Hi all .I have a helper staying with us 15years,she no dey even see me nor recognise me as the head of the house expect my wife.
The thing dey piss me off.
1) I was collecting soup from the pot took meat,kai this girl reported me to my wife.I warned her .
2) This girl in serving me food just drop food on table and go sometimes put water sometimes not.
3)All my movement this girl tell my wife,
The thing don do me everything got a limit,sent her going today,all this helpers believe one can't do without them,I told my wife Na she cause am cos gave the girl 2much soft hand.She have reached her village .
Helper never insult me like dat bf

akpunda86:
The thing dey piss me off.
1) I was collecting soup from the pot took meat,kai this girl reported me to my wife.I warned her .
2) This girl in serving me food just drop food on table and go sometimes put water sometimes not.
3)All my movement this girl tell my wife,
The thing don do me everything got a limit,sent her going today,all this helpers believe one can't do without them,I told my wife Na she cause am cos gave the girl 2much soft hand.She have reached her village .
Helper never insult me

ROFLMAO


Your wife probably hired siofra's distant cousin as a help. I am just messing abeg!

Op, what did you do to the gal? Are you sure you don't look like an arch enemy of hers?

Mr talk Truth!!!


Having a lady as a house keeper!!! Never trust all these men!!!


Again talk Truth

U Don go make she cut kpekus give u B4 abi? Coz na d tin wey fit bring that disrespect be that

Candidlady:
Mr talk Truth!!!


Having a lady as a house keeper!!! Never trust all these men!!!


Again talk Truth

illicit:

Can't trust your daughter with your husband... How much more a house help

Candidlady:
Mr talk Truth!!!


Having a lady as a house keeper!!! Never trust all these men!!!


Again talk Truth

Kestolove:
U Don go make she cut kpekus give u B4 abi? Coz na d tin wey fit bring that disrespect be that

See them defending the upcoming 15 year old feminist

Regardless of any familiarity, your boss still remains your boss, if you like your Job


.

Candidlady:



Can't TRUST your daughter with your husband... How much more a house help

U can trust me u can let me thrust u....

Mooh247:
See them defending the upcoming 15 year old feminist

Regardless of any familiarity, your boss still remains your boss, if you like your Job.

Nah! That's bullsheet abeg!

She was simply obeying orders to give you close marking .
It's a good thing you sent her away.

Kobojunkie:
Nah! That's bullsheet abeg!

Even if I hire my Ex girlfriend that has seen me naked countless time to work for me... As long as am paying her and paying in full, she dare not disrespect me.

Justice Atinuke Ige was an High court Judge, while Bola Ige was just a Lawyer, and many times when Bola Ige tries to step out of line in her court, she reprimands him instantly

Mooh247:




See them defending the upcoming 15 year old feminist

Regardless of any familiarity, your boss still remains your boss, if you like your Job


.

He stopped being her boss when he had something intimate to do with her!

Do you know what boundaries are at all


And by familiarity you meant smashing the 15 year old girl ba?

Mooh247:
Even if I hire my Ex girlfriend that has seen me naked countless time to work for me... As long as am paying her and paying in full, she dare not disrespect me.

Justice Atinuke Ige was an High court Judge, while Bola Ige was just a Lawyer, and many times when Bola Ige tries to step out of line in her court, she reprimands him instantly

This is instead in the home. The same rules don't necessarily apply as far as we humans are concerned when it comes to the home where the rules of familiarity instead rule.

Also, the wife may have given the gal in question her matching orders in this, which might explain why she saw the wife, and not the husband, as boss in this.

Candidlady:



He stopped being her boss when he had something intimate to do with her!

Do you know what boundaries are at all


And by familiarity you meant smashing the 15 year old girl ba?

He stopped being her boss when he signed her termination letter, or stopped paying her salary... Intimacy isn't an excuse for rudeness and disrespect.

And I never implied familiarity was smashing a 15 year old ( arguably cos age of marriage and consent in Nigeria is 13, and Islamically 15 years is as ripe as an 18 year old )

Fact that anything might have happened (which we don't know) with her consent doesn't suddenly make the Man deserving of bad treatment

Kobojunkie:
This is instead in the home. The same rules don't necessarily apply as far as we humans are concerned when it comes to the home where the rules of familiarity instead rule.

Also, the wife may have given the gal in question her matching orders in this, which might explain why she saw the wife, and not the husband, as boss in this.

Yeah... The wife is the principal suspect in all this, the girl must have been acting on an information she has on the man

Kobojunkie:
ROFLMAO


Your wife probably hired siofra's distant cousin as a help. I am just messing abeg!

Op, what did you do to the gal? Are you sure you don't look like an arch enemy of hers?

