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I Just Found Out My Genotype is AS / Genotype: The Reason For My Unhappy Marriage. / My Genotype Is AS And My Fiancee Is AS; What Do I Do? (2) (3) (4)
Genotype Is About To Break My Relationship, Please Help by Jasiman: 6:27am On Jun 23, 2022 |
Good morning Nairalanders, please I need urgent help. My relationship is on the verge of break up due to genotype issue and I sincerely need your advice. I will appreciate if medical experts on this field and those with experience can help out and Share their experience. I love this lady so much and she's everything any man can pray for except for the genotype. She equally love me so much as well. On her part, she has booked consultation with doctors and all they keep telling her isn't good at all. No hope at all. On my part, I have this strong believe that we will give birth to health kids since we are not planning on having much. Maximum of three. I have also done some researches and also heard about "bridgeclinic". I don't know if it will work and the success rate. Please, is there any hope at all or not. I really appreciate your advice as I anticipate them. Thank you Please ��� mod. Modified: we both have AS genotype |
Re: Genotype Is About To Break My Relationship, Please Help by FERNANDEZISBACK: 6:29am On Jun 23, 2022 |
What are you going on about? If there is a problem with potentially passing on an illness to a child that is a different issue...If you love the woman you can arrange children if you want them..adopt..foster..modern technology so a healthy pregnancy is implanted... Or better still marry somebody else..or marry her but just don’t have children..assuming that by genotype issues you mean concerns over genetic incompatibility or the risk of passing on a genetic disease to your children.. Understood? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Genotype Is About To Break My Relationship, Please Help by princeraymi: 6:30am On Jun 23, 2022 |
A broken relationship is better than you burying your kids. 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Genotype Is About To Break My Relationship, Please Help by chatinent: 6:33am On Jun 23, 2022 |
On my part, I have this strong believe that we will give birth to health kids since we are not planning on having much Your strong belief really has no relevance with medical science. AS and AS aren't compatible and that's it. Many parents who neglected that advice are in pains today. I understand you are in love...but you should know that the first questions into a relationship should be genotype and blood groupings. 3 Likes |
Re: Genotype Is About To Break My Relationship, Please Help by mymadam(m): 6:34am On Jun 23, 2022 |
Guess both of you are AS, right? 1 Like |
Re: Genotype Is About To Break My Relationship, Please Help by Jasiman: 6:35am On Jun 23, 2022 |
mymadam:Yeah |
Re: Genotype Is About To Break My Relationship, Please Help by Jasiman: 6:36am On Jun 23, 2022 |
FERNANDEZISBACK:I have tried speaking to her on modern technology but she's still uncertain about it |
Re: Genotype Is About To Break My Relationship, Please Help by mymadam(m): 6:39am On Jun 23, 2022 |
Jasiman: Best advice is for you to end the relationship right away. It's a bitter pill to swallow, but you need to avoid giving birth to SS children... which is a very high probability. That is just the way it is ![]() #my2kobo 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Genotype Is About To Break My Relationship, Please Help by FERNANDEZISBACK: 6:39am On Jun 23, 2022 |
Jasiman:Then there is nothing you can do about it..Genotype issue is a major incompatibility issue when it comes to marriage.. Unless you are ready to face the music..if you do which can be pyschologically..mentally and emotionally draining... |
Re: Genotype Is About To Break My Relationship, Please Help by xedyl(m): 6:44am On Jun 23, 2022 |
Mr lover lover , only God is irreplaceable. Get yourself AA girl. 3 Likes |
Re: Genotype Is About To Break My Relationship, Please Help by Eazie351(m): 7:19am On Jun 23, 2022 |
5 children, 1st, 2nd and 3rd born died (they were all SS), my Gf is the last child n she's AS. if them sef talk say them no wan born much say na 3 pikin dem want, naso them for just turn barren overnight. Stop making stupid calculations and kill the relationship before they start dropping advice for you say you fit maneuver am. Love no go conquer this one if una wan born o 3 Likes |
Re: Genotype Is About To Break My Relationship, Please Help by robinso01(m): 7:19am On Jun 23, 2022 |
Don't come and be asking for advise and financial support here when you gives birth to a sickle cell that is frustrating ur lives here,because i don't understand what else you need to know,when medically you have been advised against marrying each others. If you don't pity yourself, at least pity your kids, think about the pain they will be passing through if anyone of them is to be ss. Don't make decisions that will make your children to be cursing or that you might later regret in life. 3 Likes |
Re: Genotype Is About To Break My Relationship, Please Help by afrochics: 7:35am On Jun 23, 2022 |
If you're rich, there's hope. IVF is an option, as a test can conducted on the fertilized embryos and only healthy embryos will be implanted. If you can't afford it, then don't risk it. 2 Likes |
Re: Genotype Is About To Break My Relationship, Please Help by Doubleoh7: 8:05am On Jun 23, 2022 |
If you came here looking for validation and support in order for you to continue with this your relationship, just know it won't come from me nor will it come from most people here. In your own best interest, call it quits with the lady now and go build a new relationship elsewhere. But if you insist on going ahead, trusting your weird calculator of not planning to birth plenty kids and maybe banking on your strength to wither the storm, I can assure you one thing, no matter how wealthy or strong you are, managing even one sickler as a child will break every single bit of u and guess what, statistically, most of them still die before their early 30s. Your choice 1 Like |
Re: Genotype Is About To Break My Relationship, Please Help by emmanuelbrown26: 9:04am On Jun 23, 2022 |
