Some days ago, I posted here about how my girl friend posted her ex pictures twice and I got a handful of advice, insults and very derogatory statements. Also at the same time I also got very few matured and helpful comment.
I wanted to apply the advice I was given here because I was furious and that could have been disastrous.

The next day after posting here, I confronted my girl, I told her it is over between us(all was a ploy to know how much she loves me). Since that day, my Girl's mood changed, she doesn't talk to people, she doesn't laugh and even started skipping her meal. She came to my house and was crying heavily that she was sorry. That has it been she know that it will provoke me that she wouldn't have done it.

I still pretended that I will never forgive her. Just yesterday she called my female bestie and narrated to her what happened and she called me yesterday evening and pleaded with me to forgive her. Which I did and You need to see how happy this girl has been. I will send screen shot of her recent Whatsapp status.


My Advice to anyone seeking for a relationship advice is not to follow the popular comment here.

As ur investment, abi.

Story for the Gods!!!

God has finally open this one sense.

Listen to me carefully... Most of these frustrated guys here are weaklings and vegetables in Real Life. But they would come to social media and start forming redpillar and barking like a loose dog... Giving useless advice to people like op.

@op listen to me carefully again... Your relationship is more healthy than these frustrated guys relationships but they are always quick to dish out useless advice to others.

Infact, most of these frustrated guys need serious help in their relationship but they would rather seek advice somewhere else than to bring it here to Nairaland because they don't want be mocked as a wannabe redpiller.

I'm glad that God has given you wisdom to differentiate between wrong and right advice. Just take a look at them below.. They have started praying for the op downfall.

Nawa oo!!

Alaigbopress:
Some days ago, I posted here about how my girl friend posted her ex pictures twice and I got a handful of advice, insults and very derogatory statements. Also at the same time I also got very few matured and helpful comment.
I wanted to apply the advice I was given here because I was furious and that could have been disastrous.

The next day after posting here, I confronted my girl, I told her it is over between us(all was a ploy to know how much she loves me). Since that day, my Girl's mood changed, she doesn't talk to people, she doesn't laugh and even started skipping her meal. She came to my house and was crying heavily that she was sorry. That has it been she know that it will provoke me that she wouldn't have done it.

I still pretended that I will never forgive her. Just yesterday she called my female bestie and narrated to her what happened and she called me yesterday evening and pleaded with me to forgive her. Which I did and You need to see how happy this girl has been. I will send screen shot of her recent Whatsapp status.


My Advice to anyone seeking for a relationship advice is not to follow the popular comment here.

mumu fall for manipulation thinking say en done win , anyways carry on , until she start to scream her ex name during sex ya eye go clear

seeking advice is an opportunity for you to sample so many opinions especially the unbiased ones....at the the end it's your responsibility to sit down think through all the opinions garned and take the decision that best suits you .... nobody here force you to take any decision ....so it's wrong for you to start saying you almost lost your girlfriend because of advise you got here...good luck

You don't You fall for her manipulation.

Time shall tell SIMPLE man.

We are waiting for the day you go come here dey cry.....

You don't beg for love. if you don't get the same energy you put into a relationship just go out of that relationship.

Because whatever you manage, get damage.

Ask William Smith sha

Most boys on this forum are misogynist and also ill-mannered. Many of them castigating ladies here are woman wrapper in reality but forming redpillers online.

Women are really smart and know how to use manipulation to get what they want.

The same way some women manipulate their husbands to neglect their friends and sometimes family members just to be with them alone while they stick to their own friends.

Same way some mothers manipulate their children to become enemies with their own enemies for no just cause.

Now that the OP has been successfully manipulated there's no difference between him and someone that's stuck in a bottle.

He will still be thinking he's in a relationship with his girlfriend while she's still dating her ex but using him as backup.

