| Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by AriseNews: 10:36am On Apr 30, 2022 |
Akwa Ibom, right  |
| Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by Nobody: 10:36am On Apr 30, 2022 |
dawnomike:
You've got to go and pay her dowry... It is the right thing to do in the igbo culture Igbo, you still wan make money on top dead daughter body? |
| Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by djkaneo(m): 10:36am On Apr 30, 2022 |
StilmaVsBorn2w:
Back then when my mom was warning me not to go that far when our relationship started She kept on insisting I should go for the girls in my tribe, I thought she was just been a tribalist bigot. If only I had listened
She bore me a son, he's 3years now... though her people knows me well from normal visitation..but I haven't been able to pay her bride price yet due to the hardship this regime has on us. life happened, unfortunately she got sick since February, ever since then from one hospital to another..I took several loans from people for hospital bills to the point of me looking sick myself.so sad for us we lost her last night.
I informed her elder brother who knows about all thats happening, he called me back this morning to tell me that his people told me to be prepared to marry her corpse. He went further and said if I don't pay her bride price, my boy will be taken from me and I should be ready to withstand the consequences.
I was surprised, I called for the burial arrangements not for a marriage ceremony
I blantly told him, I won't, why would I get married to her corpse. He was angry and cut the call on me.
Am more concerned about my son, please lawyer's in the house do they have any right to take my son away from me?
Even if they do am ready to give it to them, but spending money to Marry her corpse I will not.
I only brought this here, if had chance for my son whose still in my custody. Baba you will marry her corpse. I dey 100% sure say na so Igbos dey do am. I don't know about others 2 Likes |
| Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by SmartyPants(m): 10:37am On Apr 30, 2022 |
Hamachi:
Oga! 3 straight years you couldn't pay her bride price but was hitting her endlessly, you will marry the corpse SIMPLE! Did he tie her or force her? Rubbish. He will pay no bride price and absolutely nothing will happen. 6 Likes |
| Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by legallyminded: 10:38am On Apr 30, 2022 |
Some of you lots are crazy. How can a living being be joined with a dead person. Murky brains  11 Likes |
| Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by AriseNews: 10:38am On Apr 30, 2022 |
StilmaVsBorn2w:
Sorry it's not necessary, I won't let you lots to turn this to a tribal war. This OP Sha...probably Akwa Ibom |
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| Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by hope4nigeria(m): 10:39am On Apr 30, 2022 |
StilmaVsBorn2w:
You here for the tribe only?
Or to give me reasonable advise? it would help in giving you right advice. |
| Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by Omoluabi16(m): 10:40am On Apr 30, 2022 |
Stone age barbaric tradition. That's why I do not subscribe to live in marriage especially with certain tribes. As horrible as it is, it is their culture.On no account should you marry a corpse. 7 Likes |
| Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by SmartyPants(m): 10:40am On Apr 30, 2022 |
StilmaVsBorn2w:
I don't believe in curses, A man can not define my fate in life..I was more concerned about my son that's why I brought it here.
I fear no man I love your resolve. As you recieve a barrage of advice here, note that most Nairalanders have absolutely nothing to offer. Ignore those telling you to go and pay bride price. The boy is yours and legally there is nothing they can do about it. 4 Likes |
| Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by NigerianAngelo(m): 10:41am On Apr 30, 2022 |
StilmaVsBorn2w:
Sorry it's not necessary, I won't let you lots to turn this to a tribal war. Your mum adviced you before, you no hear. People are asking you for the tribe now to better advice you, you still no wan hear. 1. 1 Hail Mary for you. 2. I don't really know what to say. Do the right things that are in your mind. But I think, YOU should bury her. |
| Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by aktolly54(m): 10:41am On Apr 30, 2022 |
StilmaVsBorn2w:
Sorry it's not necessary, I won't let you lots to turn this to a tribal war. so you want other people fall into same trap reasons you refuse to name the tribe. Go give them the young lad, you have no legal right on him |
| Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by kvngjesse(m): 10:41am On Apr 30, 2022 |
Felimax:
Some men just lack sense. Hear yourself. So if that is your sister that is how you will walk to the morgue to go and carry her? Nor worry, dey there dey smart. Your head go soon correct by the time we finish with you.
