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Re: What Marriage Advice Would You Give Your Younger Self? by Kobojunkie: 12:16am On Jun 07, 2022 |
VULCAN:Are you at least able to prove the confusion is not strongest with you?. Again.... Kobojunkie: |
Re: What Marriage Advice Would You Give Your Younger Self? by Kobojunkie: 12:25am On Jun 07, 2022 |
Yusufisraelj:1. Proclaiming the Truth of God is a pivotal part of the rest Jesus Christ promised those who heed His call - Matthew 11 vs 28 - 30 2. Prove points? I ain't trying to prove any point. Simply giving people opportunity to learn the Truth from the lies they hold to. The Truth has been with man since the garden of Eden (the tree of knowledge of good and evil) but it remained a mystery to men until Jesus Christ came and revealed it. Jesus Christ said that it is only when you use the understanding that you have that more understanding will be given to you - Matthew 13 vs 12 & Mark 4 vs 22 - 24 - otherwise even the little understanding you had will be taken away from you - Matthew 25 vs 29.. You see, I don't use the understanding I have because I want to prove points nor do I seek validation from anyone. Instead I use it because by doing so I obey Jesus Christ's own commandment to me, with the promise that I will receive even more understanding from Him as I continue to. 1 Like |
Re: What Marriage Advice Would You Give Your Younger Self? by NuclearReactor: 12:37am On Jun 07, 2022 |
Ishilove:What is this lol |
Re: What Marriage Advice Would You Give Your Younger Self? by NuclearReactor: 12:54am On Jun 07, 2022 |
truthsayer009:lol, i was thrown into a wild fit of laughter reading this kai this nairaland na cruise 2 Likes |
Re: What Marriage Advice Would You Give Your Younger Self? by Judybash93(m): 2:59am On Jun 07, 2022 |
Durabest:You're truly experienced |
Re: What Marriage Advice Would You Give Your Younger Self? by Hunter12: 3:01am On Jun 07, 2022 |
A young married man with a wife and a son. I do tutorial and assignment for undergraduate students but I've being struggling financially since the beginning of this ASUU strike. I borrowed from loan app to pay another loan app and I'm in serious debt right now which is making me contemplating suicide. I am not begging for money but give me a rewarding job. I hold a master's degree in Microbiology. Willing to relocate from Kwara state |
Re: What Marriage Advice Would You Give Your Younger Self? by ikevictor: 3:45am On Jun 07, 2022 |
The signs you see are real... Its not your imagination, its your ancestors pre-informing you about the road ahead. 3 Likes |
Re: What Marriage Advice Would You Give Your Younger Self? by Chomsky1967(f): 5:18am On Jun 07, 2022 |
Mariangeles:Exactly my thoughts. Poor woman 3 Likes |
Re: What Marriage Advice Would You Give Your Younger Self? by folake4u(f): 5:21am On Jun 07, 2022 |
doggedfighter: The thing dey pain me oh. I say make I use this thread relax from small reading, fiammmmm!! Religious arguments upandan. Waste of attention. 2 Likes |
Re: What Marriage Advice Would You Give Your Younger Self? by Boobysmith: 6:02am On Jun 07, 2022 |
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Re: What Marriage Advice Would You Give Your Younger Self? by Jaculze(m): 6:04am On Jun 07, 2022 |
Hmmmm... I'm here to read comment and ... Let me power up my phone with this powerbank and read these comments
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Re: What Marriage Advice Would You Give Your Younger Self? by Boobysmith: 6:08am On Jun 07, 2022 |
Durabest:100 of those advice won't save you if you married a wrong partner 1 Like |
Re: What Marriage Advice Would You Give Your Younger Self? by Harrykn: 6:50am On Jun 07, 2022 |
SavageBoy:Shey nah psycho oyibo old women dem dey marry every Saturday for your area! You better start wife hunt now oh 1 Like |
Re: What Marriage Advice Would You Give Your Younger Self? by Yusufisraelj(m): 7:02am On Jun 07, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: you go like trouble pass fight, you just derailed this beautiful trend, with "truth" that's necessary but not needed here. 1 Like |
Re: What Marriage Advice Would You Give Your Younger Self? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 7:10am On Jun 07, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: Can you just stop already? |
Re: What Marriage Advice Would You Give Your Younger Self? by okoroemeka(m): 7:19am On Jun 07, 2022 |
UyaiIncomparabl:I am now married for 23 years now to my best friend and companion,with 4 children and twins as the last borns,three of my children are in the university with my second daughter warming up for nursing school,I don't think there is anything I can wish to change about my marriage,my wife is reasonable, realistic and sexy,despite all of my numerous monumental fuckups she is always there will give you advice and correct you whether you like it or not,many people find it hard to believe she is the mother of my pretty 21 yr old first daughter,if there will be a next life after death I will want nothing more but to be with you,thank God I took that radical decision in December 1999 when I was just 23 years because I have seen the gem in you and you have proven me right,I remove my hat and bow to all the women around the world that are the foundation of their families,the rock for their husbands to stand on and the love of their life's,we appreciate. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Marriage Advice Would You Give Your Younger Self? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 7:21am On Jun 07, 2022 |
camri: A bit. |
Re: What Marriage Advice Would You Give Your Younger Self? by Nobody: 7:40am On Jun 07, 2022 |
UyaiIncomparabl: Going by all the Jagbajantis she has been writing. Seun of Nairaland is suppose to give us a feature to block certain usernames from our post, especially those we know will derail it. Just like how the Diary section is restricted, we should be able to restrict certain users. Instagram, Twitter, Whatsapp all have this feature too, so I don't know why NL cannot have it. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Marriage Advice Would You Give Your Younger Self? by blingxx(m): 8:08am On Jun 07, 2022 |
