Do you agree with this pictorial submission?

Is it really true or is it just for fun?

Very true

The pictures said it all. Marriage favours women more than men

Very true

You're not very far from The truth.

I think I agree with all the comments above

Maybe it works abroad but not in nigeria,here a mother will wake up at 5 to cook the kids meal for school,bath them,feed them,and put on their uniforms all this b4 7...and still come back to wash dirty clothes b4 going to work if she dey work no rest at all,some are akara sellers,hairdressers etc,and here it's not all men that give money 2 take care of kids needs at schools,just like women 2 not all do it...in some family the responsibility is shared to suit theirselves,in some na just the papa,some na mama alone.
but the teacher and child own is very true.thanks

Chosen44:
Maybe it works abroad but not in nigeria,here a mother will wake up at 5 to cook the kids meal for school,bath them,feed them,and put on their uniforms all this b4 7...and still come back to wash dirty clothes b4 going to work if she dey work no rest at all,some are akara sellers,hairdressers etc,and here it's not all men that give money 2 take care of kids needs at schools,just like women 2 not all do it...in some family the responsibility is shared to suit theirselves,in some na just the papa,some na mama alone.
but the teacher and child own is very true.thanks

Apt.... Very explicit.

Dorwadora:
Apt.... Very explicit.

LETS HEAR FROM BROTHER JEON FIRST

FullBlastLight:
Do you agree with this pictorial submission?

Is it really true or is it just for fun?

You are RIGHT but u didn't complete it.

Now, when these KIDS grow and become gainfully employed they direct their hands of benevolence to only their Mothers, thereby purchasing cars & houses for their mother's who may likely be a WIDOW then.

MEN wake up & start having Special Trust Funds for yourself. I have that.
That Account should be yours & yours alone.
Never rely on your KIDS.
You may be disappointed at Old age.

Very true I swear

MARRIAGE CONTRACT
Woman : so when we get married who does the chores?
Millennial man : when I was a child my mom did all the chores and she never complained
Woman : okay I'll do that , what about kids?
Millennial man : i mean I'm a man I can't breastfeed nor can I get pregnant , it's a woman's job to be a mother , my mother had 30 children and she took good care of all of us
Woman : okay I'll do the chores and the kids , but you'll have to pay all the bills
Millennial man : that's not fair , we share the bills 50/50 , is it not your mates that are raising children and still working ?
Woman : that's not fair , after all the work I'll be very tired
Millennial man : why would you be tired when you're not doing anything
Woman : " stares in utter disbelief "you know what ? I'll get back to you

Na mumu dey marry shaa...
Abi when you bn dey suffer dey woman follow you suferr?
Na when you make am she wan bear Mrs, untop ur name..


Na mumu dey marry shaa

Danyyyyyyyyyyy:
MARRIAGE CONTRACT
Woman : so when we get married who does the chores?
Millennial man : when I was a child my mom did all the chores and she never complained
Woman : okay I'll do that , what about kids?
Millennial man : i mean I'm a man I can't breastfeed nor can I get pregnant , it's a woman's job to be a mother , my mother had 30 children and she took good care of all of us
Woman : okay I'll do the chores and the kids , but you'll have to pay all the bills
Millennial man : that's not fair , we share the bills 50/50 , is it not your mates that are raising children and still working ?
Woman : that's not fair , after all the work I'll be very tired
Millennial man : why would you be tired when you're not doing anything
Woman : " stares in utter disbelief "you know what ? I'll get back to you

This can't even happen in western world. They introduced the 50/50 thing, chores, kids everything is shared. . their men are already use to the system so they will agree to all her questions.

But in Africa most men iare okay to be 100% provider even though his wife works and earn her own money but because that is what society, culture and religion tells the man to do. But would want the wife to take care of the kids and chores or employ a maid for chores.
So you see the scenario you painted also can't happen in Africa too

Even bachelors on NL above my comments are saying "true" without no experience

Nobi Una say experience is d best teacher

TheWolfen:

This can't even happen in western world. They introduced the 50/50 thing, chores, kids everything is shared. . their men are already use to the system so they will agree to all her questions.

But in Africa most men iare okay to be 100% provider even though his wife works and earn her own money but because that is what society, culture and religion tells the man to do. But would want the wife to take care of the kids and chores or employ a maid for chores.
So you see the scenario you painted also can't happen in Africa too

You'd be surprised dear
Some women are even confessing that they paid their bride price , that's not a scenario we planned for but it is happening
They know in their hearts that it is unacceptable but they go around looking for a sugar mummy that they're older than , put a baby in her and leave her to do all the work and the kids are still beating their surnames
Some even ship and encourage the feminism talk so that you can feel like they respect women
They'll verbally agree to do everything equally but then when they do it , they're so sloppy , they drag their feets you have no choice to just stop bothering them and do it yourself
I'm happy that there are still good men out there or at least men that believe the same thing you believe

Danyyyyyyyyyyy:


You'd be surprised dear
Some women are even confessing that they paid their bride price , that's not a scenario we planned for but it is happening
They know in their hearts that it is unacceptable but they go around looking for a sugar mummy that they're older than , put a baby in her and leave her to do all the work and the kids are still beating their surnames
Some even ship and encourage the feminism talk so that you can feel like they respect women
They'll verbally agree to do everything equally but then when they do it , they're so sloppy , they drag their feets you have no choice to just stop bothering them and do it yourself
I'm happy that there are still good men out there or at least men that believe the same thing you believe

I will agree there are some irresponsible men that are too lazy to work in Africa society. That is why African society frown at such. The society doest encourage it and look down on such men. You are an Africa and I believe you know that too.

