Ezendimmuo:
Good day guys...
I am a Corper serving in Rivers state...
My girlfriend has been asking me when we would get paid as of last month...
Well
We got paid on Thursday..
She was asking me when I was going to give her her share...
Mind you..
This Rivers state government doesn't pay corpers..
Even my PPA doesn't pay...
I have to manage 33k in a strange land...which I why I actually ventured into side hustles...
Just this week alone...
I have sent her like 3k...
She became upset when I told her we'll discuss how much I'd give her later...
She said she didn't wanna talk tor and started giving me cold answers...
I respectfully hung up..

Am I selfish

Don't try it.

Give am everything Alhaji ehen

Ezendimmuo:
Good day guys...
I am a Corper serving in Rivers state...
My girlfriend has been asking me when we would get paid as of last month...
Well
We got paid on Thursday..
She was asking me when I was going to give her her share...
Mind you..
This Rivers state government doesn't pay corpers..
Even my PPA doesn't pay...
I have to manage 33k in a strange land...which I why I actually ventured into side hustles...
Just this week alone...
I have sent her like 3k...
She became upset when I told her we'll discuss how much I'd give her later...
She said she didn't wanna talk tor and started giving me cold answers...
I respectfully hung up..

Am I selfish

This guy is a simp!!!

How can a girl ask you for such thing??
Is she the one who paid your school fee all through your University days??
Or she wrote all your exams for you right??
Guy you need to wise up.
Help her only when you feel like at your convenience...
You still have to manage yourself and save little change outta that peanut. USE YOUR BRAIN BOY

Uniquetani1:
My gender tho

what is it about the gender....useless or what are you trying to say?

You See All Of Them Saying You're A SIMP My Brother Fear Them, Na Them Dey Give Woman Everything.

Op, is she serving with u?? If no don't give a dime.

You're sharing 33k with a woman you ain't married to?

Is it your responsibility to take care of her?

I live in pH and I can boldly tell u that that peanut is too little for a month

Ezendimmuo:
Good day guys...
I am a Corper serving in Rivers state...
My girlfriend has been asking me when we would get paid as of last month...
Well
We got paid on Thursday..
She was asking me when I was going to give her her share...
Mind you..
This Rivers state government doesn't pay corpers..
Even my PPA doesn't pay...
I have to manage 33k in a strange land...which I why I actually ventured into side hustles...
Just this week alone...
I have sent her like 3k...
She became upset when I told her we'll discuss how much I'd give her later...
She said she didn't wanna talk tor and started giving me cold answers...
I respectfully hung up..

Am I selfish

Send her the full amount ,then she will in turn send you your share .....swallow red pill una no go gree ORue

Kriss216:

So, to ask a girl out now means taking care of an orphan?

abeg ask her oo

Man up and don't be a waste pipe feeding another waste pipe

AjiBussu:
Give her 20k monthly and manage 13k.

abeg who get that "My Nigga" meme? Oil de your head

Wotoporiously speaking

Wey una dey find all this kind jonzing men

You be PayPal?

See I just dey comeback from mumu match wey Chelsea play abeg no come add injury to salt.

Fuckery

I think you should take time to really discuss about it

virginprincess:
you are not only selfish but weak since you can't stand your ground and explain things to her,maybe when you get stranded in a strange land you will learn,you are a simp according to nairaland keyboard warriors(redpillers).

i can only deduce the possibility of the said girl paying and cooking free food before he was paid. this is the only reason why she would demand her part of the money and the strange guy that had been enjoying those benefits from the girl has refused to reciprocate the good gesture,he's been wicked....

She'd have you SIMPlified

It seems many of the graduates today are young under 24 guys who probably had soft landings all through their stay in school.

The OP might probably be 23 years.
Their inexperience is what is causing majority of this immaturity we see and read here on this platform.

There is a kind of maturity only hustling in the streets and age can bring.

Maybe ASUU strike would help some of these guys think better.

virginprincess:
you are not only selfish but weak since you can't stand your ground and explain things to her,maybe when you get stranded in a strange land you will learn,you are a simp according to nairaland keyboard warriors(redpillers).

shuuuuu
Sistuuuuuur
Did you say he is selfish??!!!

This gender ehnn

Oyiboman69:
i can only deduce the possibility of the said girl paying and cooking free food before he was paid. this is the only reason why she would demand her part of the money and the strange guy that had been enjoying those benefits from the girl has refused to reciprocate the good gesture,he's been wicked....

Very sensible comment, kriss216,did you ever taught of this.

virginprincess:
you are not only selfish but weak since you can't stand your ground and explain things to her,maybe when you get stranded in a strange land you will learn,you are a simp according to nairaland keyboard warriors(redpillers).

What is your point really

virginprincess:
Why would op have a girlfriend when he knows he is not financial ready for it,doesn't he knows that relationship involve resource.

Your shame dey shame me..so relationship involve resources, I know u mean o. The side of the guy!?? That's why Nigeria girls see relationship as an employment opportunity..worry!!!

Can't you see the handwriting on the wall?
She's a leech. Two things are involved. Either you cut her off or SIMPly beg for her love.

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Kriss216:

But a broke and wretched girl can be in a relationship?

for once, you're making sense.
Who do deliverance for you?

Oyiboman69:
i can only deduce the possibility of the said girl paying and cooking free food before he was paid. this is the only reason why she would demand her part of the money and the strange guy that had been enjoying those benefits from the girl has refused to reciprocate the good gesture,he's been wicked....

Stop deducing what you did not read Mr man na so una dry cause vawulence for hia

How much have you sent to your Mother?

ukaface:
shuuuuu
Sistuuuuuur
Did you say he is selfish??!!!

I don't mean to say selfish but weak since he can't make decision for himself.

virginprincess:
What do you expect from a lady who hasn't tasted the good things of life she won't want to take chances,afterall opportunity comes but once.

whaaaay?!?!
Wahaleaux

virginprincess:
I don't mean to say selfish but weak since he can't make decision for himself.

okay

virginprincess:
That is not the right thing to say,my pray for any girl who wasn't priviledge to be born into a wealthy home is that God will give you a rich husband.

This thing u just said now is total rubbish, so they should not be thinking of working hard on their own to be successful in life but instead they should be praying to God for a rich husband. Na I know why they say many girls have fi$$### brain.

CaptainStephen:
Purposeful relationships would require responsibilities in action and also funds but [code]it is not her place to demand seeing you are still struggling with the little you have.[b][/b]

Word of advice, you don't need a girlfriend now.

after she's been spending her money and giving him free sex,and now that the money is here,he can't give a reasonable amount to the girl. Let's be honest...is she her fiancée?. what do you mean by what I just quoted cos the last time I checked...it takes finance to run romance and I know fully well you're aware of where the money will be coming from...

virginprincess:
What do you expect from a lady who is broke but previleged to date a rich guy,don't you think she will turn that relationship to her bank.

just because a guy ask to date a broke babe, doesnt mean he is rich (he could be broke too for all we know)...and even if he wasnt broke, that doesnt mean that he should now take care of her needs, does it?! thats the wrong/failed mindset! that babe should simply be grateful that someone want to get to know her, and may possibly take her out and do social thing together. r/ship are NOT poverty alleviation schemes!

Leave her baba, most of those girls no get joy. But e suppose dy reach everybody or else you no go learn.