SavageBoy: Don't go for girls you like go for girls that like you and have peace of mind .. all pvssy is the same 1 Like |
Re: What Marriage Advice Would You Give Your Younger Self? by Tzar(m): 8:38am On Jun 07, 2022 |
1. NEVER marry out of pity or because of pregnancy (Do a DNA test for the baby if in doubt- it cost just 90-120k, take proper care of the baby if its yours. 2. Marry a woman that has a mother with moral pedigree (your wife will become a copy of her mum 80% of the time). 3. Only marry a woman who earns and spends her own money (support her financially when the need arises). 4 Marry a God fearing woman and a woman who comes from a God fearing and decent family. 5. Perform fertilty and STD test on you & your partner. 6. Pray and follow the direction of God 100%. If there is even 1% doubt, BACK OFF! 7. NEVER rush into marriage! It NEVER ends well if you rush! 8. NEVER prove your LOVE for your partner with marriage! 9. Marry your friend not just your lover. There must be common areas of interest between both of you outside what lovers do. 10. You are not obliged to finanacially suport your baby mama, but the baby's well being is the obligation of both of you. 3 Likes |
Re: What Marriage Advice Would You Give Your Younger Self? by Nelsonobj: 8:55am On Jun 07, 2022 |
I have been married for some years now I discovered that marriage is another institution itself My beloved brothers and sisters pls don't go into marriage because your mates are married or your girlfriend is pulling you to do so , go into it because u are ready for it both mentally, physically and most expecialy financially, No woman will love you if you are a broke ass, Marriage is not bed of roses. |
Re: What Marriage Advice Would You Give Your Younger Self? by Nelsonobj: 9:03am On Jun 07, 2022 |
I have been married for some years now I discovered that marriage is another institution itself My beloved brothers and sisters pls don't go into marriage because your mates are married or your girlfriend is pulling you to do so or out of pitty, go into it because u are ready for it both mentally, physically and most expecialy financially, No woman will love you if you are a broke ass, Marriage is not bed of roses. 1. Marty a God fearing woman 2. Don't depend on your woman's income, even if she earns more than you do, keep giving her money to support her 3. Last last never allow your pocket empty, cos there must be a time u will need to take some bottles of beer when the house is on fire Married men will understand this perfectly 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: What Marriage Advice Would You Give Your Younger Self? by ezanafe(m): 9:43am On Jun 07, 2022 |
Angela62: Thank you! |
Re: What Marriage Advice Would You Give Your Younger Self? by Ajibade123(m): 9:55am On Jun 07, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:you are really confused for real |
Re: What Marriage Advice Would You Give Your Younger Self? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 10:00am On Jun 07, 2022 |
truthsayer009: Fully in support of this motion. It's so sad to see how this thread turned into a religious war of words. I hope Seun looks into this urgently because it's beginning to get annoying. |
Re: What Marriage Advice Would You Give Your Younger Self? by Donemmy(m): 12:53pm On Jun 07, 2022 |
Comrade I am your Senior in the ministry but i can confidently say, you have said it all. In addition, show love to both family possibly on equal ratio. Durabest: |
Re: What Marriage Advice Would You Give Your Younger Self? by Donemmy(m): 1:00pm On Jun 07, 2022 |
wow. you're a blessing to your Man. May you continue to reap the good foundation of your marriage IJN. Angela62: |
Re: What Marriage Advice Would You Give Your Younger Self? by frozen70(f): 1:21pm On Jun 07, 2022 |
UyaiIncomparabl: Marry your best friend Never hide anything from each other Always make sure you settle your difference immediately Lastly Be truthful never tell lies to your partner you will loose the trust they built for you 3 Likes |
Re: What Marriage Advice Would You Give Your Younger Self? by Kobojunkie: 1:33pm On Jun 07, 2022 |
Ajibade123:I think you should stop trying to pass your confusion off as mine. |
Re: What Marriage Advice Would You Give Your Younger Self? by Kobojunkie: 1:43pm On Jun 07, 2022 |
Yusufisraelj:I didn't derail the thread at all. It was those who chose to attack my response to the one poster that instead did that beginning on mainly the second page. If you were impartial you would see this yourself. The thread is on marriage advice you would give your younger self, right? Well, everything I have stated so far is what I would relay to my younger self if my younger self would listen ofcourse. So why attack me or accuse me for derailing this here thread? 1 Like |
Re: What Marriage Advice Would You Give Your Younger Self? by WhisperedNoise: 2:16pm On Jun 07, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: Hi Kobo, You know that your statement about Christianity was to twist general, well known facts. Using your intelligence as a means to strike up arguments can be funny sometimes. I'm not talking about whether your assertion is right or wrong. I'm talking about how you twist certain bible scriptures. |
Re: What Marriage Advice Would You Give Your Younger Self? by Kobojunkie: 2:17pm On Jun 07, 2022 |
WhisperedNoise:Explain what you mean by twist? What general well known facts were twisted and how? That is what Jesus Christ Himself, the Christ in the word Christian told you over 2000 years ago when He said your marriage is of this world(unholy) and not of the Kingdom of God(Christian). Is this fact here unwelcomed? |
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