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Re: Truth Or Dare Sex Video: Chrisland, The Parents Or The Girl - Who Is To Blame? by Crafteck1: 4:06pm On Apr 18, 2022
You said it all
Re: Truth Or Dare Sex Video: Chrisland, The Parents Or The Girl - Who Is To Blame? by eldoradoxx: 4:07pm On Apr 18, 2022
Kingpin1000:
When I was in Secondary school,one of the most stubborn boys got into problem with the school authority, the principal called his father,whi happened to be a high court Judge to report his son to him.
The father came to school with 3 of his other sons. This boy happens to be the last child of 5 boys but He was a pain in the ass, He was very big and muscular but when his brothers came,they dwarfed him. All of a sudden one his brothers head butted him and He fell to the ground like a paper, his uniform was soaked in blood within minutes, they tied him to a desk and our able Goliath who has lead us to so many war was crying like a baby, we were all shocked. The father demanded for canes. The man was just flogging only the feet of the boy the boy shouted until he lost his voice and became weak, our principal became afraid and started begging the father to take it easy, it was then they loosed him and dumped him behind their hilux and drove away.. we did not see our Goliath for 2 weeks but when He came back, He was sober and reserved.
No more trouble till He left school. Rumours had it that He was taken to the hospital and when He recovered his father locked him up.

Parents of this generation where we all belong to have lost it. Many kids are not being properly disciplined at home like their parents were during their own formative years because they claim not to want their children to experience whatsoever they experienced growing up.

The mother of the little girl is busy blaming the school when its obvious that she failed in her parental obligation to raise a proper and decent girl. The fact that her daughter never told her that she had sex (whether u call it rape or not, that's not an issue here), clearly shows how morally low she was raised.
I would prescribe the kind of punishment we saw our mums meted to our sisters those days she suspected any kurukere movement. She bapisted their punana with enough pepper and serious flogging that non dare misbehave ever again. That's what that girl needs now, otherwise she is a born LovePeddler.(Forgive me)

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Re: Truth Or Dare Sex Video: Chrisland, The Parents Or The Girl - Who Is To Blame? by Hotzone(m): 4:07pm On Apr 18, 2022
Hope u are not the owner of that school though ur write up is summary of our society
Re: Truth Or Dare Sex Video: Chrisland, The Parents Or The Girl - Who Is To Blame? by Livelystone01: 4:07pm On Apr 18, 2022
Jennyclay:
You'll also agree with me that, students spend more time at school more than at home.

I know to an extend parents are also to be blamed But then you should also consider the fact that they spend over 400k per term, to ensure the school discipline their children properly... I mean the services are not for free. They paid for it.

And students spends more time in school. So why can't they discipline them
Stop trying to cover up for the defective attotides of so many parents today please. How I it possible for a child who's not in boarding school to spend more time in school than at home?

As for your take about disciplining the children, are you asking for discipline from the schools or what? Have you forgotten that private schools are afraid to discipline pupils because most parents have warned them off it?

Well, in this case, I blame the school for concealing the incident, but the action of the pupils in the video shows the disfunction in the family unit today.

The skill at which the child was engaging in the sex should show you that the parents have failed, or maybe, pampered her into that level due to "wokeness". They are not new to that act at all, both herself and the boys.

I need to shock you with this.
Yesterday, I went to visit a family friend. I called the son to help me with his phone to check for something, which he did. As I went to his chrome to browse, I was shocked to see the different tabs were filled with xvideos, brazziers or whatever they call it and other porn sites. I became irritated and surprised that a 10 year old child couldn't check for anything else in his phone but sex videos.

I wanted to talk with the mom but I didn't because I can't actually find a way to bring the topic up with her. My plan is your talk with him and let him know the danger of such action.

