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Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by purehustle101(m): 12:33pm On Apr 24, 2022 |
Clone her WhatsApp and monitor the leech! is better you forgive buhari than take back a cheating wife or girlfriend.. 1 Like |
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by Peppysco: 12:34pm On Apr 24, 2022 |
ETHICALLYrlght: As good as this sounds, it could have worked only with our mothers and not these women of now, they just don't care about all this sakamanje anymore. A cheating woman would cheat any day, no matter the amount of poems you read to her 2 Likes |
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by AMI3(m): 12:38pm On Apr 24, 2022 |
Jeon: Curiosity kills a car |
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by OlawaleBammie: 12:38pm On Apr 24, 2022 |
bonnyhope:not necessarily seeing, ok wait, the man that said his wife is having affair with one immigration officer did he meet dem knacking?? |
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by Gentleman900000: 12:41pm On Apr 24, 2022 |
Yes, i'm very faithful. In fact, ever since we got married, it has been me and my wife. I don't talk to anyone else not to talk of friends koyyess: |
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by Godszilla: 12:42pm On Apr 24, 2022 |
Guy you don buy market,its going to take something seismic for this to change and lot of time/energy. I suppose u will need alot of tolerance, perseverance n forgiveness for the foreseeable future,probably this the future u wan(best of luck). Its your life tho live how u wan it,d joy n pains r all yours.remember neva go violence if u can't bear it at some point - use your brain not your emotion. Cheers Gentleman900000: |
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by Gentleman900000: 12:43pm On Apr 24, 2022 |
She said it's a female friend she went out with but to be honest, i no longer trust as much as i do before after finding out that she still talks to her ex Idaytesj29: 1 Like |
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by Nobody: 12:45pm On Apr 24, 2022 |
alen4smith: She's not a small girl but still retaining the traits of not knowing how to handle exes trying to come closer. |
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by Gentleman900000: 12:46pm On Apr 24, 2022 |
I have been treating her well in the best way i can. I do the cleanings around the house because she's not the type that likes cleaning. I cook our meal sometimes too. I even wash our clothes sometimes too. Jaqenhghar: |
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by Godszilla: 12:47pm On Apr 24, 2022 |
I can imagine the emotional trauma u going thru at the moment, it's unfair but hey life is tuff.i pray u have the strength n wisdom to pass thru this phase Gentleman900000: |
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by koyyess: 12:47pm On Apr 24, 2022 |
Gentleman900000: I am concerned with this. Has your wife ever implied that you are 'suffocating' her? You should have time to spend with good friends if you have them around. Sometimes, people appreciate you more when you aren't always available to them. What do you think? |
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by Nobody: 12:47pm On Apr 24, 2022 |
falcon01:Your Marital status does not really but validate nor void your opinion however,some scenario require experience,when you say if you find out she is cheating don’t ever forgive her part you need to evaluate if you would advice the wife to not ever forgive the man if the story was the other way round. Marriage is a beautiful thing and requires Patience,hard work and good communication. |
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by Gentleman900000: 12:51pm On Apr 24, 2022 |
No, she hasn't. I'm not the type that do keep friends like that. Although i used to before i got married but ever since then, it has been d 2 of us. The only thing i do hear her complain of is that i don't use to take her out. I'm not the outgoing type koyyess: |
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by Nobody: 12:54pm On Apr 24, 2022 |
Gentleman900000:I applaud you for being faithful,it is a good thing.Can i remind you,that you are in a Marriage not Maximum security prison so why would you not have friends?.Maybe don’t suffocate each other you are allowed to socialise with your friends sometimes and have “you” time too.You cannot sit home and be looking at each other’s face all of the time. |
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by koyyess: 12:57pm On Apr 24, 2022 |
Gentleman900000: Well, there you have it. Compromise a little and take her out when you have a good amount of leisure. 1 Like |
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by Gentleman900000: 12:57pm On Apr 24, 2022 |
I had some awful experiences with friends in the past, so i decided not to keep friends again Tutu82: |
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by charlesdinho7(m): 12:58pm On Apr 24, 2022 |
any of my wife's ex that will disturb her when married to me, may thunder strike just one part of your yanse, amen |
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by verybadmouth(m): 1:07pm On Apr 24, 2022 |
You married the wrong woman. Better divorce her and have peace of mind. 1 Like |
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by quickly: 1:09pm On Apr 24, 2022 |
Gentleman900000: She might be seeing her ex. Women love attention and an ex giving her attention will affect her mentally. I will say forgive but let her know ur not happy with it. You can vex small sef but don’t overdo it Don’t listen to that guy saying kiss her passionately that’s bad advice |
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by wizkidblogger(f): 1:09pm On Apr 24, 2022 |
lol. you are on a long thing. the earlier you know, the better for you 1 Like |
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by Idaytesj29(m): 1:10pm On Apr 24, 2022 |
Gentleman900000: Do you know this female? |
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by spencekat(m): 1:11pm On Apr 24, 2022 |
falcon01:Ask am |
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by quickly: 1:11pm On Apr 24, 2022 |
ETHICALLYrlght: Bad advice na ppl like u women take advantage of |
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by spencekat(m): 1:12pm On Apr 24, 2022 |
MALIGNANTGuest:It is not fearless anything,it is sheer stupidity. |
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by Firstcitizen: 1:13pm On Apr 24, 2022 |
wunmi590: Rephrase your question. Where pesin fit go make e no see this kind wife material for naija Me: Nowhere |
