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Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by Gentleman900000: 10:51pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
Good evening, my wife went to work yesterday and i was at home because it was my off day at work. She came back late and i suspected that she went somewhere but didn't confront her. Few months back, i was going through her phone and saw she had some dirty chats with her ex and that one was saying he should find time for him. I confronted her when i saw this and she apologized that such will never happen again. Today, we were both laying next to each other in bed and she said she have a confession to make. She said she went out to the cinema with a friend of hers. She even took a cloth along with her when she was going without informing me. She said she changed her clothes at her friend's place. I asked her that if anything happen to her at the so called friend's house that she went to without informing me, who will they call? She said she's not a kid that i should stop saying such thing. She's here apologizing again and i don't know if i should forgive her or not. 21 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by falcon01: 10:54pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
She's a fool for not telling you where she went and you are right, who will she call if something happens? If by chance you catch her cheating oga don't you ever forgive her, because obviously she knows what she's doing and is very very very aware, just do your own part, be the best husband you could be. 293 Likes 23 Shares |
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by Nobody: 10:59pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
If I were in your shoes, after her confession, I'd hold her tight, caress her body and kiss guilt out of her mind. I'd cuddle her and if she wants more I'll give her the appropriate dosage for sexual healing. You're not romantic, that's the problem. When was the last time you went to the Cinema with your wife? When was the last time you sent her a voice noice at work telling her, "sweetie, I wanna sniff your panties right now, pull it down gently with my teeth and worship your body which is the reason I still live". Do you remember that period when your relationship was younger? When you couldn't stay a day without calling her for minutes if she wasn't with you? When you'd go for dates and tell her you'd buy London for her? When you made her forget there was any man in her life before you and so she accepted to be your woman forever? Go back to those days. If possible, get her a wedding gown and yourself a suit and remake your vows in your living room. If you have kids let them be part of it. Promise to love her forever and ever and let her be your best friend who will tell you everything including when she uses the toilet. If you went to the world's best marriage counselor who had saved first year marriages that could have crashed to reach 4 decades of joy and happiness, their recommendation wouldn't be different from mine. If you follow my advice and it doesn't produce positive results, mention me and I'll deactivate my account. 376 Likes 37 Shares |
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by yuping(m): 11:00pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
Everything comes and go, forgive but don't be fool by the crocodile tears. 22 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by godliman: 11:00pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
Between you and her I don't know who is more foolish, my mind tells me its you. Keep loving and forgiving her you will soon start training someone else:s child. 159 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by OlawaleBammie: 11:01pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
Gentleman900000:if u no catch her cheating red-handed just do ur own part as the good husband. But if u catch her den discharge her without blinking the eye, else u would have ursef to blame 14 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by uthlaw: 11:02pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
na ena problem b dat....who send Ena go marry! 7 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by Bluntguy: 11:05pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
You can SIMPly forgive her. 81 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by superCleanworks(m): 11:13pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
Gentleman900000: Sneaking clothes in bags to dodge off to the cinema.? That's stuff kids do. Or is she missing those stuff she used to do in her single days? How old is she? This is very dicy, approach carefully because you wouldn't have known if she didn't tell you. It is left for you to be more observant before she goes outside to carry pandora's box to open it in your house. 21 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by thorpido(m): 11:21pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
Forgive her.Just let her know she has a rope and she shouldn't hang herself with it 5 Likes |
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by Mrsoft3(m): 11:21pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
falcon01: Are you married? 8 Likes |
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by Mrsoft3(m): 11:23pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
Gentleman900000: She has apologized and opened up to you. Leverage on that and try to talk to her often, my brother nobody perfect o. It's either you are the one cheating or she is the one cheating. But save your marriage, forgive her but most importantly have a healthy communication, find out why she is doing what she is doing. She might not be happy with something it's best to find the root cos. No perfect marriage out there o, if you believe in your own fight for it, fight with everything 21 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by Gentleman900000: 11:30pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
