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Mooh247:



Please ooo, don't put words in my mouth or misconstrue my statement

I said this

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akpunda86:
Hi all .I have a helper staying with us 15years,she no dey even see me nor recognise me as the head of the house expect my wife.
The thing dey piss me off.
1) I was collecting soup from the pot took meat,kai this girl reported me to my wife.I warned her .
2) This girl in serving me food just drop food on table and go sometimes put water sometimes not.
3)All my movement this girl tell my wife,
The thing don do me everything got a limit,sent her going today,all this helpers believe one can't do without them,I told my wife Na she cause am cos gave the girl 2much soft hand.She have reached her village .
Helper never insult me like dat bf

Well such things never just change overnight.
If you really claim to be incharge whats stopping you from asking her to leave at the end of the month and get someone else ?
But it seems to me that you made an advance at her which she declined and now she has the upper hand.
I've seen this movie before. Before you get her pregnant - let her go.

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Mooh247:


.. good to know you are good

It is actually a crime that can get both the O.P, His wife and the girls parent in serious trouble .. NAPTIP lawyers are looking for who to use to shine.. if I were the O.P I'll simply edit the Maid and put relative or family

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she has androphobia.. I don't blame her, because men are not trusted...

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rickleye:


Well such things never just change overnight.
If you really claim to be incharge whats stopping you from asking her to leave at the end of the month and get someone else ?
But it seems to me that you made an advance at her which she declined and now she has the upper hand.
I've seen this movie before. Before you get her pregnant - let her go.

Advance Ke for 15 years haba

My little relative living with us tried same with me, anything I do for house she dey reason mother. She try am one day na for my mumcy front I gave her sound warning, since then she no Try am again.

Mooh247:




See them defending the upcoming 15 year old feminist

Regardless of any familiarity, your boss still remains your boss, if you like your Job


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Kip on deceiving yourself..... respect is earned and reciprocal..... You don't force respect....
A 60year old man, who married a 18year old girl, should not expect the young girl to call him grandpa....

Everyone keeps thinking all men are randy , in reality some of this ladies are spoilt and keep expecting you to make a move , when they see you are not interested they try to create the impression of avoiding you and disrespecting you. Talking from experience.

akpunda86:


Advance Ke for 15 years haba

Ha! You never see girl 15 years looking matured and well endowed. One thing leads to another , bros, you just don’t know.

rickleye:


Ha! You never see girl 15 years looking matured and well endowed. One thing leads to another , bros, you just don’t know.

Bros I no be paedophile ohh

akpunda86:
Hi all .I have a helper staying with us 15years,she no dey even see me nor recognise me as the head of the house expect my wife.
The thing dey piss me off.
1) I was collecting soup from the pot took meat,kai this girl reported me to my wife.I warned her .
2) This girl in serving me food just drop food on table and go sometimes put water sometimes not.
3)All my movement this girl tell my wife,
The thing don do me everything got a limit,sent her going today,all this helpers believe one can't do without them,I told my wife Na she cause am cos gave the girl 2much soft hand.She have reached her village .
Helper never insult me like dat bf

weldone...man wey sabi take decision!

Realist12:
Everyone keeps thinking all men are randy , in reality some of this ladies are spoilt and keep expecting you to make a move , when they see you are not interested they try to create the impression of avoiding you and disrespecting you. Talking from experience.

So are you saying the reason why the maid is disrespectful to Op and reporting his every move to his wife is because Op didn't make a move at her

How old are you

JovialJune:



So are you saying the reason why the maid is disrespectful to Op and reporting his every move to his wife is because Op didn't make a move at her

How old are you

not in every situation. But it happens .

akpunda86:


Bros I no be paedophile ohh

Okay my Oga, I hear you. Na as I hear am, I talk o.

She's a double agent, a spy sent on a mission by your wife.

akpunda86:
Hi all .I have a helper staying with us 15years,she no dey even see me nor recognise me as the head of the house expect my wife.
The thing dey piss me off.
1) I was collecting soup from the pot took meat,kai this girl reported me to my wife.I warned her .
2) This girl in serving me food just drop food on table and go sometimes put water sometimes not.
3)All my movement this girl tell my wife,
The thing don do me everything got a limit,sent her going today,all this helpers believe one can't do without them,I told my wife Na she cause am cos gave the girl 2much soft hand.She have reached her village .
Helper never insult me like dat bf

That was how my housemaid was misbehaving till her face her the stern warning of her life...

akpunda86:
Hi all .I have a helper staying with us 15years,she no dey even see me nor recognise me as the head of the house expect my wife.
The thing dey piss me off.
1) I was collecting soup from the pot took meat,kai this girl reported me to my wife.I warned her .
2) This girl in serving me food just drop food on table and go sometimes put water sometimes not.
3)All my movement this girl tell my wife,
The thing don do me everything got a limit,sent her going today,all this helpers believe one can't do without them,I told my wife Na she cause am cos gave the girl 2much soft hand.She have reached her village .
Helper never insult me like dat bf

What is the need of 15 years old as house help? What are you not able to do in your house that requires you to have a live in help ?

Now see - she is "helping" and monitoring you so stop complaining.

Or

Show you can do without them by joining in the housework. Maybe then wifey wouldn't need them.

@Candidlady

Mr talk Truth!!!

