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How Can I Salvage This Situation ? by babaYIBO: 9:23pm On Jun 08, 2022 |
I have these girl I’ve been dating for about 4 months now. We are so into eachother and I feel she’s starting to fall in love with me. Since we have been dating, we mostly hangout, and whenever we hangout as such, we get to kiss a lot and romance ourselves. But she was not ready for sex until i notice that she’s starting to crave for one from me. So for the first time, she’s asking that she comes to my house. here’s where the problem lies: I don’t know the kind of perception she has about me, but I’m sure she rates me a lot and probably thinks I’m from a rich home kind of, maybe due to how I furnished my room and the pictures of my room that’s she’s used to seeing. Whereas, I’m in my parent house and she knows this. And I have some of my siblings around, especially my older sisters. This girl’s such a young girl and she’s one hell of a shy girl. She’s made it clear countless times that she’s not ready to meet my sister and my mum for now. And although my mum is not around, my sisters are always around. She’s already planing to come tomorrow and I don’t wanna tell her my sisters would be around so to not scare her off. And if I do the other way round, and she comes in contact with them, I feel that will even piss get off the most. What can I do? |
Re: How Can I Salvage This Situation ? by mmadu4: 9:24pm On Jun 08, 2022 |
Why are you dating a small girl ![]() |
Re: How Can I Salvage This Situation ? by Nobody: 9:24pm On Jun 08, 2022 |
A hotel? You can afford that, right? ![]() And use a condom cher... 3 Likes |
Re: How Can I Salvage This Situation ? by Nobody: 9:25pm On Jun 08, 2022 |
mmadu4:I'm a small girl... Most of us are after love... ![]() A fairytale romance... The op's girl is a comrade... ![]() |
Re: How Can I Salvage This Situation ? by babaYIBO: 9:26pm On Jun 08, 2022 |
mmadu4: Yeah she’s small though, but I’ve been able to not flash material things too much to her face. So far, I’ve not invested more than I can afford to lose on her 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Salvage This Situation ? by mmadu4: 9:27pm On Jun 08, 2022 |
babaYIBO: Date mature gurl leave small girls alone they have ally of growing up to do . I once date small girls and I can tell you it's mentally and emotionally draining . 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Salvage This Situation ? by babaYIBO: 9:27pm On Jun 08, 2022 |
Datboredberri: Yeah, I’ve tried that option, but she feels I don’t regard her well and that’s why I want to take her to hotel. Besides, she’d always complain hotel money is unnecessary too much. |
Re: How Can I Salvage This Situation ? by babaYIBO: 9:28pm On Jun 08, 2022 |
mmadu4: She’d be turning 22 in few months. 22 is small too? |
Re: How Can I Salvage This Situation ? by babaYIBO: 9:29pm On Jun 08, 2022 |
Datboredberri: I no even understand you ![]() |
Re: How Can I Salvage This Situation ? by kodded(m): 9:30pm On Jun 08, 2022 |
babaYIBO:Shine her congo and walk away She is not your girlfriend, it's just your turn, enjoy it while it last ![]() ![]() ![]() 1 Like
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Re: How Can I Salvage This Situation ? by BigRocky: 9:30pm On Jun 08, 2022 |
To her to ur friends place na ![]() |
Re: How Can I Salvage This Situation ? by babaYIBO: 9:31pm On Jun 08, 2022 |
kodded: This girls so into me and she’d beg me most of the time not to break her heart ![]() |
Re: How Can I Salvage This Situation ? by Nobody: 9:31pm On Jun 08, 2022 |
babaYIBO:Aww... I love her already! You're still gonna break her heart... ![]() Well... I'm glad you're a decent young man... You considered her feelings... Commendable! Could you get your sister away? For the day? |
Re: How Can I Salvage This Situation ? by babaYIBO: 9:33pm On Jun 08, 2022 |