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by 234GT(m): 1:13pm On Apr 24, 2022 |
ETHICALLYrlght: Don't justify cheating. If the man is not treating her right, she should divorce him first before looking for a man that will treat her the way she wants, not when she is still in her husbands house. 2 Likes |
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by OlawaleBammie: 1:15pm On Apr 24, 2022 |
zedegit:lol, look at u?? I am a patriarchal man bro, i take care of my house without blinking an eye, every bills are on me from house rent to transport for both of us, even toiletries. Not that my wife is not working, she's working and i want her to have savings, i want her to do something meaningful in my house, i want her to gain more ground financially.. According to wat the op says, the woman is communicating with her ex with is a time bomb that will soon explode. Or are u goin to tell me that the woman is not knowing now that what she's doing is a great mistake? A full grown woman ooh that knows the implications of her actions, Abi what gives u the assurance that if she start cheating now she will stop if u catch her and overlook it, lol, dont be unfortunate to forgive someone like that bro cus u are actually digging ur grave ursef. A cheating partner will either kill u or one of the children, but most likely ur life is in danger sir, and its only a matter of tym she send u to the underworld. Or she wretch u to pieces. Their is one of my brothers, he's a driver, tanker driver. This man was living in ore with his wife until he secured a job in lagos, he left for Lagos living his wife and two kids behind This man did everything practically for this woman to the point that he sold his golf(that small gulf car) and gave his wife 80% of the proceed for the wife to add to her chemist capital. This make made sure he come home trice or even four tyms in a week so its not an issue of abandoning partner. Weneva this man ferry goods from Lagos to the east he must always branch home in ore and sleep over, even at the expense of his work. Now this is the issue, my brother is a workaholic and he believes so much in his wife, he sends money home to the wife for the wife to develop their building project (he has a building project he was doing before moving to lagos) Could u bliv this woman wouldn't spend a dime on the site, she pack everything and gives to concubine, the wife was even telling the man that he should not bo coming home frequently again, lol to my brother his wife is caring and doesn't want him to stress himself so much. At a stage d wife started denying him sex. Well, one day my brother eye cleared. The man lost his job over there, i tink the company folded up i dont know sha, so the man had to come back to ore, immediately the man told his wife of his plan to come back to ore the wife flame up, shouting on the man that why didn't he find another job in lagos instead of coming back to ore. That was wen my brother started feeling uneasy about his wife, so he started putting 2+2 together and he arrived at a conclusion that his wife is cheating. Gbam!!! If to say na cheat she cheat e for better na, before guyman arive madam don elope, she had packed everything in her shop away, she didn't develop any site infact the site became bushy. My brother broke down immediately, he nearly develope mental imbalance if not that his father and mother are still alive, they consoled him but my brother no balance, till today the guy no balance. Well, karma was around not just long ago sha, karma visited the woman and.......hmmmmm, if u see the wife u go pity her. The man he eloped with has abandoned her and she has nothing again, no shop, no husband nothing nothing. No money to even start another shop. Bro its this same man that this woman is calling for small small financial help and d man would provide (even if na me a go give her sha) The man has already remarried some month back sha but he has learnt his lesson. Did i say that this man has seen a traces of this act in her before the bomb blow ooh, but he behaved like u, eyin balogun leyin obirin See bro, cheating is not good from bothe partner and it should be condemned no mater what, but if peradventure it happened, cheating from a woman has a higher risk than from a man. My wife knows me, me i am not a balogun leyin obirin ooh, lol, i cant see danger and still go into it 3 Likes |
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by Originalsly: 1:17pm On Apr 24, 2022 |
Bro... is your wife... that's adultery period.... you should cut the marriage .... send her back to her parents or out of the house. You should've done that the first time.... you forgave her... to a woman that means approval ... the reason she has done it again.... and let you know. Her mindset is she can go and do her thing ... and her conscience and everything will be OK as long as she let you know. After sleeping with the ex... why wouldn't she be sleeping with others? You allow her to stay... would you sleep with her? ... if yes.... wouldn't your mind be thinking who you be diving in after?.... what if the person has deposited a virus?... a disease?... would you then be wearing condoms everytime because of fear? ... what if she becomes pregnant?... is it by you?... if you have a child... why wouldn't you now go and have a DNA test? .if she becomes "sick"... or was sick...... did she have an abortion? Now that she confessed... if I'm the other guy... why wouldn't she tell me?... and why wouldn't I tell her we can no longer do this after work... he only suspected because you went home late... so going forward... you leave for work.... spend the day with me... and return regular time. Why must you have all this stress? What ai can guarantee you ... is she'll never stop. You either keep her and learn to accept that you are not the only one sleeping with your wife..... or let her out of your life. 1 Like |
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by executive12: 1:18pm On Apr 24, 2022 |
manontree: Exactly. I also suspect she didn't just go to the Cinema. I suspect she went to see her boyfriend. |
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by executive12: 1:20pm On Apr 24, 2022 |
Chyma231: Exactly. |
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by phemmyfour: 1:27pm On Apr 24, 2022 |
Gentleman900000:Report her to her families |
Re: Help! My Wife Went Out Behind My Back. by Allisgud: 1:30pm On Apr 24, 2022 |
DrFunmisticGlow:no mind am he go use nose carry mess |
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