Who else is having issues with a clingy girl. I have been in a relationship with my girl for sometime, everything has been going on fine a good girl and all you can desire in a lady.

The issue here is she is so clingy, I mean it’s good to be clingy but I think this one is extreme. The nature of my job make me leave house very early and come back late at night. Before I wake up she is calling me, at work she is calling, when I’m back she would have given me 10 missed calls.

We talk everyday, but sometimes a man just want sometime to himself, and if I miss just a call I will have to Dey/dx the reason for missing that call, not to talk of the explanations. Every missed calls is always a potential cheating scenario to her. She monitors my movement as Bleep, I have to tell her where I’m going, when I’m coming, even if I’m going to the rest room and I did not tell her she flare up.

I don’t think of settling with anybody else as this is only her flaw but how do I reduce this, it’s affecting me a lot, if I’m out with freinds she wants to know them, can’t even speak to femal colleagues at work anymore. How do I go about this m, she is a sweet person.

For the records I have never cheated on her before, she checks my phone from time to time too any chat with a female colleague and she is already suspecting me not until I open up the chats for her to read the contents and see we have nothing together. How do you all handle clingy girls it should not look like I’m overreacting

End it while you still have your sanity is a good way of permanently reducing it without you looking like you are overreacting.

While you may love her, she isnt inlove with you. The word is "OBSESSED".

Obsession seem sweet when it starts and as a man your head will swell that the girl love you die. Before you know one day she go bath you acid cause of false suspicions.
Or threaten to kill herself that is when you will know you're in a ronaldo "DELIMA".. GET IT.. DELIMA - RONALDO .

U have ursef an obsessed girlfriend and i am not happy to tell you but i will

YOU ARE IN SERIOUS TROUBLE.
she could kill u via poison on mere suspicion

My Advice - BE RUTHLESS, better to be single than deal with an obsessed partner.

Good luck

This is a serious issue. What you have is an unhealthy relationship. It will only get worse if you wife her. Think long and hard about the future of this relationship. Personally, I would call it quit with her. Peace of mind is non- negotiable in any relationship.

Isn't she busy?


Is she jobless?





Why so much time on her hands?

With all of these things that have happened so far and she is still your babe?? Them suppose dey call you Endurance or patience .

With everything you've been through in the hands of an obsessed and desperate lady, and you are still alive?? You are a strong man .

The elders would say when you see an obsessed/desperate woman on one side of the road and you see snake on the other side,follow the snake side to avoid unforeseen casualties .







As our Ancestors would say "There is little or no difference between an obsessed woman and a lion because both are ready to devour when the opportunity arises".

Until she sets you ablaze abii

doggedfighter:
Isn't she busy?


Is she jobless?





Why so much time on her hands?

still in school, ASUU strike

Lalasticlala

Brightw278:
still in school, ASUU strike

You are her preoccupation for now. And this can be tiring.



Suggest she gets herself engaged with learning something. Just about anything of her interest.

Insist she does, if she doesn't want, explain why she should.

If it fails.

Take a look at yourself and tell yourself the truth only you can tell yourself.

only one way :- breakup , any other way is invalid and prolonging the inevitable where she will either stab you or set you on fire ,fear women

Awww you've gotten yourself an obsessive Ogbanje,so romantic .
Brother flee from people that are too obsessive or jealous, they are ticking bomb waiting to go off any minute.
People like that reeks of low self esteem,insecurity and trust issue.
Flee like that dude that slapped our igwe while he was sleeping inside the Palace, run as far as your legs can carry you.
But you can also try and talk to her also maybe she will listen,
Na your choice.

Dj! 2 kegs of palmwine with peak milk for me
Barman! Play me "na so e dey start" by Kelvin Hart and Pasuma.

You’re in prison, not in a relationship.

