawyer brings laws into their marriage, their house will turn into a Courtroom that will be full of arguments and disagreements. Sometimes the person that's supposed to be humble, loyal, and obey orders will be causing problems. Two educated people sometimes fight for superiority in marriage and this causes divorce.

5) Our forefathers have good marriages without university degrees and they lasted long, most educated women of this century think they have equal rights with their husbands thereby making.....https://www.allsinglesandmarried.com/2022/04/11-major-reason-why-marriages-of.html
You are totally wrong. All your five points are sentimental, not factual.

Let me educate you a bit. Western culture is the reason for unhealthy marriages in the Africa. Most the educated people you are trying to describe are born and brought up with western ideologies.

Check most of those graduates who finished secondary school in non-urban areas and attended universities from their non-urban villages. Most of them have peaceful marriages. Would you say they are not educated?

Check majority of the couples that were raised in urban areas, even the ones that did not finish secondary school have marrital crisis. Would you say those dropouts who fail in marriage fail because they are educated?

Check those educated people who grew up in urban areas and were properly trained, they last in marriage. Are they not educated?

If education is responsible for bad marriages as you claim, all professors will have a marriage crisis and no uneducated person will have a bad marriage.

If you believe education destroys marriage, do not train your children in school. There are educated couples with good marriages. There are illiterates with bad marriages. It is all about bad character and bad culture.
Re: Reason Why The Marriages Of Uneducated Couples Last Longer Than That Of Educated by MMWandali: 9:13pm On Apr 06, 2022
Hmm

Sounds true in some respects and some instances

Not conclusive though
Re: Reason Why The Marriages Of Uneducated Couples Last Longer Than That Of Educated by Realmi: 9:19pm On Apr 06, 2022
Make I dey learn

So in a nut shell....illiteracy has an advantage in marriage ( from ur write up)

The only thing I can say is, Marriage is not a course that is being thought in school

It is an institution on its own....it is a school that u attend only wen u are married......so we can say every married couple were illiterate ( before they entered the marriage institution) before marriage

Education and marriage are two different institutions entirely...

Na pride dey worry some couples...and pride is not just for the educated....illiterates too have pride in them

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