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Re: Truth Or Dare Sex Video: Chrisland, The Parents Or The Girl - Who Is To Blame? by Nobody: 4:07pm On Apr 18, 2022
Am I the only one that has not seen the video of the actual incident??
Pls if you have the video ,dm to me on Whatsapp, I'll send you airtime
08100910509
Re: Truth Or Dare Sex Video: Chrisland, The Parents Or The Girl - Who Is To Blame? by Theunbothered: 4:07pm On Apr 18, 2022
VeeVeeMyLuv:
The person blaming the school is a goat seriously

The guy lied to get sympathy for his friend because he thought nobody would ask questions.
Re: Truth Or Dare Sex Video: Chrisland, The Parents Or The Girl - Who Is To Blame? by Amositygraphicz: 4:07pm On Apr 18, 2022
This is not rape case as the girl's mother claimed na,,, the girl should even be arrested, she was the one riding the boy willingly na, even laughing sef... Failed parenting,
The room they were seems to be guys room even, so what is she looking for there.
Re: Truth Or Dare Sex Video: Chrisland, The Parents Or The Girl - Who Is To Blame? by sisisioge: 4:07pm On Apr 18, 2022
How were 10years old left alone to be playing rough play in a strange country by themselves? All these rubbish rich schools sef! Rubbish!
Re: Truth Or Dare Sex Video: Chrisland, The Parents Or The Girl - Who Is To Blame? by Amositygraphicz: 4:08pm On Apr 18, 2022
Jinsliga:
Am I the only one that has not seen the video of the actual incident??
Pls if you have the video ,dm to me on Whatsapp, I'll send you airtime
08100910509
Check on twitter search for chrisland video
Re: Truth Or Dare Sex Video: Chrisland, The Parents Or The Girl - Who Is To Blame? by Crafteck1: 4:09pm On Apr 18, 2022
Sltp:
Just shut the Bleep up! The school takes all the blames. First, they mixed girls and boys in the same room and didn't give them attention. Then tried to cover up the sex tape including threatening the girl to never tell her parents what happened.

They could have been trying to protect schools image or the girls age or everyone, its a mixed school, the community is to blame for exposing them to what they shouldn't be seeing often, no matter how school tries to secure them, kids would find a blindspot, even at home, they will find, its just easier blaming the school as usual, we are not to blame, its the school, continue
Re: Truth Or Dare Sex Video: Chrisland, The Parents Or The Girl - Who Is To Blame? by delpee(f): 4:10pm On Apr 18, 2022
Very sad situation. I'm wondering if the girl was exposed to s=x too early in life by a paedophile. More often than not, parents are unaware because they're warned not to talk about it. Still, parents need to do a lot more due to the overwhelming information available to kids online. One must be able to derive enough information from a child or those around him/her to guide them well.

The schools need to do more by getting information from the compliant students for proper monitoring and discipline. They certainly didn't monitor them well enough. Sadly, we don't have many kids as in the old definition anymore. These ones wake up to www.com. and know everything. The school needs to put down their feet firmly and discipline without sentiments and commercial considerations.

Peer pressure is another major factor. This wannabe style of the younger generation is getting out of hand. They want to fetch water without getting to the river first....translated from a Yoruba saying.
Re: Truth Or Dare Sex Video: Chrisland, The Parents Or The Girl - Who Is To Blame? by 07kjb: 4:10pm On Apr 18, 2022
Hypocrites the same people lamenting here were the ones supporting mercy Johnson when she drags her child's teacher for flogging her


The stupid minor should be blamed here the greatest advise my parents gave me when growing up is no one trains a child....it has so many meanings

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Re: Truth Or Dare Sex Video: Chrisland, The Parents Or The Girl - Who Is To Blame? by bukatyne(f): 4:11pm On Apr 18, 2022
Jennyclay:
Nigeria Elite schools are just loosing value every single day.

~No good morals
~Lack of discipline
~Bunch of lazy teachers waiting for month end to receive their peanut.
~No code of conduct

I feel Elite schools are just for mere business ground. They are just ripping parents off their hard earned money. I can't be paying over 400k in a term and you can't instill good morals on my kids.

Now, I think parents should consider registering their children in government schools.

It is not an elite school thingy

The students are just more stupid to put their stuff online.

I went to secondary school in the late 90s/ early 2000s and I had mates get pregnant, have multiple sex partners, pregnate girls, take drugs, seriously bully students etc etc etc

These things are not as strange as we want to paint them.

