doggedfighter:


Yes oo

Spoil your baby girl with money

Romanoff:
Is she not already fornicating for survival? Abi you're not sleeping with her ni?

If you want to help that girl, help her learn a trade.

Teach her how to fish. If after that, you choose to end whatever is between two of you, at least, you'd have added value to her.

Rickmann:


I feel ur pain bro and trust me ,I know what it means to be in love...the bottom line here is what you feel for her and I see it's mutual..i think she needs to get a job no matter how small at least, to at least take some pressure of you.

You don't have to break up with her as that will be unfair but she has to come to terms with reality by also assisting in the relationship besides no guy wants to end up with a girl who isn't doing anything.

OMOJOHN001:
I have been Dating this babe for the past three years and it has not been so easy funding the relationship and other expenses, but God do come through and I still do achieve lots each year.

But this year have been so worse on her own part, because as for me my income still comes on a steady but I felt I need more money to do lots of things at the moment.

Since January this year, I have be the one Financing this babe, To an extent that each week I will ask her to go withdraw money and prepare what she will eat throughout that week, But to my surprise her family will join her in consuming the dish before mid week, atimes Wednesday, a times Thursday, and She will start crying again of not having anything to eat, They do not have anything in the house, No gas, no oil, no garri and all sort of Nonsense...

Her family is just to broke, She has a single mother, though her dad is dead. RIP to him,he was responsible while on earth.

She has been loyal, good and supportive to me the best way she can, I don't even have sex with her on regular bases, Reason is that I am on a course in UniIlorin presently and she stays in Ile-Ife so the distance is another issue, but we still see at least whenever we feel like.

Guy's, I am planning of getting a car this year and start a new life in another state, all my effort have been stagnant a bit because of this babe, She does not just have #5 on her own, She's not working because there is no work in ile ife that can fetch her above 12k, unless she wan add olosho to it though and the only work there is Filling station attendant and Hotel work couple with part time olosho.

Ordinary weaving of hair, I will carry it, Every Penney she has spent this year is my money,

Her mom too, lacks maturity. Imagine her having the gut's to demand me for meney as in-law few weeks ago that she's sick, though I sent her little cash sha, but I decided that same day will be the last day she will hear from me, as I have a plan that very day to break up with her daughter this month and I have choosing today.

Guy's I love this babe and I really want the best for her, For the past three years most of her friends have try to convince her that I will break up her heart and Jilt her, But she was adamant and keep believing I will not, seriously I didn't have such thought in my plans for her.

But with her level of reachedness and Level of needs and Demand and I deserve better, I am moving on with my life, My pastor said something in church today as per fathers day... HE SAID PRAY NOT TO MARRY INTO A FAMILY WHEREBY YOU WILL START FIGHTING ANOTHER SPIRITUAL BATTLE OF POVERTY AND BROKENESS. .

I felt so down, cuz the prayer is the definition of my babe's Family. local man is tired, But the only fear and my concern is (How she will be mocked and laugh at among her mates that told her this prophecy before, This babe so much love me and she will cry hell today,).

I am feeling guilty, How will she cope without having an helper, No Father and Mom is useless. She will have no choice than to start fucking dicks up and down to survive, that's certain, and she knows it.

PLEASE HOW CAN I STOP FEELING GUILTY, because she's really put all her hope in me and my plan us to help her with a shop once I am through with my course,but Omo the billing no be here oooo, I will still send her money today to prepare this week food and her family will devour everything again before Wednesday.

What's the best way to approach this issue. Help a brother.

immortalcrown:
If humans are God...

But why do people start what they cannot finish? Why not support her to the end since you have already made her to be so dependent on you?

When you were desperate to have sex with her, you did not consider her type of family. Now that you have satisfied your lost to an extent, you have suddenly begun to relate your pastor's words to her family. Would you have listened to your pastor if you have not removed her pant? If not that you have sexed her many times, wouldn't you have seen the mother's demand as a sign of getting what you want?

Your case would have been different if she hid her family condition from you and you just made a new discovery. But in this your case, you knew the situation before you went far with her.

I will not talk about her and her mother here because she is not the one who created this post and she may not even come across this post. So, no need to talk about her here.

satandeterrible:
The most stupid comment if today goes to this guy.
Dirty, disgusting simp.

OMOJOHN001:
I have been Dating this babe for the past three years and it has not been so easy funding the relationship and other expenses, but God do come through and I still do achieve lots each year.

But this year have been so worse on her own part, because as for me my income still comes on a steady but I felt I need more money to do lots of things at the moment.

