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Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by deavicky(m): 7:02am On Apr 10, 2022 |
Retired Ashawo tring to return to active duty. |
Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by Inosky: 7:03am On Apr 10, 2022 |
AntiMen: What kind of stupid crush is that! Start loving your husband more, s*xing him more often, playing and praying more often with him and praying against this spirit of adultery trying to ruin your marriage. Start seeing him as your all and all you would share your body with. Secondly, remove your mind from that pastor, ignore him, and don't go too close to him often; you can also warn to stop some of his approaches that you're happily married. Thirdly, you can find away to convince your husband to change, may not mentioned the pastor may use a church member to present a case! Some married people you see filing for a divorce is as a result of this kind of situation, they will start crushing on another man or woman, and before you know it, they start sleeping with him or her, then, comes a divorce, fabricating one silly reason just to join their new found s*x mate. |
Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by DMCY: 7:11am On Apr 10, 2022 |
AntiMen: These happened to my fiancé, she has a guy she can’t stop liking citing they’re just friends, but she can’t stop talking to him. Well, we’ve both gone each other ways sha and I don’t want to know if she’s regretting it or not. Try as much as possible to stop that feelings you’re having if you don’t want to break your home. 1 Like |
Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by Johel(m): 7:11am On Apr 10, 2022 |
AntiMen: Hmmm....this is the second time...I know a married lady who's having intimate affairs with a fada (Priest)... Omo...y'all are on your own o,but think of the consequences if caught.. And again think of the almighty cos he's always watching (Fear of God). 1 Like |
Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by Holluwhakemmy(f): 7:13am On Apr 10, 2022 |
Transfer the feeling to your husband, Pray against the spirit of fornication it is well with you. |
Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by DMCY: 7:14am On Apr 10, 2022 |
AntiMen: The pastor or reverend knows you have feelings for him, he’s going to prey on that. I’m not saying your pastor is a bad person o, just saying spirit of the flesh can be hard to control sometimes |
Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by Ndidi2: 7:15am On Apr 10, 2022 |
AntiMen:do not make the mistake of telling anyone anything. Kill the nonsense feeling. You have the capacity to do so. Na Wetin u call ur dog naim people go de call am. 1 Like |
Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by liquidmetall: 7:18am On Apr 10, 2022 |
AntiMen: There's nothing you can do about the bossy atitude of men if you misbehave you go collect wotowoto |
Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by afamaustin(m): 7:28am On Apr 10, 2022 |
U are a demon |
Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by Pacyrus(m): 7:30am On Apr 10, 2022 |
Madam I must confess that you are eloquent and also a good grammar queen �. Keep it up! |
Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by GALAXY11(m): 7:30am On Apr 10, 2022 |
Offpoint1:i de brother,can we chat on watsap? |
Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by luluosas(m): 7:33am On Apr 10, 2022 |
You are demon possessed and you are hell fire bound if you don't repent of your immoral sins immediately. Come to Jesus Christ Temple Ministry, Warri, Delta State, Nigeria, immediately because it is the devil that has taken possession of your being already. Don't delay because the keys of death is not in your hands. Come now. I shall be expecting your arrival in church. AntiMen: |
Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by Nairalandite: 7:33am On Apr 10, 2022 |
AntiMen: I am in support of this. It might be an invitation of anarchy between you and your husband 1 Like |
Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by Gentlerespect76: 7:34am On Apr 10, 2022 |
schoolboymatt:It's not my interest to find out your sin; everyone shall stand before God in judgement. My point was only to warn her to thread with caution in order not to ruin her marriage with infidelity. |
Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by Gentlerespect76: 7:38am On Apr 10, 2022 |
Jondelng:No. Nobody is. Just warning her with the seriousness it deserves for her to be careful. Look, it's effective. I have chatted with her and she understands my position. Are you married? As a married person infidelity is adultery and can destroy the bond of marital union. |
Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by obailala(m): 7:39am On Apr 10, 2022 |
VOsimhen144:Crushing on a person is an INVOLUNTARY FEELING!!! i.e. the person crushing does not have any control over it. Heck! When will our Nigerian horde of hypocritical moral tutors ever receive wisdom? |
Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by Hardquy(m): 7:39am On Apr 10, 2022 |
AntiMen:It's a normal feeling. Go for him if you fall for him. Do things that make you happy, don't give a Bleep about others |
Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by West2019(m): 7:40am On Apr 10, 2022 |
AntiMen:Inbox me i have a secret talk with you |
Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by Gentlerespect76: 7:40am On Apr 10, 2022 |
tctrills:Why are you like this? |
Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by garriAndsugar: 7:40am On Apr 10, 2022 |
AntiMen:Una well at all? |
Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by themanderon: 7:41am On Apr 10, 2022 |
AntiMen: The Devil is tempting you and you are listening to his wiles. Avoid coming close to the Rev and perish that thought before it kaboooms in your face like a nuclear bomb. Whatever you see in him try to see in you husband too as there are qualities that made you marry him. |
Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by luluosas(m): 7:41am On Apr 10, 2022 |
This clearly shows you are only a churchianity and never a Christian. You only pretend by going to church yet you know nothing about God, neither does God knows you. Repent of your immorality now because you are already an adulterous according to the Bible standards Matthew 5:28. Better confess your adultery to your husband now, (that's if you really legally married in the first place) so that you can bring your senses back, because you are truly lost to sin right now AntiMen: |
Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by luluosas(m): 7:42am On Apr 10, 2022 |
Devil incarnate Hardquy: |
Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by luluosas(m): 7:44am On Apr 10, 2022 |
Shut that your dirty mouth there. This clearly shows you are living in fornication with your supposed husband. You lack what it takes to be called a Christian. You don't fear God at all AntiMen: |
Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by walesoflyf(m): 7:45am On Apr 10, 2022 |
AntiMen: Who be this one again!!! Una come full Nairaland these days... Loving your husband and crushing on your reverend, hmmm... "Talk about mixed priorities".. Madam abeg no come here to come dey complicate issues for people, with your complicated issues abeg... Na God we take beg you.. |
Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by chioma134: 7:49am On Apr 10, 2022 |
AntiMen: @OP, I understand your situation perfectly. You also posted this story on my thread. I understand these intense feelings, you can't easily wish them away. I'll advise you to always pray to God for help and read your Bible every day (the word of God is the food of the spirit, it will give you the strength you need to overcome temptation). Then as much as possible, limit physical contact with him. Go to church, but avoid stealing glances at him, worship your God and go home. No phone calls or chats with him, create an excuse why you can't. Never tell your spouse, he'll never understand and even if he does, he would be hurt. If you're sincere, the feelings will go and you'll come to realise that he's just like every other man with time. Also train your mind to recognize when your thoughts wander to him and quickly replace the thoughts with clean ones. For instance, if you imagine making love to him, quickly put your husband in place of him in your thoughts. And know that he won't be the only man you'll crush on in your lifetime. So develop the habit of nipping these feelings in the bud. But be sure the Reverend knows what he's doing. You're not imagining it. He's manipulating you, trying to seduce you without saying a word, and then allowing the feelings he has stirred up in you to bring you to his doorstep and possibly his bed. Be wise, my sister. NB: Just curious, your church setting sounds like any of the Orthodox churches eg Anglican, Presbyterian, Methodist or Baptist. Am I wrong? 3 Likes |
Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by constancefriday(m): 7:49am On Apr 10, 2022 |
AntiMen:Go to Church today, jump onto the stage while your Reverend is Preaching, kiss him and scream I LOVE YOU. That will help my dear! Lols |
Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by luluosas(m): 7:52am On Apr 10, 2022 |
And you just did without knowing it. Repent, you adulterous woman AntiMen: |
Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by Hardquy(m): 7:56am On Apr 10, 2022 |
luluosas:I am born of God |
Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by Bostin(m): 8:02am On Apr 10, 2022 |
AntiMen:First go and cast that DEMON in you out before it's destroy you . You need a serious and urgent deliverance. You're possessed . sorry |
Re: I'm Crushing Or Liking My Reverend, What Can I Do? by Nobody: 8:02am On Apr 10, 2022 |
see the way i read this your post you are married and you are falling in love with another man see you people need deliverance |
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