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A Wise Counsel Needed Here by ayomilore: 1:41pm On Jun 28, 2022
Please what is the implication of a woman that is moving out of her husband house whenever there is a serious disagreement that bothers on her coming home late with proofing evidences of extra marital affairs on WhatsApp though he has not caught her in the act before. The woman will leave the house and come back after her family intervention like a week or two weeks. The husband is fed up as he claim this should be her 6th time of doing this in their 10 year old marriage. The marriage is blessed with two kids and the husband is very responsible man that does not engage in any extra marital affairs. The brother is contemplating stopping her from coming back when she makes another attempt. HE wants to know the implication of allowing a woman doing that so often in a marriage. Note where she moved to he does not know while the husband keeps the kids and take care of them.
Re: A Wise Counsel Needed Here by muyico(m): 1:46pm On Jun 28, 2022
She doing it 4 peace 2 rains
Re: A Wise Counsel Needed Here by thorpido(m): 1:51pm On Jun 28, 2022
It's a family affair.You have to bring both families together and sort it out once and for all.
The issue of her moving out every time has to stop except she wants to move out permanently.

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Re: A Wise Counsel Needed Here by ezugegere(m): 2:53pm On Jun 28, 2022
Next time he should pretend that he doesn't care. She will come back begging and will never do that again
Re: A Wise Counsel Needed Here by Richy4(m): 3:31pm On Jun 28, 2022
What is the meaning of he has an evidence of extramarital affairs but haven't caught her?...

Do u mean he have to catch her with a dude pant down to be 100% certain that she is cheating? shocked
Re: A Wise Counsel Needed Here by truthCoder: 5:07pm On Jun 28, 2022
ayomilore:
Please what is the implication of a woman that is moving out of her husband house whenever there is a serious disagreement that bothers on her coming home late with proofing evidences of extra marital affairs on WhatsApp though he has not caught her in the act before. The woman will leave the house and come back after her family intervention like a week or two weeks. The husband is fed up as he claim this should be her 6th time of doing this in their 10 year old marriage. The marriage is blessed with two kids and the husband is very responsible man that does not engage in any extra marital affairs. The brother is contemplating stopping her from coming back when she makes another attempt. HE wants to know the implication of allowing a woman doing that so often in a marriage. Note where she moved to he does not know while the husband keeps the kids and take care of them.

That woman is not his wife.

But it is hard to teach a man how to be a man. These things are learnt before marriage, not after.

Let the man get a girlfriend. Let him stop complaining about the woman and focus on enjoying his life.

If he can raise 150k, he should do a dna test for the kids. If they are his kids, he should continue to take care of them as before. If they are not his kids, he should file for divorce.

Either way, he should get a girl who is ready to make him happy. He should even start spending nights at the girl’s place. The new girl must know how to cook good food and must meet all his fantasies.

Two can play the game.
Re: A Wise Counsel Needed Here by GboyegaD(m): 5:37pm On Jun 28, 2022
He should define what he wants and discuss what he wants for his home.

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Re: A Wise Counsel Needed Here by JONNYSPUTE(m): 5:53pm On Jun 28, 2022
....Some men dey Bleep up big time.

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Re: A Wise Counsel Needed Here by frozen70(f): 12:47pm On Jun 29, 2022
ayomilore:
Please what is the implication of a woman that is moving out of her husband house whenever there is a serious disagreement that bothers on her coming home late with proofing evidences of extra marital affairs on WhatsApp though he has not caught her in the act before. The woman will leave the house and come back after her family intervention like a week or two weeks. The husband is fed up as he claim this should be her 6th time of doing this in their 10 year old marriage. The marriage is blessed with two kids and the husband is very responsible man that does not engage in any extra marital affairs. The brother is contemplating stopping her from coming back when she makes another attempt. HE wants to know the implication of allowing a woman doing that so often in a marriage. Note where she moved to he does not know while the husband keeps the kids and take care of them.

First of all let the brother pass any intending act to the husband not he himself stopping her, e get why na marriage matter

Secondly what is her reasons for always leaving her home and where exactly does she goes to

Is her parents aware, if yes what have they done to stop her from her in ams out movement

Well if she wants a break so that she can be free as a bed, then the husband should grant it for her instead of this short time movements

She needs to get some thing doing that will keep her busy then she may not have time to shuttle

But left for me, If she dares go out again, that's the end

Let her remain there, if she wars to take her children let her do so

I will move on and she wine surprise to meet her mate when next she hears my news
Re: A Wise Counsel Needed Here by frozen70(f): 12:48pm On Jun 29, 2022
muyico:
She doing it 4 peace 2 rains

That's not true, what kind of peace

Have you ever seen a married home without issues
Re: A Wise Counsel Needed Here by ayomilore: 4:42pm On Jun 29, 2022
God bless you all for your contribution..

The main question now is should she be allowed in again because the brother is sick and tire of this her going and coming, he regards it as shameful act.

Her mum is aware but not supporting her but she is so stubborn according to the husband.

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