ford101:
wen you talk about childhood and primary school kits,like pen and pencil.you are talking about your father and uncles and not boy friends.

joyousever:
I've always known you as a relationship enthusiast on this forum. And who gave you the right to write this unsolicited advice cum epistle to me? I only made a comment based on your thread and here you are yearning dust! Since you're so "good" at relationship concerns, why are you still single at over 40 and still counting? Who are you to say such thrash to me in the name of response to a simple contribution I made to your thread? And who told you I'm single or "he was happy he was let go" according to your assumptions??Tokunbo, respect yourself and talk less, being too talkative isn't healthy for a man of your age! [ quote author=Toks2008 post=113061202]


Maybe you need to come down from your high horse.

Perhaps if you are calm and respectful,every conversation will end with mutual understanding.

I'm not saying you are at fault but I have observed keenly that many ladies can't keep a man because they are arrogant and disrespectful.

A man does not need your love. What we need is respect but this seems sooo difficult for many ladies in this generation and that is why many of them will remain single for a very long time and even the ones who are married will most likely lose their marriages.

Respecting your man is non negotiable... It doesnt mean you will be a zombie to him but even when you disagree with him, you do it with respect... Even if he cheats on you, express your anger with respect.

No matter what, never ever disrespect your man else you will certainly lose him and in your mind you will think you dissed him whereas he is thanking GOD he is free from you.

BabaIbo:


I know your type, keep giving yourself false hope of men finding you and dismissing them.

Meanwhile, you are the one hoping, praying and wishing for one to find you as your comment(check attached picture) here shows.

If at all anything with rod inbetween his legs finds you, they are all boys and not men.

From your first comment under this post, the one that describes the type of man you WANT(check attached picture or quite below), it is obvious and glaring that you WANT a man.

Let's assume men have been finding you like you claimed, you wouldn't be here wanting another because you probably must have been found by one out of the many MEN finding you, or maybe it is a case of not worth keeping after they must have found you due to character. "This angle makes sense too.

This saying should make sense to you, "men may find you but your character will make them stay."

BabaIbo:


I know your type, keep giving yourself false hope of men finding you and dismissing them.

Meanwhile, you are the one hoping, praying and wishing for one to find you as your comment(check attached picture) here shows.

If at all anything with rod inbetween his legs finds you, they are all boys and not men.

From your first comment under this post, the one that describes the type of man you WANT(check attached picture or quite below), it is obvious and glaring that you WANT a man.

Let's assume men have been finding you like you claimed, you wouldn't be here wanting another because you probably must have been found by one out of the many MEN finding you, or maybe it is a case of not worth keeping after they must have found you due to character. "This angle makes sense too.

This saying should make sense to you, "men may find you but your character will make them stay."

ford101:
wen you talk about childhood and primary school kits,like pen and pencil.you are talking about your father and uncles and not boy friends.

drimzsmoke:
All these nairaland "alpha male" or "redpillers" always make me laugh...How many of you can actually hold it down with the so called independent woman you all shout on this forum
Anyways,today is your lucky day,I'm feeling generous,anyone of you who feel you can date a female doctor should mail me,I'll give you 3 numbers and you will pick any 1 from the numbers...they are not that pretty but they are okay and smart,they are everything you claim you want in a woman except beauty,it's a 100k bet,just date any 1 of them for 3months and the money is yours


PS: I swear by my mother,the 3 ladies are below 26years and they are "virgins"!!!

Lovelydaisies:
It's as if women can't have choices on this forum. See some men running up and down trying to correct and insult women on 'their' own choices. Na wa o!

See how some of the men here insult and debase women here but complain that the Muslims have an oath defending their threads. If there was mutual respect between people, would there be any reason to set up and take oaths before entering a thread?

Even the thread for females has been infiltrated by men and there are no oaths to take. If there were, the silly males would still follow women to criticize them, behaving like evil spirits without rest.

