I have these girl I’ve been dating for about 4 months now. We are so into eachother and I feel she’s starting to fall in love with me. Since we have been dating, we mostly hangout, and whenever we hangout as such, we get to kiss a lot and romance ourselves. But she was not ready for sex until i notice that she’s starting to crave for one from me.

So for the first time, she’s asking that she comes to my house.

here’s where the problem lies:


I don’t know the kind of perception she has about me, but I’m sure she rates me a lot and probably thinks I’m from a rich home kind of, maybe due to how I furnished my room and the pictures of my room that’s she’s used to seeing. Whereas, I’m in my parent house and she knows this. And I have some of my siblings around, especially my older sisters. This girl’s such a young girl and she’s one hell of a shy girl. She’s made it clear countless times that she’s not ready to meet my sister and my mum for now. And although my mum is not around, my sisters are always around.

She’s already planing to come tomorrow and I don’t wanna tell her my sisters would be around so to not scare her off.

And if I do the other way round, and she comes in contact with them, I feel that will even piss get off the most.

What can I do?

Why are you dating a small girl They are mainly after material things

A hotel? You can afford that, right?

And use a condom cher...

mmadu4:
Why are you dating a small girl They are mainly after material things

I'm a small girl... Most of us are after love...

A fairytale romance...

The op's girl is a comrade...

mmadu4:
Why are you dating a small girl They are mainly after material things

Yeah she’s small though, but I’ve been able to not flash material things too much to her face. So far, I’ve not invested more than I can afford to lose on her

babaYIBO:


Yeah she’s small though, but I’ve been able to not flash material things too much to her face. So far, I’ve not invested more than I can afford to lose on her

Date mature gurl leave small girls alone they have ally of growing up to do . I once date small girls and I can tell you it's mentally and emotionally draining .

Datboredberri:
A hotel? You can afford that, right?

And use a condom cher...

Yeah, I’ve tried that option, but she feels I don’t regard her well and that’s why I want to take her to hotel. Besides, she’d always complain hotel money is unnecessary too much.

mmadu4:


Date mature gurl leave small girls alone they have ally of growing up to do . I once date small girls and I can tell you it's mentally and emotionally draining .

She’d be turning 22 in few months. 22 is small too?

Datboredberri:
I'm a small girl... Most of us are after love...

A fairytale romance...

The op's girl is a comrade...

I no even understand you

babaYIBO:
I have these girl I’ve been dating for about 4 months now. We are so into eachother and I feel she’s starting to fall in love with me. Since we have been dating, we mostly hangout, and whenever we hangout as such, we get to kiss a lot and romance ourselves. But she was not ready for sex until i notice that she’s starting to crave for one from me.

So for the first time, she’s asking that she comes to my house.

here’s where the problem lies:


I don’t know the kind of perception she has about me, but I’m sure she rates me a lot and probably thinks I’m from a rich home kind of, maybe due to how I furnished my room and the pictures of my room that’s she’s used to seeing. Whereas, I’m in my parent house and she knows this. And I have some of my siblings around, especially my older sisters. This girl’s such a young girl and she’s one hell of a shy girl. She’s made it clear countless times that she’s not ready to meet my sister and my mum for now. And although my mum is not around, my sisters are always around.

She’s already planing to come tomorrow and I don’t wanna tell her my sisters would be around so to not scare her off.

And if I do the other way round, and she comes in contact with them, I feel that will even piss get off the most.

What can I do?

Shine her congo and walk away


She is not your girlfriend, it's just your turn, enjoy it while it last

To her to ur friends place na

kodded:

Shine her congo and walk away


She is not your girlfriend, it's just your turn, enjoy it while it last

This girls so into me and she’d beg me most of the time not to break her heart

babaYIBO:


Yeah, I’ve tried that option, but she feels I don’t regard her well and that’s why I want to take her to hotel. Besides, she’d always complain hotel money is unnecessary too much.

Aww... I love her already! You're still gonna break her heart...

