chatinent:


Spot on.

You'll also agree with me that more than morals are needed to instil good behaviour in a child. Teachers can only do their work in the day. What happened at night? What happened elsewhere? What happens on social media?

They see many things!

placeofallure:


You reason like this because you're not in the system.

What would you have a teacher do when you can't correct the child?

I've seen a parent come in to tell the teacher to steer clear of anything moral as far as it's her child. She should leave the moral aspect to her and face her teaching.

I've seen a teacher given note to kids on Obedience and Respect, only for the parent to write inside the same note that it's wrong to teach a child that. That the child should question anything before doing it. She's exercising her rights.

I've seen where a parent brought in policemen to arrest the child's teacher because he scolded him about habitually defaulting with homework.

I've seen yet another came to threaten me simply because I counselled the child to be up and doing with her studies and borrow a cue from her big brother.

I've seen parents come to beg for marks for their kids when they fall short.

The admin of schools seemed to have joined a consensus that throws you at the parents, no form of protection even when you mean well for the child.

In my school, it's a policy, we don't beat. What would a teacher do than look away when as it is now, you can't even admonish or correct them? These kids know and they leverage on it. The teacher isn't lazy or nonchalant, their hands are just tied.

You know a teacher's work is regimented, If you don't do your assignment, I'll just write in your book: Assignment on so so and so Not Done, then I'll put date and signature. If na 10 assignments you no do, I'll sign in your book 10 times, ma ya look away. If I'm questioned about scanty work load, I refer them to the books of other serious-minded children.

It's not all a tale of woes. There are still a few parents who wouldn't condone nonsense and value the fact that teachers and parents must work together for optimal results.

placeofallure:


You reason like this because you're not in the system.

What would you have a teacher do when you can't correct the child?

I've seen a parent come in to tell the teacher to steer clear of anything moral as far as it's her child. She should leave the moral aspect to her and face her teaching.

I've seen a teacher given note to kids on Obedience and Respect, only for the parent to write inside the same note that it's wrong to teach a child that. That the child should question anything before doing it. She's exercising her rights.

I've seen where a parent brought in policemen to arrest the child's teacher because he scolded him about habitually defaulting with homework.

I've seen yet another came to threaten me simply because I counselled the child to be up and doing with her studies and borrow a cue from her big brother.

I've seen parents come to beg for marks for their kids when they fall short.

The admin of schools seemed to have joined a consensus that throws you at the parents, no form of protection even when you mean well for the child.

In my school, it's a policy, we don't beat. What would a teacher do than look away when as it is now, you can't even admonish or correct them? These kids know and they leverage on it. The teacher isn't lazy or nonchalant, their hands are just tied.

You know a teacher's work is regimented, If you don't do your assignment, I'll just write in your book: Assignment on so so and so Not Done, then I'll put date and signature. If na 10 assignments you no do, I'll sign in your book 10 times, ma ya look away. If I'm questioned about scanty work load, I refer them to the books of other serious-minded children.

It's not all a tale of woes. There are still a few parents who wouldn't condone nonsense and value the fact that teachers and parents must work together for optimal results.

AfroKnight:


Lol. You are saying a minor cannot rape another minor? Wonderful

SerikiFulani:
These shit have been happening for long,it's just social media that made it worse now

I remember fingering my classmate's pussy named bukky then in secondary school during class

Her pussy was so wet,tight and odour free,after fingering her,I would lick my hands and look into her eyes with passion

We finally had sex in the school toilet one day and i really enjoyed myself....I would tell her not to go home after class that we should meet at the school toilet,and our school toilet was always locked with keys given to school security but I always had my way cos I was so nice,gentle and respectful to the security men

I'm talking wayback 97 or 98

chatinent:
Who Should We Blame: Chrisland, The Parents, The Girl Or Society?

Tackle the mosquito not always the malaria!

Karleb:


The reason I believe might be because the parents of the boys are not calling for a false justice.

They probably acknowledged that their boys have brought shame to the family, I believe.

Jennyclay:

Honestly speaking, the school is to be blame.

dfrost:


Let's reason this matter like adults, please. Who purchased à device for the child?

Kingpin1000:
When I was in Secondary school,one of the most stubborn boys got into problem with the school authority, the principal called his father,whi happened to be a high court Judge to report his son to him.
The father came to school with 3 of his other sons. This boy happens to be the last child of 5 boys but He was a pain in the ass, He was very big and muscular but when his brothers came,they dwarfed him. All of a sudden one his brothers head butted him and He fell to the ground like a paper, his uniform was soaked in blood within minutes, they tied him to a desk and our able Goliath who has lead us to so many war was crying like a baby, we were all shocked. The father demanded for canes. The man was just flogging only the feet of the boy the boy shouted until he lost his voice and became weak, our principal became afraid and started begging the father to take it easy, it was then they loosed him and dumped him behind their hilux and drove away.. we did not see our Goliath for 2 weeks but when He came back, He was sober and reserved.
No more trouble till He left school. Rumours had it that He was taken to the hospital and when He recovered his father locked him up.

