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Re: Is Modern Marriage A Scam? My Own Story by ExcelDBM: 6:19pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
ukaface: Of course you know the benefits . |
Re: Is Modern Marriage A Scam? My Own Story by Fxwarrior: 6:19pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
ibechris: You made very valid points. Many don't even discuss the essentials before marriage. It is questions like: "Have you eaten?", "When are you coming to see me?" etc 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is Modern Marriage A Scam? My Own Story by ExcelDBM: 6:21pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
ibechris: Lol, what is there in you that is worth being envied? Being a slave to a woman? (Laughs) well it's pointless to reply you further. 2 Likes |
Re: Is Modern Marriage A Scam? My Own Story by michael1508: 6:22pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
ibechris:My brother,there are no formula to this thing called marriage. You are happily married today still boils down to you having an understanding, matured woman who is truthful in her words and action, which can't be said of many women out there, a lady can paint her self good in your books just to satisfy her desperations, did you guys take an oath while you were making those vows and commitments?,I bet no. What would you have done if after getting married to her and she suddenly change to a complete stranger,it's a known fact that women can play multifaceted roles just to get what they want from you,when they say someone is manipulative in nature,it means one is cunny in making sure everything is in their favour, don't you think this is one of many traits of manipulative people. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is Modern Marriage A Scam? My Own Story by lexander(m): 6:22pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
ibechris:that's because you're in africa if you're living in the western world you would think twice before you try such and those complaininy about marriage been a scam two words for you "shut up" kindly disregard my comments if you're outside africa |
Re: Is Modern Marriage A Scam? My Own Story by Oyiboman69: 6:23pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
Raalsalghul:its a copy and paste things... the style and settings made it obvious.... |
Re: Is Modern Marriage A Scam? My Own Story by addexx: 6:23pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
Hathor5: It takes 2 to work for it madam . Didn't the Gospel artiste that died recently worked on her marriage? Didn't she? If you married a lion there's nothing you can do to make it act as a little lamb. You're are stuck with a lion's trait for life. |
Re: Is Modern Marriage A Scam? My Own Story by Fxwarrior: 6:24pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
I once dated a girl who made it known that I would be cooking for her on weekends. I had to dodge the bullet. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is Modern Marriage A Scam? My Own Story by Princewill1(m): 6:26pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
Commonsensically marriage in this present generation is a waste. No man need any long sermon to know this. But after reading the 38th LAW: Think as you like, but behave like others and knowing the conservative nature of the society we are living in. I might eventually marry but with an 'exit plan' in case things turn sour. I think most men who are stuck in bad marriages today while suffering and smiling never had an 'exit plan'. 3 Likes |
Re: Is Modern Marriage A Scam? My Own Story by lexander(m): 6:26pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
Fxwarrior:that's usually the way it worked in the days of our great grand fathers but on nowadays the dating phase shouldn't and mustn't be used as the sex phase (unless you ain't planning to settle down with your current partner) that's when you plan together and try to find out what your partner thinks or wants . Like the wise saying. "can two walk together except they agree". A broken relationship is better than a broken marriage. |
Re: Is Modern Marriage A Scam? My Own Story by Johnchrix(m): 6:26pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
Nice thread |
Re: Is Modern Marriage A Scam? My Own Story by phemmyfour: 6:27pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
advanceDNA:Read again, you are missing the main point |
Re: Is Modern Marriage A Scam? My Own Story by Murphyenemuwe: 6:27pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
Lol... When I was much Younger I questioned so many things foolishly. Like how will you tell me I must not disclose my earnings to my partner? Then why did God say we're one and not two? Mumu me. Not married tho but to form faithful guy I go post my paycheck to my girl. She was supportive to be sincere. But the moment she knew money was flowing in she just has this desire to ask Everytime. She's working o. I learnt that lesson the bitter way. Before we broke up if na 10 naira be contract wey enter I go tell am 2 naira. A war was waged against marriage the moment they conceived in their hearts men and women should be equal. They were never meant to be equal. As weird as this may sound, women were never created to have power. I'm talking in the confines of marriage. Submit to your husbands and husbands should love the wife. Civilization changed the rules and we shouldn't expect the same result ExcelDBM: 1 Like |