Haha I did her noting shez gone after 2 years with us

This is very funny

I'll curse my own son if he ever refuses to man up and be the man of his home.

The Matter na two ways

Either your wife employ her with a strict order to monitor your entire activities

Or
You throw your shot to get your share of national p√ssy

Mooh247:


He stopped being her boss when he signed her termination letter, or stopped paying her salary... Intimacy isn't an excuse for rudeness and disrespect.

And I never implied familiarity was smashing a 15 year old ( arguably cos age of marriage and consent in Nigeria is 13, and Islamically 15 years is as ripe as an 18 year old )

Fact that anything might have happened (which we don't know) with her consent doesn't suddenly make the Man deserving of bad treatment

You never answered my question bout boundaries!


That girl wouldn't dare disrespect him except she got something on him!


Legal age iknow is 18 idont know why you are trying justify a paedophile! Playing the Islam age consent on me just shows how petty y'all men can be just to get away with sick acts

And your last paragraph is just so disheartening!!! You have a daughter of 15 who is serving as a help would you say that?
HE HAD SEX WITH HER CONSENT... A married man prolly with kids !

akpunda86:
Haha I did her noting shez gone after 2 years with us

She did that for two years and it never occurred to you that your wife definitely knows why the gal dey act that way towards you?

How does your wife treat you infront of her.

Candidlady:


You never answered my question bout boundaries!


That girl wouldn't dare disrespect him except she got something on him!


Legal age iknow is 18 idont know why you are trying justify a paedophile! Playing the Islam age consent on me just shows how petty y'all men can be just to get away with sick acts

And your last paragraph is just so disheartening!!! You have a daughter of 15 who is serving as a help would you say that?
HE HAD SEX WITH HER CONSENT... A married man prolly with kids !

Please ooo, don't put words in my mouth or misconstrue my statement

I said this

"And I never implied familiarity was smashing a 15 year old" [/qoute]

And this [quote] Fact that anything might have happened (which we don't know) with her consent doesn't suddenly make the Man deserving of bad treatment

Not You have a daughter of 15 who is serving as a help would you say that?
HE HAD SEX WITH HER CONSENT...

That being clarified with the disclaimer above

To answer you regarding boundaries.... Nothing in what the O.P said implied that any boundary was crossed except having few interactions in the kitchen when he went to get some extra meat from the pot and I don't think that's bad

So before things get spinned to something else, nothing brings "SEX" "Pedophile" or "Sexual Assualt" into these thread .. Na gode!!

Ina fata kana lafiya ?!!

Na ur wife ooo.. Na how she tell the girl to dey act she dey do oo.. No blame the girl.. In short, ur wife no trust u.. All u mentioned can only happen if ur wife is the only one paying the bills, buying foodstuffs if not.. Your wife don teach that girl bad thing oo

your wife is the problem here as she should be the one teaching that demon child to behave and how to treat the oga at the top!

your wife should be the one putting that girl in her place every time she does wrong.

Mooh247:

Ina fata kana lafiya ?!!

inalafiya

nagode


We good!!! You one of em from that region that irespect

But wait let's drift a lil bit.. ain't it against the law for a kid of 15 to be a maid?

Child labour

Candidlady:



inalafiya

nagode


We good!!! You one of em from that region that irespect

But wait let's drift a lil bit.. ain't it against the law for a kid of 15 to be a maid?

Child labour

.. good to know you are good

It is actually a crime that can get both the O.P, His wife and the girls parent in serious trouble .. NAPTIP lawyers are looking for who to use to shine.. if I were the O.P I'll simply edit the Maid and put relative or family

Kobojunkie:
ROFLMAO


Your wife probably hired siofra's distant cousin as a help. I am just messing abeg!

Op, what did you do to the gal? Are you sure you don't look like an arch enemy of hers?

Maybe the OP no dey drop money for house sef

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Mooh247:


Even if I hire my Ex girlfriend that has seen me naked countless time to work for me... As long as am paying her and paying in full, she dare not disrespect me.

Justice Atinuke Ige was an High court Judge, while Bola Ige was just a Lawyer, and many times when Bola Ige tries to step out of line in her court, she reprimands him instantly

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Mooh247:


He stopped being her boss when he signed her termination letter, or stopped paying her salary... Intimacy isn't an excuse for rudeness and disrespect.

And I never implied familiarity was smashing a 15 year old ( arguably cos age of marriage and consent in Nigeria is 13, and Islamically 15 years is as ripe as an 18 year old )

Fact that anything might have happened (which we don't know) with her consent doesn't suddenly make the Man deserving of bad treatment

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Mooh247:


Yeah... The wife is the principal suspect in all this, the girl must have been acting on an information she has on the man

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