How many kids do you have? Better get her pregnant before someone does it for you

Gentleman900000:
What are you saying sir? How can someone go out without informing the person he/she lives with? What if something happened to him/her at where she went to? Don't you think of that?

Be honest.... from your OP, your worry wasn't that something might happen to her but instead that she might be out cheating on you with someone. You mentioned her going out in the past with an ex for this very reason.

You are both adults and so I see no reason why your wife would need to be running around like a teenager around you- it is teenagers that pack a change of cloths when going out. If your wife feels she needs to hide her intentions from you when supposedly hanging out with friends then what means your relationship is already in trouble and my suggestion is you both seek professional marriage counseling to help you get to the root of the many problems here. And don't for a second think it is all her fault in any way.

Heavensent01:
she's apologizing


she's confessing and she's telling you to stop telling her not to go out without informing you that she's not a kid?



all these contradict each other, someone apologizing/confessing don't argue, she get the blames and take responsibility but here she's telling you she's not a kid


is either someone is trying to blackmail her and she's trying to get a soft landing before she will give you the real confession or she's trying to manipulate your policing to justify her adulthood



just hold on for the real confession, you should have cloned her WhatsApp or Facebook account for the real gist, this will lead you to your final conclusion

teach me

Gentleman900000:
With all happening around everywhere, it's good that she went somewhere without informing me?

Your wife is not your child neither is she your property that you should have it constantly tracked or monitored.

Gentleman900000:
Good evening, my wife went to work yesterday and i was at home because it was my off day at work. She came back late and i suspected that she went somewhere but didn't confront her.

Few months back, i was going through her phone and saw she had some dirty chats with her ex and that one was saying he should find time for him. I confronted her when i saw this and she apologized that such will never happen again.

Today, we were both laying next to each other in bed and she said she have a confession to make. She said she went out to the cinema with a friend of hers. She even took a cloth along with her when she was going without informing me. She said she changed her clothes at her friend's place. I asked her that if anything happen to her at the so called friend's house that she went to without informing me, who will they call? She said she's not a kid that i should stop saying such thing. She's here apologizing again and i don't know if i should forgive her or not.

Forgive and caution, also report to her parents this that she has done

Maybe your marriage has lost its spice, but when spouse remembers there ex its a big issue.

If anything happens to her … the next screaming headline would be “HUSBAND ALLEGEDLY USES MISSING WIFE FOR RITUAL!!!

Make her comfortable and let her understand she is free to go anywhere reasonable as long as she informs you duly.

Coinwarrior:
teach me

goto her linked devices or web on her WhatsApp top right .... you've to download WhatsApp clone app first on App store. the process is not hard sha


na on your phone you go download the WhatsApp clone app then finished it up there. I read my wife chat without her knowledge but na better pikin, I don't forgive cheater

Gentleman900000:
Good evening, my wife went to work yesterday and i was at home because it was my off day at work. She came back late and i suspected that she went somewhere but didn't confront her.

Few months back, i was going through her phone and saw she had some dirty chats with her ex and that one was saying he should find time for him. I confronted her when i saw this and she apologized that such will never happen again.

Today, we were both laying next to each other in bed and she said she have a confession to make. She said she went out to the cinema with a friend of hers. She even took a cloth along with her when she was going without informing me. She said she changed her clothes at her friend's place. I asked her that if anything happen to her at the so called friend's house that she went to without informing me, who will they call? She said she's not a kid that i should stop saying such thing. She's here apologizing again and i don't know if i should forgive her or not.

You married an olosho sir. She will keep doing this. Go and do DNA test for your kids to be sure they are yours. If a lady is prone to waka waka before marriage she will continue her waka waka after marriage. Yes you paid her bride price ohh but she is not for you alone. Send her packing before you beat her to death ohh or be prepared to share her with other men peacefully.

Gentleman900000:
Good evening, my wife went to work yesterday and i was at home because it was my off day at work. She came back late and i suspected that she went somewhere but didn't confront her.

Few months back, i was going through her phone and saw she had some dirty chats with her ex and that one was saying he should find time for him. I confronted her when i saw this and she apologized that such will never happen again.

Today, we were both laying next to each other in bed and she said she have a confession to make. She said she went out to the cinema with a friend of hers. She even took a cloth along with her when she was going without informing me. She said she changed her clothes at her friend's place. I asked her that if anything happen to her at the so called friend's house that she went to without informing me, who will they call? She said she's not a kid that i should stop saying such thing. She's here apologizing again and i don't know if i should forgive her or not.

Take a decision now because won't stop apologising and you will keep accepting her

Really

Isaacpromise1:
If anything happens to her … the next screaming headline would be “HUSBAND ALLEGEDLY USES MISSING WIFE FOR RITUAL!!!

