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Re: Hidden Agony Of A Father In The Family by TheRealOwner(m): 8:27am On Jul 07, 2022 |
I must say, you have successfully replicated your dad's failures and lifestyle even while being SIGNIFICANTLY less intelligent and financially capable. 1 Like |
Re: Hidden Agony Of A Father In The Family by Ifailed22: 8:31am On Jul 07, 2022 |
emmanuelbrown26:My children will not be BH or UGM in jesus name! i would have reveal my account(i have 3 truly but the first has been banned leavin me with 2) thanks for the comment. many people know me here |
Re: Hidden Agony Of A Father In The Family by Ifailed22: 8:41am On Jul 07, 2022 |
TheRealOwner:I took everything to a new level, i don't know what i was thinking but i thank god that i realize it early. i just hope i will be able to correct some things before i die. that is why i have sworn not to have anything to do with another lady. if my wife dies today, that is how i will remain till i join her. Even if my wife decide to be beating me every day, so be it. i can't marry again even if i become a millionaire No more girlfriends talkless of marriage for me. No more kids till i know my direction in life. No more enjoyment till all my children reach 18. |
Re: Hidden Agony Of A Father In The Family by frozen70(f): 9:08am On Jul 07, 2022 |
Ifailed22: I can see that you are making great effort, keep it up As for your wife, if she doesn't want to understand then your duty is to make sure she doesn't maltreat anyone among the children If she does that give it to her then she will take caution The lord will be with you |
Re: Hidden Agony Of A Father In The Family by marvy7: 10:10am On Jul 07, 2022 |
Bro.. I hope u get to read this, ur situation is terrible and I pity u the more cos u clearly are now learning from ur mistakes but unfortunately u have dug too dip into this kind of life, and there would be no easy way out that's if u ever make it out (and I mean no punt)... First things first what u are going thru is ripping the fruits u planted in ur earlier years I always tell pple, if by ur 18th year birthday u don't know ur basic left from right u will mostly be doomed clearly u didn't and this is the result. There is nothing much u can do now than to man up and face life head on... Once there is a will there is a way. Your 13 year old daughter stop beating her, she clearly has started towing ur line, u need to keep talking to her ...I mean keep talking don't ever stop (if she does good encourage her if it's not good encourage and talk to her) next is to make her learn a handwork so should Incase she engages in a rubbish life afterwards she has sth to survive on when she realizes herself. Do these for any of your children who have attained the age of learning a trade.... As for u, there is one thing u have to do tie ur d*CK for the foreseeable future don't add unnecessary pressure to ur family and sef again till u have less pressure from ur family or more sources of income, u are still a young man... As for ur latest wife get her to learn a trade or become resourceful so she can add some income into ur family that way ur burden will ease up a bit .... These things wouldn't be easy I tell u bro bt u have to try to do it Also note there would be days of frustration days ur children would insult u, u have to take them in stride (cos u brought it on ur self) and keep going. |
Re: Hidden Agony Of A Father In The Family by ireneidiva(f): 10:20am On Jul 07, 2022 |
tonicyril: One man married four wives and you still think the problem is from women. Some of you are so funny. |
Re: Hidden Agony Of A Father In The Family by ehsan55p: 10:40am On Jul 07, 2022 |
Oh men I know this is northern guyOh men I know this is northern guy... |
Re: Hidden Agony Of A Father In The Family by tonicyril: 11:47am On Jul 07, 2022 |
ireneidiva:No, i am not particularly sayin his problems are from his first wife ma I am just saying that as a man, a young man who does not have any responsibility as of yet, dont let ur mother turn u against ur father just cus the man could not provide enough, the poor man dey try, bn a man is not rosy sister mi Me my father, wen i was in higher institution i could add up all the mony my father spent on me then, they are not up to 20k but i will never talk bad of him Me sef now a don grow, a don dey feel the heat already a don dey know what it means to be a man |
Re: Hidden Agony Of A Father In The Family by Ifailed22: 1:29pm On Jul 07, 2022 |
frozen70:Thank you for the commentsi may the lord be with you too |
Re: Hidden Agony Of A Father In The Family by Ifailed22: 1:35pm On Jul 07, 2022 |
marvy7 May God bless you for taking your precious time to give me that advice. i may not get out of this except i want my children to suffer. but i will not give up untill the day my creator calls me. The fight is not about me, the fight is against poverty in my family |
Re: Hidden Agony Of A Father In The Family by tensazangetsu20(m): 2:05pm On Jul 07, 2022 |
Mtschewww I have no sympathy for your lots. You guys are more wicked than the satanic politicians we have. You already had 2 kids before 20. |
Re: Hidden Agony Of A Father In The Family by frozen70(f): 2:06pm On Jul 07, 2022 |
Ifailed22: Amen and you also What you need now is words of encouragement and thats what will give you the grace to keep on 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Hidden Agony Of A Father In The Family by Ifailed22: 2:13pm On Jul 07, 2022 |
tensazangetsu20:It was ignorance sir, i had my first daughter at 19yrs and then my second at 25. then my son came when i was 28 and had my last daughter last year. i was just stup*d but there is no way to undo what happened. |
