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To The Married Women: Who Is Your Next Of Kin? by HopeAlive14(m): 8:10pm On Dec 04, 2014 |
Interestingly, most men put their wives as their next of kin. Who do married women use? Is it the husband or child; and why? |
Re: To The Married Women: Who Is Your Next Of Kin? by Nobody: 8:23pm On Dec 04, 2014 |
Next of kin for 5000naira when i get for account ![]() anyway, anything happens to me, all I have goes to my husband. 2 Likes |
Re: To The Married Women: Who Is Your Next Of Kin? by Nobody: 9:30pm On Dec 04, 2014 |
A lady I know very well used my laptop to apply for her masters degree programme, her husband is sponsoring the programme but when it was time to fill her next of kin, she used her younger brother, she only used her husband as one of her refrees. Some women are badt 3 Likes |
Re: To The Married Women: Who Is Your Next Of Kin? by Amuga(f): 10:06pm On Dec 04, 2014 |
my children, they are the reason i am working so hard. 3 Likes |
Re: To The Married Women: Who Is Your Next Of Kin? by alaura: 9:18am On Dec 18, 2014 |
My child 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: To The Married Women: Who Is Your Next Of Kin? by itstpia8: 5:29pm On Dec 18, 2014 |
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Re: To The Married Women: Who Is Your Next Of Kin? by LaRoyalHighness(f): 5:43pm On Dec 18, 2014 |
My darling husband... What I earn is so little compared to his.... But I know he would appreciate it. And I trust that he will take good care of my two children . 5 Likes |
Re: To The Married Women: Who Is Your Next Of Kin? by itstpia8: 5:57pm On Dec 18, 2014 |
lofty900: I wonder why |
Re: To The Married Women: Who Is Your Next Of Kin? by itstpia8: 9:27pm On Dec 18, 2014 |
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Re: To The Married Women: Who Is Your Next Of Kin? by KanwuliaJara: 9:45pm On Dec 18, 2014 |
My "houseboy"! ![]() |
Re: To The Married Women: Who Is Your Next Of Kin? by Agybabe(f): 9:57pm On Dec 18, 2014 |
My mum but my man can have it sha if she's deceased. No blame me...that woman don try for me. 3 Likes |
Re: To The Married Women: Who Is Your Next Of Kin? by itstpia8: 10:46pm On Dec 18, 2014 |
KanwuliaJara: |
Re: To The Married Women: Who Is Your Next Of Kin? by itstpia8: 4:19am On Dec 19, 2014 |
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Re: To The Married Women: Who Is Your Next Of Kin? by Pavore9: 4:29am On Dec 19, 2014 |
Ideally it should be one's spouse but things are happening that now gives excuse for not doing so. Just like the example l cited in the thread where men were asked if they could live in a house built by their wives, the woman inherited a twin duplex from her late father's estate, (they still live in a rented 3 bedroom because of hubby's ego) she put the name of her children on the property sidelining the husband n retaliation for his insisting on his younger brother being Next of Kin even after 9 years of marriage. The woman felt her husband did not trust her then why should she trust putting his name on the property. Though this issue is straining their marriage, the woman no send as she can't afford to have husband family feel it is also part of their brother's property! 4 Likes |
Re: To The Married Women: Who Is Your Next Of Kin? by itstpia8: 4:45am On Dec 19, 2014 |
hm, |
Re: To The Married Women: Who Is Your Next Of Kin? by itstpia8: 5:07am On Dec 19, 2014 |
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Re: To The Married Women: Who Is Your Next Of Kin? by itstpia8: 6:16pm On Dec 19, 2014 |
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Re: To The Married Women: Who Is Your Next Of Kin? by Nobody: 6:28pm On Dec 19, 2014 |
My mother. Men aint loyal.Too many stories that touch flying around. 3 Likes |
Re: To The Married Women: Who Is Your Next Of Kin? by Nobody: 10:16pm On Dec 19, 2014 |
My Sister |
Re: To The Married Women: Who Is Your Next Of Kin? by EfemenaXY: 10:53pm On Dec 19, 2014 |