Twoclans:
I might be very old schooled but like seriously I am not sure I can allow a 10 year old child travell all the way to Dubai for whatever reasons. Except I am there shadowing that child.

I dont know sha, maybe something is wrong with me

Jennyclay:
I'm not trying to cover up for the defective attodites of some many parent today, But you'll agree with me that, students spend more time at school than at home.

I know to an extend parents are also to be blamed But then you should also consider the fact that they spend over 300k per term, to ensure the school discipline their children properly... I mean the services are not free. They paid for it. So why can't they discipline them

for instance:
~People die through road accident, does that stop you from traveling or buying your own car?

~People die through food & drink poison, does that stop you from eating or drinking?

~Many Parents have warned the school not to discipline their kids, but does that mean when they see a child is going astray they shouldn't discipline him/her??

Honestly speaking, the school is to be blame.

Jennyclay:
I'm not trying to cover up for the defective attodites of some many parent today, But you'll agree with me that, students spend more time at school than at home.

I know to an extend parents are also to be blamed But then you should also consider the fact that they spend over 300k per term, to ensure the school discipline their children properly... I mean the services are not free. They paid for it. So why can't they discipline them

for instance:
~People die through road accident, does that stop you from traveling or buying your own car?

~People die through food & drink poison, does that stop you from eating or drinking?

~Many Parents have warned the school not to discipline their kids, but does that mean when they see a child is going astray they shouldn't discipline him/her??

Honestly speaking, the school is to be blame.

Gentlerespect76:

Look, as a parent, once you send your child off to school, the absolute duty to safekeep and protect the child rests with the school. The parents are not to blame in anyway here because the incident happened far away in Dubai while the child was in custody of the school or through its superintendents (here teachers or other school workers). For the girl in question, it bleeds my heart that you are even thinking of blaming her, a mere child of 10. What's wrong with you? The child is incapable of knowing the implications of her actions at this age. Please stop talking about subjectivity here. I am a parent whose child is at least 5/6 years older than that child. For over 13 years of schooling I pick my children up from school; I know what I am saying.

Jennyclay:
Nigeria Elite schools are just loosing value every single day.

~No good morals
~Lack of discipline
~Bunch of lazy teachers waiting for month end to receive their peanut.
~No code of conduct

I feel Elite schools are just for mere business ground. They are just ripping parents off their hard earned money. I can't be paying over 400k in a term and you can't instill good morals on my kids.

Now, I think parents should consider registering their children in government schools.

Kingpin1000:
The father demanded for canes. The man was just flogging only the feet of the boy the boy shouted until he lost his voice and became weak.

Jennyclay:
The parents.

Jennyclay:
Nigeria Elite schools are just loosing value every single day.

~No good morals
~Lack of discipline
~Bunch of lazy teachers waiting for month end to receive their peanut.
~No code of conduct

I feel Elite schools are just for mere business ground. They are just ripping parents off their hard earned money. I can't be paying over 400k in a term and you can't instill good morals on my kids.

Now, I think parents should consider registering their children in government schools.

Jennyclay:
Nigeria Elite schools are just loosing value every single day.

~No good morals
~Lack of discipline
~Bunch of lazy teachers waiting for month end to receive their peanut.
~No code of conduct

I feel Elite schools are just for mere business ground. They are just ripping parents off their hard earned money. I can't be paying over 400k in a term and you can't instill good morals on my kids.

Now, I think parents should consider registering their children in government schools.

Kingpin1000:
When I was in Secondary school,one of the most stubborn boys got into problem with the school authority, the principal called his father,whi happened to be a high court Judge to report his son to him.
The father came to school with 3 of his other sons. This boy happens to be the last child of 5 boys but He was a pain in the ass, He was very big and muscular but when his brothers came,they dwarfed him. All of a sudden one his brothers head butted him and He fell to the ground like a paper, his uniform was soaked in blood within minutes, they tied him to a desk and our able Goliath who has lead us to so many war was crying like a baby, we were all shocked. The father demanded for canes. The man was just flogging only the feet of the boy the boy shouted until he lost his voice and became weak, our principal became afraid and started begging the father to take it easy, it was then they loosed him and dumped him behind their hilux and drove away.. we did not see our Goliath for 2 weeks but when He came back, He was sober and reserved.
No more trouble till He left school. Rumours had it that He was taken to the hospital and when He recovered his father locked him up.

dfrost:

So 90% of the blame goes to the parents my sister.