Women bashing is the order of the day but it doesn't make your lives any better, only worse. And those who like the devastating and unholy comments by men against women, hmm, you are all part of the same big problem. Una well done o!

Whenever you (want to) badmouth females, put the ones in your lives in mind or imagine yourself as a lady. Constructive criticism is allowed but please, be civil. Respect is reciprocal. Enough said.

Choilila:


yeah I said no Man [bf] can said he contributed money to buy erase to the underwear I'm putting on.

And we are not talking about relatives, we are talking about relationships [a visa to fornication ]

Toks2008:

You sound like a lady with zero tolerance to sexual indecency.

Choilila:


Ahahahaha!
rolling on the floor with laugh.
yeah Man.
I don't need them , and if I do I need someone with my personalities.
but for now I don't need them.

short cut.

@bolded, if all humans are like me, probably no soul would be in hell yelling for mercy. Humanity would be the number before anything else

so this also makes me to distance myself away from humans not alone men alone [because their hearts is full of Black ]. And behind the intestines are filled with evils.

BabaIbo:


You know all these and you were wishing for that same human(man) earlier on.

It seems my words has forced little common sense into someone, and I can see(notice) someone is changing stance and allowing humility take its rightful place in them but indirectly.

Well, take it or leave it, it is your life, you're free to live it how you want. After all, you are the one that will face the consequences if any comes up later on.

Udo!

Toks2008:


Guy you nailed it @ the embolden.

Many ladies are hopelessly arrogant. Their arrogance is so nauseating that it will take a total simp to cope with them..

They are hardly wrong and even when it is obvious they are wrong they will still be acting arrogant.

MadamVanessa:



Financial stable, one that can use his dick effectively and makes me wriggle on bed with endless moaning.

MadamVanessa:



Financial stable, one that can use his dick effectively and makes me wriggle on bed with endless moaning.

MisterKennedy:


Hi Enny

Happy new week to you

Powersurge:



What are u bringing onboard?

Toks2008:


This was exactly why I cautioned Sweetplum in the original thread.

It is total foolishness to start attacking another person cos they expressed their desire.

I just don't understand.

Toks2008:


Babe I'm sorry to say this but you have a very big issue.

If you find what I wrote annoying then you really need to look inward.

And do you know how I confirm if someone is immature? I look out for their comments regarding the marital status of another person. Once it sounds derogatory, I know instantly that they are very childish.

And please don't quote me again. Cheers.

MisterKennedy:


Hi dear

Toks2008:


She should carry her cross. Focus on her life and take the husband as a booty call.

If she is patient, the husband will realize his foolishness and retrace his steps.

Many of us will not exist if our mums leave their husband cos of another woman.

A man who go cheat go cheat, there is nothing you can do about it. But guess what?

They usually go back to their wives if the wife is patient enough.

The bad news is that there is nothing out there and any woman who leaves her cheating hubby thinking she will get a faithful man out there should consider a career in comedy.

Except you want to leave to remain celibate or give yourself to randy guys as intimacy gadget then there is no point leaving your marriage cos of another lady.

Remember that the other lady actually wants you leave so she can take over so be wise not to give her the last laugh.

Men are not worth fighting for. The best way to deal with us is to ignore us when we start misbehaving.

You can ask him to use condom with you to prevent and sti.

Diza46:
you re a good consultant what you said is 100%a true and reality

Toks2008:


Thanks.

Choilila:


Why are Men so stupid?

If I said opposite, you would probably insult your mama and tag her names.

sorry dear, I don't live for a man Properties, it feel like an insult. Attractive or not.

virginprincess:
Hi

maryalloy:
Hey you guys should chill and stop attacking us, you asked for The kind of Man we want?
So allow us say our minds please �

Enny2013:

Hallooi!
Tenk u...

vivaciousvivi:

Hiya

joyousever:
Hello

Choilila:


hi dear.
same happy Sunday, a week though.
sorry for late reply.