LORDKing001:

You're a Fool.
I'm also a corp member. I give my girlfriend no shit. You guys are the reason things don't work out if u get more money. Kindly delete her and move on. They're lots of fem corp members around you. So find out.

that's my nigga. meanwhile bring your gf let me fúck the shit out of the bitch

Oyiboman69:
after she's been spending her money and giving him free sex,and now that the money is here,he can't give a reasonable amount to the girl. Let's be honest...is she her fiancée?. what do you mean by what I just quoted cos the last time I checked...it takes finance to run romance and I know fully well you're aware of where the money will be coming from...

Nigerian girls spending money on their boyfriends? Possible but rare/difficult.
And you're getting it all wrong, OP is still struggling to earn a living, his monthly income isn't even enough to take care of his monthly expenses. You're making the sex look transactional with that your statement too, or is the girl an olosho?
Also, OP didn't make mention of the girl sending him a dime, he even said he sent 3k to the girl recently. 3k may not be a lot of money to you, but for somebody earning a meagre 33k monthly, that's like 9% of his allowee and not to talk of the person serving in an expensive state.

MrBrownJay1:


FIXED

Please remove that phrase "God will give you" and replace it with "she should get". We are exceptionally gifted by God, we have all we need to succeed. Doing the right thing is one of the first steps to success.

Fuckaniza:


That geh is just foolish.. idiotic bitch with warped mentality.

I don't know why they think everything revolve around them always at the detriment of ur own comfort.



Is that not FOóLISHNESS?

Fuckaniza:


I didn't even need to read this fücking epistle... I just saw the heading and hissed... Carry everything give am nah, ode.

Why y'all mofos always think you owe this bitches shit all in the name of relationship? Its relationship, not poverty alleviation.. haba!

You don't d8 Nigerian hoes, fück their pussies, dump em and move on!

Boogeyman557, abeg borrow me your kala, make I blast this nigga's left leg.. nonsense.

do you have any bitch number? I wanna fúck?

No b juju b dis nairaland,I no de get ooh

Arizoner:
do you have any bitch number? I wanna fúck?

Hahaha... Where's yur location Broski?

Fuckaniza:

Hahaha... Where's yur location Broski?

lag

Arizoner:
lag

Pascopele should be able to epp out.. he geh their connect plenty

Kriss216:

Any girl that didn't taste good life with her parents shouldn't expect to taste good life with somebody's son.

true talk comrade

InformationTV:


33k is enough for any NYSC Student to live on, save and invest.

If she is nice to you as regards sharing the money she has with you, then there is nothing wrong with sharing yours with her.


You both should understand each other very well.

This is not really a question to ask on a public forum because many men would want to abuse the female gender as being too possessive which is very understandable.



Above all; You both know each other.... Be A Man and Do the needful.

It depends on location sir, 33k might be too little to survive on in certain parts of the country. Don't forget that he may have to get accomodation, pay for transportation and still feed from that same money o. Not to talk of other necessities too. There's really no issue in giving to the girl, the act of giving and showing kindness to even total strangers should be developed by everyone sef. The problem is that the girl is making demands, becoming aggressive and throwing tantrums over the money. According to OP, she's asking for her share, like it's a deal or a legal agreement signed between the two of them. OP sure needs to draw the line though, the appalling show of entitlement mentality is the major concern here.

Bekermann:


You're here again

Yes boss
Am everywhere

virginprincess:
Before a lady goes into a relationship with a guy,the guy must have ask her out,didn't he know she's poor and wretched before asking her out.

I think you're in secondary school with this kind of thinking.

Oyiboman69:
all this period before he was paid, he's been enjoying the free packages that comes with being with the girl. why won't he give her a reasonable amount from the money?...

The girl na him wife or fiancee wrn he go dey fork and still dey collect small small money for awaiting wrn dem go pay am?

There are too many assumptions in your comment. It's difficult for Nigerian girls to give to their boyfriends o.

LUAN1:
yes,..our of that 3k he should be sending her Airtime every week

CaptainStephen:
Purposeful relationships would require responsibilities in action and also funds but it is not her place to demand seeing you are still struggling with the little you have.

Word of advice, you don't need a girlfriend now.

If you ask me, I would say he needs a girlfriend but not a wife, why? Because, a girlfriend shouldn't come with responsibilities , however, they should look out for each other if they truly care for each other.

