Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by Kaxmytex(m): 10:28am On Apr 24, 2022 |
ETHICALLYrlght: If I were in your shoes, after her confession, I'd hold her tight, caress her body and kiss guilt out of her mind.
I'd cuddle her and if she wants more I'll give her the appropriate dosage for sexual healing.
You're not romantic, that's the problem.
When was the last time you went to the Cinema with your wife?
When was the last time you sent her a voice noice at work telling her, "sweetie, I wanna sniff your panties right now, pull it down gently with my teeth and worship your body which is the reason I still live".
Do you remember that period when your relationship was younger? When you couldn't stay a day without calling her for minutes if she wasn't with you? When you'd go for dates and tell her you'd buy London for her? When you made her forget there was any man in her life before you and so she accepted to be your woman forever?
Go back to those days. If possible, get her a wedding gown and yourself a suit and remake your vows in your living room. If you have kids let them be part of it. Promise to love her forever and ever and let her be your best friend who will tell you everything including when she uses the toilet.
If you went to the world's best marriage counselor who had saved first year marriages that could have crashed to reach 4 decades of joy and happiness, their recommendation wouldn't be different from mine.
If you follow my advice and it doesn't produce positive results, mention me and I'll deactivate my account. Use teeth comot wetin and sniff wetin??, una don spoil diz country finish, is that even ethically right? 1 Like |
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by Nyanabo(m): 10:28am On Apr 24, 2022 |
ETHICALLYrlght: If I were in your shoes, after her confession, I'd hold her tight, caress her body and kiss guilt out of her mind.
I'd cuddle her and if she wants more I'll give her the appropriate dosage for sexual healing.
You're not romantic, that's the problem.
When was the last time you went to the Cinema with your wife?
When was the last time you sent her a voice noice at work telling her, "sweetie, I wanna sniff your panties right now, pull it down gently with my teeth and worship your body which is the reason I still live".
Do you remember that period when your relationship was younger? When you couldn't stay a day without calling her for minutes if she wasn't with you? When you'd go for dates and tell her you'd buy London for her? When you made her forget there was any man in her life before you and so she accepted to be your woman forever?
Go back to those days. If possible, get her a wedding gown and yourself a suit and remake your vows in your living room. If you have kids let them be part of it. Promise to love her forever and ever and let her be your best friend who will tell you everything including when she uses the toilet.
If you went to the world's best marriage counselor who had saved first year marriages that could have crashed to reach 4 decades of joy and happiness, their recommendation wouldn't be different from mine.
If you follow my advice and it doesn't produce positive results, mention me and I'll deactivate my account. Yourself and the 15 other people who liked your comment are the reasons men are regarded as simp or red pillers. Condone a cheating wife ? never in my life. And I won't advice someone to do so. If the devil's wants to kill you quickly, he gives you a bad wife or a bad husband. 5 Likes |
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by StarGra: 10:28am On Apr 24, 2022 |
Any partner who still thinks of his/her Ex while married is a very bad sign that such marriage won't last...I have seen many not last..... 5 Likes |
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by Bobloco: 10:28am On Apr 24, 2022 |
SIMPly forgive but don't forget and losegaurd |
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by twilliamx(m): 10:28am On Apr 24, 2022 |
Sheybi Na one woman dey just use cutlass redesign for ondo. Make she nor dey careful 3 Likes |
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by Hannover(m): 10:28am On Apr 24, 2022 |
falcon01: She's a fool for not telling you where she went and you are right, who will she call if something happens? If by chance you catch her cheating oga don't you ever forgive her, because obviously she knows what she's doing and is very very very aware, just do your own part, be the best husband you could be. Hey!!! Na person wife not girlfriend. Learn some manners 2 Likes |
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by Kobicove(m): 10:29am On Apr 24, 2022 |
DryMouth: Lol. Na ashawo you marry so The way you guys call people ashawo sef?! ![sad](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/sad.png) 1 Like |
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by SarkinYarki: 10:30am On Apr 24, 2022 |
godliman: Between you and her I don't know who is more foolish, my mind tells me its you. Keep loving and forgiving her you will soon start training someone else:s child. Trust me he is already training someone's child 1 Like |
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by BobPRESS5(m): 10:30am On Apr 24, 2022 |
Just be watchful anyway! Nothing more until you caught her red handed! |
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by SarkinYarki: 10:31am On Apr 24, 2022 |
Kobicove:
The way you guys call people ashawo sef?! ![sad](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/sad.png) But na ashawo she be na !!!! 1 Like |
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by dauntless15(m): 10:31am On Apr 24, 2022 |
ETHICALLYrlght: If I were in your shoes, after her confession, I'd hold her tight, caress her body and kiss guilt out of her mind.
