Animegirl:


First, we ladies except your flaws, having different kids from another woman but rain insults on single mothers forgetting they were heroines in their previous relationship.

Dear Op; you're a confuse man. You already changed the kid name to your surname because you want to open an account. Tell me Op what is the difference btw adoption and changing the kid's surname to yours? For you to open an account for the kid means you love her(kid).

The mother gave you a better option at least, all your spending on the child won't be in vain. You get to train the girl as yours and not another man's child.

Men are confuse, gezz.

Animegirl:


First, we ladies except your flaws, having different kids from another woman but rain insults on single mothers forgetting they were heroines in their previous relationship.

Dear Op; you're a confuse man. You already changed the kid name to your surname because you want to open an account. Tell me Op what is the difference btw adoption and changing the kid's surname to yours? For you to open an account for the kid means you love her(kid).

The mother gave you a better option at least, all your spending on the child won't be in vain. You get to train the girl as yours and not another man's child.

Men are confuse, gezz.

Sweetplum:

End time child

Belafonte:


I'm certain my son is older than you. Smh.

Sweetplum:

Smh, daddy Methuselah.

Belafonte:


Yes, my daughter

Belafonte:
Marrying a single mother is like arriving at a party after everyone has left and cleaning up the mess they left behind

Uniquetani1:
Having a child is not a disease.
Changing the child's name to yours, is very fast abi you be kidnapper?
Just acknowledged the fact that she had a child and be good to her.
The child's father will always come back, unless he is dead.

Maverick777:
I'd make this as brief as possible.. This is my debut post here on NL.
I'm in my early 30's, currently work in the oil and gas sector and I'd say I'm an 8.5/10 guy in all ramifications.
Now to the issue, I met this lady sometime last year(JUNE) at a popular fast food here in delta, she was (and still is) the manager of the place. One of the cashiers was being rude to me, she intervened and I must say, I was immediately lovestruck! She's really not the, sweep-you-off-your-feet kinda girl, but she seemed pretty smart (I'm extremely Sapro-sexual).
Long story short, I gave her my card, she called, visited severally and after like 6months we got intimate and all.... Before all these, she already told me that she has a 4-year old daughter, which he had for a guy when she was still schooling, but later found out the guy had a family and she cut ties. She had the baby and he knows but she told him to stay away! And since then till now, there has been no communication whatsoever between them.
My dilemma is, I like her enough to wife her, taking in the kid is not an issue(I adore female kids) and they(MUM and DAUGHTER) both love me to bits, adore me and all. Overall I would say she's a 6.5/10 Lady.
Yesterday she suggested that why don't I adopt the kid legally, as I already changed her surname to mine, because I wanted to open accounts for her(THE KID), she said she had a dream that her baby daddy came to make amends, request for his daughter and serious issue broke out bla bla bla....
Now, I know ladies would always twist the narrative to suit themselves and all, and my gut feeling tells me there's more to that separation than she's telling!
I want to hear some expert advise concerning this before I take the next step, to be honest I'm a novice in this area(never had anything to do with a single mum before now).
Do I go ahead to adopt the kid legally??

Sensible inputs would be well appreciated.
I'd be glad if this hits Front Page

CC: SEUN
LALASTICLALA
MYND44

Belafonte:
Marrying a single mother is like going to jail for a crime you never committed

InfinityFabric:

Marrying a single mother is like trying to fix the Nigerian issues caused politicians and masses alike since 1999. The guy is a certified SIMP with money.

Animegirl:


First, we ladies except your flaws, having different kids from another woman but rain insults on single mothers forgetting they were heroines in their previous relationship.

Dear Op; you're a confuse man. You already changed the kid name to your surname because you want to open an account. Tell me Op what is the difference btw adoption and changing the kid's surname to yours? For you to open an account for the kid means you love her(kid).

The mother gave you a better option at least, all your spending on the child won't be in vain. You get to train the girl as yours and not another man's child.

Men are confuse, gezz.

Maverick777:
I'd make this as brief as possible.. This is my debut post here on NL.
I'm in my early 30's, currently work in the oil and gas sector and I'd say I'm an 8.5/10 guy in all ramifications.
Now to the issue, I met this lady sometime last year(JUNE) at a popular fast food here in delta, she was (and still is) the manager of the place. One of the cashiers was being rude to me, she intervened and I must say, I was immediately lovestruck! She's really not the, sweep-you-off-your-feet kinda girl, but she seemed pretty smart (I'm extremely Sapro-sexual).
Long story short, I gave her my card, she called, visited severally and after like 6months we got intimate and all.... Before all these, she already told me that she has a 4-year old daughter, which he had for a guy when she was still schooling, but later found out the guy had a family and she cut ties. She had the baby and he knows but she told him to stay away! And since then till now, there has been no communication whatsoever between them.
My dilemma is, I like her enough to wife her, taking in the kid is not an issue(I adore female kids) and they(MUM and DAUGHTER) both love me to bits, adore me and all. Overall I would say she's a 6.5/10 Lady.
Yesterday she suggested that why don't I adopt the kid legally, as I already changed her surname to mine, because I wanted to open accounts for her(THE KID), she said she had a dream that her baby daddy came to make amends, request for his daughter and serious issue broke out bla bla bla....
Now, I know ladies would always twist the narrative to suit themselves and all, and my gut feeling tells me there's more to that separation than she's telling!
I want to hear some expert advise concerning this before I take the next step, to be honest I'm a novice in this area(never had anything to do with a single mum before now).
Do I go ahead to adopt the kid legally??

Sensible inputs would be well appreciated.
I'd be glad if this hits Front Page

CC: SEUN
LALASTICLALA
MYND44

lereinter:


Who's the child staying with?

Where's the father of the child staying?

What the lady told you about the dream na scope, it's not any dream, it's what the father of the child told her

Obviously he still communicate..

Stop your anxiousness, be strong reverse the name change if you want to help the kid, you can by not opening any account for her


I can only advice you marry the lady if the man that impregnated her has gotten married to another lady

advanceDNA:


Why would someone want to make another man's child his own when the man is not dead...it doesnt even sound well to me...

Mayb OP is impotent...

Maverick777:

impotent is different from infertile.
the fact you couldn't distinguish between the two, shows you're not smart enough to have any sensible input.

as you were...

Mattwillz:
Go open account for your siblings first

advanceDNA:


mayb u shoukd google impotent...thats by the way......if you are offended by my question..my sincere apologies. ....it wanstas not meant to insult you but it came out wromgly.

...i was just trying to get why you are desperate to take another man's child thats still alive ...u wont want someone to do that to you

Fathersdesire:
For someone who is sapiosexual and cannot spell sapiosexual That's by the way though.
Have a heart to heart conversation with her, so she could tell you the real gist. But wait o why don't you believe what she has told you is the real gist sef
Or you could set up a meeting with the guy in question(the baby's daddy) and talk with him man to man.

Maverick777:

I appreciate your maturity.
Now, as for being desperate, I'm not.. The child is bearing her(the mother) father's name not even the baby daddy's.
so if I'm to marry her, I would want to own the child, I'm the only father she knows.
as for someone doing that to me, I wouldn't abandon my child for 4 years no matter the circumstance.

advanceDNA:


Giving the child her fathers name is not right to begin with...father and mother name of the child goes on the birth cert not the grandfather...


The man can return, saying he wants to do his father role...it happens alot...His family can come poking if they hear someone took their daughter and changed her background without consent...jist fly easily..

U can ask a lawyer how to go about it so that u are not accused later of kidnapping and unauthorized adoption..