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Re: Do I Go For This Lady Who Already Has A Kid? Your Thoughts... by omolasho: 8:58pm On May 30, 2022 |
From your narrative, God had given you a good job and Satan will crown it with this guut wife. Premium Tears brewing. Trust me, we elders shall be here to console you while we sip palm wine from the calabash. 2 Likes |
Re: Do I Go For This Lady Who Already Has A Kid? Your Thoughts... by boringdraw: 9:00pm On May 30, 2022 |
@ OP 1. Trust your instincts, the is more to what she is telling you. 2. Who advised you to open an account for the child? 3. Who is advising you to adopt the child without her father's consent? 4. What is your benefit from all these? 5. Love her if that's what you want, and care for the child, don't adopt. If you do, even if not married to her mother, she and her mother become legally entitled to your resources which it seems what the mother want. 6. Discuss the possibility of prenup with a lawyer before you marry. 7. Write a will immediately (exclude the two of them at the moment, you can add them later when sure of thier place in your life) . You seem naive about women. 1 Like |
Re: Do I Go For This Lady Who Already Has A Kid? Your Thoughts... by placeofallure(f): 9:34pm On May 30, 2022 |
Maverick777: Whether you adopt the baby or not, it doesn't stop you from doing anything for her. After all, we help people we don't know from Adam, how much more a lil girl that adores you. Contrary to some opinion here, there's nothing wrong in marrying a single mother. Older woman, younger man, older man, inter-racial, christian-muslim and all the other nomenclatures we ascribe to them, they're the lines we draw, they're the divisions we want to see. Love can be found in the strangest of places with the oddest of people. Follow your mind if you like the lady. Urge her to be truthful about the whole saga. Do what you will for the child. If nobody ever claims her, fine, and if the dad comes, fine too. You would've had yours with the woman. |
Re: Do I Go For This Lady Who Already Has A Kid? Your Thoughts... by skj1377(m): 11:14pm On May 30, 2022 |
https://punchng.com/divorce-my-wife-denied-me-sex-deserted-family-actor-kalu-ikeagwu-tells-court/. Lover man Mr know it all digest that because very soon you may be in his shoes . Maverick777: |
Re: Do I Go For This Lady Who Already Has A Kid? Your Thoughts... by Miraclemaverick: 12:27am On May 31, 2022 |
Hello Maverick contact me 08135537541 it's really important we need to talk ...... |
Re: Do I Go For This Lady Who Already Has A Kid? Your Thoughts... by Miraclemaverick: 1:20am On May 31, 2022 |
What Gloria told you is not true bro contact me at least here from me if you are going to b true to yourself |
Re: Do I Go For This Lady Who Already Has A Kid? Your Thoughts... by Maverick777: 9:24am On May 31, 2022 |
skj1377:I'm sure i read that article before you did sir. if you read my article, you'd see I called for advise from experience and not from bias, I got some lessons from there tho. but bottom line is, there is never a 'one size fits all' in these issues, the character of the lady in question always count for a lot! lastly, celebrity marriages are never always as they seem on the cyber space, good or bad. I'm sure that man(KALU) has a lot he hasn't said... |
Re: Do I Go For This Lady Who Already Has A Kid? Your Thoughts... by Maverick777: 9:25am On May 31, 2022 |
Miraclemaverick:you can send an e-mail sir. |
Re: Do I Go For This Lady Who Already Has A Kid? Your Thoughts... by Maverick777: 9:35am On May 31, 2022 |
placeofallure:thank you. |
Re: Do I Go For This Lady Who Already Has A Kid? Your Thoughts... by Maverick777: 9:40am On May 31, 2022 |
boringdraw:1. most likely 2. myself 3. should an irresponsible father have a say? 4. making her and myself and the little angel happy. 5. resources are the least of my problems sir. 6. not necessary, this is Nigeria! 7. you seem extremely concerned about wealth, I'm not and I'm sure she isn't too, she's well to do. I'm very experienced about women, just not this angle. |
Re: Do I Go For This Lady Who Already Has A Kid? Your Thoughts... by Maverick777: 9:42am On May 31, 2022 |
omolasho: you sound more like a toddler.. |
Re: Do I Go For This Lady Who Already Has A Kid? Your Thoughts... by Maverick777: 9:44am On May 31, 2022 |
mapist:tell me what makes a baby mama less of a human being? just one thing... if you can't muster anything tangible, it shows a lot about you. |
Re: Do I Go For This Lady Who Already Has A Kid? Your Thoughts... by skj1377(m): 11:20am On May 31, 2022 |
Chairman the more you write the more I understand you Dont know women. That "attitude "you like is most likely because she is sober kindly discount it immediately. Secondly, this is the attitude she projects towards you to entice you to sign the contract. Once you do most likely the attitude that made the other man dump her with a child will come up. All men like good things including you for now she has to project her best to get you. After you have been gotten expect her real attitude I bet it will be ugly. You said she is the head of the restaurant. Hello Oga!!!!! The way to a mans heart is from his stomach . I hope you know you can't be her only lover up until the time she started seeing you as a green horn lover man. Kindly know many more men have exchanged number with her many times before you . her job makes her meet men 90% of 