I was minding my business in my office trying to get out of tedious drawing I was doing, suddenly my phone rang. I checked, it was an unknown number so I ignored the call and continued with my work. The phone rang again I still did not pick. About 15 minutes later a text came from the same number that she is Mr X (my friend) wife that if I'm free I should call her back.

Immediately I had to call back.
She picked and start by apologising for calling but she couldn't just help it. That they are very broke at the moment even their little baby food is finished and no money to buy it that she had asked her husband to call me but he said he doesn't want bother me. She just had to take my number from his phone to secretly call me. She said I should send them any amount I can and I should please not let her husband know she called me that I can also send the money to his account.

I was not having much at that time so I sent 20k to his account only for my friend to call me later to thank me and also indirectly warn me not ever listen to such call from his wife.

My concern here is, why is that the same person that asked me not to tell her husband be the same person to tell her husband or is she trying to cause problem between us?

She planned it with her husband issa colabo thingy.



No modified...I still insist that it's a colabo remix because,the husband was too ashamed to asked you directly for help(men ego)
So he bowed to pressure from his wife and asked her to call you herself.
So simply put,the husby was in the know that the wife called you for help.

Please also note that, there's a baby that needs to be fed with food.





Hope I look good in my green octopus outfit and jewelries?
Simply put.....E mi lo Kun.

You dont mean it

ahnie:
She planned it with her husband issa colabo thingy.

She had to explain why he recieved the money. Not really a collaboration thing.
Some women no sabi respect their husband they beg every tom, dick and harry for money. Even on Facebook.
Next time tell her to ask her husband to ask for money instead. It's her husband that is your friend not her.

No body planned any tin, just that men have ego problem

You have don well, just forget and move on and be watchful

U did well as a good friend. A friend in need is a friend indeed

Bro
You see husband and wife matter. Commot body no put body.

My uni buddy wife once called me talking bout how she needs a new phone and all that. Apparently she got my number from my buddy phone. That was our first time of having a phone conversation and I didnt expect to get such a call. I was bothered and knowing how manipulative some women can be I told her I will contact her husband.
I contacted my buddy and we talk and send part of the money of the phone she preferred to purchase TO HER HUSBAND.


People especially men needs to exercise caution when sending money to people's wife. Make sure the other partner is fully aware.
Then another thing. Most Women kinda falls for men that give them money not excluding the married ones sef. They can't help it but yea we know. . .

@Op from now on mind your business else dem go use you settle their quarrel and put you for enemy zone. Husband and wife matter nah sense dem dey use settle am

ahnie:
She planned it with her husband issa colabo thingy.

Collaboration own sef dey.
Chai some people no suppose near heaven gate I swear

ahnie:
She planned it with her husband issa colabo thingy.

I don't want to believe it's a plan because I don't see any reason why he would want to plan that considering our closeness.

Doh. No need to worry since your friend is aware. Maybe his ego wouldn’t let him beg directly so decided to go thru the wife.. times are hard.

Machalla:
Bro
You see husband and wife matter. Commot body no put body.

My uni buddy wife once called me talking bout how she needs a new phone and all that. Apparently she got my number from my buddy phone. That was our first time of having a phone conversation and I didnt expect to get such a call. I was bothered and knowing how manipulative some women can be I told her I will contact her husband.
I contacted my buddy and we talk and send part of the money of the phone she preferred to purchase TO HER HUSBAND.


People especially men needs to exercise caution when sending money to people's wife. Make sure the other partner is fully aware.
Then another thing. Most Women kinda falls for men that give them money not excluding the married ones sef. They can't help it but yea we know. . .

@Op from now on mind your business else dem go use you settle their quarrel and put you for enemy zone. Husband and wife matter nah sense dem dey use settle am

for my area, one woman and her husband fight because she come meet lady for their house when she came back unannounced, the woman packed out of her husband and one idiot neighbor even sided with the wife and said she should leave the useless man, two weeks later the woman reconciled with her husband, but you see the useless neighbor today both the woman and her husband no dey greet the neighbor again.
The guy come get sense never to involve in husband and wife quarrel

NehemiahReturns:
for my area, one woman and her husband fight because she come meet lady for their house when she came back unannounced, the woman packed out of her husband and one idiot neighbor even sided with the wife and said she should leave the useless man, two weeks later the woman reconciled with her husband, but you see the useless neighbor today both the woman and her husband no dey greet the neighbor again.
The guy come get sense never to involve in husband and wife quarrel

Dem no dey tell blind man say rain dey fall

You see married people matter, just leave them like that. Most times, both the husband and wife do plan things together especially in this our 9ja situation that things are difficult. Just move on and don't bother yourself trying to know why. And avoid doing things directly with the woman, otherwise if the husband is a jealous person he might accuse you of wanting to sleep with he's wife.

ojun50:
No body planned any tin, just that men have ego problem

You have don well, just forget and move on and be watchful

You've said it all. I also like the fact that, the lady asked him to send the money to her husband's account. That shows she is a straightforward person.