Since January this year, I have be the one Financing this babe, To an extent that each week I will ask her to go withdraw money and prepare what she will eat throughout that week, But to my surprise her family will join her in consuming the dish before mid week, atimes Wednesday, a times Thursday, and She will start crying again of not having anything to eat, They do not have anything in the house, No gas, no oil, no garri and all sort of Nonsense...

Her family is just to broke, She has a single mother, though her dad is dead. RIP to him,he was responsible while on earth.

She has been loyal, good and supportive to me the best way she can, I don't even have sex with her on regular bases, Reason is that I am on a course in UniIlorin presently and she stays in Ile-Ife so the distance is another issue, but we still see at least whenever we feel like.

Guy's, I am planning of getting a car this year and start a new life in another state, all my effort have been stagnant a bit because of this babe, She does not just have #5 on her own, She's not working because there is no work in ile ife that can fetch her above 12k, unless she wan add olosho to it though and the only work there is Filling station attendant and Hotel work couple with part time olosho.

Ordinary weaving of hair, I will carry it, Every Penney she has spent this year is my money,

Her mom too, lacks maturity. Imagine her having the gut's to demand me for meney as in-law few weeks ago that she's sick, though I sent her little cash sha, but I decided that same day will be the last day she will hear from me, as I have a plan that very day to break up with her daughter this month and I have choosing today.

Guy's I love this babe and I really want the best for her, For the past three years most of her friends have try to convince her that I will break up her heart and Jilt her, But she was adamant and keep believing I will not, seriously I didn't have such thought in my plans for her.

But with her level of reachedness and Level of needs and Demand and I deserve better, I am moving on with my life, My pastor said something in church today as per fathers day... HE SAID PRAY NOT TO MARRY INTO A FAMILY WHEREBY YOU WILL START FIGHTING ANOTHER SPIRITUAL BATTLE OF POVERTY AND BROKENESS. .

I felt so down, cuz the prayer is the definition of my babe's Family. local man is tired, But the only fear and my concern is (How she will be mocked and laugh at among her mates that told her this prophecy before, This babe so much love me and she will cry hell today,).

I am feeling guilty, How will she cope without having an helper, No Father and Mom is useless. She will have no choice than to start fucking dicks up and down to survive, that's certain, and she knows it.

PLEASE HOW CAN I STOP FEELING GUILTY, because she's really put all her hope in me and my plan us to help her with a shop once I am through with my course,but Omo the billing no be here oooo, I will still send her money today to prepare this week food and her family will devour everything again before Wednesday.

What's the best way to approach this issue. Help a brother.

OMOJOHN001:
I have been Dating this babe for the past three years and it has not been so easy funding the relationship and other expenses, but God do come through and I still do achieve lots each year.

But this year have been so worse on her own part, because as for me my income still comes on a steady but I felt I need more money to do lots of things at the moment.

Since January this year, I have be the one Financing this babe, To an extent that each week I will ask her to go withdraw money and prepare what she will eat throughout that week, But to my surprise her family will join her in consuming the dish before mid week, atimes Wednesday, a times Thursday, and She will start crying again of not having anything to eat, They do not have anything in the house, No gas, no oil, no garri and all sort of Nonsense...

Her family is just to broke, She has a single mother, though her dad is dead. RIP to him,he was responsible while on earth.

She has been loyal, good and supportive to me the best way she can, I don't even have sex with her on regular bases, Reason is that I am on a course in UniIlorin presently and she stays in Ile-Ife so the distance is another issue, but we still see at least whenever we feel like.

Guy's, I am planning of getting a car this year and start a new life in another state, all my effort have been stagnant a bit because of this babe, She does not just have #5 on her own, She's not working because there is no work in ile ife that can fetch her above 12k, unless she wan add olosho to it though and the only work there is Filling station attendant and Hotel work couple with part time olosho.

Ordinary weaving of hair, I will carry it, Every Penney she has spent this year is my money,

Her mom too, lacks maturity. Imagine her having the gut's to demand me for meney as in-law few weeks ago that she's sick, though I sent her little cash sha, but I decided that same day will be the last day she will hear from me, as I have a plan that very day to break up with her daughter this month and I have choosing today.

Guy's I love this babe and I really want the best for her, For the past three years most of her friends have try to convince her that I will break up her heart and Jilt her, But she was adamant and keep believing I will not, seriously I didn't have such thought in my plans for her.

But with her level of reachedness and Level of needs and Demand and I deserve better, I am moving on with my life, My pastor said something in church today as per fathers day... HE SAID PRAY NOT TO MARRY INTO A FAMILY WHEREBY YOU WILL START FIGHTING ANOTHER SPIRITUAL BATTLE OF POVERTY AND BROKENESS. .