Re: How Can I Salvage This Situation ? by kodded(m): 9:34pm On Jun 08, 2022 |
babaYIBO:that is how they behave when they see a new toy. I tell you that love will fade away once another new toy comes around ![]() ![]() ![]()
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Re: How Can I Salvage This Situation ? by babaYIBO: 9:35pm On Jun 08, 2022 |
Datboredberri: They have their 2 shops attached to our house. There’s almost no way to get them away. Besides, my brother’s wife stay in the house with her husband too ![]() ![]() |
Re: How Can I Salvage This Situation ? by babaYIBO: 9:36pm On Jun 08, 2022 |
kodded: I’ve never been her toy. Lol |
Re: How Can I Salvage This Situation ? by mmadu4: 9:38pm On Jun 08, 2022 |
babaYIBO: Date women from 27 going . 22 is still growing 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Salvage This Situation ? by kodded(m): 9:39pm On Jun 08, 2022 |
babaYIBO:it's a metaphor ![]() |
Re: How Can I Salvage This Situation ? by Nobody: 9:40pm On Jun 08, 2022 |
babaYIBO:Don't mind that one... He ain't ever seen the light... babaYIBO:Hmm... Drug them? Put sleeping pills in their meals... Then smuggle your girl in... |
Re: How Can I Salvage This Situation ? by babaYIBO: 9:42pm On Jun 08, 2022 |
mmadu4: I truly think about this, but I’m just trying to not discuss that with her because I have a feeling it’ll break her heart. She’s kind of into me more than I’m into her. Do you think I should free her? |
Re: How Can I Salvage This Situation ? by babaYIBO: 9:43pm On Jun 08, 2022 |
Datboredberri: My older sisters. Not younger ones oh ![]() ![]() |
Re: How Can I Salvage This Situation ? by mmadu4: 9:45pm On Jun 08, 2022 |
babaYIBO: From the looks of things you have made up your mind to love her .No amount of advice can change that so carry on . No be person go tell you later on 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Salvage This Situation ? by Nobody: 9:46pm On Jun 08, 2022 |
Re: How Can I Salvage This Situation ? by babaYIBO: 9:47pm On Jun 08, 2022 |
mmadu4: Wo thank you jare. I understand you very well. It’s part of why I started to withdraw my emotion for her. But she’s been clinging a lot lately. |
Re: How Can I Salvage This Situation ? by Nobody: 9:49pm On Jun 08, 2022 |
mmadu4:Why can't he love her? Most of you guys here are toxic af! And it's obnoxious... Wailing online 247... Fu**! Relationships end! Deal with it! Do you think the op wants to get married anytime soon? Or spend the rest of his life with his girl? So it's gonna end one day... That shouldn't scare you from falling inlove... Don't be a coward... 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Salvage This Situation ? by Cypress042: 9:51pm On Jun 08, 2022 |
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Re: How Can I Salvage This Situation ? by Nobody: 9:51pm On Jun 08, 2022 |
babaYIBO:And just like that, he's manipulated you into denying your feelings for her... Smh... ![]() No good men anymore... ![]() 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Salvage This Situation ? by babaYIBO: 9:55pm On Jun 08, 2022 |
Datboredberri: I want to get married pretty soon actually. |
Re: How Can I Salvage This Situation ? by Stallionhorse: 9:56pm On Jun 08, 2022 |
You and your gf are stupid.. Unah dey whine me ![]() |
Re: How Can I Salvage This Situation ? by babaYIBO: 9:58pm On Jun 08, 2022 |
Datboredberri: I’m a good man. And I’m a ladies man. Girls frolick around wherever I find myself, but the respect and love I have for this girl, I’ve never had it for other. But I feel danger looming like mmadu4 said. She once joked she’s not wanting to get married in the next 4 years. And I’m definitely not gon wait till then. |
Re: How Can I Salvage This Situation ? by Nobody: 9:59pm On Jun 08, 2022 |
babaYIBO:Of course you do... You're still living with your parents... ![]() |
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