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Re: Truth Or Dare Sex Video: Chrisland, The Parents Or The Girl - Who Is To Blame? by President2001(m): 4:11pm On Apr 18, 2022
I think the op is still under parental care, there's nothing reasonable in your post, not all comedian or musicians promote sex and saying trash blaming Parent of the lady is out of it
Re: Truth Or Dare Sex Video: Chrisland, The Parents Or The Girl - Who Is To Blame? by Nobody: 4:11pm On Apr 18, 2022
1. Chris land schools should be under lock and key indefinitely. The reason is because the school in my opinion is after the money they make from parents instead of moulding these rich spoilt kids to become somebody in life.

2. The parents need to take the bulk of the blame here because they completely exposed the girl to adult content maybe ignorantly. As far as am concerned, the girl is not a virgin at her age either.

From the video, I can confidently say the girl has been indulging in sex before that very day. How come she didn't tell her parents about it, it's because she has been having sex and getting away with it. It wasn't a rape, I have seen the video.

How come the mother never knew her daughter is no longer a virgin, it's simply because the girl has been neglected and a huge distance in communication between she and her mum in particular.
Re: Truth Or Dare Sex Video: Chrisland, The Parents Or The Girl - Who Is To Blame? by olumike001(m): 4:12pm On Apr 18, 2022
chatinent:
Who Should We Blame: Chrisland, The Parents, The Girl Or Society?


Who should we blame?

Before una blame, ask yourself, is there any content maker or skit maker in Nigeria, so- called comedians, that you can feel relaxed watching their content with your kids? Mr Marcaroni? Sydney? NastyBlaq? Even BrainJotter has given kids new slangs: “you no get yansh.”

They all promote sex! It's always been sex! Sex! Sex! And guess what? We find nothing wrong with it!

And so?
That's why children are experimenting! They watch everything you watch! In Nollywood, if it's not teaching the use of cult language, it's getting rich quickly, or sex! In music, it's sex and leaked tapes! They have all these at their disposal in a smartphone.

There's one movie..I think Selina Tested blabla...what's the usefulness of that movie in society? And to say it has millions watching it baffles me! The movie clearly promotes cultism!

Both in Hollywood, it's either magic, being possessed by a superhero witchy trait, having a bad side, living a double life, shooting, or sex! And many children have watched some movies before you!

What else?!

Talking about Chrisland, let's not pretend we don't know these are happening around us. In many schools, porn and leaked tapes are in gigabytes on their phones. Our music is rotten. Celebrities with a loose sense of fashion. The world is breeding a new era of what you parents failed to prevent! And that's why when you talk of a girls-only school in Nigeria, you think of lesbianism. Because it's true! They do it at whim! A girls-only school in Nigeria has male staff members and some of them use them! You see lots of abortion pills and all that from secondarians! Secondarians!

Children are having sex even under your roof! Don't scream God forbid! It is! Some are part-time prostitutes! Yes, some are!

Back to Chrisland...
Just like every other schools in Nigeria, their best is not enough! The I-dont-care life of teachers is becoming unbecoming and that's why these events occur at whim! Stricter measures must be taken and members of the opposite sex should never be allowed in private areas! Even in public areas, there must be in groups!


Should Chrisland be locked down?

Why?

Inasmuch as Chrisland should be very careful while mixing both genders and putting more measures, it's also the responsibility of parents to train a child properly and guide what they consume morally.

Was it really coverup? Even if it was, Child porn should never be a breaking news! Chrisland took action by suspending the culprits! I understand Chrisland has been in some old mess of late but, haba, judge cases individually. Chrisland is sb’s business and schools have ethics. You wanted them to publish the news? News of child porn?

To stain the image of the school?
The parents?
The girl?

They tried to leverage those!
They tried to die the matter even though it was a serious one!

They tried to allow the matter die in the school!

Do you know the reputation of the little girl in the video now, and in the future after you folks linked and shared the video!
That's what Chrisland were protecting!

Do you know?

Omotola’s daughter is a product of Chrisland. Of course, we saw her wearing panties and bras recently. She's a role model. Tueh! What are the adults teaching the children? That big bombom is an asset! That breast is a green card! That sex is the redpill!

There are few reasonable people in the entertainment industry! Others promote sex!
But don't they say majority wins the vote?
Nude has been given a new name: Bikini. Posting adult content and rubbish is now called “cruise.” Walking naked is now called sexy.