Well, I don't know if it is poverty or entitlement that has made relationship between a man and woman to be so monetized in our country. And many boys/men are helping them to fulfill it.

I am curious, do Nigerian lesbians in relationships demand resources like the heterosexual relationships? I guess they don't, women understand women, so no maga thing, just romance and support when necessary like true friendship.

Arizoner:
ukaface wire me 10k for there

for what kwanu?

virginprincess:
Why would op have a girlfriend when he knows he is not financial ready for it,doesn't he knows that relationship involve resource.

Ma, where is it stated that men should foot bills in a relationship. You are just talking stupidly, is the girl disfigured or cannot work. Can't she do something for her self. You people will be walking around looking for men to drain to doom. Fool

Ezendimmuo:
Good day guys...
I am a Corper serving in Rivers state...
My girlfriend has been asking me when we would get paid as of last month...
Well
We got paid on Thursday..
She was asking me when I was going to give her her share...
Mind you..
This Rivers state government doesn't pay corpers..
Even my PPA doesn't pay...
I have to manage 33k in a strange land...which I why I actually ventured into side hustles...
Just this week alone...
I have sent her like 3k...
She became upset when I told her we'll discuss how much I'd give her later...
She said she didn't wanna talk tor and started giving me cold answers...
I respectfully hung up..

Am I selfish

Tips on how to survive right now;

Any billing you receive from any lady not your wife, or that is too heavy and is beyond your two days feeding, send it to your mother, sisters or relatives.

Trust me, by the time you finish NYSC, they can help you stand or might not pressure your pocket for more than you can give.

If 3k no do her right now, just exit that ship cos e go wreck you in the next 6 months or so.

Heavensent01:
during my time na 19,800 and 4k from my ppa at Nnewi, despite the odds I came back home with 200k I swear




now it's 33k, no save dey give babe wey dey fúck another dick share of the little stipends that you should be strictly saving


any babe that's complaining of 3k u dey send will surely have or find another man wey go dey satisfy her greedy life



but where are you guys meeting these daughters of Jezebel?

you have a good saving habit.

Ezendimmuo:
Good day guys...
I am a Corper serving in Rivers state...
My girlfriend has been asking me when we would get paid as of last month...
Well
We got paid on Thursday..
She was asking me when I was going to give her her share...
Mind you..
This Rivers state government doesn't pay corpers..
Even my PPA doesn't pay...
I have to manage 33k in a strange land...which I why I actually ventured into side hustles...
Just this week alone...
I have sent her like 3k...
She became upset when I told her we'll discuss how much I'd give her later...
She said she didn't wanna talk tor and started giving me cold answers...
I respectfully hung up..

Am I selfish

Dump her and move on or you will regret it.

Qatar2022:

You're such an idiot , what kind of a human being are you? Struggling and still taking care of liability

He's a good Samaritan. Anybody that you are privileged to help, help them. He's given out and still considering to give more because he can afford it. You may see 33k as meagre but it depends. What if he doesn't have to spend much?

When I served, I had free accommodation. I didn't have to transport myself to anywhere. I was given EVERY household item from spoon to mattress. The only thing I spent money on was food and toiletries. I got to keep my allowee. If OP had enough to spare, why not? The only thing I'd campaign is don't go out of your way (if it's not convenient) to please anyone. Yes, we make sacrifices but it's not going to be a regular thing like salary or something. Just a few occasions that she'd need to be supported.

The truth is if you care for somebody, you won't want to see him or her in a disadvantaged position.

My brother, you are so on point. I tire for some pussy assed men. Your own money some lady is giving you stress. Someone you should have kicked out of your life since what sort of men are we now having in our society. It should be out of his benevolence if he ever wants to give her money which one is this tasking the one that's really pissing me off is that he can't stand up to her. I am so disappointed in some men ehh.quote author=hardon1 post=112612213]

Perhaps he is the type of guy that is slave to sex. Those that kneel down to beg women for sex, I believe that's why she would have the guts to demand for her percentage of his salary

Giving money to a woman you are dating should be at your own will and prerogative and done out of magnanimity and not her right. It becomes he right when you guys are legally married

I men place less importance on a woman's pussy, making unecessary demands would be difficult for them[/quote]

Ezendimmuo:
Good day guys...
I am a Corper serving in Rivers state...
My girlfriend has been asking me when we would get paid as of last month...
Well
We got paid on Thursday..
She was asking me when I was going to give her her share...
Mind you..
This Rivers state government doesn't pay corpers..
Even my PPA doesn't pay...
I have to manage 33k in a strange land...which I why I actually ventured into side hustles...
Just this week alone...
I have sent her like 3k...
She became upset when I told her we'll discuss how much I'd give her later...
She said she didn't wanna talk tor and started giving me cold answers...
I respectfully hung up..

