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Re: Can't Get Over My Ex. Please Advice Me by Elramino(m): 5:53am On May 23, 2022 |
Chat me for counseling |
Re: Can't Get Over My Ex. Please Advice Me by Enosa1(m): 6:41am On May 23, 2022 |
Omo, the thread don long. Anyway, the best thing to do is to focus your mind on his negative behaviour towards you whenever you think of him. Think of how he used to beat and cheat on you. Go a little further and get some of his badly taken/ ugly pics( everyone has them) and look at it whenever his thought comes to your mind. Soon your mind will register him as not worthy of you and move on. Hack your mind till it sink in. Works every damn time. |
Re: Can't Get Over My Ex. Please Advice Me by Worldbest281: 7:32am On May 23, 2022 |
Don’t go back to your ex,don’t even try it, stay with your current boyfriend and give it time you will get over your ex |
Re: Can't Get Over My Ex. Please Advice Me by chiboycue: 8:23am On May 23, 2022 |
Prettylitlady: Babe, Just make a conscious effort to forget and delete your ex from your memory. He is in your past and you should teach yourself to "live with the past" and to "live in the past". The past is history. Cultivate the habit of developing feeling for your new boyfriend because he is your future. The greatest mistake you would make to break up with your present boyfriend because of "crazy feelings" for ex that has tendencies and potentials to maltreat you right now. Your future is better than your past unless you want your past to mar your future. |
Re: Can't Get Over My Ex. Please Advice Me by Pharaoh4rin(m): 9:05am On May 23, 2022 |
MrBrownJay1: Perhaps, he doesn't want us to know that he uses zodiac to define the lady's situation |
Re: Can't Get Over My Ex. Please Advice Me by Connected1: 11:07am On May 23, 2022 |
No be every girl get sense. It's too bad you are one of them. |
Re: Can't Get Over My Ex. Please Advice Me by hardon1(m): 12:16pm On May 23, 2022 |
Bukola94: Are u having similar issue |
Re: Can't Get Over My Ex. Please Advice Me by Alvino1(m): 12:33pm On May 23, 2022 |
Prettylitlady: Good morning OP, hope you alright today? regarding your post, with your kind permission, I have some small contributions to make. firstly I need you to understand that it is absolutely okay, to still miss your ex the way you do... this is so because the feelings and memories you had with your ex are still very fresh (I know it has been almost 2 months already since u broke up)... you see feelings do not just die, time is the only thing that erases feelings and makes memories fade... what you are going through right now is simply because you didn't give yourself ample time to completely heal and do away with the feelings and memories you shared with your ex before going into another relationship... you can not get over an ex (you have dated for years, created and shared so much memories with, built your walls so high around him) by getting into another relationship with another man without taking adequate time to properly heal first... this type of things doesn't work with people who believes in love and the doctrine of sticking to a partner, it may work properly for some other type of persons... OP I will conclude by suggesting that you stay with your current bf (it's better than being with a man that hits you) and not be bordered about the way you currently feel... with time that feeling will go away... you also need to help yourself too, take a decision on what u want, stick to it and learn to train your thoughts to respect that decision regardless, and let time do the rest... good luck.... |
Re: Can't Get Over My Ex. Please Advice Me by obaaderemi: 12:39pm On May 23, 2022 |
Slynation:She won't listen. They don't listen. If that ex comes again, he'll still sleep with her. Even ten years after today. She already created a special place in her heart for the thug. That's the kind of man most of them want. She met a more responsible guy but her thoughts are still on the one that disrespects her to the point of dishing her occasional slaps. 3 Likes |
Re: Can't Get Over My Ex. Please Advice Me by MrBrownJay1(m): 2:34pm On May 23, 2022 |
Pharaoh4rin: the exact same way that... perhaps a person on a faceless forum do not want to give their personal informations to total strangers. 2 Likes |
Re: Can't Get Over My Ex. Please Advice Me by Lordedifice1: 2:39pm On May 23, 2022 |
He beats you He slaps you He cheats on you He's lazy He started smoking and drinking Do you think this guy has value for you the way you have value for him? Ask yourself this question Because I don't understand the reason why you should go back into a abusive, toxic and maltreatment relationship. You are not built for that. If he values you wouldn't have broken up. Kill that feelings for him and focus on your life if you can't love your present bf. |
Re: Can't Get Over My Ex. Please Advice Me by Lescort4real(m): 2:54pm On May 23, 2022 |
Prettylitlady: You don't,you will get the natural feeling when he comes,don't ever go back to your ex,his a time bomb awaiting explosion,God will help you 1 Like |
Re: Can't Get Over My Ex. Please Advice Me by luminouz(m): 3:33pm On May 23, 2022 |
MrBrownJay1: E don do. Must you argue all the time? What kinda redpiller is this sef *Walks off* |
Re: Can't Get Over My Ex. Please Advice Me by MrBrownJay1(m): 3:40pm On May 23, 2022 |
