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Re: About To Break Up With My Girlfriend Because Of Risk Of Travelling In Nigeria by Depot(m): 1:45pm On May 03, 2022 |
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Re: About To Break Up With My Girlfriend Because Of Risk Of Travelling In Nigeria by Peace081: 1:45pm On May 03, 2022 |
Mumu op, so u have a good girlfriend, well behave n discipline n you still want to break up because of bad road in Nigeria, You don't really know what you want in life #spit# 2 Likes |
Re: About To Break Up With My Girlfriend Because Of Risk Of Travelling In Nigeria by Nobody: 1:45pm On May 03, 2022 |
blazingblender: Omo I feel what the guy is saying, we when dey here sef dey calculate how we dey waka for inside the states sef when we reside.omo Naija no safe at all, @ the original poster just take flight visit your girl people,might be extra expensive but if you love that girl that much then it's a small sacrifice. |
Re: About To Break Up With My Girlfriend Because Of Risk Of Travelling In Nigeria by JohnBullMySon: 1:45pm On May 03, 2022 |
oldienavie:Air Peace |
Re: About To Break Up With My Girlfriend Because Of Risk Of Travelling In Nigeria by luminouz(m): 1:46pm On May 03, 2022 |
Yeye post from OP ![]() I am in the same state right now..Akure has airport. Ondo town itself is just 45 mins from Akure....what exactly is not safe then? Why not hit me up when you want to come and I will escort you from the airport to her place, then do same when you are travelling back. For a fee of course. I'd be your bodyguard ![]() Cc. oldienavie 2 Likes |
Re: About To Break Up With My Girlfriend Because Of Risk Of Travelling In Nigeria by Credchampion: 1:46pm On May 03, 2022 |
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Re: About To Break Up With My Girlfriend Because Of Risk Of Travelling In Nigeria by nihinlade(m): 1:46pm On May 03, 2022 |
OP, I understand you! However, discuss this phobia with your would-be partner first. She may be able to convince her parents to be reasonable enough to come to a compromise that can reduce your need to travel. For example, they may decide to allow only very few of you to come say like just you and your two parents (when it is just the 3 of you, the phobia is reduced and also since too much people brings too much publicity and stress). Also when it is just 3 of you, you may be able to afford flight or even train instead of road. Another thing your inlaws may do to help if their daughter is able to convince them is to allow you to do the marriage in your city while you ship the dowries etc to them or they can have a family house or relative in or close to your city and decide to do everything there (I have seen a situation like this before). Also note that by God's Grace the roads in the south are better. I also have phobia for traveling but only to or within northern Nigeria. South west, south south are safe to travel, even south east is good, only these unknown Gun Men issue is their problem. But I fear Northern Nigeria. Another tip is to find somebody who resides in the city of your in law to give you traveling tips for moving around that area. Then lastly don't travel at night even in the UK & US, travelling at late night is not good. |
Re: About To Break Up With My Girlfriend Because Of Risk Of Travelling In Nigeria by johnnychuks(m): 1:47pm On May 03, 2022 |
oldienavie:you are nothing but childidish and unserious boy! let me talk to you like that. 2 Likes |
Re: About To Break Up With My Girlfriend Because Of Risk Of Travelling In Nigeria by Naustine(m): 1:48pm On May 03, 2022 |
I understand your fears, I'm quite sure I can afford police or military excort |
Re: About To Break Up With My Girlfriend Because Of Risk Of Travelling In Nigeria by Rahkman: 1:49pm On May 03, 2022 |
oldienavie:break up with her ! why risking ur life for a useless nigerian girl ?? Better wise up if they kill u now the highest na rip for Facebook oo...next week she dey find another dick,Nigerian girls are not worth it, just fùck and move on , don't wife any, if you want a baby fine ,make her a babymama but don't wife up a trashy ho |
Re: About To Break Up With My Girlfriend Because Of Risk Of Travelling In Nigeria by LadyTara(f): 1:49pm On May 03, 2022 |
Wow, just wow . ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Oga use flight do half of journey , continue from there. If this is enough to call off your relationship with a so called " good girl" . Or Use police escort. Guy you sure say you go fit even make your marriage work so? Seems you are not ready to inconvenience yourself or make compromises for anyone not even for this "good girl". ![]() |
