Please don't mind my grammatical errors. It might be long but please take your time to read this. Hello nairalanders, I need your advice please, bashing is welcome. I'm a guy in my late 20's, I have this first girl (Let me just call her Bola) we've been dating since 2019. Bola and I have went through a lot, she stick by me through thick and thin and never cheated on me despite her Mum said her daughter can't marry people from our place but she stood her ground. Fast forward to last year February I felt she wasn't caring like she used to do so I cheated on her, few weeks later I started seeing this dude around her and later found that they are now dating, I felt so hurt badly because I really love her and wish to marry her but she doesn't seem submissive or love me like she used to do. Two weeks later she called me and begged me that we should come back together, I accepted her back because I love her but during the time she was dating this guy I met another lady (Let me call her Tope). I got her pregnant and she was ready to be my wife. She is very loyal and submissive but the truth is I love Bola more and she is my type of lady. Around April this year, Tope gave birth to a beautiful girl but Bola and I already broke up a week before Tope gave birth and she never knew Tope was pregnant because I traveled and wasn't really around so we didn't see , meanwhile I met this lady( Let me call her Kemi), we're same age, she is a single mother of two year old boy, she works in an hospital and have been caring for my needs since February that I met her. Don't let me lie to you guys, Kemi has always been there for me for almost everyday since I met her. When Tope gave birth I posted it on my WhatsApp and Bola saw it but ignored thinking I just post the picture of someone else child to make her feel jealous, a week later we did my daughter's naming and I posted it, it was until then she knew it's true but couldn't believe. She texted me and I said when we see I'll explain to her, she came to my place I apologise to her and she forgave me. Few weeks later she met Kemi at my place, she got mad and embarrassed me so much in front of my neighbours and everybody, the embarrassment was too much that I feel like the ground should swallow me. Meanwhile my family don't want Tope because of where she is from too. For me I love Bola more than all of them but she seem not ready for marriage, she is in her mid 20's. Please house advise me on who to marry among the 3 of them. Please mods move this to front page

Bros marry the 3 of them, case closed!

See your life...
You go around planting seeds and planting emotions...

Be A Better Version Of You !!!
You still wanna go back to your ex or focus on your future?

LordHashira:
find a 4th girl since you want to be stupid. Shior!

Someone said 4th already, but I'll advice you to get the 5th incase you need more stupidity.

specialraph10:
Please don't mind my grammatical errors. It might be long but please take your time to read this. Hello nairalanders, I need your advice please, bashing is welcome. I'm a guy in my late 20's, I have this first girl (Let me just call her Bola) we've been dating since 2019. Bola and I have went through a lot, she stick by me through thick and thin and never cheated on me despite her Mum said her daughter can't marry people from our place but she stood her ground. Fast forward to last year February I felt she wasn't caring like she used to do so I cheated on her, few weeks later I started seeing this dude around her and later found that they are now dating, I felt so hurt badly because I really love her and wish to marry her but she doesn't seem submissive or love me like she used to do. Two weeks later she called me and begged me that we should come back together, I accepted her back because I love her but during the time she was dating this guy I met another lady (Let me call her Tope). I got her pregnant and she was ready to be my wife. She is very loyal and submissive but the truth is I love Bola more and she is my type of lady. Around April this year, Tope gave birth to a beautiful girl but Bola and I already broke up a week before Tope gave birth and she never knew Tope was pregnant because I traveled and wasn't really around so we didn't see , meanwhile I met this lady( Let me call her Kemi), we're same age, she is a single mother of two year old boy, she works in an hospital and have been caring for my needs since February that I met her. Don't let me lie to you guys, Kemi has always been there for me for almost everyday since I met her. When Tope gave birth I posted it on my WhatsApp and Bola saw it but ignored thinking I just post the picture of someone else child to make her feel jealous, a week later we did my daughter's naming and I posted it, it was until then she knew it's true but couldn't believe. She texted me and I said when we see I'll explain to her, she came to my place I apologise to her and she forgave me. Few weeks later she met Kemi at my place, she got mad and embarrassed me so much in front of my neighbours and everybody, the embarrassment was too much that I feel like the ground should swallow me. Meanwhile my family don't want Tope because of where she is from too. For me I love Bola more than all of them but she seem not ready for marriage, she is in her mid 20's. Please house advise me on who to marry among the 3 of them. Please mods move this to front page