However western society has the most lazy men. I mean it is more common over there especially among the black folks. Sleeping with women just to pass the night at their house. They don't wanna work. They expect the woman who work to provide for their lazy ass. All they do is sit home, satisfy the woman on bed and when things fall apart they gets kicked out of house lol. Instead of them to go work they would rather hook up with the next available single mother.
So u see over there it is a lot worse.
African/Nigerian men dey try abeg.
Just some few irresponsible ones when compared to western society.
I believe in gender role. Husband and wife should take care of their responsibilities.
It is not nice when those few irresponsible ones in African society leave everything to the woman

TheWolfen:


I will agree there are some irresponsible men that are too lazy to work in Africa society. That is why African society frown at such. The society doest encourage it and look down on such men. You are an Africa and I believe you know that too.

However western society has the most lazy men. I mean it is more common over there especially among the black folks. Sleeping with women just to pass the night at their house. They don't wanna work. They expect the woman who work to provide for their lazy ass. All they do is sit home, satisfy the woman on bed and when things fall apart they gets kicked out of house lol. Instead of them to go work they would rather hook up with the next available single mother.
So u see over there it is a lot worse.
African/Nigerian men dey try abeg.
Just some few irresponsible ones when compared to western society.
I believe in gender role. Husband and wife should take care of their responsibilities.
It is not nice when those few irresponsible ones in African society leave everything to the woman

God bless you sir

What do you mean by erudite? Do you mean erudite afonja miners. Pls elaborate more on this

blaquemyc:
You're not very far from The truth.

Is he even far?

Chosen44:
Maybe it works abroad but not in nigeria,here a mother will wake up at 5 to cook the kids meal for school,bath them,feed them,and put on their uniforms all this b4 7...and still come back to wash dirty clothes b4 going to work if she dey work no rest at all,some are akara sellers,hairdressers etc,and here it's not all men that give money 2 take care of kids needs at schools,just like women 2 not all do it...in some family the responsibility is shared to suit theirselves,in some na just the papa,some na mama alone.
but the teacher and child own is very true.thanks

Your head dey correct

Malory:
The pictures said it all. Marriage favours women more than men

Y'all just have a way of 'demonizing' women and giving them all of the bad tags.
I bet you can barely survive 24 hours with two/or three super active kids...and this is 2022! Wives and women pay school fees too and just want few hours of sanity and Serenity!!!

A wife/mother is the caregiver, cook, laundry, coach, assistant teacher, nanny, emergency medic and motherhood is the ONLY job without a shift , leave or transfer!!!
You can't even get thirty minutes peaceful rest when the kids are on holidays.


Habamana!!!!!
HABA!!!

Malory:
The pictures said it all. Marriage favours women more than men

the picture is true but your comment is off the topic. the whole concept isn't about marriage.

poshestmina:


Y'all just have a way of 'demonizing' women and giving them all of the bad tags.
I bet you can barely survive 24 hours with two/or three super active kids...and this is 2022! Wives and women pay school fees too and just want few hours of sanity and Serenity!!!

A wife/mother is the caregiver, cook, laundry, coach, assistant teacher, nanny, emergency medic and motherhood is the ONLY job without a shift , leave or transfer!!!
You can't even get thirty minutes peaceful rest when the kids are on holidays.


Habamana!!!!!
HABA!!!

you might be right though, I have one around me even a single mother at that. care for two lovely kids, one currently in jss1 the other in primary.

she had the second pre-birth, she is still serving the debt from that delivery (the more reason she left their father).

SEGLIZ:
the picture is true but your comment is off the topic. the whole concept isn't about marriage.

you might be right though, I have one around me even a single mother at that. care for two lovely kids, one currently in jss1 the other in primary.

she had the second pre-birth, she is still serving the debt from that delivery (the more reason she left their father).

The guy I initially quoted said, "marriage favours men and blah blah".

poshestmina:


The guy I initially quoted said, "marriage favours women and blah blah".

I disagree with him.

marriage favours no one except those that allow God into their Holy Matrimony, those that understands the labyrinth of marriage, those that are ready to give it all.

the problem with the 21st century matrimony is parties involved want to eat their cake and have it at the same time.

True

Affirmative