Am I selfish

She's not your girlfriend. Don't be deceived.

Stay away from her and have peace. She doesn't mean well for you.

placeofallure:


He's a good Samaritan. Anybody that you are privileged to help, help them. He's given out and still considering to give more because he can afford it. You may see 33k as meagre but it depends. What if he doesn't have to spend much?

When I served, I had free accommodation. I didn't have to transport myself to anywhere. I was given EVERY household item from spoon to mattress. The only thing I spent money on was food and toiletries. I got to keep my allowee. If OP had enough to spare, why not? The only thing I'd campaign is don't go out of your way (if it's not convenient) to please anyone. Yes, we make sacrifices but it's not going to be a regular thing like salary or something. Just a few occasions that she'd need to be supported.

The truth is if you care for somebody, you won't want to see him or her in a disadvantaged position.

This is not help , she is demanding it as her entitlement

You are mad for bringing such crap to nairaland. So, what the hell do you want us to do about it? Go fucck you self. Animal!

virginprincess:
you are not only selfish but weak since you can't stand your ground and explain things to her,maybe when you get stranded in a strange land you will learn,you are a simp according to nairaland keyboard warriors(redpillers).

You too dumb for typing this ... You couldn't condemn the girl entitlement mentality, you just calling the guy unnecessary names

Oyiboman69:
all this period before he was paid, he's been enjoying the free packages that comes with being with the girl. why won't he give her a reasonable amount from the money?...

The girl na him wife or fiancee wrn he go dey fork and still dey collect small small money for awaiting wrn dem go pay am?

stop writing rubbish online ....they BOTH were enjoying the package that comes with being in a r/ship. sex is a way two way pleasure and not only for men. it is a fallacy to claim that a babe gives a man sex and therefore she should be rewarded for it....only OLOSHOES get rewarded for sex! what you wrote above is not only a disgrace but also the reason why so many deluded broke and hungry undercover wh0res walk around thinking that dating them has a price tag.***spit on floor***

Ezendimmuo:
Good day guys...
I am a Corper serving in Rivers state...
My girlfriend has been asking me when we would get paid as of last month...
Well
We got paid on Thursday..
She was asking me when I was going to give her her share...
Mind you..
This Rivers state government doesn't pay corpers..
Even my PPA doesn't pay...
I have to manage 33k in a strange land...which I why I actually ventured into side hustles...
Just this week alone...
I have sent her like 3k...
She became upset when I told her we'll discuss how much I'd give her later...
She said she didn't wanna talk tor and started giving me cold answers...
I respectfully hung up..

Am I selfish

why asking for opinion. Park all give her. Mumu

tunjilee003:
you have a good saving habit.

it's just common sense bro, I'm not from rich home, so I'm expected to prepare myself for further steps after service




thanks for the compliment though

Qatar2022:

This is not help , she is demanding it as her entitlement

Yes, that's why I said he shouldn't go out of his way to do it. Moreso you don't demand for help, you plead. That's rudeness. I don't support that.

Ezendimmuo:
Good day guys...
I am a Corper serving in Rivers state...
My girlfriend has been asking me when we would get paid as of last month...
Well
We got paid on Thursday..
She was asking me when I was going to give her her share...
Mind you..
This Rivers state government doesn't pay corpers..
Even my PPA doesn't pay...
I have to manage 33k in a strange land...which I why I actually ventured into side hustles...
Just this week alone...
I have sent her like 3k...
She became upset when I told her we'll discuss how much I'd give her later...
She said she didn't wanna talk tor and started giving me cold answers...
I respectfully hung up..

Am I selfish

Yes you're very selfish. Give her 30k monthly and manage 3k since she has worked under the rain and sun for it.

As long as you keep being weak, women will use you and dump you like their menstrual cloth.

Wake up and stop being a simp. You're shouldering the responsibility of a liability when you're yet to get a grip on the reality ahead of you, isn't that the highest form of stupidity?


Continue you hear?

when she is done milking you she will jump off to another simp with a bigger paycheck.

Na then your EYE go clear!!!