Op God will bless you for this. Forget weather the woman told her hubby or not. But the 20k you gave them will go a long way. These days, so many families are going through alot.

immediately that your friend called, you should have said you borrowed her the money so that they will work towards paying back. that will also dissuade them from such calls

C m

Apologise to the husband and move on, anytime she call you, tell am say you no get ... Simple

deavicky:
I was minding my business in my office trying to get out of tedious drawing I was doing, suddenly my phone rang. I checked, it was an unknown number so I ignored the call and continued with my work. The phone rang again I still did not pick. About 15 minutes later a text came from the same number that she is Mr X (my friend) wife that if I'm free I should call her back.
Immediately I had to call back.
She picked and start by apologising for calling but she couldn't just help it. That they are very broke at the moment even their little baby food is finished and no money to buy it that she had asked her husband to call me but he said he doesn't want bother me. she just had to take my number from his phone to secretly call me. She said I should send them any amount i can and I should please not let her husband know she called me that iI can also send the money to his account. I was not having much at that time so i sent 20k to his account .only for my friend to call me later to thank me and also indirectly warn me not ever listen to such call from his wife.
My concern here is, why is that the same person that asked me not to tell her husband be the same person to tell her husband or is her trying to cause problem between us?.

They had had discussion on weda to seek help from u or not. Ur friend might be shy to ask u for help, so she decided to do that.

Truvelisback:
They had had discussion on weda to seek help from u or not. Ur friend might be shy to ask u for help, so the decided to do that.

he can't be shy we are just more than friend we grew up together we even share cloth those days I even borrow his things more we are just like brothers even some people tot we are. And he does not hesitate to ask me for anything.

No she is not trying to cause problem, she just decided to tell him which is the right thing to do.

ahnie:
She planned it with her husband issa colabo thingy.



No modified...I still insist that it's a colabo remix because,the husband was too ashamed to asked you directly for help(men ego)
So he bowed to pressure from his wife and asked her to call you herself.
So simply put,the husby was in the know that the wife called you for help.

you are right. shame did not allow the husband to ask himself and pride made him to warn him stylishly.

deavicky:
he can't be shy we are just more than friend we grew up together we even share cloth those days I even borrow his things more we are just like brothers even some people tot we are. And he does not hesitate to ask me for anything.

That was then. I.e When he had not gotten married. Now, he is married and he doesn't want to bother u.

Popesuccess:
No she is not trying to cause problem, she just decided to tell him which is the right thing to do.

why will she do a thing like that after telling me otherwise.
I'm thinking maybe the guy man has refused to disburse the money amicably so it cause some rifts.

I will tell my friend before sending any money. You and your friend’s wife should never have a secret. Why would I be hiding my dealings with a friend’s wife? It makes no sense. I’ll tell him what she asked for then I’d ask if I can send money to him.

I personally don’t like such women who put you in uncomfortable situations. If they do that to me, Me too I will put them in uncomfortable situations to balance it up.

It was planned by the husband and the wife on the premise that most men has soft spot for women.

Qtrpst4:
You dont mean it

She didnt plan it with the husband but probably had to explain the source of the sudden funds to her husband and she had to fess up. It shows a healthy relationship between the husband and the wife because some wives will lie or begin to insult the husband and tell him to mind his own business. Pls do not feel too bad. You know how you men are when your pride as a man and your ability to care for your family is threatened... But as women, our priority is the welfare of our children and we can go over and beyond sometimes. Adults can swallow pride when there is nothing else but children can not. Thank you for coming through for them Oga OP. Times are hard and unthinkable things are happening. May God reward you.

AfroKnight:
I will tell my friend before sending any money. You and your friend’s wife should never have a secret. Why would I be hiding my dealings with a friend’s wife? It makes no sense. I’ll tell him what she asked for then I’d ask if I can send money to him.

I personally don’t like such women who put you in uncomfortable situations. If they do that to me, Me too I will put them in uncomfortable situations to balance it up.

Gbam!

Bros move on, you have rendered a help to a friend. You will be blessed.

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