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How Do I Stop A Nine Year Old Child Who Steals And Lies Without Beating? by siofra(f): 11:32am On Apr 20, 2022 |
Please how do I do it? I don't want to hit the child but I want the child to understand that what he is doing is very bad. Do nine year olds appreciate dialogue? Would the child change as he grows older? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How Do I Stop A Nine Year Old Child Who Steals And Lies Without Beating? by siofra(f): 11:32am On Apr 20, 2022 |
I don't want to use religion or hell either. |
Re: How Do I Stop A Nine Year Old Child Who Steals And Lies Without Beating? by baby124: 11:36am On Apr 20, 2022 |
Yes. 9yr olds appreciate dialogue. You need to let them know actions have consequences and you need to help them understand the consequences of stealing and what could happen to them when they steal. Not all children learn by beating. Some of them become more hardened while some stop. Some do better with a nice discussion. You have to identify what kind of child he/she is to know the best approach for them. You know your child best. |
Re: How Do I Stop A Nine Year Old Child Who Steals And Lies Without Beating? by siofra(f): 11:39am On Apr 20, 2022 |
baby124: Okay. Beating doesn't work on the child. His parents beat him but it's not working. We'll try dialogue. |
Re: How Do I Stop A Nine Year Old Child Who Steals And Lies Without Beating? by baby124: 11:41am On Apr 20, 2022 |
siofra:Ok. Goodluck. Also, please teach him by example. You cannot be telling him one thing then, when you think he’s not listening or watching do another thing. Kids learn a lot from our actions and inactions and they know more than we think. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How Do I Stop A Nine Year Old Child Who Steals And Lies Without Beating? by Nobody: 11:42am On Apr 20, 2022 |
siofra: Like I said in another post you're still a kid...you better flog him with cane..is it when he is now an adult someone wants to start beating him? 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Stop A Nine Year Old Child Who Steals And Lies Without Beating? by vastolord4(m): 11:42am On Apr 20, 2022 |
Why won't beating be involved? Even call he's mates and senior uncles to torture him.. when ever he sees what to steal, he'll have a flash back 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Stop A Nine Year Old Child Who Steals And Lies Without Beating? by Candidlady: 11:44am On Apr 20, 2022 |
A male child ? Sister don't waste your Time!! |
Re: How Do I Stop A Nine Year Old Child Who Steals And Lies Without Beating? by Nobody: 11:47am On Apr 20, 2022 |
Candidlady: When you have a son...I hope you'll see him as an evil monster too..because idk why you're such a misandrist....did your father rape you?? 5 Likes |
Re: How Do I Stop A Nine Year Old Child Who Steals And Lies Without Beating? by vastolord4(m): 11:48am On Apr 20, 2022 |
sollolucci77: She's just investing in a brutal bully.. that upcoming terrorist will initiate every kid around into a gang.. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Stop A Nine Year Old Child Who Steals And Lies Without Beating? by Nobody: 11:49am On Apr 20, 2022 |
Candidlady: Ok I understand from your profile pic you're a lesbian...that's cool 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Stop A Nine Year Old Child Who Steals And Lies Without Beating? by Acidosis(m): 11:50am On Apr 20, 2022 |
You don't want to use beating or religion?? So what do you want to use? Is lying a crime? What if he lies for a "good" reason? Buhari lied about his education and he's today a president. Leave the boy to lie in peace. It's no crime. |
Re: How Do I Stop A Nine Year Old Child Who Steals And Lies Without Beating? by Candidlady: 11:51am On Apr 20, 2022 |
sollolucci77: @bolded Will my answer make you stay outta my mention |
Re: How Do I Stop A Nine Year Old Child Who Steals And Lies Without Beating? by Nobody: 11:55am On Apr 20, 2022 |
Candidlady: I wont even mention you again because If I do I will always have to reduce my IQ for someone that only has cobwebs in her head...but like I said I already understand your case 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Stop A Nine Year Old Child Who Steals And Lies Without Beating? by Candidlady: 11:57am On Apr 20, 2022 |
sollolucci77: Typical Insults and abuse Do have a lovely day Mr |
Re: How Do I Stop A Nine Year Old Child Who Steals And Lies Without Beating? by SmileDance(f): 12:41pm On Apr 20, 2022 |
Dialogue won't work, take away everything he likes from him( not food), if possible take him to the police station to see the way criminals are being treated, take him to the prison to see what becomes of thieves, then buy koboko at home, soak in blended pepper and flog him naked, then repeat the process each time he lies or steals, if this don't work then nothing else will. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How Do I Stop A Nine Year Old Child Who Steals And Lies Without Beating? by Richy4(m): 12:55pm On Apr 20, 2022 |