Make her comfortable and let her understand she is free to go anywhere reasonable as long as she informs you duly.

Get over yourselves and your obvious control issues.

Kobojunkie:
There's absolutely nothing sacred about your marriages. Once you snap out of that delusion, you will begin to really see it as it should be.

Marriage is sacred alright from your cultural, religious and traditional point of view.

You may hold a divergent view as entitled to you, but it doesn't accord you the facts.

McDuncan:
Marriage is sacred alright from your cultural, religious and traditional point of view.

You may hold a divergent view as entitled to you, but it doesn't accord you the facts.

There's nothing sacred about marriage from my religious view, and since I don't subscribe to your cultures and traditions, those opinions have nothing to do with me either.

Gentleman900000:
Good evening, my wife went to work yesterday and i was at home because it was my off day at work. She came back late and i suspected that she went somewhere but didn't confront her.

Few months back, i was going through her phone and saw she had some dirty chats with her ex and that one was saying he should find time for him. I confronted her when i saw this and she apologized that such will never happen again.

Today, we were both laying next to each other in bed and she said she have a confession to make. She said she went out to the cinema with a friend of hers. She even took a cloth along with her when she was going without informing me. She said she changed her clothes at her friend's place. I asked her that if anything happen to her at the so called friend's house that she went to without informing me, who will they call? She said she's not a kid that i should stop saying such thing. She's here apologizing again and i don't know if i should forgive her or not.

Forgive the fool but don't be a partner to the full

Kobojunkie:
There's nothing sacred about marriage from my religious view, and since I don't subscribe to your cultures and traditions, those opinions have nothing to do with me either.

Except that religion was founded by you, marriage in most major religions is considered sacred. In Christianity, GOD set the standard and requirements for marriage and often times described HIS relationship with us as a marriage. Your views as entitled by you doesn't accord you the facts.

McDuncan:
Except that religion was founded by you, marriage in most major religions is considered sacred. In Christianity, GOD set the standard and requirements for marriage and often times described HIS relationship with us as a marriage. Your views as entitled by you doesn't accord you the facts.

In Christianity, God cursed marriage in Genesis 3 vs 16, rendering it unholy/nonsacred, so I don't know what you are babbling on about here.

Idaytesj29:


Easier said than done for many homes plagued with financial irregularities, 7 to 7 jobs and children to Care for etc

It still doesn't stop you from making out time for yourself. In this case it's still a young marriage and their romance life should still have a very high spark.

Kobojunkie:
In Christianity, God cursed marriage in Genesis 3 vs 16, rendering it unholy/nonsacred, so I don't know what you are babbling on about here.

At this point it is pertinent to let you know that this is postmann and that we've been through this before.

Your ignoble campaign that GOD cursed marriage is not just a lie but a Satan inspired one.

If GOD cursed marriage why would HE say in proverbs 18:22 He who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtain favour from the LORD?

There are other examples emphasizing the sacredness of the union between a man and his wife as illustrated by our sacred covenant (relationship) with GOD. Here are some few more;

Rev 19: 7-9
Let us rejoice and be glad and give the glory to Him, for the marriage of the Lamb has come and His bride has made herself ready.”

Hosea 2:16
It will come about in that day,” declares the Lord,
“That you will call Me Ishi (My Husband)
And will no longer call Me Baali

McDuncan:
1. If GOD cursed marriage why would HE say in proverbs 18:22 He who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtain favour from the LORD?

2. There are other examples emphasizing the sacredness of the union between a man and his wife as illustrated by our sacred covenant (relationship) with GOD. Here are some few more;

2. Rev 19: 7-9
Let us rejoice and be glad and give the glory to Him, for the marriage of the Lamb has come and His bride has made herself ready.”

3. Hosea 2:16
It will come about in that day,” declares the Lord,
“That you will call Me Ishi (My Husband)
And will no longer call Me Baali

1. What is written in Proverbs 18 was not attributed to God by the writer and so I don't understand why you claim God said that to you. Even a fool with eyes know the claim made by the writer in Proverbs is not based on fact.

2. The verse in Revelations which you quoted does not in any way refer to marriage of man and woman as defined by God for men in scripture. The word marriage is merely used to signify a union.

3. Same applies to the use of the word marriage in this verse in Hosea.

Again .Marriage, according to Genesis 2 vs 24 is simply an agreement between a man and woman to become husband and wife(marriage). The very same husband and wife on whom the curse in Genesis 3 vs 16 is placed on by God..

You(wife) will want your husband very much,
    but he(husband) will rule over you(wife).” - Genesis 3 vs 16b

Implicated are the very same husband and wife(one) that is a marriage.