I knew she went out but i just overlooked it yesterday sir. I think she purposely told me because of the picture she snapped. She's the type that do keep pictures and she knows i might ask something about the picture when i see it. Mrsoft3: 5 Likes |
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by Gentleman900000: 11:32pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
Yes, sneaking clothes in bags. She's 26 years old. superCleanworks: |
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by superCleanworks(m): 12:01am On Apr 24, 2022 |
Gentleman900000:na dem dey behave like dat. But no problem just give her plenty stuff to keep her busy & productive. Responsibility improves maturity. 18 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by Jeon(f): 12:11am On Apr 24, 2022 |
ETHICALLYrlght: hi please don't deactivate .. I'm curious about you because of ur signature. 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by Gentleman900000: 1:07am On Apr 24, 2022 |
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Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by Kobojunkie: 1:17am On Apr 24, 2022 |
Gentleman900000:She is your wife, so you shouldn't be asking us whether you should forgive her or not. You alone know why she is your wife, so the decision as to whether to forgive her or not is yours alone to make. This is your life! She is however right that she is not a child for you to monitor ... she is a full grown adult and does not need you monitoring her movements. 4 Likes |
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by babaalagbo11(m): 4:14am On Apr 24, 2022 |
The country is not even safe to be doing kurukere Waka and showing promiscuous vibes,just be on guard and make sure you are using condom for now till the coast is clear,if there's no change in her new lifestyle,stop eating her food or have sex with her...till you decide on divorce....one of the most dangerous thing that can happen to a man is a promiscuous wife,if she doesn't kill her concubines she'll kill you eventually,and your life is at risk from your competitor....that's red flag there,use your upper 37 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by Richy4(m): 4:35am On Apr 24, 2022 |
I can't tell u how to manage your home buddy... But maybe.. just maybe once in a month movies or outing together as a couple should be considered while making your decisions since she liked some of those things... Once married does not mean no more outing together as couple... Remember we all started with outing during courtship... But immediately the marriage is done and dusted, no more outing together except if invited to a wedding or birthday celebrations... Please follow-up the outing since she liked something like that... Taking another clothes reminded me something about my teenage days 8 Likes |
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by falcon01: 4:43am On Apr 24, 2022 |
Mrsoft3:Does my marital status validate or void My Opinion? And No I am not! 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by Nobody: 5:28am On Apr 24, 2022 |
Gentleman900000:So what exactly do you want us to do 4u? Do you want Nairalanders to help u police her? WOMEN are fearless when it comes to risk taking. Its only a woman that can hop into an unknown vehicle at 12midnight on a lonely road without fears. Imagine the risks prostitutes take on daily basis accompanying men to journey of unknown. Despite the unabating murders permeating the society, u will still find hard heartened ladies flagging cars down at 2am. Such Ladies have Big gods and guts accompanying them. So, your wife is correct when she tells you she's not a kid in the BUSINESS of RISK TAKING. She has got penchant for such. No be today she start! 25 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by Nobody: 6:16am On Apr 24, 2022 |
Gentleman900000: A young girl of 26? If you're above 35 and her ex is around 27-29, they've reconnected. Leave these ones to mature well before you marry them. Anyway, what do I know 20 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by wunmi590(m): 6:55am On Apr 24, 2022 |
Where unah dey see this type of house wife material? 13 Likes |
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by Gentleman900000: 9:05am On Apr 24, 2022 |
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Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by emmanuelbrown26: 9:06am On Apr 24, 2022 |
Gentleman900000:I think I know your wife, 5 Likes |
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by Gentleman900000: 9:29am On Apr 24, 2022 |
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Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by DrFunmisticGlow: 9:32am On Apr 24, 2022 |
ETHICALLYrlght:what on earth are you sniffing panties for? 22 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by inoki247: 10:15am On Apr 24, 2022 |
lol all na no dey tire for all diz marriage wahala ni... Your wife went out behind your back wetin mak we du na we help you marry her.... when you know say you no fit deal with marriage issue and be a man why you put head... Abeg allow us rest... 2 Likes |
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by chaddy16: 10:15am On Apr 24, 2022 |
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Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by osariemenk(m): 10:15am On Apr 24, 2022 |
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