Re: About To Break Up With My Girlfriend Because Of Risk Of Travelling In Nigeria by Pmoneyenterpris: 1:49pm On May 03, 2022 |
My guy leav woman make money � 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: About To Break Up With My Girlfriend Because Of Risk Of Travelling In Nigeria by toprealman: 1:50pm On May 03, 2022 |
oldienavie:Ignore bro! |
Re: About To Break Up With My Girlfriend Because Of Risk Of Travelling In Nigeria by frozen70(f): 1:50pm On May 03, 2022 |
oldienavie: Honestly this is not the main reason for breaking up with her You are yet to tell us exactly why you want to break up with her You may have found another lady and because of the proximity you want to break up with her, maybe you suddenly just realized that she is not your standard Alright, which ever lady you want to replace her with, can you determine how the trip of your family going to visit them will be, what if what you were afraid of in her own trip now happens in uoir new girl friend trip of marriage, will you question God Haven't you heard of Marriage done on your behalf since you are abroad then your family will do the needful What if you can afford to get free security from fully armed forces men to take your family through and flow for her marriage rights, will you still go ahead or you will get another excuse Make una they reason some kind things very well because of posterity You break her virginity, gave her hope if a happy marriage and now you want to drop her for another, tomorrow if the later turns out to be the worst woman in your life, will you drive her away to go back to your vomit to pick the one that have been loyal to you Then if she has gotten married then, will you advise her to come out of the marriage Anyway its your marriage not our, do as you wish but don't say, had I known |
Re: About To Break Up With My Girlfriend Because Of Risk Of Travelling In Nigeria by JoeEeL(m): 1:50pm On May 03, 2022 |
oldienavie: So are you supporting the disintegration of liejiriya? If you are those who support the continuing of the zoo from abroad, then sure, you deserve a ruinous relationship. |
Re: About To Break Up With My Girlfriend Because Of Risk Of Travelling In Nigeria by ridwan42: 1:52pm On May 03, 2022 |
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Re: About To Break Up With My Girlfriend Because Of Risk Of Travelling In Nigeria by iamdapsyj(m): 1:52pm On May 03, 2022 |
oldienavie: Op, I might be wrong, but it seem to me that your parents are the ones who are not ready to take such journey and not you really. My reason for coming to such conclusion is because you have been dating the girl for a while, so why the sudden phobia for travelling to her state. You should have cut the relationship right from the beginning so as not to waste that girl's time... |
Re: About To Break Up With My Girlfriend Because Of Risk Of Travelling In Nigeria by Dothans(m): 1:52pm On May 03, 2022 |
I can understand your fear and it's a valid one, but it's not worth losing your supposedly good girlfriend over. Try and communicate your fear to her, rub minds together and let her see reasons and come up together with an alternative that will pose less security threat to you and your family in the course of meeting her people. But whatever you do, never travel to North by this perilous time with your family. The fact that you are abroad returnee alone is enough to get you abducted. Always remember that your safety is paramount. Reading what people are saying about your previous threads, I also doubt your real intent. Probably you're really ready move on... just inform the girl honorably and don't waste her time. Best wishes in whatever you decide. |
Re: About To Break Up With My Girlfriend Because Of Risk Of Travelling In Nigeria by Kingozymandias(m): 1:53pm On May 03, 2022 |
oldienavie: That is a tout you responded to. You must resist the urge to speak to thugs and jobless touts you will come to realize they are 90% of the people on this forum... Just ignore them To your post. I don't blame you at all. I returned to NIGERIA 9 YEARS ago and I can count the number of times I have traveled by road its not up to 5 times. The risk isn't worth it ... Her parents can do any ceremony in absentia, you don't need to be physically present. Secondly the mind Is a powerful tool of you feel so strongly about traveling by road , do not do it under any circumstance. I came back with a friend like you who felt the same we , we encouraged him and pushed him... He traveled got robbed and shot this happened 8 years ago, he returned abroad and has never considered coming here again. Follow your gut instinct 3 Likes |