God didn't place that curse on single women or single men, but on men and women in marriage(husband and wife) .I.e. on marriage itself.

Fvck her

I don't understand why you guys are bashing this poster. This is pure sarcasm and you didn't notice.

ETHICALLYrlght:
If I were in your shoes, after her confession, I'd hold her tight, caress her body and kiss guilt out of her mind.

I'd cuddle her and if she wants more I'll give her the appropriate dosage for sexual healing.

You're not romantic, that's the problem.

When was the last time you went to the Cinema with your wife?

When was the last time you sent her a voice noice at work telling her, "sweetie, I wanna sniff your panties right now, pull it down gently with my teeth and worship your body which is the reason I still live".

Do you remember that period when your relationship was younger? When you couldn't stay a day without calling her for minutes if she wasn't with you? When you'd go for dates and tell her you'd buy London for her? When you made her forget there was any man in her life before you and so she accepted to be your woman forever?

Go back to those days. If possible, get her a wedding gown and yourself a suit and remake your vows in your living room. If you have kids let them be part of it. Promise to love her forever and ever and let her be your best friend who will tell you everything including when she uses the toilet.

If you went to the world's best marriage counselor who had saved first year marriages that could have crashed to reach 4 decades of joy and happiness, their recommendation wouldn't be different from mine.

If you follow my advice and it doesn't produce positive results, mention me and I'll deactivate my account.

some people are just trying to sound woke and civilized on this forum....

what is the meaning of a wife can go where ever she wants with another man, even hiding clothes inside bag...??

something you people cannot take..u are telling another person to take it

Kobojunkie:
1. What is written in Proverbs 18 was not attributed to God by the writer and so I don't understand why you claim God said that to you. Even a fool with eyes know the claim made by the writer in Proverbs is not based on fact.

2Tim.3 Verses 16 to 17

[16] All scripture is given by inspiration of God, and is profitable for doctrine, for reproof, for correction, for instruction in righteousness:
[17] That the man of God may be perfect, throughly furnished unto all good works.

This is why I believe you're the most dangerous being alive. For you apportioned certain scripture in the bible as not of GOD. You cherry-pick scripture as to what's convenient and agreeable to your logic and your 'progressive' mind.

Kobojunkie:

2. The verse in Revelations which you quoted does not in any way refer to marriage of man and woman as defined by God for men in scripture. The word marriage is merely used to signify a union.

3. Same applies to the use of the word marriage in this verse in Hosea.

If you're conversant with scripture and attend a sound church, you'd have been thought about GOD's ordained institution on earth being a replica of what is obtainable and required in heaven. For GOD tells man to honour his parents to give us an understanding of HIS being our PARENT. By so doing, HE is teaching us reverence. Same logic applies to the respect and reverence for priests and pastors because HE is our heavenly PREIST. Same logic applies to marriage when HE compares HIS relationship with us as that of a marriage. As sacred and as binding. How else does one send electrons into your cranium to wake up all the cells of your understanding? Man understands the sacredness of the union between man and wife that's why HE being GOD used that understanding to illustrate HIS relationship with us.

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Kobojunkie:

Again .Marriage, according to Genesis 2 vs 24 is simply an agreement between a man and woman to become husband and wife(marriage). The very same husband and wife on whom the curse in Genesis 3 vs 16 is placed on by God..
Implicated are the very same husband and wife(one) that is a marriage.

God didn't place that curse on single women or single men, but on men and women in marriage(husband and wife) .I.e. on marriage itself.

False! Marriage according to Genesis was the completion of GOD's design for humanity. To be bonded in companionship, having one mind and one goal. To multiply and be fruitful in all their endeavour. That's why HE needed not go to the clay a second time but took the man's rib instead. That was symbolic of a bond meant to endure for a lifetime.

I will tell you again like I told you before; the curse was placed on individuals and not on the institution of marriage.

Here's a question for you: the curse on the man was stated as thus; for you the ground is cursed and both thorns and thistles it shall bring forth for you, In the sweat of your face you shall eat bread". Is this is applicable to man irrespective of his marital status? Does single men go through the same struggle?

Again, to the woman HE said, out of pain you shall give birth: whether she gets pregnant in marriage or out of marriage, it is what it is. And men has been lording over women from the start of creation to the very end of time whether in marriage or out of it.

Your logic and understanding is as porous as a picket fence.

McDuncan:
2Tim.3 Verses 16 to 17

[16] All scripture is given by inspiration of God, and is profitable for doctrine, for reproof, for correction, for instruction in righteousness:
[17] That the man of God may be perfect, throughly furnished unto all good works.