I have one simple advise for you. Hurry now to the family with either your dad or the eldest man in your family or anybody that can stand in that regard, go with some cash and schnapps.
Take this time now as a matter of urgency to go inform the family officially of the latest about their daughter most especially if this is happening around Delta State.
If you like do, you like refuse. Definitely delta |
| Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by Elock1: 10:41am On Apr 30, 2022 |
 duro4chang:
The reasonable advice your mama give you no take am shey na our own you go take? |
| Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by harmargedon: 10:41am On Apr 30, 2022 |
StilmaVsBorn2w:
I don't believe in curses, A man can not define my fate in life..I was more concerned about my son that's why I brought it here.
I fear no man you speak like a child. The guilty shall be cursed and it shall abide with him till the end, only the innocent shall he set free. Remember child : HE WHO RUNS FASTER THAN THE GODS WILL NEVER STOP RUNNING. They're not expecting you to kiss the corpse, just pay the bills and fulfill all traditional rites and you'll be innocent of what's coming for you. The day you chose to dine with adults, was the day you chose your destiny. 11 Likes |
| Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by Dorwadora(f): 10:41am On Apr 30, 2022 |
Such happened to my uncle around 25 years ago... They met at Benin, she's from Delta, died during childbirth. It was hell for the whole family. I was young then.
My grandfather ( May God rest his soul) had to borrow money from Yoruba association at Benin and my biggest uncle hadto sell his car to finance the whole thing. The debt was so hard for the family.
They did normal wedding ceremony, bought clothes for the father and mother, all rites were completed. Then the family carried the cropse to Delta and asked my Uncle to come and bury his wife. Lol... My uncle was in his early 20s then. It was traumatizing for him.
The family had to hire 2 soldiers because there was rumor that they could harm him. They went and buried her and the child that died with her. Said he must sleep with her, that's when our family declined and hell broke loose.
They sha concluded and came back to Benin in one piece. The experience left a scar in my uncle's heart. Didn't marry on time. He's older than my mom and his first child is just 4. 18 Likes |
| Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by Tukor1759: 10:41am On Apr 30, 2022 |
wunmi590:
You don't want to divulge more information, but you want to get advice, (this is not a classified information that can't be divulged) nobody want to turn this to tribal war...
Reason why you were asked, so that people from that tribe, who might have experienced such can advice you accordingly....I don't think that is why he was asking that question
Peace |
| Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by davit: 10:42am On Apr 30, 2022 |
It is part of the barbaric culture still being nurtured in the East. So backward people! |
| Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by Hamachi(f): 10:42am On Apr 30, 2022 |
SmartyPants:
Did he tie her or force her?
Rubbish. He will pay no bride price and absolutely nothing will happen. Okay! Let see how it goes. Advise to young men out there, before you give birth try in as much as possible to do something on the girls head otherwise you will be like the op 4 Likes |
| Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by DryMouth: 10:43am On Apr 30, 2022 |
ibechris:
If u want to help your peace,go ahead and do it and have your peace.
After that,the relationship with ur in laws will still remain...but if u don't,e go hard brother.
What nonsense are you pple typing? So you are telling him to go marry a corpse? Omo! Omo!! Omo!!! 3 Likes |
| Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by koyyess: 10:43am On Apr 30, 2022 |
Why can't you marry a dead corpse? Don't you r@pe goats?
Better obey the laws of the land. You are an African abi you don forget?
It's only when you want to marry more wives you will remember you are an African. 2 Likes |
| Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by frankson1(m): 10:43am On Apr 30, 2022 |
StilmaVsBorn2w:
Back then when my mom was warning me not to go that far when our relationship started She kept on insisting I should go for the girls in my tribe, I thought she was just been a tribalist bigot. If only I had listened
She bore me a son, he's 3years now... though her people knows me well from normal visitation..but I haven't been able to pay her bride price yet due to the hardship this regime has on us. life happened, unfortunately she got sick since February, ever since then from one hospital to another..I took several loans from people for hospital bills to the point of me looking sick myself.so sad for us we lost her last night.
