AntiMen:
I'm married with two beautiful children..
I love my husband no doubt....
But I noticed that I'm beginning to like my reverend, I don't know how to explain this...
He is married with children too but we are kinda fond of each other...
How do I stop this unusual feeling , I can't stop going to church cos my husband would be mad at me.

Your moniker is my wahalla ryt now

AntiMen:


So in a nutshell, you're asking me to explore my feelings with him?

abeg don't listen to him

Ezemeiyogu:



You can control what you think.
Until you tell yourself that you re not helpless in this situation, you will end up messing with this your crush.

If I want to hate someone eternally, it doesn't take me a day to develop a negative feeling and the person is my enemy.

Develop negative feeling, simple!

Highlight the steps, let's hear it out.
He has a loving personality, even my husband speaks well of him..
So I can't imagine any negative thing bout him and start hating him...

Really

sexyyoyo:


Proximity brings passion . I wish you can still read through my advice to you.
My best advice as a married man with experience to you is to first Stop the communication with him , if possible block him on phone ,social media without having access to you and deleting anything that will make you remember him . If he care to ask you why , simply tell him that's how you plan to live your life henceforth. Talking to the Rev or your husband about it is a NO No, the Rev might capitalise on your weakness and cause more damages to your mental health if he had feelings for you but scared to tell you.
You admitting to him gives him the go ahead .
Avoid any discussion or prayer session in his office or private places to avoid it started with a kiss before ending up with pregnancy that drugs or abortion won't solve but a bastard child .flee completely and be more closer with your husband than before so as to set yourself free from the bondage you are in now . Ire ooo. God will uphold you and your marriage so as not to fail because once you fail and tried that path , there is no turning back oooo. O ti bo niyen

We don't chat nor communicate, except he wants to pass a very vital info to me, and this happens once or twice a month, our communication mostly happens in the church and he's the one who usually initiates it.......
I might be somewhere, the next is just see him come close, calls my name, smile at me and pass or have a conversation if he wants to talk.

Take for example, some loving spirited guys adviced that I stay away from him and avoid close contact with him, I needed the advice, but this same pastor greeted me on two different occasions during evangelism, I couldn't look into his face , I was embarrassed for my friend who was beside me, he didn't greet her ,only me on two different occasions.....and at other time after church service, he held my hands to move back during prayers ,I didn't go to meet him, he always have a way of coming around me.....leading my feelings on but going mute until the next meeting in church....

BluntCrazeMan:
Your moniker is my wahalla ryt now

I've explained why I'm Antimen severally, go over my previous posts.

Another Adult baby

AntiMen:


But one thing is sure, I'll never ever sleep or have any form of intercourse with him.....

Therefore let him who thinks he stands take heed lest he fall. 1cor 10:12... You strike me as an atheist. So read and digest that passage about what the Bible says about he that thinks he's strong.

There is no strong woman anywhere moreso you that's head over heels for him already, so stop this cap of you being so sure of not having any intercourse with him...

Hell fire and divorce are doing choreography on your matter...
YOU BETTER GET YOUR HEAD RIGHT & CUT OFF THE REVEREND.
HIS WIFE MAY LIKELY NOT LET HIM GO & YOUR HUSBAND WILL SEND YOU PACKING.
DO YOU WANT TO RAISE KIDS WITHOUT THEIR FATHER THE TRUTH OF YOUR INFIDELITY WILL BE TOLD TO YOUR CHILDREN & they WILL HATE YOU FOR IT...
YOU ARE PLAYING WITH FIRE.

YOU WILL BE THE GREATEST LOOSER.

RECEIVE SENSE!
Shalom!°

AntiMen:
I'm married with two beautiful children..
I love my husband no doubt....
But I noticed that I'm beginning to like my reverend, I don't know how to explain this...
He is married with children too but we are kinda fond of each other...
How do I stop this unusual feeling , I can't stop going to church cos my husband would be mad at me.

seunlizy:


This person no get joy ooo
Can u imagine and even if u see her face weytin u wan do

Sis take am easy nah; I no wan see her face ooo. Just jolting her into reality

Whatever we feed grows , our minds we can all control . The moment you loosegaurd with Reverend , it'll be really hard to get out . Believe me the moment you get caught you gave your life a whole new direction . I hope you get over this for real . Don't even think he's a man of God , he's developing feelings just as you are .

From experience
Wiz Hamilton .

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Please ma'am with due respect kindly tell your husband about it and avoid the church totally or else the devil will fully use to have sex with him outta of your marriage.