lofty900: Don't be so quick to judge. She probably had her very valid reasons. What if her dear husband is a spendthrift-chronic-womanizing-drukard? Would you still suggest she puts any savings she has / her children's futures in the palms of such a man? 2 Likes |
Re: To The Married Women: Who Is Your Next Of Kin? by Nobody: 8:41am On Dec 20, 2014 |
EfemenaXY:but its d same spendthrift_chronic_womanizing_drunkard is spending hundreds of thousands to sponsor her, something many husbands can't do. So long as the man is responsible enough 2 cater 4 his family, it doesn't matter. Btw is it her bro that will secure her kids future ? 2 Likes |
Re: To The Married Women: Who Is Your Next Of Kin? by EfemenaXY: 9:19am On Dec 20, 2014 |
lofty900: It is NOT the same. If the man was responsible and financially savvy to start with, the woman won't have to resort to making her sibling / brother next of kin while her husband is still alive. By so doing, she's sending out a very clear message which is: I don't trust you to look after our kids in the event of my demise. Now I wonder why she would feel that way? Lemme guess: a nagging suspicion that this man would definitely marry someone else and have kids with her (not a bad thing as life goes on) BUT not only that, he'll use her money to raise his this other woman's kids, and probably spend her money on his second wife too. 3 Likes |
Re: To The Married Women: Who Is Your Next Of Kin? by Nobody: 10:17am On Dec 20, 2014 |
my dear husband 1 Like |
Re: To The Married Women: Who Is Your Next Of Kin? by Nobody: 1:05pm On Dec 21, 2014 |
EfemenaXY:interesting |
Re: To The Married Women: Who Is Your Next Of Kin? by Kay2009: 10:10pm On Apr 08, 2022 |
That might not be the case, I came across the link while searching for an explanation why my wife decided to use her brother as next of kin while am the sponsor. 1 Like |
Re: To The Married Women: Who Is Your Next Of Kin? by ZIMDRILL(m): 3:19am On Apr 09, 2022 |
Pavore9: both are right on thier own ways 1 husband is right to refuse to move in the house, becoz he might end up too relaxed not to have their property (aquire & built their own) and also he might also be abused by the wife for moving into a her family property 2 the woman is right also in puttining the kids names on the property as the property is being passed on generation to generation (like a family trust ) then imagine if she puts the hubby name and kids then she dies (hubby )will inherit the property and if he dies before the kids, his family (hubby) will grab it of which the property belongs to the kids and the mums side of family since the property was passed on by the wife's father wife has the right to protect passed on assets from her family side, not to end up in the hands of her husband family 1 Like |
Re: To The Married Women: Who Is Your Next Of Kin? by Fiscus105(m): 4:52am On Apr 09, 2022 |
Agybabe: . meanwhile, if ur husband chooses his mummy too for his next of kin just because his mother try for him too. How will you feel? You guys should learn how to make ur husband/wife be ur own flesh of flesh. Purge out mindset of marrying because of kids alone 2 Likes |
Re: To The Married Women: Who Is Your Next Of Kin? by TyroneP(m): 7:00pm On Apr 09, 2022 |
According to report of a sociological research I read online few weeks ago that was conducted by a financial institution in the US, most married women prefer to have one of their kids or family members as next of kin instead of their husbands which is the expected traditional practice. A lady I know very well used my laptop to apply for her masters degree programme, her husband is sponsoring the programme but when it was time to fill her next of kin, she used her younger brother, she only used her husband as one of her refrees. Some women are badt |
Re: To The Married Women: Who Is Your Next Of Kin? by ZIMDRILL(m): 10:01pm On Apr 09, 2022 |
Fiscus105: there is always conflict in such a situation especially if the two were legally married, mum will be contacted in the case of an event (incident or death) as the 1st contact but when it comes to other legal papers the surviving spouse is the one who get contacted |
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