I informed her elder brother who knows about all thats happening, he called me back this morning to tell me that his people told me to be prepared to marry her corpse. He went further and said if I don't pay her bride price, my boy will be taken from me and I should be ready to withstand the consequences.
I was surprised, I called for the burial arrangements not for a marriage ceremony
I blantly told him, I won't, why would I get married to her corpse. He was angry and cut the call on me.
Am more concerned about my son, please lawyer's in the house do they have any right to take my son away from me?
Even if they do am ready to give it to them, but spending money to Marry her corpse I will not.
I only brought this here, if had chance for my son whose still in my custody. THE HARDSHIP OF THIS REGIIME DIDN'T STOP YOU FROM GETTING A LADY WHO YOU'RE NOT MARRIED TO PREGNANT. OGA, STOP LOOKING FOR WHO TO BLAME SO MAN-UP AND FACE THE CONCEQUENCES. THERE'S NOTHING A LAWYER WILL DO IF IT'S TRADITION SO GO AND NEGOTIATE WITH THEM  5 Likes |
| Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by Nobody: 10:43am On Apr 30, 2022 |
Oga u got no issues,u must marry her,under must ..must must..see the way u re addressing the lady like she means nothing to u..u must marry her or face the consequences.. under must, I don't know what else to tell u..just don't go wasting ur money on any lawyer rubbish,u no be the first person..u must 5 Likes |
| Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by harmargedon: 10:43am On Apr 30, 2022 |
davit:
It is part of the barbaric culture still being nurtured in the East. So backward people! i see that tribalism gives your flaccid dick an erection. Be careful not to get an eternal ban. 1 Like |
| Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by Ugmama(m): 10:44am On Apr 30, 2022 |
StilmaVsBorn2w:
Back then when my mom was warning me not to go that far when our relationship started She kept on insisting I should go for the girls in my tribe, I thought she was just been a tribalist bigot. If only I had listened
She bore me a son, he's 3years now... though her people knows me well from normal visitation..but I haven't been able to pay her bride price yet due to the hardship this regime has on us. life happened, unfortunately she got sick since February, ever since then from one hospital to another..I took several loans from people for hospital bills to the point of me looking sick myself.so sad for us we lost her last night.
I informed her elder brother who knows about all thats happening, he called me back this morning to tell me that his people told me to be prepared to marry her corpse. He went further and said if I don't pay her bride price, my boy will be taken from me and I should be ready to withstand the consequences.
I was surprised, I called for the burial arrangements not for a marriage ceremony
I blantly told him, I won't, why would I get married to her corpse. He was angry and cut the call on me.
Am more concerned about my son, please lawyer's in the house do they have any right to take my son away from me?
Even if they do am ready to give it to them, but spending money to Marry her corpse I will not.
I only brought this here, if had chance for my son whose still in my custody. Mr man, I don't know you from Adam but heed this advice : Since you couldn't marry that lady but have been doing marital people stuff with her until her death. You have to do the needful according to the ladies culture in her village. This is a vital case and wisdom is profitable. Don't show your bravery here. it's not needed at all. Go and discuss, find a lasting solution with the girls family. Thank you 5 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by Cyriloha(m): 10:44am On Apr 30, 2022 |
[s] StilmaVsBorn2w:
You here for the tribe only?
Or to give me reasonable advise? [/s] Why are your ashamed to tell us she's from Imo State? 1 Like |
| Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by venabili: 10:44am On Apr 30, 2022 |
StilmaVsBorn2w:
Let them bring it on.
I said I won't, I can't marry a corpse Did you do a court wedding? That one is cheap and only require a couple of witness. If you did, your case is simpler in the eye of the law. Secondly, is the birthof the baby registered and does the registration certificate list you as the father? 1 Like |
| Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by Kimiso(m): 10:45am On Apr 30, 2022 |
StilmaVsBorn2w:
Back then when my mom was warning me not to go that far when our relationship started She kept on insisting I should go for the girls in my tribe, I thought she was just been a tribalist bigot. If only I had listened
She bore me a son, he's 3years now... though her people knows me well from normal visitation..but I haven't been able to pay her bride price yet due to the hardship this regime has on us. life happened, unfortunately she got sick since February, ever since then from one hospital to another..I took several loans from people for hospital bills to the point of me looking sick myself.so sad for us we lost her last night.
