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OPINION: Nigerians Shouldn't Be Allowed To Keep Househelps by NigerianAngelo(m): 1:43pm On Jul 03, 2022 |
Under-19 children staying with women, especially Igbos, are murderously treated! Many hardly get marital lives later on, and some are killed while during their childhood "househelping". (I thought the child was helping you? ) Ex: 1. "Recently, A 29-year old Anambra lady was arrested for attempting to kill a 14-year old child (househelp) in her keeping by throwing the child off the 4th floor window of their apartment (in Onitsha) during a beating." - The child survived. Nigerian women, and many Igbo women are sometimes known to be possessed by demons when it comes to househelps. Even the ones who on a normal day are your friends. You will be shocked to death by what they can do or how they can behave behind close doors. No wonder their President is a murderer. I have been a witness to such more than ten thousand times. Keeping people's children (any human not up to 19) should be banned asap. Not even 18 as those ones could still be successfully emotionally rubbished to a rag-tag class. The child should meet adulthood in the parents house. EVERY CHILD HAS THE RIGHT AND THE DIVINE VOCATION TO STAY WITH HIS OR HER PARENTS TILL AT LEAST 16, IF NOT SOMETIMES 18. There is no better education that child can get than that in that atmosphere. Many billionaires today were once in extremely poor families. But none of them was a woman househelp. Any separation before that is a mortal killing. Nothing like for better schooling in 'city.' That child was going to school and feeding before you met her. All Nigerians/Igbos should be banned from having househelps. Leave that woman's child. La 2 Likes |
Re: OPINION: Nigerians Shouldn't Be Allowed To Keep Househelps by immortalcrown(m): 1:49pm On Jul 03, 2022 |
Your idea is unrealistic in this Nigeria. How can Nigeria enforce the law in a country where kids are illegally and secretly adopted? Where people live with their uncles and aunties for survival? Where some parents abuse even their biological children? Where paternity fraud is reigning? Where the government does not know the population of teenage orphans and the number of orphanages? Where women dump babies by roadsides? Where senators approach youths for organ donations? 5 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: OPINION: Nigerians Shouldn't Be Allowed To Keep Househelps by javaguru: 1:51pm On Jul 03, 2022 |
igbos always on case study Shea na only them dey dis con3 we don't need any distractions it's OBI 2023 1 Like |
Re: OPINION: Nigerians Shouldn't Be Allowed To Keep Househelps by Karleb(m): 4:38pm On Jul 03, 2022 |
Poor people should not breed. 8 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: OPINION: Nigerians Shouldn't Be Allowed To Keep Househelps by socialmediaman: 4:39pm On Jul 03, 2022 |
With your suggestion, you have completely absolved the government of its job to regulate the system, investigate and bring perpetrators to book The government needs to establish strict regulations for having a house help which includes a minimum wage payment, minimum requirements to be met by the employer, mandatory psychological evaluations and support systems for the house helps to ensure they feel safe in their workplace, and can access help and alternatives if they don’t, periodic check-ins to monitor the system and ensure continuous adherence to requirements etc. A complete ban is the least helpful thing you can do here. The system can be made to work. Someone has to come up with the solution and do the work it needs. 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: OPINION: Nigerians Shouldn't Be Allowed To Keep Househelps by Acidosis(m): 4:56pm On Jul 03, 2022 |
No government can ban "domestic workers". What you see in the typical home is child labour. 2 Likes |
Re: OPINION: Nigerians Shouldn't Be Allowed To Keep Househelps by Greatzeus(m): 5:26pm On Jul 03, 2022 |
No to child labor,no to children doing house help,it's traumatic,it destroys their childhood. If you need a house help,go for adult teens that have at least completed secondary school. But most Nigerian won't do that because they're cowards,they want a help that they will fear them beyond measure and worship them and serve their children like gods. They want children they can beat without raising a voice,they want children they can put their hands in fire,burn their buttocks with pressing iron,evil MFs. Yet they will dress up on Sunday,go to worship, praise God while crying,evil souls. 4 Likes |
Re: OPINION: Nigerians Shouldn't Be Allowed To Keep Househelps by MufasaLion: 5:46pm On Jul 03, 2022 |
There's nothing bad in having a house maid. A house maid can either be hired from a company or the commin settings we have in Nigeria, which is, getting someone from the village. The former is entitled to salary while the latter should be given proper education while he/she helps in housekeeping. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: OPINION: Nigerians Shouldn't Be Allowed To Keep Househelps by Tozic: 6:00pm On Jul 03, 2022 |
Igbos have suffered. Everywhere you go igbo this, igbo that.. Phew.. |
Re: OPINION: Nigerians Shouldn't Be Allowed To Keep Househelps by Lamanii22(f): 11:28pm On Jul 03, 2022 |
I can't and would never keep one..... 1 Like |
Re: OPINION: Nigerians Shouldn't Be Allowed To Keep Househelps by ImaIma1(f): 1:48am On Jul 04, 2022 |