specialraph10:
Please don't mind my grammatical errors. It might be long but please take your time to read this. Hello nairalanders, I need your advice please, bashing is welcome. I'm a guy in my late 20's, I have this first girl (Let me just call her Bola) we've been dating since 2019. Bola and I have went through a lot, she stick by me through thick and thin and never cheated on me despite her Mum said her daughter can't marry people from our place but she stood her ground. Fast forward to last year February I felt she wasn't caring like she used to do so I cheated on her, few weeks later I started seeing this dude around her and later found that they are now dating, I felt so hurt badly because I really love her and wish to marry her but she doesn't seem submissive or love me like she used to do. Two weeks later she called me and begged me that we should come back together, I accepted her back because I love her but during the time she was dating this guy I met another lady (Let me call her Tope). I got her pregnant and she was ready to be my wife. She is very loyal and submissive but the truth is I love Bola more and she is my type of lady. Around April this year, Tope gave birth to a beautiful girl but Bola and I already broke up a week before Tope gave birth and she never knew Tope was pregnant because I traveled and wasn't really around so we didn't see , meanwhile I met this lady( Let me call her Kemi), we're same age, she is a single mother of two year old boy, she works in an hospital and have been caring for my needs since February that I met her. Don't let me lie to you guys, Kemi has always been there for me for almost everyday since I met her. When Tope gave birth I posted it on my WhatsApp and Bola saw it but ignored thinking I just post the picture of someone else child to make her feel jealous, a week later we did my daughter's naming and I posted it, it was until then she knew it's true but couldn't believe. She texted me and I said when we see I'll explain to her, she came to my place I apologise to her and she forgave me. Few weeks later she met Kemi at my place, she got mad and embarrassed me so much in front of my neighbours and everybody, the embarrassment was too much that I feel like the ground should swallow me. Meanwhile my family don't want Tope because of where she is from too. For me I love Bola more than all of them but she seem not ready for marriage, she is in her mid 20's. Please house advise me on who to marry among the 3 of them. Please mods move this to front page

^^^story
brother i can help...juss gimmme one, the lightskin one..i beg!(no oofeinse)

Well, to my best of understanding, you got a complicated issue there already.

But should you're confuse as your age speak, I will dish in some little advise by asking some little and understanding questions.

1. Which one do you have peace of mind with whenever you're around her?

2. Have you for once think about futuristic stake around one and see what it looks like?.

3. The big question is not the one you love, but the one who loves you dearly.

Note:- Whatever you want to do in life, go along with your most priority option.

Damnn!!!

Marry both..After all . Men are polygamous in nature.

specialraph10:
Please don't mind my grammatical errors. It might be long but please take your time to read this. Hello nairalanders, I need your advice please, bashing is welcome. I'm a guy in my late 20's, I have this first girl (Let me just call her Bola) we've been dating since 2019. Bola and I have went through a lot, she stick by me through thick and thin and never cheated on me despite her Mum said her daughter can't marry people from our place but she stood her ground. Fast forward to last year February I felt she wasn't caring like she used to do so I cheated on her, few weeks later I started seeing this dude around her and later found that they are now dating, I felt so hurt badly because I really love her and wish to marry her but she doesn't seem submissive or love me like she used to do. Two weeks later she called me and begged me that we should come back together, I accepted her back because I love her but during the time she was dating this guy I met another lady (Let me call her Tope). I got her pregnant and she was ready to be my wife. She is very loyal and submissive but the truth is I love Bola more and she is my type of lady. Around April this year, Tope gave birth to a beautiful girl but Bola and I already broke up a week before Tope gave birth and she never knew Tope was pregnant because I traveled and wasn't really around so we didn't see , meanwhile I met this lady( Let me call her Kemi), we're same age, she is a single mother of two year old boy, she works in an hospital and have been caring for my needs since February that I met her. Don't let me lie to you guys, Kemi has always been there for me for almost everyday since I met her. When Tope gave birth I posted it on my WhatsApp and Bola saw it but ignored thinking I just post the picture of someone else child to make her feel jealous, a week later we did my daughter's naming and I posted it, it was until then she knew it's true but couldn't believe. She texted me and I said when we see I'll explain to her, she came to my place I apologise to her and she forgave me. Few weeks later she met Kemi at my place, she got mad and embarrassed me so much in front of my neighbours and everybody, the embarrassment was too much that I feel like the ground should swallow me. Meanwhile my family don't want Tope because of where she is from too. For me I love Bola more than all of them but she seem not ready for marriage, she is in her mid 20's. Please house advise me on who to marry among the 3 of them. Please mods move this to front page

Your confusion is just the way you write. No paragraph. Nothing.

If you cannot separate paragraphs and sentences properly, how can you separate three ladies and know who to marry

LordHashira:
find a 4th girl since you want to be stupid. Shior!

The wise ones will rather be quiet when they have nothing to say, what's now your contribution now? You could have been quiet if you have nothing reasonable to say. Oponu

jogsman01:
Someone said 4th already, but I'll advice you to get the 5th incase you need more stupidity.

It would have been better if your Dad use condom when making love to give birth to a useless idiot like you.

PrettyBolu:


Your confusion is just the way you write. No paragraph. Nothing.

If you cannot separate paragraphs and sentences properly, how can you separate three ladies and know who to marry

Are you here to pick point blunders? You wey sabi everything where your life dey na? I even wrote that you should pardon my blunders and you are here looking for blunders, wetin you don achieve with the English wey u sabi? Your type are those educated fools that work as maid to a rich illiterate, oponu

T

The story is not complete, when will you meet Tolu?

specialraph10:
Are you here to pick point blunders? You wey sabi everything where your life dey na? I even wrote that you should pardon my blunders and you are here looking for blunders, wetin you don achieve with the English wey u sabi? Your type are those educated fools that work as maid to a rich illiterate, oponu

Me, maid to rich people? You that is a maid to three women, washing their undies without shame.