Just read this please...I hope it helps https://www.activemomsnetwork.com/how-to-stop-child-from-stealing/ |
Re: How Do I Stop A Nine Year Old Child Who Steals And Lies Without Beating? by Kobojunkie: 2:09pm On Apr 20, 2022 |
siofra:Even 3-year-Old appreciate dialogue. They learn best when you communicate allowing them to ask you whatever questions they may have as well. He needs to have clear understanding of why the behavior is wrong and unacceptable. He won't automagically change. You have to work with him to resolving the issue. Read up on kleptomania and how to help children deal with the problem. Also see https://www.aacap.org/AACAP/Families_and_Youth/Facts_for_Families/FFF-Guide/Children-Who-Steal-012.aspx#:~:text=tell%20the%20child%20that%20stealing,thief%20or%20a%20bad%20person 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Do I Stop A Nine Year Old Child Who Steals And Lies Without Beating? by JoyousFurnitire(m): 2:34pm On Apr 20, 2022 |
Tell him everything you type about men on here 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Stop A Nine Year Old Child Who Steals And Lies Without Beating? by frozen70(f): 3:36pm On Apr 20, 2022 |
siofra: Constant counselling Get him or her a gift Promise the child some things any time he tells you the truth Be friendly and keep things that he will steal in his custody 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How Do I Stop A Nine Year Old Child Who Steals And Lies Without Beating? by NoToPile: 5:01pm On Apr 20, 2022 |
Acidosis: Haba If you lie you will steal oo, at least that's what our parents told us. It's good for one to tell the truth, honesty is one of the virtues that should be instilled in children nau. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Stop A Nine Year Old Child Who Steals And Lies Without Beating? by Nobody: 5:33pm On Apr 20, 2022 |
frozen70: Get him a gift?...I hope when you have kids they wont turn out to be what I'm thinking 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Stop A Nine Year Old Child Who Steals And Lies Without Beating? by siofra(f): 5:35pm On Apr 20, 2022 |
sollolucci77: I will not beat him like a goat. Go and beat your own children like that. |
Re: How Do I Stop A Nine Year Old Child Who Steals And Lies Without Beating? by rickleye: 6:48pm On Apr 20, 2022 |
SmileDance: You have to use all the tools available. Dialogue - Constant and daily assurances that stealing is bad, show him videos of what happens to those that steal . Spanking - I am spanking you because x, y z. Change location - Could it be peer pressure , change friends and if possible location. If you fail to do so now, society is more cruel teacher and it will end up very very bad for the child. |
Re: How Do I Stop A Nine Year Old Child Who Steals And Lies Without Beating? by frozen70(f): 7:14pm On Apr 20, 2022 |
sollolucci77: That's nit an issue Buying biscuits when coming back from an outing or work is not a crime When he does well at school, you buy him ice cream because of a good report card is not a crime Children need to be motivated and gift is one of them Taking children for an out is part of it Unless you are thinking other wise |
Re: How Do I Stop A Nine Year Old Child Who Steals And Lies Without Beating? by SmileDance(f): 7:52pm On Apr 20, 2022 |
rickleye:true, it could be peer pressure from school, environment etc 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Stop A Nine Year Old Child Who Steals And Lies Without Beating? by Acidosis(m): 7:54pm On Apr 20, 2022 |
NoToPile: I know right |
Re: How Do I Stop A Nine Year Old Child Who Steals And Lies Without Beating? by Nobody: 8:10pm On Apr 20, 2022 |
siofra:If he loves food a lot limit the food he eats,when he lies don't give him food for that day and explain the reason why...limit the way he plays and try to make him active in sunday schools,download films about stealing and lying and it's repercursion online make him watch them...instead of beating try punishments for an hour or two each time he lies or steal then tell him to go and lay down and sleep without food. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How Do I Stop A Nine Year Old Child Who Steals And Lies Without Beating? by Nobody: 8:30pm On Apr 20, 2022 |
frozen70: So if you find out that your child stole something from you...you'll buy him a a gift for that abi?...did you read what I wrote at all? How do you buy a gift for a child that has done something wrong abi are you on tramadol? |
Re: How Do I Stop A Nine Year Old Child Who Steals And Lies Without Beating? by SensualMan: 8:31pm On Apr 20, 2022 |
Just don't rape that boy. Nonsense!!! |
Re: How Do I Stop A Nine Year Old Child Who Steals And Lies Without Beating? by frozen70(f): 8:35pm On Apr 20, 2022 |
sollolucci77: I think you are poor in reading and comprehending Am done with you |
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