I informed her elder brother who knows about all thats happening, he called me back this morning to tell me that his people told me to be prepared to marry her corpse. He went further and said if I don't pay her bride price, my boy will be taken from me and I should be ready to withstand the consequences.
I was surprised, I called for the burial arrangements not for a marriage ceremony
I blantly told him, I won't, why would I get married to her corpse. He was angry and cut the call on me.
Am more concerned about my son, please lawyer's in the house do they have any right to take my son away from me?
Even if they do am ready to give it to them, but spending money to Marry her corpse I will not.
I only brought this here, if had chance for my son whose still in my custody. if you can't mention her tribe there is no way i can help you |
| Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by Moscodee1990(m): 10:46am On Apr 30, 2022 |
You can do this, isn't she your wife? Just make it official. 2 Likes |
| Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by Lamasta(m): 10:46am On Apr 30, 2022 |
StilmaVsBorn2w:
Back then when my mom was warning me not to go that far when our relationship started She kept on insisting I should go for the girls in my tribe, I thought she was just been a tribalist bigot. If only I had listened
She bore me a son, he's 3years now... though her people knows me well from normal visitation..but I haven't been able to pay her bride price yet due to the hardship this regime has on us. life happened, unfortunately she got sick since February, ever since then from one hospital to another..I took several loans from people for hospital bills to the point of me looking sick myself.so sad for us we lost her last night.
I informed her elder brother who knows about all thats happening, he called me back this morning to tell me that his people told me to be prepared to marry her corpse. He went further and said if I don't pay her bride price, my boy will be taken from me and I should be ready to withstand the consequences.
I was surprised, I called for the burial arrangements not for a marriage ceremony
I blantly told him, I won't, why would I get married to her corpse. He was angry and cut the call on me.
Am more concerned about my son, please lawyer's in the house do they have any right to take my son away from me?
Even if they do am ready to give it to them, but spending money to Marry her corpse I will not.
I only brought this here, if had chance for my son whose still in my custody. Go and do the right thing by paying her bride price, you have been with her as a couple to the extent of giving birth for you before the unfortunate happened, go and do the needful and stop acting wise.. 3 Likes |
| Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by afamaustin(m): 10:46am On Apr 30, 2022 |
Go do what the tell u to do,if u didn't do the right thing when she is alive u will do it on death. 2 Likes |
| Re: They Want Me To Marry Her Corpse, I refused by MARKone(m): 10:46am On Apr 30, 2022 |
StilmaVsBorn2w:
Back then when my mom was warning me not to go that far when our relationship started She kept on insisting I should go for the girls in my tribe, I thought she was just been a tribalist bigot. If only I had listened
She bore me a son, he's 3years now... though her people knows me well from normal visitation..but I haven't been able to pay her bride price yet due to the hardship this regime has on us. life happened, unfortunately she got sick since February, ever since then from one hospital to another..I took several loans from people for hospital bills to the point of me looking sick myself.so sad for us we lost her last night.
I informed her elder brother who knows about all thats happening, he called me back this morning to tell me that his people told me to be prepared to marry her corpse. He went further and said if I don't pay her bride price, my boy will be taken from me and I should be ready to withstand the consequences.
I was surprised, I called for the burial arrangements not for a marriage ceremony
I blantly told him, I won't, why would I get married to her corpse. He was angry and cut the call on me.
Am more concerned about my son, please lawyer's in the house do they have any right to take my son away from me?
Even if they do am ready to give it to them, but spending money to Marry her corpse I will not.
I only brought this here, if had chance for my son whose still in my custody. Lawyer won't save you here. You can't claim the child, and also be talking about burial rites when you have not paid the bride price of the mother. This is tradition and no one is forcing you. It's not as if you are marrying the corpse. They won't allow you take the child. 5 Likes 1 Share |