She's got insecurity issues


It's better you thrash it out with her before taking it further in this relationship


If she still isn't able to control her obsession about you, then my brother please move on because of your sanity


Plenty calm sweet and patient ladies dey

Those stories of wife killing their husbands starts like this, they are so lovely but misbehave at any slightest provocation and always feel insecure can make life miserable for you at times and they wont leave for any reason....wish i had know all this earlier

I'm i missing something here

Such an affair is unhealthy..

Does she have a job?

enjoy it.

doggedfighter:
Isn't she busy?


Is she jobless?





Why so much time on her hands?

Maybe she ugly.
....she no get more niqqas chyking her

Interesting...!! You have a lot of work to do, leaving such a relationship ain't gonna be an easy task I must tell you, I remembered vividly a friend of mine had a chronic clingy GF like this and she's the type that always threatened to injure/kill herself whenever anything wants to go south, it was so bad to the extent my guy became weak and depressed...

He has stylishly introduced the girl to different guys to date but she only wants him, he purposely cheated on her just to end the ship, but babe forgived him without him begging he just had to leave the state entirely for her, but she followed him oO after managing to get his new address from his sister Baba ran back to Kaduna and without telling anybody, not even me his tight man, he left Nigeria for Ghana...He only dropped a message that he's fine, nobody should look for him and that was how the girl managed to move on after her tears must have filled a Geepee tank for months...

To be very honest, I felt for her because her only crime was madly obsessed with my niggi...but there was absolutely no breathing space for my guy and Baba just had to do the needful

Natbrowny:
U have ursef an obsessed girlfriend and i am not happy to tell you but i will

YOU ARE IN SERIOUS TROUBLE.
she could kill u via poison on mere suspicion

My Advice - BE RUTHLESS, better to be single than deal with an obsessed partner.

Good luck

sharrap! but u re managing a girlfriend that is worse than OP's own, she has cheated on u and u forgave her but here u re telling a man to dump a girl that Clearly "Loves" him, Op just be open to her and tell her she's the one and mean it, give her the assurance, and for this mumu here typing nonsense don't take advice from kids that their own gf is doing worse, is only on SM u see a man and women that engage in domestic violence, GBV giving advisory

Just because she is monitoring you doesn't mean she is not cheating on you, she may just be projecting and throwing you off her scent.

I'd advice you to not be deceived with her obsession, investigate her she is probably cheating.

Brightw278:
Who else is having issues with a clingy girl. I have been in a relationship with my girl for sometime, everything has been going on fine a good girl and all you can desire in a lady.

The issue here is she is so clingy, I mean it’s good to be clingy but I think this one is extreme. The nature of my job make me leave house very early and come back late at night. Before I wake up she is calling me, at work she is calling, when I’m back she would have given me 10 missed calls.

We talk everyday, but sometimes a man just want sometime to himself, and if I miss just a call I will have to Dey/dx the reason for missing that call, not to talk of the explanations. Every missed calls is always a potential cheating scenario to her. She monitors my movement as Bleep, I have to tell her where I’m going, when I’m coming, even if I’m going to the rest room and I did not tell her she flare up.

I don’t think of settling with anybody else as this is only her flaw but how do I reduce this, it’s affecting me a lot, if I’m out with freinds she wants to know them, can’t even speak to femal colleagues at work anymore. How do I go about this m, she is a sweet person.

For the records I have never cheated on her before, she checks my phone from time to time too any chat with a female colleague and she is already suspecting me not until I open up the chats for her to read the contents and see we have nothing together. How do you all handle clingy girls it should not look like I’m overreacting

you have to clear her. Make you always explain to her that’s why.

Have you told your clingy girlfriend she’s clingy asf

If not getat of here

BrightW278, correct your babe with love. Let her know she should relax, you are for her. She dey protective her entitlement which is normal. The excesses can be reduced.

Papichulostunne:
End it while you still have your sanity is a good way of permanently reducing it without you looking like you are overreacting.

While you may love her, she isnt inlove with you. The word is "OBSESSED".