AntiMen:


I will never give room for it..
It's the reason why I'm out here to seek help, I just need ways of becoming less fond of him, so to say...
Or Maybe I should just give it time...

AntiMen:
I'm married with two beautiful children..
I love my husband no doubt....
But I noticed that I'm beginning to like my reverend, I don't know how to explain this...
He is married with children too but we are kinda fond of each other...
How do I stop this unusual feeling , I can't stop going to church cos my husband would be mad at me.

It's Simple; LUST,LUST,LUST.Spirit of lust. Either you're possess and can't resist the devil deceiving you about LOVE for another married Man.
We admire people but don't want to put them in a position they are not.
Self Control the LAST FRUIT OF THE SPIRIT, that's if you even have the Holy Spirit

AntiMen:


Let me begin with your last question...Yes I am ..

Then about having intimate conversations with him, actually I don't.

Maybe I should tell you how this started, I've stated it before but I will again, He expects me to have attained a level of spirituality which I'm not interested in, so whenever he sees me in church he would remind me to come for activities that would aid my spiritual life but I ain't interested in all that shit, seeing that I didn't bulge, each time I'm in church , whether I'm close or far away from him, he always ensure he calls my name or greets me, I could be having conversations with two of my friends,he will call only my name and pass to show he's greeting me ..Sometimes I feel embarrassed for my friends cos I believe he's supposed to greet all of us and not just me...
So because of these actions I began to grow fond of him...I won't lie sometimes I steal glances at him in church and our eyes meet, but I always shrug it off..

I don't really discuss anything confidential with him, and our talks have always been in the front of others...there's nothing more to all of that asides the unusual feeling I'm having...

Recently, we had a chat about an issue that concerns someone else in church and I gave my opinion about the matter, after our conversation ,we said the usual good nights and I want to use the normal hands emoticon to indicate goodnight, mistakenly (God's my witness) I pressed the lips emoticon after goodnight, it was so embarrasing.
But I left it that way cos it was a mistake and never ever intentional.

This must be a fiction else you're masturbating on him already.

I'm married with two beautiful children..
I love my husband no doubt....
But I noticed that I'm beginning to like my reverend, I don't know how to explain this...
He is married with children too but we are kinda fond of each other...
How do I stop this unusual feeling , I can't stop going to church cos my husband would be mad at me.[color=#990000][/color]


IF YOU DON'T DEAL WITH LUST, LUST WILL FINISH YOU. MARK MY WORDS

AntiMen:
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My body is my dignity and pride, I got married a virgin, so not fornicating and commiting adultery was and is very effortless for me...

I have one very mad ego about this body....So I know what I mean when I say I can't get down with him..

I'm just having butterflies in my belly about this man and I'm just looking for ways to stop the nonsense......

but I guess it'll stop. Stop beating yourself or trying to force yourself to stop by all means. I have been in such situation before, all you need to do is just pray about it and keep living your life. Don't think or meditate on it if not it'll keep increasing. The infatuation will fade away before you know it sef. It's not a big deal and it's not love too....just mere infatuation. Stop seeing it as something very big

Natemrwiz:
Whatever we feed grows , our minds we can all control . The moment you loosegaurd with Reverend , it'll be really hard to get out . Believe me the moment you get caught you gave your life a whole new direction . I hope you get over this for real . Don't even think he's a man of God , he's developing feelings just as you are .

From experience
Wiz Hamilton .

Exactly! She's feeding the stuff that's why it's growing. Once she sees it as nothing, it'll fade away. It's simply infatuation.

You are a prostitute and a daughter of jazibell,God will pornish you, Olosho kill you there

AntiMen:


Let me begin with your last question...Yes I am ..

Then about having intimate conversations with him, actually I don't.

Maybe I should tell you how this started, I've stated it before but I will again, He expects me to have attained a level of spirituality which I'm not interested in, so whenever he sees me in church he would remind me to come for activities that would aid my spiritual life but I ain't interested in all that shit, seeing that I didn't bulge, each time I'm in church , whether I'm close or far away from him, he always ensure he calls my name or greets me, I could be having conversations with two of my friends,he will call only my name and pass to show he's greeting me ..Sometimes I feel embarrassed for my friends cos I believe he's supposed to greet all of us and not just me...
So because of these actions I began to grow fond of him...I won't lie sometimes I steal glances at him in church and our eyes meet, but I always shrug it off..