The internet is saturated with diff formats of pornographers. If it's not useless Ruger singing “i want to fxxck your pu pu na,” it's that old layer Tiwa exposing her nude, or that agbero is jeans Oxlade.

But they'll come out and be shouting “lockdown Chrisland, lockdown Chrisland.”

Hanty, before they lockdown Chrisland, y'all should learn to put your panties inside clothes! Na y'all idiots dey spoil pikin.

The parents?
Make una train una children properly! You allow them consume enough pornography! Music, movies in the right proportion and content is good. Music and movies with any sexual activity is bad for them!

The parents of the girl should stop forcing the rape allegations, my opinion tho. The video clearly showed a girl and some group of boys having consensual carnal knowledge. I know it's a big shame to them but white should never be painted black! Your daughter is a mess.

Most parents don't even know their tech devices have parental control. Yes, you can control their phones, the satellite and everything! Some countries force parental control policies. YouTube has YouTube for kids. DSTV and other satellites have parental control measures. Even an android phone! What excuse do you have now! You exposed them!

PS: I don't share child porn and I will never share any video so don't bother sending the mails. Thanks.

Small pikin of 10 years wey get android cannot learn anything from Naija celebrities. Just take a look at the body of a ten year old! How on earth does a ten year old have breasts! That means no bi today she start. Ten years old with experience! She should be flogged mercilessly! Shame on her!

The kids?

Shame on those kids!
Most kids too are too corrupt to be corrected!


Tbh, y'all—the parents, the kids, society—failed in making society conducive!

And to all those people here playing police against those who want to watch the Chrisland video and saying they are reporting them, if dem no watch am, how dem wan take judge? You watch your own come dey yarn okoto. Instead of being overly protective—typical of Nigerians only when a bad omen occues, kindly warn against sharing it since it's Child Porn! The video is everywhere!

Tackle the mosquito not always the malaria!
Re: Truth Or Dare Sex Video: Chrisland, The Parents Or The Girl - Who Is To Blame? by lanocfoods: 4:12pm On Apr 18, 2022
Kingpin1000:
When I was in Secondary school,one of the most stubborn boys got into problem with the school authority, the principal called his father,whi happened to be a high court Judge to report his son to him.
The father came to school with 3 of his other sons. This boy happens to be the last child of 5 boys but He was a pain in the ass, He was very big and muscular but when his brothers came,they dwarfed him. All of a sudden one his brothers head butted him and He fell to the ground like a paper, his uniform was soaked in blood within minutes, they tied him to a desk and our able Goliath who has lead us to so many war was crying like a baby, we were all shocked. The father demanded for canes. The man was just flogging only the feet of the boy the boy shouted until he lost his voice and became weak, our principal became afraid and started begging the father to take it easy, it was then they loosed him and dumped him behind their hilux and drove away.. we did not see our Goliath for 2 weeks but when He came back, He was sober and reserved.
No more trouble till He left school. Rumours had it that He was taken to the hospital and when He recovered his father locked him up.
The woke generation will call it child abuse

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Re: Truth Or Dare Sex Video: Chrisland, The Parents Or The Girl - Who Is To Blame? by bakar007: 4:13pm On Apr 18, 2022
chatinent:
Who Should We Blame: Chrisland, The Parents, The Girl Or Society?


Who should we blame?

Before una blame, ask yourself, is there any content maker or skit maker in Nigeria, so- called comedians, that you can feel relaxed watching their content with your kids? Mr Marcaroni? Sydney? NastyBlaq? Even BrainJotter has given kids new slangs: “you no get yansh.”

They all promote sex! It's always been sex! Sex! Sex! And guess what? We find nothing wrong with it!

And so?
That's why children are experimenting! They watch everything you watch! In Nollywood, if it's not teaching the use of cult language, it's getting rich quickly, or sex! In music, it's sex and leaked tapes! They have all these at their disposal in a smartphone.

There's one movie..I think Selina Tested blabla...what's the usefulness of that movie in society? And to say it has millions watching it baffles me! The movie clearly promotes cultism!

Both in Hollywood, it's either magic, being possessed by a superhero witchy trait, having a bad side, living a double life, shooting, or sex! And many children have watched some movies before you!

What else?!