Having a lady as a house keeper!!! Never trust all these men!!!

Again talk Truth


@me
What are you insinuating?

Mooh247:


.. good to know you are good

It is actually a crime that can get both the O.P, His wife and the girls parent in serious trouble .. NAPTIP lawyers are looking for who to use to shine.. if I were the O.P I'll simply edit the Maid and put relative or family

Wch NAPTIP ,abeg I no commit crime.

As sleep no gree me reading comments here make me laugh and vex.make advance on 15yrs MBA Nu while escort sites full for home service.

I don sufffer,we staying in a 2 bedroom apartment,funny funny enuff,I stay with wify and kids in one room while nxt one is for visitors or where I stay to read when kids war start.Since girl came we gave her d room while I sleep in palor atimes for night.with her presence,the inconvenience is much but enduring it makes me angry.

Note my wife got some health challenges so d girl saw it and believes we cant do without her.
On the positive side shez very hardworking just the Nurf Respect I need not dr.
I told wify no more helpers ,is we split task among ourselves.

I wish d young girl best of luck wherever she is.

akpunda86:
Hi all .I have a helper staying with us 15years,she no dey even see me nor recognise me as the head of the house expect my wife.
The thing dey piss me off.
1) I was collecting soup from the pot took meat,kai this girl reported me to my wife.I warned her .
2) This girl in serving me food just drop food on table and go sometimes put water sometimes not.
3)All my movement this girl tell my wife,
The thing don do me everything got a limit,sent her going today,all this helpers believe one can't do without them,I told my wife Na she cause am cos gave the girl 2much soft hand.She have reached her village .
Helper never insult me like dat bf

Until you stop behaving like a houseboý and start acting like the owner of the house, the insult will continue.

akpunda86:
Hi all .I have a helper staying with us 15years,she no dey even see me nor recognise me as the head of the house expect my wife.
The thing dey piss me off.
1) I was collecting soup from the pot took meat,kai this girl reported me to my wife.I warned her .
2) This girl in serving me food just drop food on table and go sometimes put water sometimes not.
3)All my movement this girl tell my wife,
The thing don do me everything got a limit,sent her going today,all this helpers believe one can't do without them,I told my wife Na she cause am cos gave the girl 2much soft hand.She have reached her village .
Helper never insult me like dat bf

I've read this over and over. There's nowhere I presume the OP made advances to the 15yr old girl, talk less of implying anything of the sort. So I wonder where some of you are getting the 'he is a pedophile; he must have asked her for sex and she refused, hence his fault finding' reasoning from. Why should you have to derail a thread because you want to avoid a simple discussion. The help is plain rude, no mincing of words. If she does this and he looks the other way, what happens when her wings solidify? She'll talk back at him? He should be walking on eggshells around the maid hired to help around his house? You guys should be moderate in whatever philosophy we believe in as a rule of life. You should know when to call a spade a spade, to speak the truth that is right in front of you.

Honestly I hate disrespect especially when I have done nothing to deserve it.
Op You have patience o.
If nah me.
I will investigate and send the house help back to her parents right away.

Even my wife self go collet her own for body.

jkuvira:



I've read this over and over. There's nowhere I presume the OP made advances to the 15yr old girl, talk less of implying anything of the sort. So I wonder where some of you are getting the 'he is a pedophile; he must have asked her for sex and she refused, hence his fault finding' reasoning from. Why should you have to derail a thread because you want to avoid a simple discussion. The help is plain rude, no mincing of words. If she does this and he looks the other way, what happens when her wings solidify? She'll talk back at him? He should be walking on eggshells around the maid hired to help around his house? You guys should be moderate in whatever philosophy we believe in as a rule of life. You should know when to call a spade a spade, to speak the truth that is right in front of you.

Fish brains people are the ones that always presume things that didn't happen. Op never said he made sexual advances to the underage house help.
Some set of people can't just deal with the truth. They would rather throw insult.

TheWolfen:


Fish brains people are the ones that always presume things that didn't happen. Op never said he made sexual advances to the underage house help.
Some set of people can't just deal with the truth. They would rather throw insult.

They should just rest. If someone talks they'll label the person -phobic.
Finding a balance is key. Even if you were looking for a loophole in his story, find the one that is applicable in this scenario so you don't sound like a bandwagon and you drag others into a fight they didn't ask for and, clearly wasn't needed.

Mariangeles:
She was simply obeying orders to give you close marking .
It's a good thing you sent her away.

First time of making sense on nairaland

emmanuelbrown26:

First time of making sense on nairaland

Don't you ever get tired of sounding like a broken record?
This is like what? The millionth "first time of making sense on blablabla" coming from you.

Zukwanu ike nwoke a!
I kariala omume ndi a.

Mariangeles:


Don't you ever get tired of sounding like a broken record?
This is like what? The millionth "first time of making sense on blablabla" coming from you.

Zukwanu ike nwoke a!
I kariala omume ndi a.

I said d truth, why are u bittered with d truth

The househelp may have seen the way your wife talks to u

OR

The househelp may believe your wife does not have respect for u, through your ranting, communication with your wife.

So she believes your wife is the hot or tough type, while you the Op are the soft type or gentle

This reason may make the housemaid have little regard for u

Your househelp wants to straff you and getting frustrated. Oil dey your head.