I felt so down, cuz the prayer is the definition of my babe's Family. local man is tired, But the only fear and my concern is (How she will be mocked and laugh at among her mates that told her this prophecy before, This babe so much love me and she will cry hell today,).

I am feeling guilty, How will she cope without having an helper, No Father and Mom is useless. She will have no choice than to start fucking dicks up and down to survive, that's certain, and she knows it.

PLEASE HOW CAN I STOP FEELING GUILTY, because she's really put all her hope in me and my plan us to help her with a shop once I am through with my course,but Omo the billing no be here oooo, I will still send her money today to prepare this week food and her family will devour everything again before Wednesday.

What's the best way to approach this issue. Help a brother.

immortalcrown:
But you are the most stupid person until you prove he did not know her family situation before going far with her.

Samuel807:
You've started running the race long before now, why not bring the lady to stay with you, start a business for her and after few months watch how things turns out, and then do the needful by making her your wife, trust me, God might be blessing you because you have been a helper to her. Don't be surprise things may not work well if you see her as a burden and let go of her at the time of needs. Make better plans for both of you.

OMOJOHN001:
Bro I actually didn't know she came from such family. And again I didn't see these money big deal before. Not until I started chasing Big achievement. I have decided, I will break up with her. Thanks for your contribution.

MediMedi:
Leaving her is not the best action, there have seen you as God sent Bros why not allow her to be a fuel attendant or the hotel work.
You can examine her from there.
#Peace.

immortalcrown:
You did not explain it in your post. Second, why would you go as far as starting sex with her without making proper investigation about her family?

immortalcrown:
You did not explain it in your post. Second, why would you go as far as starting sex with her without making proper investigation about her family?

OMOJOHN001:



This is the angle I do see it from all this while, And again I can't let her stay with me I am studying a course and needed no distraction to study and come out with good grade.

I am not ready for marriage yet, maybe two years more I will, But for now I needed to achieve all my plans, I am the type that travel a lot too.

OMOJOHN001:


I fu*cked Up big time, Now I am regretting it.

I just need solution, I already called her few minutes ago to inform her I want to have a discussion with her.
She quickly respond: Hope I didn't offend you, please if I do tell me I will apologize and not do it again.
She's trembling by mere hearing me telling her, I want to have a discussion with her.

Gosh, I am feeling guilty, I am about to rewrite her story towards men and let her face the world all alone again.

tidalstorm:

i bet that girl has cheated on him before.
Here you are talking about sex like it's the only thing she can offer. Him money nko?

satandeterrible:


Guy I'm bewildered that you're trying to consider very terrible, horrible advice by some people here.

Bro, take it or leave it, that girl will do you no good in the long run.
Don't stunt your growth for someone any woman.

I am yielding to your advice bro, Thanks so much. Enough of her time, I am really grateful for your sincere words.

You don't have standards or what? There are thousands of girls that are well-behaved, God fearing and will stay loyal at the same time having something doing for themselves.

Resist the spirit of oneitis.

immortalcrown:
Stop trying to twist things unnecessarily. It is not about what she can offer him. It is about the only thing he wanted and cared for at the beginning of the relationship, which she offered.

OMOJOHN001:
You think I lack ladies attention right? Or I that stays around campus didn't have girls to knack that I have to settle for a jobless girl.

Mind you, I didn't include those stuffs you mentioned to avoid appearing like someone with pride.

The first year I met her, I enrolled her and my Jnr sis for Neco, still payed few teachers to help her, and She passed, now my sis has gained admission ,She didn't further yet cuz no money and I can't sponsor her.

2020, I enrol her into tailoring she spent a year and half, and got a Sweeing machine, All on my money, I did all that while doing same for my sisters.

I just don't want to open shop for her, and can't sponsor her school. Not until I realize she's even from a worse family.

And You said Sex, something I can have more than 10different girls in a day.

tidalstorm:

Na him the guy do three years with her with unnecessary billing.
Why didn't he dump her when they first had sex then and move to another girl? Or the girl sef no enjoy am?

Stop trying to manipulate the guy by using his emotions.

immortalcrown:
No man that does not get his want from a girl will stay 3 years with her and spend so much on her. He got what he prioritized.

tidalstorm:
Then he should break up with her. The overated kitten is not worth the billings.
Make the guy chase him ambitions. I state again, the girl must have cheated on him at least once.

immortalcrown:
Cheating on him is not part of the topic. Focus on the topic. The guy should admit he did not look beyond sexual pleasure at the beginning of the relationship. It is now that he wants what he ignored before.