Talking about Chrisland, let's not pretend we don't know these are happening around us. In many schools, porn and leaked tapes are in gigabytes on their phones. Our music is rotten. Celebrities with a loose sense of fashion. The world is breeding a new era of what you parents failed to prevent! And that's why when you talk of a girls-only school in Nigeria, you think of lesbianism. Because it's true! They do it at whim! A girls-only school in Nigeria has male staff members and some of them use them! You see lots of abortion pills and all that from secondarians! Secondarians!

Children are having sex even under your roof! Don't scream God forbid! It is! Some are part-time prostitutes! Yes, some are!

Back to Chrisland...
Just like every other schools in Nigeria, their best is not enough! The I-dont-care life of teachers is becoming unbecoming and that's why these events occur at whim! Stricter measures must be taken and members of the opposite sex should never be allowed in private areas! Even in public areas, there must be in groups!


Should Chrisland be locked down?

Why?

Inasmuch as Chrisland should be very careful while mixing both genders and putting more measures, it's also the responsibility of parents to train a child properly and guide what they consume morally.

Was it really coverup? Even if it was, Child porn should never be a breaking news! Chrisland took action by suspending the culprits! I understand Chrisland has been in some old mess of late but, haba, judge cases individually. Chrisland is sb’s business and schools have ethics. You wanted them to publish the news? News of child porn?

To stain the image of the school?
The parents?
The girl?

They tried to leverage those!
They tried to die the matter even though it was a serious one!

They tried to allow the matter die in the school!

Do you know the reputation of the little girl in the video now, and in the future after you folks linked and shared the video!
That's what Chrisland were protecting!

Do you know?

Omotola’s daughter is a product of Chrisland. Of course, we saw her wearing panties and bras recently. She's a role model. Tueh! What are the adults teaching the children? That big bombom is an asset! That breast is a green card! That sex is the redpill!

There are few reasonable people in the entertainment industry! Others promote sex!
But don't they say majority wins the vote?
Nude has been given a new name: Bikini. Posting adult content and rubbish is now called “cruise.” Walking naked is now called sexy.

The internet is saturated with diff formats of pornographers. If it's not useless Ruger singing “i want to fxxck your pu pu na,” it's that old layer Tiwa exposing her nude, or that agbero is jeans Oxlade.

But they'll come out and be shouting “lockdown Chrisland, lockdown Chrisland.”

Hanty, before they lockdown Chrisland, y'all should learn to put your panties inside clothes! Na y'all idiots dey spoil pikin.

The parents?
Make una train una children properly! You allow them consume enough pornography! Music, movies in the right proportion and content is good. Music and movies with any sexual activity is bad for them!

The parents of the girl should stop forcing the rape allegations, my opinion tho. The video clearly showed a girl and some group of boys having consensual carnal knowledge. I know it's a big shame to them but white should never be painted black! Your daughter is a mess.

Most parents don't even know their tech devices have parental control. Yes, you can control their phones, the satellite and everything! Some countries force parental control policies. YouTube has YouTube for kids. DSTV and other satellites have parental control measures. Even an android phone! What excuse do you have now! You exposed them!

PS: I don't share child porn and I will never share any video so don't bother sending the mails. Thanks.

Small pikin of 10 years wey get android cannot learn anything from Naija celebrities. Just take a look at the body of a ten year old! How on earth does a ten year old have breasts! That means no bi today she start. Ten years old with experience! She should be flogged mercilessly! Shame on her!

The kids?

Shame on those kids!
Most kids too are too corrupt to be corrected!


Tbh, y'all—the parents, the kids, society—failed in making society conducive!

And to all those people here playing police against those who want to watch the Chrisland video and saying they are reporting them, if dem no watch am, how dem wan take judge? You watch your own come dey yarn okoto. Instead of being overly protective—typical of Nigerians only when a bad omen occues, kindly warn against sharing it since it's Child Porn! The video is everywhere!

Tackle the mosquito not always the malaria!

Blame Big brother Nigeria ,truth and dare and their yeyebrities Na one and two , this is their contribution to society. The kids are learning and practising for future BBN

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Re: Truth Or Dare Sex Video: Chrisland, The Parents Or The Girl - Who Is To Blame? by a2d3rew(m): 4:13pm On Apr 18, 2022
I blame the parents.