I'd cuddle her and if she wants more I'll give her the appropriate dosage for sexual healing.
You're not romantic, that's the problem.
When was the last time you went to the Cinema with your wife?
When was the last time you sent her a voice noice at work telling her, "sweetie, I wanna sniff your panties right now, pull it down gently with my teeth and worship your body which is the reason I still live".
Do you remember that period when your relationship was younger? When you couldn't stay a day without calling her for minutes if she wasn't with you? When you'd go for dates and tell her you'd buy London for her? When you made her forget there was any man in her life before you and so she accepted to be your woman forever?
Go back to those days. If possible, get her a wedding gown and yourself a suit and remake your vows in your living room. If you have kids let them be part of it. Promise to love her forever and ever and let her be your best friend who will tell you everything including when she uses the toilet.
If you went to the world's best marriage counselor who had saved first year marriages that could have crashed to reach 4 decades of joy and happiness, their recommendation wouldn't be different from mine.
If you follow my advice and it doesn't produce positive results, mention me and I'll deactivate my account. dude sniff panties? What's wrong with you naw? ![lipsrsealed](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/lipsrsealed.png) |
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by koyeni(m): 10:32am On Apr 24, 2022 |
ETHICALLYrlght: If I were in your shoes, after her confession, I'd hold her tight, caress her body and kiss guilt out of her mind.
I'd cuddle her and if she wants more I'll give her the appropriate dosage for sexual healing.
You're not romantic, that's the problem.
When was the last time you went to the Cinema with your wife?
When was the last time you sent her a voice noice at work telling her, "sweetie, I wanna sniff your panties right now, pull it down gently with my teeth and worship your body which is the reason I still live".
Do you remember that period when your relationship was younger? When you couldn't stay a day without calling her for minutes if she wasn't with you? When you'd go for dates and tell her you'd buy London for her? When you made her forget there was any man in her life before you and so she accepted to be your woman forever?
Go back to those days. If possible, get her a wedding gown and yourself a suit and remake your vows in your living room. If you have kids let them be part of it. Promise to love her forever and ever and let her be your best friend who will tell you everything including when she uses the toilet.
If you went to the world's best marriage counselor who had saved first year marriages that could have crashed to reach 4 decades of joy and happiness, their recommendation wouldn't be different from mine.