Na express u dey enter like dis ohhhhhh. Love dun dey shark now, when d coco go happen na u go still cum here with disturbance. As and As no get business getting married. 1 Like |
Re: Genotype Is About To Break My Relationship, Please Help by Ximenez(m): 9:32am On Jun 23, 2022 |
Better heed to medical counsel. Moreover, you can love someone without marrying or being in a romantic relationship with her. 1 Like |
Re: Genotype Is About To Break My Relationship, Please Help by Nobody: 9:36am On Jun 23, 2022 |
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Re: Genotype Is About To Break My Relationship, Please Help by Carcholce: 9:36am On Jun 23, 2022 |
It’s funny you said you love her and She loves you too but she’s the only one using her head. Where did her love go, and where did your head go? 2 Likes |
Re: Genotype Is About To Break My Relationship, Please Help by efficiencie(m): 10:03am On Jun 23, 2022 |
Jasiman: Imagine you both had "compatible genotypes" and can get married, how would you handle difficult challenges when they arise in your marriage? Particularly those challenges that defy all solutions you know of. Would you rather end the marriage? Imagine you get married and find out that your wife has a tumour that keeps growing back. You have tried the medical approach and your wife has undergone like 5 operations and your doctor says he or she cannot perform another operation on your wife because it could claim her life but unfortunately the tumor is back. Now what will you do? Will you end the marriage? This is the problem with the modern day generation. The moment we see a problem we immediately apply evasive maneuvers forgetting that no matter how we try we must face challenges. Your challenge now is genotype matching, and just like that hypothetical problem regarding a tumour, which you think cannot be solved and your doctors have declared you cannot wed the woman of your choice. Well, you can pray to God when you reach the final busstop of all the solutions you know. You can try God when all of your options have been exhausted. You and your spouse to be should go to God in prayer. Some have recorded supernatural change of genotype and they got married. Your case may also be like that. Good speed. 2 Likes |
Re: Genotype Is About To Break My Relationship, Please Help by ibechris(m): 11:23am On Jun 23, 2022 |
U are just being stubborn. Make love no kill you before your time. Let her be so that u can live your adult life in peace. Find another woman to marry. Medically,that is a tedious process that can drain your finance. Be careful and think the consequences and not about the beliefs. 2 Likes |
Re: Genotype Is About To Break My Relationship, Please Help by DBestDoc(f): 11:56am On Jun 23, 2022 |
Jasiman: I’ll need to know how wealthy you are. If you’re going to dabble into this, make sure you earn well and are emotionally strong ‘cause the technology available depends strictly on the abundant availability of these two factors. On no account should you birth a Child with SICKLE CELL because what follows afterwards is a whole depressing package on its own. Not just for you though but the child whose life you’d be screwing up. If i have to give you an unbiased professional and non sentimental counsel, I’d say end the relationship. Continuing is not worth the risk or stress. But as someone who is open minded and believes in possibilities, you could go ahead, with the aforementioned readily available for prenatal testing for every single pregnancies or even adoption...phew! 2 Likes |
Re: Genotype Is About To Break My Relationship, Please Help by Jasiman: 12:08pm On Jun 23, 2022 |
xedyl:Thanks |
Re: Genotype Is About To Break My Relationship, Please Help by Jasiman: 12:11pm On Jun 23, 2022 |
Eazie351: I understand the risk involved, I just want opinions and anyone with experience of overcoming this through IVF. I just want to ensure we are dealing with a dead end situation before we take the final decision. |
Re: Genotype Is About To Break My Relationship, Please Help by DBestDoc(f): 12:11pm On Jun 23, 2022 |
Jasiman:For every sensible AS human, the first question you ask when you meet an opposite sex of interest is genotype. Or just chip in your genotype while having a conversation if you can’t ask them. It’s important to know this as early as possible. You don’t let emotions build till the eleventh hour before seeking answers to these very important questions. The AA genotype bearers are the only people PERMITTED to be careless about such things. OTHER AS AND SS PEOPLE SHOULD TAKE NOTE. 4 Likes |
Re: Genotype Is About To Break My Relationship, Please Help by Jasiman: 12:11pm On Jun 23, 2022 |
robinso01: I appreciate your advice 1 Like |
Re: Genotype Is About To Break My Relationship, Please Help by Jasiman: 12:12pm On Jun 23, 2022 |
afrochics: I have read on this and that's why I reach out to Nairaland to seek further advice and opinions |
Re: Genotype Is About To Break My Relationship, Please Help by Jasiman: 12:13pm On Jun 23, 2022 |
Doubleoh7:Thanks, I appreciate |
Re: Genotype Is About To Break My Relationship, Please Help by Jasiman: 12:14pm On Jun 23, 2022 |
UpInTheSky: Thanks for your advice. I really appreciate it |
Re: Genotype Is About To Break My Relationship, Please Help by Jasiman: 12:14pm On Jun 23, 2022 |
efficiencie: Thanks... I really appreciate. |
Re: Genotype Is About To Break My Relationship, Please Help by Jasiman: 12:16pm On Jun 23, 2022 |
DBestDoc: Thanks... I appreciate it. I will give it maximum thought |
Re: Genotype Is About To Break My Relationship, Please Help by Richy4(m): 3:41pm On Jun 23, 2022 |
Please don't joke with that... The best gift you can give to yourselves is to part ways like redsea now... U will grow to hate each other should u produce SS kids.. But if u think that u can't, then surrogacy is still an option or Adoption.. |
Re: Genotype Is About To Break My Relationship, Please Help by baby124: 3:50pm On Jun 23, 2022 |
You better leave her and move on with your life. Strong belief indeed. Do you have the money to take care of a sick child? That is when your eye will clear! 2 Likes |
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