Adetayo41:


I will try it, but since morning, I haven't talked to her and also did not eat her food since morning, because i am pained, she has been asking me question, about what happened to me,, I just say nothing, I m about to go eat @ chicken rep

Ignore that advice.... Communication is the key... Tell what you saw and how you feel about it... Simple!

Adetayo41:


I will try it, but since morning, I haven't talked to her and also did not eat her food since morning, because i am pained, she has been asking me question, about what happened to me,, I just say nothing, I m about to go eat @ chicken rep

Please do as the writer says
Don't ever reject food
It's your money you are wasting
You are wasting her effort.

Lastly work on yourself Sir.
She's still faithful that's why she opt for vibratory.
So thank God for that.

kkins25:
@chatinent, the culprit confesses.

Lol

tayo60:
Instead of acting as if you didn't know, why not ask her why she's denying you sex but uses vibrator instead? Let her know you saw her using it, and don't sleep or ask her for sex again. Satisfy yourself elsewhere, let it pepper her until she apologises.

are you encouraging him to go cheat? @ Adetayo41 , please don't listen to this advise as cheating outside could affect your marriage or home if care is not taken.

Though she no try, gadget is better than cheating with another man. Truth is, she may be used to masturbation even before marriage so it might be hard to stop. you guys should talk it over, she is not suppose to do it secretly but introduce it to your love making.

warriking:
guy how do I see you let's get some chilled bottle together �. These ladies can't kill us, they feel more pained when you ignore them.

Adetayo41:


I think you are right, I am always busy working 24/7, sometimes she called me for intimacy I will sleep off, sometimes she will wake me up, and for me to cooperate. I will sleep back touching her. But now i am less busy, that is when I noticed what she have been doing

You have the solution to your problem.

Stop denying your wife her sexual rights and while at it, ensure you do a good job of satisfying her.

If you can't, leave her alone with her vibrator.

Iya meji o le jeyan.

tayo60:
Instead of acting as if you didn't know, why not ask her why she's denying you sex but uses vibrator instead? Let her know you saw her using it, and don't sleep or ask her for sex again. Satisfy yourself elsewhere, let it pepper her until she apologises.

From a female, this is the better advice. Not confronting her will only give her solace in the vibratory. After, it only signify you not meeting her sexual needs enough and before another man satisfy her more than the vibratory, you had better sit her down and talk to heron how you can be better or better still watch an exotic adult movie together to jump start things

chatinent:
Can you do what I'll say?

If you can, snub her intimately for three months...don't ask, don't act like you do want, don't do petty intimacies. Allow her to herself. Don't quarrel or speak rudely to her tho..in fact, be more lovely and hypercaring...but don't agree to intimacies.

Don't act angry! Act very happy always...esp when you return.

Talk normally and more confidently.

She'll feel you're getting it outside and watch the magic. This will introduce a foundation for discussion and settlement...and everyone learning simple lessons.

This life na common sense.

Lastly, chief, in anything you are doing in this life, don't ever reject food.

Rubbish advice.

Op, don't listen to dis.

Your wife is masturbating, and if she gets addicted, OYO is ur case, know say ur marriage go crash except God intervens.

.

Adetayo41:
My wife has been depriving me intimacy for the past 1 months, i touched her yesternight, she declined, and later in the middle of the night, I caught her using a vibrator, although I did as if I was sleeping,


What should I do house.? I am pained though

I think you guys sexual life is about dying

Seat her down she has alot to tell you

Only if you will listen and understand why she resorts to vibrator

Start talking about your issues now before she goes out to get it better

Adetayo41:
My wife has been depriving me intimacy for the past 1 months, i touched her yesternight, she declined, and later in the middle of the night, I caught her using a vibrator, although I did as if I was sleeping,


What should I do house.? I am pained though

steal the vibrator and keep am ok, so you self no go ask for sex fir like 3 months by God grace you’ll see wonder, mind you she can’t tell any one that she’s looking for vibrator never

chatinent:
Can you do what I'll say?

If you can, snub her intimately for three months...don't ask, don't act like you do want, don't do petty intimacies. Allow her to herself. Don't quarrel or speak rudely to her tho..in fact, be more lovely and hypercaring...but don't agree to intimacies.

Don't act angry! Act very happy always...esp when you return.

Talk normally and more confidently.

She'll feel you're getting it outside and watch the magic. This will introduce a foundation for discussion and settlement...and everyone learning simple lessons.

This life na common sense.

Lastly, chief, in anything you are doing in this life, don't ever reject food.

. Aswear sense dey Nairaland

baralatie:



The husband was the one that rejected the wife first oo
He was the one deny the wife o

Ku ise, you are working hard to put the thread in shape.

membranus:
She is cheating on you.