12 working hours in a day 6 days a week. The difference is those men just hit and move while you want to stay after exploring . Women cook men eat out and as such her customers are mostly men after eating they will start looking at breast or arse while exchanging numbers. She can't say no to every man every day so many days a year. Oga! Single ladies working in Restaurant, hotels, clubs, bank marketers are a no no take this advice from me. Her many trips to the market may be a visit to a male customer she just met at her restaurant whilst your dating her or married to her. If you want your sanity you may need to change her job. Finally, what are you enjoying in a working lady that has been through the reggors of delivery you should be looking for fresh young ladies probably students, nysc or fresh from service. Good ladies may take you few months to get down with but with your marrital availability and nice economic prospects you will get a yes several times over. The length of time you spend trying to get them is far better than what your doing right now with this your " working single mother". Maverick777: |
Re: Do I Go For This Lady Who Already Has A Kid? Your Thoughts... by EuniceEyitanwa: 11:34am On May 31, 2022 |
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Re: Do I Go For This Lady Who Already Has A Kid? Your Thoughts... by Maverick777: 4:40pm On May 31, 2022 |
Miraclemaverick:The only Gloria I know, was my high school teacher... |
Re: Do I Go For This Lady Who Already Has A Kid? Your Thoughts... by mapist(m): 4:50pm On Jun 03, 2022 |
Maverick777: I am not obliged to convince you with facts. Your life; your decision,bro. |
Re: Do I Go For This Lady Who Already Has A Kid? Your Thoughts... by omolasho: 3:28pm On Jun 07, 2022 |
Like parents do sound during child's delinquency stage. Relax like some pple here, experience will educate you well. Since you were sure of your instincts walk her up the aisle and continue enjoying your BJ and nipple twisting, why make a public stunt here? "Irresponsible father" "Money is not the problem " I laugh in Russia-congo! |
Re: Do I Go For This Lady Who Already Has A Kid? Your Thoughts... by Maverick777: 3:44pm On Jun 07, 2022 |
ABANGWABOI:very shallow and timid reasoning! you're most definitely still a juvenile. VOODOO? shows you're not wise at all. kid, my advise for you is, look b4 you leap so you don't end your life prematurely. where your minor knowledge about life ends, is where that of others just begin to wake up.... pls don't mention me again. thanks |
Re: Do I Go For This Lady Who Already Has A Kid? Your Thoughts... by ABANGWABOI(m): 3:50pm On Jun 07, 2022 |
Maverick777: Stoopid Simp.. I pray the father of that baby is a stoic man like me.. he would follow you up till your grave.. Bye phool |
Re: Do I Go For This Lady Who Already Has A Kid? Your Thoughts... by ABANGWABOI(m): 10:35pm On Jun 07, 2022 |
Maverick777: Hey phool.. Ogun Kee You.. . Agbaya.. |
Re: Do I Go For This Lady Who Already Has A Kid? Your Thoughts... by Prettygirl200(f): 11:09pm On Jun 07, 2022 |
Maverick as a woman I will not advice u to change or adopt that girls name to yours, she is not your daughter, if u want to marry the mother fine but don't change the name of the girl to yours. For me since u u didn't have any child out of wedlock, I don't advice u to marry a Lady that already had a child for someone else since u are single go for a single lady too a younger one though. 1 Like |
Re: Do I Go For This Lady Who Already Has A Kid? Your Thoughts... by Ifakiland(m): 11:17pm On Jun 07, 2022 |
Belafonte:Lol you dey spit truth padi....but nevertheless you be werey lolzzzz |
Re: Do I Go For This Lady Who Already Has A Kid? Your Thoughts... by Bigpapi1: 10:42am On Jun 08, 2022 |
Belafonte: 5 crates of gulder ultimate beer for u |
Re: Do I Go For This Lady Who Already Has A Kid? Your Thoughts... by Yocoki56: 12:54pm On Jun 08, 2022 |
If you love her |
Re: Do I Go For This Lady Who Already Has A Kid? Your Thoughts... by Belafonte(m): 11:15pm On Jun 08, 2022 |
Re: Do I Go For This Lady Who Already Has A Kid? Your Thoughts... by Belafonte(m): 11:18pm On Jun 08, 2022 |
Bigpapi1: Make that 5 crates of Guinness Extra Stout my bro
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Re: Do I Go For This Lady Who Already Has A Kid? Your Thoughts... by Somijedeen: 2:47am On Jun 09, 2022 |
Uh |
Re: Do I Go For This Lady Who Already Has A Kid? Your Thoughts... by Maverick777: 12:01pm On Jun 10, 2022 |
Prettygirl200: hmmm.. thanks for your input however, are you saying, only single dads should/can get married to single mums? |
Re: Do I Go For This Lady Who Already Has A Kid? Your Thoughts... by Prettygirl200(f): 6:07pm On Jun 10, 2022 |
Maverick777:That's not what am saying, but in the society we are today most men don't like getting themselves involved with single mum's, they can date them but not marriage cux the thought of them taking care of another man's child is what they don't like. But if u want to go for her it's your choice oooo nobody is holding u though but for me, thats if u were to be a man I wouldn't try such. 1 Like |
Re: Do I Go For This Lady Who Already Has A Kid? Your Thoughts... by Miraclemaverick: 8:25am On Jun 13, 2022 |
Maverick777:you don't know Gloria ![]() |
Re: Do I Go For This Lady Who Already Has A Kid? Your Thoughts... by mipon86367: 9:46am On Jun 13, 2022 |
Uh |
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