Obsession seem sweet when it starts and as a man your head will swell that the girl love you die. Before you know one day she go bath you acid cause of false suspicions.
Or threaten to kill herself that is when you will know you're in a ronaldo "DELIMA".. GET IT.. DELIMA - RONALDO .

Your brain digressed to offside.

You have a possible psychopath on your hands

Clingy is romantic until it gets toxic, this one will tear your female boss or coworker slap, no time.

Update: na burn dem dey burn men now o.(3 cases within 2 weeks)

Brightw278:
Who else is having issues with a clingy girl. I have been in a relationship with my girl for sometime, everything has been going on fine a good girl and all you can desire in a lady.

The issue here is she is so clingy, I mean it’s good to be clingy but I think this one is extreme. The nature of my job make me leave house very early and come back late at night. Before I wake up she is calling me, at work she is calling, when I’m back she would have given me 10 missed calls.

We talk everyday, but sometimes a man just want sometime to himself, and if I miss just a call I will have to Dey/dx the reason for missing that call, not to talk of the explanations. Every missed calls is always a potential cheating scenario to her. She monitors my movement as Bleep, I have to tell her where I’m going, when I’m coming, even if I’m going to the rest room and I did not tell her she flare up.

I don’t think of settling with anybody else as this is only her flaw but how do I reduce this, it’s affecting me a lot, if I’m out with freinds s

bro.. that's her only flaw right? Sit your woman down and talk to her, try to put yourself in her shoes.. ask her why she does that.. and give her assurance.

She would change gradually. If you break up with her cause of only that reason.. you may regret it. You also mentioned that she's sweet. Understanding btw the both of you is what's lacking now.

Sweetplum:
BrightW278, correct your babe with love. Let her know she should relax, you are for her. She dey protective her entitlement which is normal. The excesses can be reduced.

Your brain digressed to offside.

same thing I told Op

This is not love but obsession. Obsession is dangerous.

Your life is in danger.

Your gf is just idle & has so much time in her hands. Get her engaged in something meaningful and interesting. Maybe get her to learn a skill while the strike is till on. That way she gets to be busy, meet new people and also engage in conversations outside her love for you.

And please stop letting her check your phone ! As a man you should not be totally predictable by ur woman. It’s called see finish! Once she’s totally sure you can’t ever cheat on her, u become boring & one day she’ll cheat on u with a new and more ‘interesting’ guy & tell you it’s a mistake.

Women love who they can’t control / predict…they spend their time trying to figure you out totally and that is what makes it interesting for them. Think of it like trying to win u over everyday.

Brightw278:
Who else is having issues with a clingy girl. I have been in a relationship with my girl for sometime, everything has been going on fine a good girl and all you can desire in a lady.

The issue here is she is so clingy, I mean it’s good to be clingy but I think this one is extreme. The nature of my job make me leave house very early and come back late at night. Before I wake up she is calling me, at work she is calling, when I’m back she would have given me 10 missed calls.

We talk everyday, but sometimes a man just want sometime to himself, and if I miss just a call I will have to Dey/dx the reason for missing that call, not to talk of the explanations. Every missed calls is always a potential cheating scenario to her. She monitors my movement as Bleep, I have to tell her where I’m going, when I’m coming, even if I’m going to the rest room and I did not tell her she flare up.

I don’t think of settling with anybody else as this is only her flaw but how do I reduce this, it’s affecting me a lot, if I’m out with freinds she wants to know them, can’t even speak to femal colleagues at work anymore. How do I go about this m, she is a sweet person.

For the records I have never cheated on her before, she checks my phone from time to time too any chat with a female colleague and she is already suspecting me not until I open up the chats for her to read the contents and see we have nothing together. How do you all handle clingy girls it should not look like I’m overreacting

dis are the type of babes dat wil burn u alive wen she suspects u of cheating, i bliv u av heard of d osun woman dat burn her husband because she suspected her hubby of cheating