Send her back to her father's house. Let her go and marry her vibrator.

Are you a Christian?

Adetayo41:
My wife has been depriving me intimacy for the past 1 months, i touched her yesternight, she declined, and later in the middle of the night, I caught her using a vibrator, although I did as if I was sleeping,


What should I do house.? I am pained though

Continue sleeping .

KeepitAnonymous:
18+

The female orgasm is often depicted as the center of a woman’s sexual satisfaction and the ultimate goal of sex.
Your wife is not getting this experience during sex with you and that’s the reason why she got a vibrator. But I can tell you that you got a good wife.
Do not listen to people telling you that your wife is going to cheat on you with another man. Never. If she was going to do it, she would have started it without thinking of getting a vibrator.
I personally bought a vibrator for my wife so that she can pleasure herself when am not around. She has described it as the best gift I ever bought for her.
As a married man, it is your responsibility to satisfy your wife irrespective of how tired you might be. The good news now is that you guys have a vibrator and this makes your work easier.
Call her in privately and have a romantic conversation with her. Tell her to bring out the vibrator and that you want to experience it too. Be romantic at this time with smiles on your face.
Kiss her gently and passionately. Gradually move your tongue to her breast while your fingers already gone to her clitts and her hands grabbing you d**k. Keep it that way for 5 minutes or more. Then go down for oral with your tongue. Pay attention to the clitts while doing that.
And finally give her the vibrator to use while you start the job. Make sure she has space to place the vibrator on her clitts while you do your job.
Go slowly so that you don’t cum quick. The goal is for her to reach orgasm first while you finish it up. Say some smooth sexy words while doing your thing.
Boy after this, she will be hopping on you like a dog.
Stay blessed and enjoy your marriage.

Go oral on her?

Since when did that become a requirement?

You guys are just silly.

Yomit71:
Is she mourning while at it

u well so?

Seriously This is very shameful to read, just imagine a matured man begging for sex, I don't understand, are u not a man? Can't u speak up and ask her questions? Can't u seize it and send it to her parents to see? Must u bring it to the internet?

Try this with me and that would be the end of us ever having sex and the beginning of me bringing in a second wife..
Anyway I don't believe this, I think u made this up or maybe u depend on her to feed lolz

LagosInter:


Go oral on her?

Since when did that become a requirement?

You guys are just silly.

You no wan do anything for your woman. Everything pertaining to pleasing your woman makes no sense. But you will pull out your own member for oral.

Selfish creature.

Adetayo41:
I planning to leave the house for her, I am still in much pain. I swear to God. But will be sending her money for my twin babies

you're overreacting. this thing can still be corrected. stop this stubbornness. the more you dwell on the vibrator issue, the more you send her into the arms of another man and na you e go pain pass last last. it's time for you to man up and start giving her proper sex with sweet pre-intimacy. take charge of your home and stop running away

virginchaser:
Sex is a major motivator in marriages. You must prepare yourself and create time for sex. You urgently have to sit her down and talk about it for her not to become a prey before sexual eagles.

This is my first time hearing the term ‘sexual eagles’. Kiikii

KeepitAnonymous:
18+
The female orgasm is often depicted as the center of a woman’s sexual satisfaction and the ultimate goal of sex.
Your wife is not getting this experience during sex with you and that’s the reason why she got a vibrator. But I can tell you that you got a good wife.
Do not listen to people telling you that your wife is going to cheat on you with another man. Never. If she was going to do it, she would have started it without thinking of getting a vibrator.
I personally bought a vibrator for my wife so that she can pleasure herself when am not around. She has described it as the best gift I ever bought for her.
As a married man, it is your responsibility to satisfy your wife irrespective of how tired you might be. The good news now is that you guys have a vibrator and this makes your work easier.
Call her in privately and have a romantic conversation with her. Tell her to bring out the vibrator and that you want to experience it too. Be romantic at this time with smiles on your face.
Kiss her gently and passionately. Gradually move your tongue to her breast while your fingers already gone to her clitts and her hands grabbing you d**k. Keep it that way for 5 minutes or more. Then go down for oral with your tongue. Pay attention to the clitts while doing that.
And finally give her the vibrator to use while you start the job. Make sure she has space to place the vibrator on her clitts while you do your job.
Go slowly so that you don’t cum quick. The goal is for her to reach orgasm first while you finish it up. Say some smooth sexy words while doing your thing.
Boy after this, she will be hopping on you like a dog.
Stay blessed and enjoy your marriage.

chatinent:
Can you do what I'll say?

If you can, snub her intimately for three months...don't ask, don't act like you do want, don't do petty intimacies. Allow her to herself. Don't quarrel or speak rudely to her tho..in fact, be more lovely and hypercaring...but don't agree to intimacies.