Re: Hidden Agony Of A Father In The Family by tensazangetsu20(m): 2:22pm On Jul 07, 2022 |
Ifailed22: Na wa o and they are girls. How would you provide for them to ensure they don't go into prostitution as a means of survival. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Hidden Agony Of A Father In The Family by Ifailed22: 2:29pm On Jul 07, 2022 |
tensazangetsu20:God will see me through, the first one is growing up too fast and it's really becoming my worry. she stood in face and insulted me yesterday sef. she came to my room and apologise this morning but am still worried till now. I have plans that can better my condition but i just waiting for some things to execute my plans. But like i said, i pray and believe that god will see me through |
Re: Hidden Agony Of A Father In The Family by Ulunne777(f): 7:34pm On Jul 07, 2022 |
emmanuelbrown26: He eating Agbado already.You didnt hear they will eat it till August. Life in the north and south are just I parallel. |
Re: Hidden Agony Of A Father In The Family by Vyolet(f): 7:55pm On Jul 07, 2022 |
One man has over 12children, how exactly does he want to take care of them? The stress killed your father and he should blame himself. Now you have started towing the same path, birthing many children from multiple women, mmmtttwweeew. How do some of you just see poverty and decide thats all you want? |
Re: Hidden Agony Of A Father In The Family by Ajibade123(m): 10:05pm On Jul 07, 2022 |
microbanks see something
is marriage really a blessing |
Re: Hidden Agony Of A Father In The Family by Ifailed22: 10:35pm On Jul 07, 2022 |
Vyolet:i was ignorant about the consequences of my actions. i regret it now but there is nothing i can do about it. |
Re: Hidden Agony Of A Father In The Family by Ifailed22: 10:40pm On Jul 07, 2022 |
Ajibade123:But the topic was not about marriage. however, marriage is overrated on this side of the earth. if i have my way, i will restrict poor people from having more than 2 children. |
Re: Hidden Agony Of A Father In The Family by GboyegaD(m): 2:00pm On Jul 12, 2022 |
Ifailed22: I wonder why you would do the bolded. He isn't out to make your life better and whatever you get paid wouldn't even last you a month. You truly can do better. |
Re: Hidden Agony Of A Father In The Family by Ifailed22: 2:07pm On Jul 12, 2022 |
GboyegaD:I regret doing so, i was campaigning for him because one guy promise to give me an android but did not even fulfill the promise. as of now, i have my candidates and will not bought over again. poverty can make someone senseless most times. pls sir, check my new thread and see if you could help. thanks sir |
Re: Hidden Agony Of A Father In The Family by GboyegaD(m): 2:12pm On Jul 12, 2022 |
Ifailed22: Poverty doesn't make one senseless, greed does. You never cared about the future because of an android phone which is not an immediate need for survival. At least, you are browsing from a phone at the moment. I am happy you have learned your lesson. As for the thread, why not go run the tests at a government hospital since they sure wouldn't cost too much there? |
Re: Hidden Agony Of A Father In The Family by Ifailed22: 2:20pm On Jul 12, 2022 |
GboyegaD:It's pathetic that the general hospital around will not be able to run such tests. i was directed by a doctor to a private lab in gboko to do it but i have nothing on me. now people are saying that my wife must do some of tests. if i do it, then the issue of drugs will pop up but i intend selling my phone immediately i'm done with the tests so that i can afford drugs. i really need help sir thanks again |
Re: Hidden Agony Of A Father In The Family by GboyegaD(m): 2:52pm On Jul 12, 2022 |
Ifailed22: Health is wealth bro. It is advisable your wife takes the test so that you both can be sure everything is alright so that you don't get back to this position. Have you tried a teaching hospital near you or a recently updated laboratory near you? |
Re: Hidden Agony Of A Father In The Family by Ifailed22: 2:58pm On Jul 12, 2022 |
GboyegaD:The transport fare from my village to a teaching hospital alone will be able to cover for the tests here. and that place is for the rich pls, i can't forget my stay in bsuth makurdi and bill. i don't have the power to go there now. i just want to visit the lab as recommended and know what is happening to me. from there, i can know my next step. |
Re: Hidden Agony Of A Father In The Family by GboyegaD(m): 3:00pm On Jul 12, 2022 |
Ifailed22: That's okay too. Whatever will get the tests done is what you should do. |
Re: Hidden Agony Of A Father In The Family by Ifailed22: 3:05pm On Jul 12, 2022 |
GboyegaD:Thanks for the time and advice sir. i will take everything to heart |
Re: Hidden Agony Of A Father In The Family by Nobody: 3:10pm On Jul 12, 2022 |
Ifailed22: May God give you the strength to fight your battles. In all you do, don't you ever give up the struggle. Being a father is a full time job and I can totally relate, everybody in the house looks up to you for their daily needs and there is absolutely no guarantee that the kids will remember you in the old age. Work hard, have fun and do not neglect yourself while providing for your family. Also, change your Moniker, you have not failed. The struggle continues. Peace. |
Re: Hidden Agony Of A Father In The Family by Ifailed22: 3:12pm On Jul 12, 2022 |
Skyview01:THANKS |
Re: Hidden Agony Of A Father In The Family by Nobody: 3:13pm On Jul 12, 2022 |
MufasaLion: How so? |
Re: Hidden Agony Of A Father In The Family by Nobody: 3:22pm On Jul 12, 2022 |
JBriel: I am liking your analysis already. |
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