If you follow my advice and it doesn't produce positive results, mention me and I'll deactivate my account. Rubbish So not doing all these is an excuse to cheat? 3 Likes |
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by Hannover(m): 10:33am On Apr 24, 2022 |
manontree: Sad. For her to do this and even the changing of clothes somewhere else suggest premeditation
It is highly likely her conscience is bothering her about something she did that day. She felt by telling you half truth, she would ease the burden on her conscience
She hasn't told you the entire truth and forgiveness should be the last discussion at the moment
Hahahaha...You're indeed very experienced |
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by Jeterry(m): 10:33am On Apr 24, 2022 |
She's seeing a man please believe me.. no sex yet, she's stalling. There's something you're not doing right. She's your wife you sleep together every night. This is the advantage you have over the other guy. Talk to her, tell her you need her to tell you how she wants to be treated and you should do it. If you want to save your marriage, yours need fighting for right now. These sneaky around will hurt both of you at the long run. Create time to enjoy your marriage with her, she's young & inexperienced. You should lead her. She'll come through when you do. |
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by ZUBY77(m): 10:33am On Apr 24, 2022 |
5 Likes |
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by Martartins(m): 10:33am On Apr 24, 2022 |
She doesn't want to admit that she cheated on you. 4 Likes |
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by drLammy(m): 10:34am On Apr 24, 2022 |
How did we get here... Indeed modern man is truly suffering 5 Likes |
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by hopexter(m): 10:34am On Apr 24, 2022 |
falcon01: She's a fool for not telling you where she went and you are right, who will she call if something happens? If by chance you catch her cheating oga don't you ever forgive her, because obviously she knows what she's doing and is very very very aware, just do your own part, be the best husband you could be. How can you call someone’s wife a fool just cuz he seeks your advise? Who never bleeped up hands in the air got your both hands up sir! 2 Likes |
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by seunH: 10:34am On Apr 24, 2022 |
manontree: Sad. For her to do this and even the changing of clothes somewhere else suggest premeditation
It is highly likely her conscience is bothering her about something she did that day. She felt by telling you half truth, she would ease the burden on her conscience
She hasn't told you the entire truth and forgiveness should be the last discussion at the moment
Best comment so far 1 Like |
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by Nobody: 10:35am On Apr 24, 2022 |
Gentleman900000: Good evening, my wife went to work yesterday and i was at home because it was my off day at work. She came back late and i suspected that she went somewhere but didn't confront her.
Few months back, i was going through her phone and saw she had some dirty chats with her ex and that one was saying he should find time for him. I confronted her when i saw this and she apologized that such will never happen again.
Today, we were both laying next to each other in bed and she said she have a confession to make. She said she went out to the cinema with a friend of hers. She even took a cloth along with her when she was going without informing me. She said she changed her clothes at her friend's place. I asked her that if anything happen to her at the so called friend's house that she went to without informing me, who will they call? She said she's not a kid that i should stop saying such thing. She's here apologizing again and i don't know if i should forgive her or not. Pls forgive her & have more time for her, God bless your home. |
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Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by Onyeziokwu(m): 10:37am On Apr 24, 2022 |
ETHICALLYrlght: If I were in your shoes, after her confession, I'd hold her tight, caress her body and kiss guilt out of her mind.
I'd cuddle her and if she wants more I'll give her the appropriate dosage for sexual healing.
You're not romantic, that's the problem.
When was the last time you went to the Cinema with your wife?
When was the last time you sent her a voice noice at work telling her, "sweetie, I wanna sniff your panties right now, pull it down gently with my teeth and worship your body which is the reason I still live".
Do you remember that period when your relationship was younger? When you couldn't stay a day without calling her for minutes if she wasn't with you? When you'd go for dates and tell her you'd buy London for her? When you made her forget there was any man in her life before you and so she accepted to be your woman forever?
Go back to those days. If possible, get her a wedding gown and yourself a suit and remake your vows in your living room. If you have kids let them be part of it. Promise to love her forever and ever and let her be your best friend who will tell you everything including when she uses the toilet.
If you went to the world's best marriage counselor who had saved first year marriages that could have crashed to reach 4 decades of joy and happiness, their recommendation wouldn't be different from mine.
If you follow my advice and it doesn't produce positive results, mention me and I'll deactivate my account. Legend!!! 1 Like |
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by opera1(m): 10:38am On Apr 24, 2022 |
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Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by belshazzar(m): 10:40am On Apr 24, 2022 |
ETHICALLYrlght: If I were in your shoes, after her confession, I'd hold her tight, caress her body and kiss guilt out of her mind.
I'd cuddle her and if she wants more I'll give her the appropriate dosage for sexual healing.