Well... I'm glad you're a decent young man... You considered her feelings... Commendable!

Could you get your sister away? For the day?

BigRocky:
To her to ur friends place na

I no come get FriendS around

babaYIBO:


This girls so into me and she’d beg me most of the time not to break her heart

that is how they behave when they see a new toy.


I tell you that love will fade away once another new toy comes around

Datboredberri:
Aww... I love her already! You're still gonna break her heart...

Well... I'm glad you're a decent young man... You considered her feelings... Commendable!

Could you get your sister away? For the day?

They have their 2 shops attached to our house. There’s almost no way to get them away. Besides, my brother’s wife stay in the house with her husband too

kodded:
that is how they behave when they see a new toy.


I tell you that love will fade away once another new toy comes around

I’ve never been her toy. Lol

babaYIBO:


She’d be turning 22 in few months. 22 is small too?

Date women from 27 going . 22 is still growing

babaYIBO:


I’ve never been her toy. Lol

it's a metaphor

babaYIBO:


I’ve never been her toy. Lol

Don't mind that one... He ain't ever seen the light...

babaYIBO:


They have their 2 shops attached to our house. There’s almost no way to get them away. Besides, my brother’s wife stay in the house with her husband too

Hmm... Drug them?

Put sleeping pills in their meals... Then smuggle your girl in...

mmadu4:


Date women from 27 going . 22 is still growing

I truly think about this, but I’m just trying to not discuss that with her because I have a feeling it’ll break her heart. She’s kind of into me more than I’m into her.

Do you think I should free her?

Datboredberri:
Don't mind that one... He ain't ever seen the light...

Hmm... Drug them?

Put sleeping pills in their meals... Then smuggle your girl in...

My older sisters. Not younger ones oh

babaYIBO:


I truly think about this, but I’m just trying to not discuss that with her because I have a feeling it’ll break her heart. She’s kind of into me more than I’m into her.

Do you think I should free her?

From the looks of things you have made up your mind to love her .No amount of advice can change that so carry on . No be person go tell you later on

babaYIBO:


My older sisters. Not younger ones oh

So you do that... The younger ones you can bribe...

mmadu4:


From the looks of things you have made up your mind to love her .No amount of advice can change that so carry on . No be person go tell you later on

Wo thank you jare. I understand you very well.

It’s part of why I started to withdraw my emotion for her. But she’s been clinging a lot lately.

mmadu4:


From the looks of things you have made up your mind to love her .No amount of advice can change that so carry on . No be person go tell you later on

Why can't he love her?

Most of you guys here are toxic af! And it's obnoxious... Wailing online 247... Fu**!

Relationships end! Deal with it! Do you think the op wants to get married anytime soon? Or spend the rest of his life with his girl?

So it's gonna end one day... That shouldn't scare you from falling inlove... Don't be a coward...

babaYIBO:


Wo thank you jare. I understand you very well.

It’s part of why I started to withdraw my emotion for her. But she’s been clinging a lot lately.

And just like that, he's manipulated you into denying your feelings for her... Smh...

No good men anymore...

Datboredberri:
Why can't he love her?

Most of you guys here are toxic af! And it's obnoxious... Wailing online 247... Fu**!

Relationships end! Deal with it! Do you think the op wants to get married anytime soon? Or spend the rest of his life with his girl?

So it's gonna end one day... That shouldn't scare you from falling inlove... Don't be a coward...

I want to get married pretty soon actually.

You and your gf are stupid.. Unah dey whine me On top my data... Use Tiwa to savage the situation ode

Datboredberri:
And just like that, he's manipulated you into denying your feelings for her... Smh...

No good men anymore...

I’m a good man. And I’m a ladies man. Girls frolick around wherever I find myself, but the respect and love I have for this girl, I’ve never had it for other. But I feel danger looming like mmadu4 said. She once joked she’s not wanting to get married in the next 4 years.

And I’m definitely not gon wait till then.

babaYIBO:


I want to get married pretty soon actually.

Of course you do... You're still living with your parents...