Re: About To Break Up With My Girlfriend Because Of Risk Of Travelling In Nigeria by baretalk: 1:53pm On May 03, 2022 |
No kill yourself because of woman, choose a woman around you, its not worth it. |
Re: About To Break Up With My Girlfriend Because Of Risk Of Travelling In Nigeria by GreatAdvice: 1:53pm On May 03, 2022 |
You and many delusional Nigerians living abroad have this overexagerrrated fear that people want to kidnap ya'll or people want to poison you guys. Sorry to burst your bubble, but nobody really cares. Even kidnappers are now knowledgeable that most people living abroad just live paycheck to paycheck. If they ask for N100 million ransome, how many people living abroad can afford it? Moreover, if you are so scared to travel to her peoeple's place, is it something you will do every day? You are in Nigeria for maybe 3wks then you fly out and maybe return in another 4yrs, so what exactly are you afraid of? You are lucky to have someone like me give you great solid advise free of charge. If you are so afraid of being kidnapped, I will advise you to visit a police station and pay for escort. If that's too much for you, I suggest you go abroad and marry Akata or white woman so you won't even have to worry about coming down to Nigeria, much less getting kidnapped. Good luck. 2 Likes |
Re: About To Break Up With My Girlfriend Because Of Risk Of Travelling In Nigeria by Onyeziokwu(m): 1:53pm On May 03, 2022 |
oldienavie: Oga this is never a reason tbh, unless there's something you ain't telling us. 1 Like |
Re: About To Break Up With My Girlfriend Because Of Risk Of Travelling In Nigeria by lereinter(m): 1:54pm On May 03, 2022 |
One of the outcome of apc led buhari-osinbajo goverment. Damaging relationship |
Re: About To Break Up With My Girlfriend Because Of Risk Of Travelling In Nigeria by MemoriesAndMe: 1:55pm On May 03, 2022 |
oldienavie:You don't have to be on the road, you can fly if you find that safer. |
Re: About To Break Up With My Girlfriend Because Of Risk Of Travelling In Nigeria by Kingozymandias(m): 1:55pm On May 03, 2022 |
blazingblender: You are an uneducated street person... His post makes alot of sense.. hut you can't relate because you have never and will never cross the Atlantic Ocean out of Africa.. Pls it is better to be thought a fool than to open your mouth and remove all doubt. Learn to shut up |
Re: About To Break Up With My Girlfriend Because Of Risk Of Travelling In Nigeria by Astrokid911: 1:55pm On May 03, 2022 |
oldienavie: �who tell u say na virgin |
Re: About To Break Up With My Girlfriend Because Of Risk Of Travelling In Nigeria by professore(m): 1:55pm On May 03, 2022 |
Ebubu:reasonable contribution, yet provides no solution. |
Re: About To Break Up With My Girlfriend Because Of Risk Of Travelling In Nigeria by motionarena: 1:55pm On May 03, 2022 |
oldienavie: Bro i understand you jare. A girl has to be really worth it to make any travel plans. Naso one babe i dey date b4 I almost got crushed on a bike when I went to visit her. Only to find out she even have another boyfriend. |
Re: About To Break Up With My Girlfriend Because Of Risk Of Travelling In Nigeria by Obiworld2020: 1:55pm On May 03, 2022 |
I understand exactly what you mean by traveling phobia, it happens to me too... traveling from Abuja to the east is no jokes. But Oga, if you no like road, use flight ✈️, abi you want still tell us say there village airport for her village?? If dey babe don tire you, just go straight to the point!!! Am a kind of spiritual person!!! |
Re: About To Break Up With My Girlfriend Because Of Risk Of Travelling In Nigeria by baretalk: 1:55pm On May 03, 2022 |
dobnina:If you have money you have access to lots of 'good women' he is not the one that made the road unsafe. |
Re: About To Break Up With My Girlfriend Because Of Risk Of Travelling In Nigeria by iamdapsyj(m): 1:55pm On May 03, 2022 |
frozen70: His reason is just an excuse jare....he knew all along that this girl lives in a city far away from his folks and yet continued the relationship. My conclusion is that his folks are not ready to make such trip for some reason only the Op can tell us. Chaii, I just pity the girl ![]() |
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