You're not romantic, that's the problem.
When was the last time you went to the Cinema with your wife?
When was the last time you sent her a voice noice at work telling her, "sweetie, I wanna sniff your panties right now, pull it down gently with my teeth and worship your body which is the reason I still live".
Do you remember that period when your relationship was younger? When you couldn't stay a day without calling her for minutes if she wasn't with you? When you'd go for dates and tell her you'd buy London for her? When you made her forget there was any man in her life before you and so she accepted to be your woman forever?
Go back to those days. If possible, get her a wedding gown and yourself a suit and remake your vows in your living room. If you have kids let them be part of it. Promise to love her forever and ever and let her be your best friend who will tell you everything including when she uses the toilet.
If you went to the world's best marriage counselor who had saved first year marriages that could have crashed to reach 4 decades of joy and happiness, their recommendation wouldn't be different from mine.
If you follow my advice and it doesn't produce positive results, mention me and I'll deactivate my account. Best Advice of the year . I can't believe the OP is getting this for free. |
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by fkj950ax(m): 10:43am On Apr 24, 2022 |
Op You guys aren't matured enough for dating. It's worrisome you are married.
If going out "behind each other's back" is an issue, then lot of things were missing during your courtship or dating. |
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by chukwuibuipob: 10:43am On Apr 24, 2022 |
![sad](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/sad.png) ? Better tell her parents,let dem know her wayward lifestyle. Hear the useless thing saying she is not a kid? No be adult one chief killed in his hotel @ife? She even waka with extra clothe after doing cow girl outside Gentleman900000: Good evening, my wife went to work yesterday and i was at home because it was my off day at work. She came back late and i suspected that she went somewhere but didn't confront her.
Few months back, i was going through her phone and saw she had some dirty chats with her ex and that one was saying he should find time for him. I confronted her when i saw this and she apologized that such will never happen again.
Today, we were both laying next to each other in bed and she said she have a confession to make. She said she went out to the cinema with a friend of hers. She even took a cloth along with her when she was going without informing me. She said she changed her clothes at her friend's place. I asked her that if anything happen to her at the so called friend's house that she went to without informing me, who will they call? She said she's not a kid that i should stop saying such thing. She's here apologizing again and i don't know if i should forgive her or not. 2 Likes |
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by ukaface(f): 10:44am On Apr 24, 2022 |
ETHICALLYrlght: If I were in your shoes, after her confession, I'd hold her tight, caress her body and kiss guilt out of her mind.
I'd cuddle her and if she wants more I'll give her the appropriate dosage for sexual healing.
You're not romantic, that's the problem.
When was the last time you went to the Cinema with your wife?
When was the last time you sent her a voice noice at work telling her, "sweetie, I wanna sniff your panties right now, pull it down gently with my teeth and worship your body which is the reason I still live".
Do you remember that period when your relationship was younger? When you couldn't stay a day without calling her for minutes if she wasn't with you? When you'd go for dates and tell her you'd buy London for her? When you made her forget there was any man in her life before you and so she accepted to be your woman forever?
Go back to those days. If possible, get her a wedding gown and yourself a suit and remake your vows in your living room. If you have kids let them be part of it. Promise to love her forever and ever and let her be your best friend who will tell you everything including when she uses the toilet.
If you went to the world's best marriage counselor who had saved first year marriages that could have crashed to reach 4 decades of joy and happiness, their recommendation wouldn't be different from mine.
If you follow my advice and it doesn't produce positive results, mention me and I'll deactivate my account. chop kiss Come fess, are you a male? Come let me pay your groom price 2 Likes |
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Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by belshazzar(m): 10:45am On Apr 24, 2022 |
royalfly:
God and u got likes. What has happened to this world. Wow, if u are married and ur advice works for you then u must b supper human.. whats going on? Maybe there is a sacarsisim i did not see here. Wow, truly i should not have married. the question should be what has happened to you for being unable to spot sheer brilliance of an Advice in a comment |
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by Soleye24(m): 10:46am On Apr 24, 2022 |
ETHICALLYrlght: If I were in your shoes, after her confession, I'd hold her tight, caress her body and kiss guilt out of her mind.