Anyways we will still be here to console you even if you're taking us for granted we forgive you

They don use towtow water cook for dis one

You will definitely come back here for advice toward your relationship again

One thing you fail to understand is that women are very manipulative and your girlfriend has just succeeded in manipulating you into believing that she's truly sorry
Any girl on her right senses will never upload a picture of her x everytime....she doesn't have respect for you and i bet you she will continue doing it and this time around....she will make sure she block you from viewing her status before she does it

When u think that guys dey wise up, u no no say na more mumu dem go become.
This day, we hv too many men in boys skin, imagine someone falling for manipulation of a girl.
Na like dis pikin dey carry resemble landlord. For a girl to be posting her ex picture shows that op no get mouth and ground for where d bab dey.
People like op na people wey dey beg girl to date or marry them, and d bab go feel say she dey do op favour by dating him.

One man down already. See how dey manipulate this fvcking SIMP.

Them don use menstruation pad cook egusi soup for op.

garriAndsugar:
Women are really smart and know how to use manipulation to get what they want.
We will still be here to console you

Stop having this mentality about us. Is only a frustrated and broke ass person, that talks this way. Sometimes I wonder if you men don't experience mother's love, with the way you talk about women.

Women this, women that.

the most annoying part of this post is that you are feeling victorious at the same time shitting on the people you ran for ,to advice you showing the kind of person you are ,now you are living in a delusion thinking you are the man , meanwhile you are a f**king loser who is afraid of the relationship to fail, go ahead , , you not a bright person,Kai see as you fall easily anyways what is my business I am just a broke bitter redpiller

Animegirl:


Stop having this mentality about us. Is only a frustrated and broke ass person, that talks this way. Sometimes I wonder if you men don't experience mother's love, with the way you talk about women.

Women this, women that.

the only tactics u women know ,to broke shame niggas ,if we look you fit dey sell recharge card for roadside giving you enough mb lash out ,but what do I know, nairaland has made it possible for you to hide anonymously and talk shit to people in better position than you are DM me for job

Animegirl:


Stop having this mentality about us. Is only a frustrated and broke ass person, that talks this way. Sometimes I wonder if you men don't experience mother's love, with the way you talk about women.

Women this, women that.

Go and look at the threads you create about men and ask yourself if you experienced your father's love...hes clearly very stupid for being your father

We've lost a Brother to Simphood

sollolucci77:


Go and look at the threads you create about men and ask yourself if you experienced your father's love...hes clearly very stupid for being your father

Ermm... I don't think my comment as gotten to this level of you mentioning my father. But if this is your best response, well suit yourself. I won't say anything.

Simp...see how you dey happy cos of woman

Be talking rubbish. They told u to break up with her didn't they? Aren't u the one that just said that's what u did, and then she came running back to you? So now tell me how the redpillers are wrong. Anyway sha she doesn't want to let you go because of what she's gaining from you. Ex dey chop free meal you dey chop leftover crumbs

Some peoole that advice i here have never dated a lady na grand patrons of ashawo house

Animegirl:


Ermm... I don't think my comment as gotten to this level of you mentioning my father. But if this is your best response, well suit yourself. I won't say anything.

Oh so now it hit you...when you come here and speak Ill of men anyhow with your little friends you dont consider that you have male relatives..shift

sollolucci77:


Oh so now it hit you...when you come here and speak Ill of men anyhow with your little friends you dont consider that you have male relatives..shift

My own is,has she told u y she posted her ex pictures? She must xplain fah.

Enny2013:
My own is,has she told u y she posted her ex pictures? She must xplain fah.

You're wise


Brother man even have female bestie. He must be of the indomie generation

OP wisdom is far from you, you are not wise at all....
Time will tell sha

Enny2013:
My own is, has she told u y she posted her ex pictures? She must xplain fah.

No mind the smallie make in dey dia dey dull himself and be insulting those who are trying to open his blind eyes

Wotoporiously speaking

Mr Op, Wetin old man sit-down for ground see even if small pikin climb the highest tree he no go fit see am. They should be an explanation for why she did what she did, they should be no sugar-coating the truth at all.

Let this sink