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Re: Truth Or Dare Sex Video: Chrisland, The Parents Or The Girl - Who Is To Blame? by abbey621(m): 4:13pm On Apr 18, 2022
AfroKnight:
The mother is 90% at fault.

I don’t just want to say 100%. We all saw how Tonto Dike was proud of her son spanking her àss. She even posted it proudly for the internet to see. And föolish babymamas and irresponsible mothers were attacking those who criticised the nonsense.

Well, here is the result of such abysmal parenting. This girl is used to getting her way. She is the one corrupting her classmates.

The mother was even looking for an angle to spin it as rape.

That irresponsible mother should be punished for this. I wish the boy’s parents had petitioned the police to arrest the girl for molesting their son. Cos that’s what it really is. That girl took advantage of the naivety of the boy as she is the older one.

You're out of line! First of all when it comes sex, minors are minors it does not matter who is older. Next, the circumstances surrounding the act shows that this is a common occurrence at the school. Who made the video? Where other people there? Minors?

Finally, you're quick to blame the mother but what type of school is it? Is it a boarding school, private or what? Where do the kids spend more time? At the school or at home? The reason the school gets the blame is simple, it is a private establishment in which parents entrust their kids, if the facility was inacapable of ensuring their safety from violence, sexual obscenity and so on, they should face serious consequences. Furthermore, if only you knew what goes on in private/boarding schools you would know that it is only the grace of God that some of those kids remain physically and emotionally stable. Parents can be reverend father and sister Mary yet the kids still turn out to be Lucifer incarnate.....How many ordinary schools allow field trips to Dubai?
Re: Truth Or Dare Sex Video: Chrisland, The Parents Or The Girl - Who Is To Blame? by delpee(f): 4:14pm On Apr 18, 2022
Livelystone01:

Stop trying to cover up for the defective attotides of so many parents today please. How I it possible for a child who's not in boarding school to spend more time in school than at home?

As for your take about disciplining the children, are you asking for discipline from the schools or what? Have you forgotten that private schools are afraid to discipline pupils because most parents have warned them off it?

Well, in this case, I blame the school for concealing the incident, but the action of the pupils in the video shows the disfunction in the family unit today.

The skill at which the child was engaging in the sex should show you that the parents have failed, or maybe, pampered her into that level due to "wokeness". They are not new to that act at all, both herself and the boys.

I need to shock you with this.
Yesterday, I went to visit a family friend. I called the son to help me with his phone to check for something, which he did. As I went to his chrome to browse, I was shocked to see the different tabs were filled with xvideos, brazziers or whatever they call it and other porn sites. I became irritated and surprised that a 10 year old child couldn't check for anything else in his phone but sex videos.

I wanted to talk with the mom but I didn't because I can't actually find a way to bring the topic up with her. My plan is your talk with him and let him know the danger of such action.

Part of what people are saying. The parents are being careless. You don't give a 10yr old child an unmonitored phone. His parents should check his phone from time to time by whichever way and discover by themselves. If you're close to them, advise accordingly without disclosing what you saw.

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Re: Truth Or Dare Sex Video: Chrisland, The Parents Or The Girl - Who Is To Blame? by Udemzy05: 4:14pm On Apr 18, 2022
thesicilian:
The OP reasons like someone who has advanced in both age and maturity. May God continue to reward you with more wisdom.

When things like this happens, the entire society will usually cry for blood. Crucify them! Shut down the school! Jail the business owners! Without settling down to think things through.

While it may be the job of a school to train a child in both knowledge and character, it is not their responsibility to completely take over this role from the parents. Some of these unpleasant behaviours are mostly learnt from homes, sometimes even under the 'supervision' of the parents themselves.

You see a mother, because she wants her 'peace of mind', giving her 7yrs old daughter her phone to be watching YouTube without parental control. What do you expect? At least YouTube even tries to sensor some of these things. How about DSTV? That one has even gone beyond regular sexual content to abnormal forms like gay and lesbianism. Not to talk about extreme violence.


Exact what I was telling a female friend that was putting all the blame on the teacher and school.