I'd cuddle her and if she wants more I'll give her the appropriate dosage for sexual healing.
You're not romantic, that's the problem.
When was the last time you went to the Cinema with your wife?
When was the last time you sent her a voice noice at work telling her, "sweetie, I wanna sniff your panties right now, pull it down gently with my teeth and worship your body which is the reason I still live".
Do you remember that period when your relationship was younger? When you couldn't stay a day without calling her for minutes if she wasn't with you? When you'd go for dates and tell her you'd buy London for her? When you made her forget there was any man in her life before you and so she accepted to be your woman forever?
Go back to those days. If possible, get her a wedding gown and yourself a suit and remake your vows in your living room. If you have kids let them be part of it. Promise to love her forever and ever and let her be your best friend who will tell you everything including when she uses the toilet.
If you went to the world's best marriage counselor who had saved first year marriages that could have crashed to reach 4 decades of joy and happiness, their recommendation wouldn't be different from mine.
If you follow my advice and it doesn't produce positive results, mention me and I'll deactivate my account. No offense intended but you are not making sense here, how would you explain a man that does everything you have written up there with his wife and she still cheats on him? You are failing to address the issue, you don't know who OP is, how is running his house, things he is doing for his wife but you just jumped to assumption that he doesn't take his wife to cinema and bla bla bla. Things like this honestly give me second thought about marriage, it's sad but true married women cheats more than single ladies. She even told her husband that she is adult and knows what to do, like seriously? I believe we all read about the married woman in Ondo that was matcheted by her boyfriend. Had it been he successfully killed her, the poor husband would have been in serious mess just because of the wayward life of his wife. Marriage is slavery, it's overrated 6 Likes |
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by Kkk777: 10:46am On Apr 24, 2022 |
ETHICALLYrlght: If I were in your shoes, after her confession, I'd hold her tight, caress her body and kiss guilt out of her mind.
I'd cuddle her and if she wants more I'll give her the appropriate dosage for sexual healing.
You're not romantic, that's the problem.
When was the last time you went to the Cinema with your wife?
When was the last time you sent her a voice noice at work telling her, "sweetie, I wanna sniff your panties right now, pull it down gently with my teeth and worship your body which is the reason I still live".
Do you remember that period when your relationship was younger? When you couldn't stay a day without calling her for minutes if she wasn't with you? When you'd go for dates and tell her you'd buy London for her? When you made her forget there was any man in her life before you and so she accepted to be your woman forever?
Go back to those days. If possible, get her a wedding gown and yourself a suit and remake your vows in your living room. If you have kids let them be part of it. Promise to love her forever and ever and let her be your best friend who will tell you everything including when she uses the toilet.
If you went to the world's best marriage counselor who had saved first year marriages that could have crashed to reach 4 decades of joy and happiness, their recommendation wouldn't be different from mine.
If you follow my advice and it doesn't produce positive results, mention me and I'll deactivate my account. You no get sense. I never did these rubbish and my marriage is so wonderful. I have married for 18 years now without any misunderstanding. What I can say is the wife is not disciplined at all and still surround herself with useles friends that neither respect her nor wish her good. From this story, there are things that the husband should have done at the early stage of the relationship that he ignored . The husband should talk sent to the wife and make her understand that it's the responsibility of both of you to make things work. Have glorious vision together. share the visions always and work toward it. and abobe all love her genuinely as husband not as woman mugun and always pray to God together. May God touch her and make her receive sense. 5 Likes |
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by drlateef: 10:47am On Apr 24, 2022 |
Your wife possibly has more guilty confessions to make. She just couldn’t muster the courage to spill more beans. She is most likely cheating on you. 4 Likes |