luminouz: shut up you E-fool... what argument are you talking about?! its called discussing an issue while having an opinion. if you dont like it then walk off and dont quote me, you ignoramus. |
Re: Can't Get Over My Ex. Please Advice Me by luminouz(m): 10:38pm On May 23, 2022 |
MrBrownJay1: I love your pain on this post. I pinched you to trigger to see how matured you are. The energy is delicious. It will warm my fowl eggs for a week. Bye nigga |
Re: Can't Get Over My Ex. Please Advice Me by MrBrownJay1(m): 11:01pm On May 23, 2022 |
luminouz: mature?! abeg, go masturbate on someone else's post. |
Re: Can't Get Over My Ex. Please Advice Me by Deepocean(m): 8:14am On May 24, 2022 |
Prettylitlady: Since he deflowered you, there's a tie/bond between the both of you causing the emotional bond. As it is well known that sex goes beyond the physical. It involves emotional connection, spiritual connection through the exchange of body fluid and blood If you are a Christian that attends a living church. Kindly go for a deliverance to break the emotional ties/bond. And if you are not a Christian you can do accordingly to what is takes in your religion to break the ties. From your own end as well, delete his contacts and any means of communication between the both of you. Free yourself intentionally from his thoughts that could be growing in yours mind and at the same time. Give yourself some times before having anything to do with the opposite gender in order to heal your soul, body and mind. 1 Like |
Re: Can't Get Over My Ex. Please Advice Me by Bukola94(m): 6:13pm On May 24, 2022 |
hardon1:lusting for my ex, we dated for good 6 years. But I have to let it go |
Re: Can't Get Over My Ex. Please Advice Me by hardon1(m): 9:07pm On May 24, 2022 |
Bukola94: If you love him so much... Why let him go |
Re: Can't Get Over My Ex. Please Advice Me by Bukola94(m): 12:12am On May 25, 2022 |
hardon1:hot temper, anger issue and only get angry easily with small things. But very caring, responsible, loving and an introvert and extrovert. So simple, intelligent and interesting to be with, God fearing and hardworking. The relationship just crash and I find it hard to let it go. |
Re: Can't Get Over My Ex. Please Advice Me by Emaprince: 12:38am On May 25, 2022 |
This OP seems like a good woman. Its rare to find them. But then, naturally women tend to be more attached to men that abuse and treat them harshly. This is why good men are perpetual loosers. The new boyfriend should man up and leave the relationship because if OPs ex decides to get in touch with her and succeeds, it's over. I have seen this scenario play out alot. Its usually a good guy catching a falling knife( broken woman) ...treat her well and heal her broken heart, only for the bad guy that shattered her to surface out of no where to snatch her away again. Good men are loosers. 1 Like |
Re: Can't Get Over My Ex. Please Advice Me by Prettylitlady: 12:58am On May 25, 2022 |
Wow!!! Never knew this got to front page. I just came online now and saw many mentions and comments. I will definitely read and go through it all. I appreciate y'all contributions honestly. Thank you |
Re: Can't Get Over My Ex. Please Advice Me by Prettylitlady: 8:21am On May 25, 2022 |
Cutehector: Lol, I didn't mention it to boast, like I said I give him sometimes not all the time, I didn't mention the amount or anything. Just added that part here so NL people won't think it is because of his money I was with him and then start insulting me.... I don't go out telling everybody that I gave him money, I am not like that |
Re: Can't Get Over My Ex. Please Advice Me by Prettylitlady: 8:25am On May 25, 2022 |
TheSociopath: Seen, thank you for your Contributions 1 Like |
Re: Can't Get Over My Ex. Please Advice Me by Prettylitlady: 9:01am On May 25, 2022 |
Bukola94: I am sorry but you are confusing me. Did you go back to your ex and married him and now regretting?? Is he the one you are currently married to and wish to divorce Or you get married to a new guy entirely and regretting it |
Re: Can't Get Over My Ex. Please Advice Me by Cutehector(m): 9:10am On May 25, 2022 |
Prettylitlady:but nobody asked you if you did give him money. You just needed worship and praise from strangers. Keep it to yourself |
Re: Can't Get Over My Ex. Please Advice Me by Prettylitlady: 9:17am On May 25, 2022 |
Cutehector: I already said why I mentioned it. If you can't read and comprehend then the gtfo please |
Re: Can't Get Over My Ex. Please Advice Me by Prettylitlady: 11:51am On May 25, 2022 |
Connected1:K |
Re: Can't Get Over My Ex. Please Advice Me by Fairview1(f): 11:58am On May 25, 2022 |
MrBrownJay1: Nigerians! |
Re: Can't Get Over My Ex. Please Advice Me by Fairview1(f): 11:58am On May 25, 2022 |
zexy2030: Savage!! |
Re: Can't Get Over My Ex. Please Advice Me by Fairview1(f): 12:01pm On May 25, 2022 |
Prettylitlady: Not really. I think it's something that has to do with astronomy. You know people's personality can sometimes be linked to their birth months. For instance, people who are born April are mostly known to be extroverts and has no time to worry themselves with little things like this. 1 Like |
Re: Can't Get Over My Ex. Please Advice Me by Bukola94(m): 12:03pm On May 25, 2022 |
Prettylitlady:got married to a new person but I can say I really regret it, but we don't have anything in common and misunderstanding as been happening in the marriage between father in law and mother in law. |
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