I don't really discuss anything confidential with him, and our talks have always been in the front of others...there's nothing more to all of that asides the unusual feeling I'm having...

Recently, we had a chat about an issue that concerns someone else in church and I gave my opinion about the matter, after our conversation ,we said the usual good nights and I want to use the normal hands emoticon to indicate goodnight, mistakenly (God's my witness) I pressed the lips emoticon after goodnight, it was so embarrasing.
But I left it that way cos it was a mistake and never ever intentional.

It's obvious that reverend is intentionally playing with your emotions.

As holy as he might appear, you may find out too late you were just the next victim, not the first.

How can a married, self-respecting man be singling out just one woman everytime for pleasantries? A married woman for that matter?

OP, open up to your husband.
Tell him everything but never tell him you've developed feelings for the man.

Curtail your interactions with the reverend and snub him the next time he singles you out for greeting.

He should stop the rubbish and all these will die a natural death.

I hate nonsense!

Roycemadeit:



Our feelings are born from different scenarios and influences, some are of no known origin. But, since the world will live would try to tell us to have a particular type of feeling for one person they fail to explain why we feel crazy about another person. It simply shows that our society doesn't know enough to tell us how to run our lives. Most people would rather run by the ideals of society relating to relationships than go by what their body is telling them. Most times when we please the expectations of the society we displease ourselves and when we please ourselves, which I must say is best, society will scorn us.

Having read through, I see some saying cry to God, relocate and all sorts of things. Yet, I will like to ask you a question... Will you be happier running from these feelings or will you be happier exploring them? Now, put in mind that marriage is an illusion and it shouldn't override our ultimate desires, which is freedom, but should be viewed as something we do solely because we want to experience who we are, In relation, to our partner... Peace!

May your wife continue exploring all her ultimate desires with different men which will make her very happy. After all, marriage to you is an illusion and may you later find out at the age of 60 that all your kids (4) are from different men she has explored with.

AntiMen:


I'm never ever crossing it, it's very effortless for me..No struggles..
I'm too proud of my body and I won't bring myself to been dicked by anybody...I got married a virgin, it's been 8 years, and I've never commited adultery..never given it a thought neither would it begin with my rev.

Can I please ask if you are born again?

This woman na ASHAWO na
i dont even think this story is real.fake story everywhere.
nd u get husband.
men are evil

Imagine and the so called husband go tak say im get wifa
u nd revd dey do eye contact.chai later na knacking go end am.

This is really serious... Trust me, you can't stand that man in privacy. You're likely not goona know what happens within just 1o minutes. You have feelings for him. It's evident. Now, the most important thing is avoid being in a private place with him. Avoid it even if your hubby is aware of you meeting him. This should be your number one priority.

AntiMen:


At first I liked him..
Until he started giving me unnecessary attention,that's when crushing began.

As I talk to you, I'm in church ,I try as much as possible to focus on my purpose for coming but my mind keeps wandering cos he's here....

I think the best bet is to tell him to avoid me, probably that will make me feel better....
Or I pray he gets transferred from here.

AjiBussu:


May your wife continue exploring all her ultimate desires with different men which will make her very happy. After all, marriage to you is an illusion and may you later find out at the age of 60 that all your kids (4) are from different men she has explored with.

Marriage should not change anyone especially their desires and btw no one can fulfill all the desires of their partner, just as no one should claim to own a person child or partner, the fact that your father a person shouldn't give you the idea that they are yours.

AntiMen:


So in a nutshell, you're asking me to explore my feelings with him?

I am asking you to weigh it onwho benefits the most. So, that whatever decision you take you will find closure.

AntiMen:


Did I force the feeling on myself....
It grew naturally.

I pray your husband also develop this natural feeling for your church choir mistress

AjiBussu:


May your wife continue exploring all her ultimate desires with different men which will make her very happy. After all, marriage to you is an illusion and may you later find out at the age of 60 that all your kids (4) are from different men she has explored with.

AntiMen:


So because you wan give advice, you turn rapper...
Thanks.
You've been noticed, now get off my mentions, if you have nothing reasonable to say.

... Reasonable like treasonable? Those who commit treason may go to prison in due season. Of course, the fear of GOD is the beginning of wisdom. Flee from sin don't resist sin. Evil belongs to the devil... So, how would you do it or deal with it, if you begin to like me, have feelings for me or crushing on me; and not your pastor?

firstly,there is nothing bad on crushing on d opposite sex.....bt get d fact u are married and if u know d feeling is getting out of hands i advice u leave the church or parish