This is why I believe you're the most dangerous being alive. For you apportioned certain scripture in the bible as not of GOD. You cherry-pick scripture as to what's convenient and agreeable to your logic and your 'progressive' mind..

Scripture contains the words and opinions of men, the words Satan, demons and devils, the Word of God Himself - all of it inspired by God.

The confusion many of you have is you think because a thing is inspired by God automatically means it is all God's Truth. That is a wrong conclusion as it suggests that God was delusional when He instead sent Jesus Christ as His Truth to us.

As Jesus Christ explained to you, the devil is the father of lies, and the opinions of men are nothing but lies. Now when you go back to review what is in fact edited in scripture, you should realize now that there are lies recorded even in scripture.

The only Truth contained in all of Scripture, the very Word you are commanded by God to live by, are His Words and His words alone.

Gentleman900000:
Good evening, my wife went to work yesterday and i was at home because it was my off day at work. She came back late and i suspected that she went somewhere but didn't confront her.

Few months back, i was going through her phone and saw she had some dirty chats with her ex and that one was saying he should find time for him. I confronted her when i saw this and she apologized that such will never happen again.

Today, we were both laying next to each other in bed and she said she have a confession to make. She said she went out to the cinema with a friend of hers. She even took a cloth along with her when she was going without informing me. She said she changed her clothes at her friend's place. I asked her that if anything happen to her at the so called friend's house that she went to without informing me, who will they call? She said she's not a kid that i should stop saying such thing. She's here apologizing again and i don't know if i should forgive her or not.

Whenever women confess, they usually do so to ease the guilt.
And when they do, they leave out the bad part

Gentleman900000:
Good evening, my wife went to work yesterday and i was at home because it was my off day at work. She came back late and i suspected that she went somewhere but didn't confront her.

Few months back, i was going through her phone and saw she had some dirty chats with her ex and that one was saying he should find time for him. I confronted her when i saw this and she apologized that such will never happen again.

Today, we were both laying next to each other in bed and she said she have a confession to make. She said she went out to the cinema with a friend of hers. She even took a cloth along with her when she was going without informing me. She said she changed her clothes at her friend's place. I asked her that if anything happen to her at the so called friend's house that she went to without informing me, who will they call? She said she's not a kid that i should stop saying such thing. She's here apologizing again and i don't know if i should forgive her or not.

Spice up your relationship abii marriage...Be romantic. She is passing a non verbal message you are not paying attention to her.

Shine ya eye sha..Before you lose her.

Kobojunkie:
Scripture contains the words and opinions of men, the words Satan, demons and devils, the Word of God Himself - all of it inspired by God.

The confusion many of you have is you think because a thing is inspired by God automatically means it is all God's Truth. That is a wrong conclusion as it suggests that God was delusional when He instead sent Jesus Christ as His Truth to us.

As Jesus Christ explained to you, the devil is the father of lies, and the opinions of men are nothing but lies. Now when you go back to review what is in fact edited in scripture, you should realize now that there are lies recorded even in scripture.

The only Truth contained in all of Scripture, the very Word you are commanded by God to live by, are His Words and His words alone.

Get help while there's still time.

McDuncan:
Get help while there's still time.

Stop feeding on the doctrines and traditions of men(and their churches) , what Jesus Christ warned you were nothing but lies spewed at you in His name - Matthew 15 vs 1 - 14 & Mark 7 vs 1 - 13. Open the book to hear what God is in fact been telling you for at least the last 2000 years.

Kobojunkie:
Stop feeding on the doctrines and traditions of men(and their churches) , what Jesus Christ warned you were nothing but lies spewed at you in His name - Matthew 15 vs 1 - 14 & Mark 7 vs 1 - 13. Open the book to hear what God is in fact been telling you for at least the last 2000 years.

Get help.

McDuncan:
Get help.

Again.... Stop feeding on the doctrines and traditions of men(and their churches) , what Jesus Christ warned you were nothing but lies spewed at you in His name - Matthew 15 vs 1 - 14 & Mark 7 vs 1 - 13. Open the book to hear what God is in fact been telling you for at least the last 2000 years.

Kobojunkie:
Again.... Stop feeding on the doctrines and traditions of men(and their churches) , what Jesus Christ warned you were nothing but lies spewed at you in His name - Matthew 15 vs 1 - 14 & Mark 7 vs 1 - 13. Open the book to hear what God is in fact been telling you for at least the last 2000 years.

You couldn't wait to complete your tutorials in heresy before jumping on the public space to spread your mendaciously concocted baloney.

Each time you pick up your Bible and flip its pages, heaven cringes in horror why hell expands in anticipation of a great harvest from one of its most obsequious minions.