The first place you learn morals and good upbringing is the home,the fact that you pay huge amount of money as school fees doesn't mean you should transfer all responsibilities to the school.

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Re: Truth Or Dare Sex Video: Chrisland, The Parents Or The Girl - Who Is To Blame? by Olatara(f): 4:15pm On Apr 18, 2022
Jennyclay:
Nigeria Elite schools are just loosing value every single day.

~No good morals
~Lack of discipline
~Bunch of lazy teachers waiting for month end to receive their peanut.
~No code of conduct

I feel Elite schools are just for mere business ground. They are just ripping parents off their hard earned money. I can't be paying over 400k in a term and you can't instill good morals on my kids.

Now, I think parents should consider registering their children in government schools.
Don't blame the teachers, they are not allowed to discipline any children or else nah sack letter.

So the leave the teachers out of the matter abeg.

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Re: Truth Or Dare Sex Video: Chrisland, The Parents Or The Girl - Who Is To Blame? by GistFullGround: 4:15pm On Apr 18, 2022





The parents!




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Re: Truth Or Dare Sex Video: Chrisland, The Parents Or The Girl - Who Is To Blame? by Iamnorth: 4:16pm On Apr 18, 2022
OP you've earned my respect!Everything you've said is apt,both parents,teachers and the society(religions)have roles to play,you dont expect a morally corrupt child from home to be morally put in check by teachers at school,and you don't expect children that are morally schooled by teacher to not be corrupt under morally derailed parents

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Re: Truth Or Dare Sex Video: Chrisland, The Parents Or The Girl - Who Is To Blame? by segyoms: 4:16pm On Apr 18, 2022
Moral in the society has been decayed for a very long time,every child whether now or in the olden days is bound to experience all of this sex hish, I believe the victims are just unfortunate, I happened to experience romance at a very tender age but the words of my late father kept me going in life.
Re: Truth Or Dare Sex Video: Chrisland, The Parents Or The Girl - Who Is To Blame? by zedegit: 4:17pm On Apr 18, 2022
Google search for the video. It's in the internet.

That girl is too mature to be just 10 years old. She seemed to know what she was doing and I can't say it was rape.

For one, she was ontop riding. How many rape cases has the victim ontop vibrating up and down?

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Re: Truth Or Dare Sex Video: Chrisland, The Parents Or The Girl - Who Is To Blame? by descarado: 4:17pm On Apr 18, 2022
bukatyne:


It is not an elite school thingy

The students are just more stupid to put their stuff online.

I went to secondary school in the late 90s/ early 2000s and I had mates get pregnant, have multiple sex partners, pregnate girls, take drugs, seriously bully students etc etc etc

These things are not as strange as we want to paint them.
Exactly!

The audacity to put it online.
They even have dtocial media account.

When parents don't play their roles to budding sex hormones.

These children need guidance.
Their parents should be their best friends as well as parents. This is very troubling honestly.
Re: Truth Or Dare Sex Video: Chrisland, The Parents Or The Girl - Who Is To Blame? by Richy4(m): 4:17pm On Apr 18, 2022
All I see is parent of the girl being blamed.. what about the parents of the boys that raised irresponsible boys.. obviously the girl did not climb on top of herself...

Who are those irresponsible boys filming it and having Sex when they should be studying for whatever took them to where they were?

Is it fair to say that it's only girl child that should be trained and be responsible.. how come the blame is not balanced.. sad

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Re: Truth Or Dare Sex Video: Chrisland, The Parents Or The Girl - Who Is To Blame? by Fiscus105(m): 4:18pm On Apr 18, 2022
Gentlerespect76:
Are you working in this school or there is else you know beside that on the public domain?

Look, as a parent, once you send your child off to school, the absolute duty to safekeep and protect the child rests with the school. The parents are not to blame in anyway here because the incident happened far away in Dubai while the child was in custody of the school or through its superintendents (here teachers or other school workers). For the girl in question, it bleeds my heart that you are even thinking of blaming her, a mere child of 10. What's wrong with you? The child is incapable of knowing the implications of her actions at this age. Please stop talking about subjectivity here. I am a parent whose child is at least 5/6 years older than that child. For over 13 years of schooling I pick my children up from school; I know what I am saying.


putting all the blames on school? Infact u re Mr judge

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