Don't act angry! Act very happy always...esp when you return.

Talk normally and more confidently.

She'll feel you're getting it outside and watch the magic. This will introduce a foundation for discussion and settlement...and everyone learning simple lessons.

This life na common sense.

Lastly, chief, in anything you are doing in this life, don't ever reject food.

why shouldn't reject food?

Adetayo41:


I will try it, but since morning, I haven't talked to her and also did not eat her food since morning, because i am pained, she has been asking me question, about what happened to me,, I just say nothing, I m about to go eat @ chicken rep

Be open minded. It's obvious you don't make her cum. Simply fvck her with d vibrator like incorporate d vibrator by stimulating d clit while you pound and see her multi orgasm. This never fails unless u a selfish lover.

Better than cheating... s3x toy is part if intimacy gadgets.. I told my wife I prefer u buy vibrator than to open ur legs for another man


Ur wife is a legend

Kollins11:
In otherwords, your wife is cheating on you with a vibrator.

You're not hitting the right spot reason she prefer a vibrator. You better start performing your sexual duties and start hitting the right spot or else na ME, your landlord or gate man go hammer ur wife everyday.

If your wife jam me, she go throway that her vibrator inside well... I swear to God Almighty. As it stands now, she's ready to cheat on you with any guy that has 9 inches dick and can also perform like a vibrator.

I've noticed most married men can't satisfy their wives sexual urge. They just spread their wives legs, knack for 5 seconds then cum. They don't care if their wives cum or not.

No just allow me cross path with your wife, Infact I'm even tired of satisfying married women sexual urge. I swear.. I don tire.

Married men abeg, make una dey knack una wife well, I don tire to dey help una.. I take God beg all married men.

lol. e reach to appeal

Adetayo41:
I planning to leave the house for her, I am still in much pain. I swear to God. But will be sending her money for my twin babies

Stupid Nigerian man mentality. You are planning to leave the house for her.
Did she leave the house for you when you refused to service her generator.
A woman has different types of friends from the holy to extremely wild.
She decided to buy a toy so that she will not fall into the hands of boys that can knack her akpako well.. you are here saying you want to leave her.

Listen and listen good. Only Communication and Purposeful action can save your marriage.
Talk with her. Lose weight, reduce your alcohol and starch. Try to last long by making sure she cums before you cum.
BE A HUSBAND.
All those stop asking for sex, ignore her.. you are digging your marital pit.
SHE IS YOUR SECOND HALF.
If your half body is not working well, will you ignore it in hopes that it will become better? No.. you start finding remedy.

The rest is up to you. if you like listen to people that live only on ego and no sense. you will eventually carry your cross alone.

franksam2009:
Seriously This is very shameful to read, just imagine a matured man begging for sex, I don't understand, are u not a man? Can't u speak up and ask her questions? Can't u seize it and send it to her parents to see? Must u bring it to the internet?

Try this with me and that would be the end of us ever having sex and the beginning of me bringing in a second wife..
Anyway I don't believe this, I think u made this up or maybe u depend on her to feed lolz

says person wey never give Wife1 food and prick chop Bellefull.

Abegiiiiii... na your type Alaye dey hammer your Madam outside.As married people, logic and reasoning should always come before ego, pride and Nigerian mentality.
Na so e easy to carry 2nd wife? Go ask Dangote wey no gree marry. A woman using a vibrator is solving an unresolved need. If it ever happens to you, thank God say no be Heavy duty prixck she use replace you. life no be gra gra.

You no dey wire her toto well, well. Na hin make.

Kollins11:
In otherwords, your wife is cheating on you with a vibrator.

You're not hitting the right spot reason she prefer a vibrator. You better start performing your sexual duties and start hitting the right spot or else na ME, your landlord or gate man go hammer ur wife everyday.

If your wife jam me, she go throway that her vibrator inside well... I swear to God Almighty. As it stands now, she's ready to cheat on you with any guy that has 9 inches dick and can also perform like a vibrator.

I've noticed most married men can't satisfy their wives sexual urge. They just spread their wives legs, knack for 5 seconds then cum. They don't care if their wives cum or not.

No just allow me cross path with your wife, Infact I'm even tired of satisfying married women sexual urge. I swear.. I don tire.

Married men abeg, make una dey knack una wife well, I don tire to dey help una.. I take God beg all married men.

You are destroying your life, you don't know. You need deliverance. You better repent of your sins and accept Jesus

purples25:


You no wan do anything for your woman. Everything pertaining to pleasing your woman makes no sense. But you will pull out your own member for oral.

Selfish creature.

You don't compare the penis with the vagina or vulva.

Quit the comparison.

Besides, a woman's orgasm wasn't intended to be a necessity otherwise it would have been designed easier like that of the males.