Re: Is Modern Marriage A Scam? My Own Story by pocohantas(f): 6:27pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
FunnyDude: Well said. He has time to be responding to them. Marriage could be sweet and bitter. It is the same in relationships too. If it is taking the toll on you, then feel free to leave. Don’t go trying to poison the mind of married people then you wonder why there are no stories of good marriages. No one needs you venom in their lives. 2 Likes |
Re: Is Modern Marriage A Scam? My Own Story by lexander(m): 6:28pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
addexx:yes you're right a good marriage is the result of effort but the effort of both parties must be involved. |
Re: Is Modern Marriage A Scam? My Own Story by Femi8586(m): 6:30pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
ibechris: This man, you suppose go dey do comedy aswear So buying properties in the name of your wife is an EXCLUSIVE BENEFIT to you abi? I'm even tempted to call you a SIMPle man. In the end, she owns everything and nothing for you. I just hope your wife is godly sha cos if not and she wan treat your fuckup, you go hear weeeen Even if your wife gat properties, the tendency is very high she'll prefer to put her kids, younger sisters or her mother's name as next of kins than to use your name. Everyone knows marriage favours women by default but men should also put themselves and their happiness first in anything. Not always trying to please the opposite gender even at their own detriment. |
Re: Is Modern Marriage A Scam? My Own Story by ukaface(f): 6:30pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
ExcelDBM:really, I don't. |
Re: Is Modern Marriage A Scam? My Own Story by gigabyte13: 6:34pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
odinson1: Eyaaaah, we gained alot from marriage bro. Countless gains, l wish l had married earlier sef. Well, sorry in your own case Na devil you marry MARRY A DEVILISH PERSON AND ENJOY HELL ON EARTH |
Re: Is Modern Marriage A Scam? My Own Story by Nahunger(m): 6:36pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
ibechris: You say? |
Re: Is Modern Marriage A Scam? My Own Story by Uchesis: 6:36pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
odinson1: I swear that guy no wise at all. Its like buying properties for your wife. That is not an achievement at all. If they divorce tomorrow the wife owns everything 1 Like |
Re: Is Modern Marriage A Scam? My Own Story by mayorkent(m): 6:39pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
Omo , this marriage something is becoming scary ... |
Re: Is Modern Marriage A Scam? My Own Story by Toks2008(m): 6:41pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
ibechris: Just thank GOD for the type of woman you have. |
Re: Is Modern Marriage A Scam? My Own Story by superlicious: 6:42pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
This is my candid advise to you. 1)There is no love in your marriage. I hope you did not make your girlfriend your wife and your wife your girlfriend. 2)Your wife is lazy and is not well brought up. What you guys need is marriage counselling. She needs to learn a lot of things. How old is she? A lot of 25 years old and below are spoilt and don't know how to take care of a man and the home. 3) Before getting married you need to know the personality of your partner and how to deal with it.Choleric, melancholic, phlegmatic, sanguine. How long did you know date her?. My preferred solution is to go for marriage counseling. She needs to hear the truth from a third party. |
Re: Is Modern Marriage A Scam? My Own Story by Anuoluwa12345(f): 6:43pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
Lmao, there are still good females tho. Provided you are also a good male. NewSoul: 1 Like |
Re: Is Modern Marriage A Scam? My Own Story by BigBashiru: 6:44pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
babajeje123: If that war is fought the woman will lose because they age faster and she must now also henceforth collect money from the competition |
Re: Is Modern Marriage A Scam? My Own Story by Xhuntra: 6:46pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
ibechris: You are actually dafter than I think 2 Likes |
Re: Is Modern Marriage A Scam? My Own Story by BigBashiru: 6:49pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
Marriage where the woman does nothing to bring in money should be banned. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Is Modern Marriage A Scam? My Own Story by BluntTheApostle(m): 6:49pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
ibechris: Your own mumu no get rival o. If that woman divorces you, your own don finish be that. 2 Likes |
Re: Is Modern Marriage A Scam? My Own Story by BigBashiru: 6:51pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
ExcelDBM: Marriage benefits women more.... when you get married u sign up to take care of an expired olosho all ur life..... u sign up to take care of her financially all her life.... that's why they love it and that's why the financial stress is too much for men .... 1 Like |
Re: Is Modern Marriage A Scam? My Own Story by BigBashiru: 6:55pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
Reference: The responsibility needs to be worth it... |
Re: Is Modern Marriage A Scam? My Own Story by Kunja2: 6:55pm On Apr 17, 2022 |
ibechris:so in your opinion, all marriages that has ever existed in this life is all bliss? There was never any case of any wrong marriages at all? |
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