You want to compare the whites to Nigeria. Do we have jobs here where parents can schedule their time to rotate being with the kids? Is it realistic for one person to stay home if the income of one is not sufficient? Is the government paying welfare? Is there free education for the kids so that it is easier for one parent to stay home since fees are covered? If your child is at school or creche, can you make it back in Lagos traffic for instance to pick them up on time? It's easy for you to give suggestions because you are talking from an outside perspective. But do you have kids? 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: OPINION: Nigerians Shouldn't Be Allowed To Keep Househelps by NigerianAngelo(m): 6:55am On Jul 04, 2022 |
socialmediaman: Children of 10, 12, 13, 14 ARE NOT labourers for anybody. It destroys their childhood. How many of them do you see succeeding in life? Every child should be with his parents till at least 18. You can employ an adult caretaker whom you will register at LG office and pay min wage. Not to look for kids to milk and spank behind close doors. No. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: OPINION: Nigerians Shouldn't Be Allowed To Keep Househelps by ImaIma1(f): 9:32am On Jul 04, 2022 |
One I know personally was staying with a family before age 18. She has finished secondary school and is about doing jamb to go to university while still working in the house. This is something she would have never achieved if she was still in the village with her parents and many siblings... 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: OPINION: Nigerians Shouldn't Be Allowed To Keep Househelps by socialmediaman: 10:58am On Jul 04, 2022 |
NigerianAngelo: My OP was referring to domestic workers who are of legal age to work Child labor is a criminal offense in most states in Nigeria. If you know anyone employing a child, you should contact the authorities. 1 Like |
Re: OPINION: Nigerians Shouldn't Be Allowed To Keep Househelps by tensazangetsu20(m): 12:25pm On Jul 04, 2022 |
Karleb: I have said this over and over again. So much suffering in the world will end if poor people do not breed. 5 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: OPINION: Nigerians Shouldn't Be Allowed To Keep Househelps by NigerianAngelo(m): 1:59pm On Jul 04, 2022 |
socialmediaman: 1. OP was talking of househelps as they are: children in other families' custody. 7years to 20 years in Nigeria. 2. "If you know anyone...". That stupid Nigerian line. They are everywhere starting maybe from your house and your neighbour's house. Start from your house and keep a look on your neighbour. How old is she and at what age did she come to the family? |
Re: OPINION: Nigerians Shouldn't Be Allowed To Keep Househelps by emmanuelbrown26: 2:09pm On Jul 04, 2022 |
That's what u see when power is being given to daughters of eve, they so heartless and wicked. Just give Dem small power and see dem misbehave, d only creature Jah regretted creating. And as for u op, u are a bastard 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: OPINION: Nigerians Shouldn't Be Allowed To Keep Househelps by JONNYSPUTE(m): 2:25pm On Jul 04, 2022 |
emmanuelbrown26:..... Hahahahaha. Oga Emma. Chai your mouth ehee. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: OPINION: Nigerians Shouldn't Be Allowed To Keep Househelps by emmanuelbrown26: 6:28pm On Jul 04, 2022 |
JONNYSPUTE:Na so ohhhhhhh, daughters of eve dun do more harm to mankind |
Re: OPINION: Nigerians Shouldn't Be Allowed To Keep Househelps by socialmediaman: 6:39pm On Jul 04, 2022 |
NigerianAngelo: 1. I see that. My OP (Original Post) was referring to house helps of working age because I already know that child labor is a crime in most states in Nigeria. What's the point in a ban on something that's already a crime? Like, should there be a ban on murder? 2. You got overly defensive over a friendly advise. Mind sharing why? "Great" display of character by the way 1 Like |
Re: OPINION: Nigerians Shouldn't Be Allowed To Keep Househelps by NigerianAngelo(m): 12:00pm On Jul 05, 2022 |
At least the culture of keeping children 16 and below that are not yours in your house should be immediately banned. (All coded housekeeping). 1 Like |
Re: OPINION: Nigerians Shouldn't Be Allowed To Keep Househelps by NigerianAngelo(m): 8:34pm On Jul 08, 2022 |
Re: OPINION: Nigerians Shouldn't Be Allowed To Keep Househelps by NigerianAngelo(m): 9:02pm On Aug 04, 2022 |
And yet the 11,000th proof https://www.nairaland.com/7264361/10-year-old-girl-rescued-after-she |
Re: OPINION: Nigerians Shouldn't Be Allowed To Keep Househelps by Nobody: 9:13am On Aug 05, 2022 |
Hmmmm! Many poor people breed because they need to be taken care off when they get old! If not I'd suggest people hustle hard, have at most Three kids! But we are not ready for that! |
Re: OPINION: Nigerians Shouldn't Be Allowed To Keep Househelps by NigerianAngelo(m): 2:27pm On Aug 05, 2022 |
Lalasticlala |
Re: OPINION: Nigerians Shouldn't Be Allowed To Keep Househelps by NigerianAngelo(m): 7:20am On Oct 06, 2022 |
IGBOS SHOULD BE BANNED FROM KEEPING HOUSEHELPS! UNDERAGE HOUSEHELPS! NEXT, USING WITHDRAWING BOYS OF 12 AND BELOW FOR BOY-BOY SHOULD BE BANNED TOO. |
Re: OPINION: Nigerians Shouldn't Be Allowed To Keep Househelps by NigerianAngelo(m): 8:18am On Oct 06, 2022 |
Lalasticlala. I think you should move this to front page. |
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